Is anyone else frustrated with transsexual attraction?

[$$$Bill]

Overthinking will drive you nuts! (Pun intended)

[Anika]

Brad Pitt on the cover of GQ does nothing for me, while Jessica Alba on the cover of Vogue does something for me, but not that much. But a transsexual porn star like Honey Foxxx? Good lord, I'm overwhelmed with sexual attraction.

Are you also attracted to T* who habe undergone SRS and have a Vagina now?

[Rusty Eldora]

Thought this was going to be one of those "is it gay?" threads lol. Yeah I know what you mean. The hardest part is we get grouped into the gay category because there isn't a lot of tgirls so most hang out at gay bars which makes a lot of people think gay and trans are related, which in my opinion aren't at all.

Well Tia Phoenix and I tested this, we went into R place and Neighbors on Seattle's Cap Hill. In R Place we were the only straight people in there, nobody was checking us out, it was like we were invisible. We also felt like there was no one for us to check out. Neighbors was really hopping and there was some checking out, but we were the square pegs still.

I like Tgirls a lot for what are valid reasons to me, they are not a fantasy but they occupy my desires. I still also love GG's and I am really more comfortable with myself now than before I met my first tgirl.

A side note, the DOD report this week indicated around 15K TG's serving out of 2.6M that is about 0.5% So roughly 1 in 200 girls you meet is TG, how many have you noticed? If they are passable probably not many, now that I know more about TG's I can probably spot more and I am aware that they are out there so I watch. I still have not spotted one in my suburban area, I have noticed them in Seattle. Well, because they are women, they aren't noticed - that is good.

[nysprod]

A side note, the DOD report this week indicated around 15K TG's serving out of 2.6M that is about 0.5% So roughly 1 in 200 girls you meet is TG, how many have you noticed? If they are passable probably not many, now that I know more about TG's I can probably spot more and I am aware that they are out there so I watch. I still have not spotted one in my suburban area, I have noticed them in Seattle. Well, because they are women, they aren't noticed - that is good.

A genetic woman will almost never have a 4th finger longer than the 2nd...a small percentage of people have equal length 2nd and 4th fingers.

[SammiValentine]

A genetic woman will almost never have a 4th finger longer than the 2nd...a small percentage of people have equal length 2nd and 4th fingers.

i sounds like the latter. but only on one hand. how low percnetage can we go here?

[nysprod]

i sounds like the latter. but only on one hand. how low percnetage can we go here?

Not sure exactly but it's very low, which means that if you meet someone who presents as female with a 4th finger > 2nd, the probability is very high they were born with male genitalia.

[canihavu]

Hi guys,

I've enjoyed this forum for some time, but this is my first post. I apologize if this topic has already been covered in another thread.

I'm interested to know if anyone else is frustrated by their attraction to transsexuals. I am more attracted to trans women than I am to any other kind of person - male or female. Because of this, I feel like the only outlets available for my sexuality are porn and escorts. It's frustrating, and sometimes I wish I were just gay because homosexuality has received such mainstream acceptance. The problem is - I know that I'm not gay. I am not attracted to anything on a man other than his penis.

Brad Pitt on the cover of GQ does nothing for me, while Jessica Alba on the cover of Vogue does something for me, but not that much. But a transsexual porn star like Honey Foxxx? Good lord, I'm overwhelmed with sexual attraction.

What's more frustrating is that despite how allegedly open-minded everyone is today about sexuality, the rest of the world - even so-called "allies" - insists on forcing people into one of two boxes - straight or gay. Unfortunately, I don't really think I fit either category. I have a girlfriend and I love her, and I actually very much enjoy sex with her - I'm ravenous when I'm physically with her. But I don't fantasize about her when she's not around. The image of her or any other woman naked, does nothing for me in the abstract.

Anyway - I just wanted to see if anyone else here felt the same way. I'm not ashamed of my attraction, it's way more complicated than that. I just want to try and find someone to talk to who can empathize, or who will at least try to understand me.

Thanks,

jer

I understand your frustration. When I was younger, I never understood why I had this attraction to a woman with a penis. I remember seeing them when I used to hang out NYC and I would be drawn to them. Me liking their penis used to weird me out at first. In fact it took me two years before I would venture into playing with/sucking them. I used to feel extremely guilty about that and would often seek out sex from GGs right after I would be with a transwoman. As I have gotten older, it does not bother me nearly as much anymore. I know what I like and I am comfortable in my skin. It's been years since I have been with a transsexual, but I am open to it still.

[canihavu]

I think the OP has the same nature as most of the posters on here. Most, if not all, would never consider sex with another man, but enjoy it with tgirls. Many, i'm sure, would never bottom for one the girls. The 'am I gay' thing has been beaten to death on this forum and should be put to bed. As for your frustration, Jer, just try to get happy in your own skin; I know I have. Take a look at my avatar; Kay O' Hara...I never really wanted to BE Kay, but I would love to look like her!

I remember I was gonna give a guy a BJ once and I could not go through with it. There was no attraction at all. But when I going down on a TG, I am very excited.

[alyssaluxor]

I noticed that TS admirer/chasers mostly discriminate TS girls a lot. If you like TS girls whats the need to be ashamed of it? Fuck society live your life. Life is short just enjoy it. Guys whos not into TS girls mostly doesnt care and will fuck a TS girl if they found them attractive not worrying about people around them.

[Flaco]

I've had some sexual experiences with TS that were just downright mind-blowing. But deep down I honestly don't think I'm Gay. And this is not me being in denial, I've seriously done some deep thinking on many occasions and asked myself if I was Gay. The answer is always no. I love Women. I look at men as my brothers, so there can never be any sexual attraction there. However, I reached a point a few years ago when my lust could no longer be satisfied by Genetic females anymore. That is what thrust me into this world. My love for Genetic Females is still there, but I've placed it aside just so I can pay attention to my lust. However, when I see my peers with their Girlfriends, or Couples on TV, or pictures of Families (Will Smith's family always comes to my mind) I envy them so much and wish I could be like them. I feel I should be like them, but I just can't seem to overcome my addictions to this world. I know I have to someday. I'm young now, but I won't be young forever. I don't want to wake up 5-10 years from now going straight to my laptop and looking for Tranny porn to fap to. Or browsing online for Trannies in the area to fuck. This just seems like a Dead-End route I'm going. *Sighs*

For me this stuff (Porn) is like Drugs. You get some, and you just consistently want something stronger and stronger. However, I'm not trying to offend anyone, because many of these TS Ladies really are very Gorgeous and attractive women (Both Physically and Mentally). Everyone should do what makes them happy. If you find one of these women and you are really attracted to her (Not just because she has a big butt or big cock etc) then you should start a relationship with her. Why not? You only live once, right? You deserve the right to be happy with whomever you want. But on the other hand if you are like me and you know in your heart you are not Gay, you have to look within yourself and ask yourself why you are living a Gay lifestyle. What is your ultimate goal? I am a straight person who is living a Gay lifestyle. I'm a prisoner to my own lust. I hope someday I can figure things out.