Is anyone else frustrated with transsexual attraction?

[Rabbiteyes]

I think the point is...they can imply whatever they want...consenting adults will do what they WANT in the bedroom, not necessarily because they HAVE to...but because they like to...it's still no one's business.
Using the defense of "I have to do this because I was born that way" is giving an answer that doesn't deserve to be given to people who should simply go fuck them selves.

It also reframes the entire issue as a "condition"....something these "poor people can't help".

"They didn't ask to be gay, they were born that way!"

That is why some trans people feel as though they are broken or are a birth defect (the same with gay people).

Also, the issue is a bit more complex than "this is how you are born" (especially given the plastic nature of the brain). I actually was straight before and had no interest in men (though never was with a woman)....eventually I slowly moved towards being attracted to men more.

Basically, the entire thing just doesn't make sense ...but it has always bugged me how "i was born this way "dominates the public discussion.

Choice or not, who are these random people who feel like they can tell others how to live their lives? As long as no one is being harmed against their will, there should be no issues.

Like you said, they can go fuck themselves.

[Vivian Dawn]

Gay isn't a lifestyle. It's how you're born. Calling it a lifestyle implies choice, which in this case is a pernicious way of implying it's like a pair of shoes, the nastiest and laziest kind of anti-gay propaganda.

I am living The Gay Lifestyle

*dispenses relationship advice to female friend over mimosas, flirts with waiter, is really boring*

(to clarify: I am not a television gay man)

[Flaco]

WOW "gay lifestyle"?? Way to undermine every girls gender on here.
how about you truly see and respect these girls as woman.woman that someone could settle down with, love and have a family.im a daughter, a sister and God willing maybe a mother one day. Nothing gay about that.
Marginalizing us is your choice and your hang up.
Im tired of reading and being offended by your internal conflict

Ahh, if it isn't Amberskyi back once again to play the victim and bitch about shit that doesn't concern her. Nothing in my post was offensive but of course you're back bitching as usual. I was not born liking Transwomen, I discovered them through porn. That is why I have problems seeing them as someone I can love, because my attraction for them came through lust. No one forced you to read my post, if you don't like my posts put me on your ignore list. Simple as that.

[fred41]

(especially given the plastic nature of the brain)

I actually believe some people can expand their sexual orientation to some degree (not change it)...there is also some thinking that some orientation MAY, in fact, be brought on environmentally and not necessarily by birth.
...but as you say...none of that should matter anyway.

[Flaco]

He is just a stupid horny kid and thinks that what being "gay" is about (probably he saw some old propaganda about "the gays" and their wild "sinful" orgy filled lifestyle).

The only thing he needs to do is grow up a bit.

Straight, gay, whatever....don't worry OP....you aren't "gay lifestyling"...you are just like the other countless young bro's who can only think about chasing pussy...or chasing cock...or whatever else. You will (maybe) grow out of it.

I don't see why I need to get attacked for my post. How am I not living a Gay lifestyle? If a man is sucking dick, and getting fucked in the ass is that not Homosexual sex? I really wonder about some people here who start playing the victim as soon as you say "Hmm, is it really right for me to masturbate and tranny chase almost every day?" Nothing, I said was out of line, but I can see that if I'm not saying something along the lines of "I suck Tranny Cock and I'm happy! Yay!" people will start complaining and saying I offended them. Its become obvious that If I say anything you ppl don't like you'll somehow spin it around and say it was offensive, no matter how nicely I try to word it. I really would like someone to point out where exactly I said anything offensive in my initial post. Quote me, I'm waiting.

[Ms.Stepford]

Whatevs, but what's with the pic of the Smiths?

[Rabbiteyes]

How am I not living a Gay lifestyle? If a man is sucking dick, and getting fucked in the ass is that not Homosexual sex?

Lifestyle isn't really the same thing as just having sex. Especially since you aren't talking about just having sex, but also a range of other issues...such as seeming sex addiction and rather dismissive attitude towards those you are lusting after.

I really wonder about some people here who start playing the victim as soon as you say "Hmm, is it really right for me to masturbate and tranny chase almost every day?

I wasn't playing a victim...I was calling you a stupid horny kid.

Do you know what the word victim means?

I'm having serious doubts about your mastery of the english language

[Flaco]

Lifestyle isn't really the same thing as just having sex. Especially since you aren't talking about just having sex, but also a range of other issues...such as seeming sex addiction and rather dismissive attitude towards those you are lusting after.



I wasn't playing a victim...I was calling you a stupid horny kid.

Do you know what the word victim means?

I'm having serious doubts about your mastery of the english language

Go ahead and quote me in where I sad you, Rabbiteyes, was playing a victim. I said I wonder about "Some People" on here, did I mention you in particular? And then you want to talk about mastering the English language lol what a joke. "A rather dismissive attitude towards those you are lusting after". O rly?

However, I'm not trying to offend anyone, because many of these TS Ladies really are very Gorgeous and attractive women (Both Physically and Mentally). Everyone should do what makes them happy. If you find one of these women and you are really attracted to her (Not just because she has a big butt or big cock etc) then you should start a relationship with her. Why not? You only live once, right? You deserve the right to be happy with whomever you want.

[alyssaluxor]

How do you know they are not into TS girls...because they TOLD you that?

hmmm.

I have a life too also go to malls, restaurant, grocery, cinema, parks... clubs

And sometimes ill meet guys there or a guy will approach me. Then if i say im a ladyboy most of them would get shocked but will stay with me. They wouldnt care and would even hold my hand or even kiss me then go back in my room for lots of fun *wink*

[alyssaluxor]

By the way I have many straight guys friends or guys whos not into TS girls like my friends in office before or friends in college or friends in high school. Whenever we are going out they dont have any issues and shy to other people that they are with a TS girl. On the other hand i notice TS admirer/chaser are so paranoid being seen with a TS girl