Are Transexuals emotionally Stable?

[sdman]

i said ON AVERAGE... not every guy that likes trannies is a basket case, but most are... just like not every tranny is a nutjob... but usually when they are... its all the dumbass guys she met that made her that way

you're so hot tsntx!

[slingblade]

yes id say that most are basket cases

[natina]

NO!
thats how you make a transsexual

[Birgitta]

I dont think its that we are mentally unstable but rather that some of us have seen allot of things or experienced alot of things that no one should ever experience or shouldnt have to experience....When I say this I mean that transexual women or transexual people are not mentally unstable by nature like as if they were born emotinally unstable...

I agree with this.
I think i am emotionally stable after a lot of therapy though,
Maybe perhaps even more then most people...
Though there are days that i feel really bad, like a freak, that
Sorth of comes with being a ts for some tswoman, we are not all fairy queens, but even them sometimes still have this feeling...there are days that i
Can accept that im special and there are days that i feel very fragile because of it.
I dont think that you should take what is written on this forum ad a
Way to determine if a girl is emotionally stable or not, coz virtual life is often very different from real life, and the ones that always post happy stuff can be the most seriously depressed irl....

and then what, about being emotionally stable, a lot of stuff the girls have to deal with others have not, all the prejudice and last but not least a lot of lovers that keep them a secret from their friends and family, or that have gender issues themselves, i wonder how emotionally stable you would be when constantly having to deal with that....

So i think its healthy to rant on a forum now and then, does not mean irl you are the same...

[Birgitta]

I have had two TSs work for me and they both went through their full transition while I knew them. As I was sympathetic and supportive (can be difficult in a work environment – lots of prejudice around) to their wishes, they opened up to me with their inner thoughts. I found them capable of thinking deeply about what drove them and all the challenges that lay ahead. However, they were both somewhat emotionally unstable – life for both of them was a confused mixture of highs and lows. The urge to complete the next stage – breasts, SRS and FFS. Always when the next thing was done, their life would be wonderful and everyone would love them. I tried to warn them that life is not like that! Relationships were often many and short-lived. Continuing doubts about their sexual orientation. Worries about their age and that they had left their transition too late. The search for beauty came a goal in itself.

Having said all this, I found their company very rewarding and we had some good times together. But feel that neither of them will ever be fully settled. It is a strange force that compelled these guys – one that, as an outsider, I’ll never fully understand.

Hope this adds to the discussion.

These guys?? Ehm...
Its honest when you think of them like that, but probably also the reason you dont understand them....i think every sensitive intelligent individual when truely interested will be able to understand a tgirl...just listen to them....

The thing is, most guys are more interested in their own thoughts about a tgirl then the thoughts of the tgirls themselves,

[Prospero]

martin48's post read so well - until he said "these guys."

I agree that the experiences most TS girls have been throgh make it hard for them to be seen as "stable." But I've met quite a few who seemed well grounded and perfectly sane and a few others who were stark raving bonkers. (Drugs i suspect) But then madness is pretty prevalent in the wider public.

[KelticForce1349]

you're so hot tsntx!

Maybe so, but TSnTX is still a nutjob you basket-case.

[Birgitta]

I agree that hormones can play a role is someones mood, but to make someone "an emotionally unstable person" I disagree. I think that is due to greater issues.

I do agree that most doctors dont know much about prescribing hormones. Most of them under-prescribe due to a lack of knowledge and to play it safe. I have met with some doctors and I ended up knowing more about hormone replacement therapy then them.

I have researched a lot on HRT (hormone replacement therapy). When I started HRT I wanted to make sure I was going to get the best results and did extensive homework.

Hi so what dosage do you use?
From my experience hormones made me emotionally more stable then when i had to deal with the testo, still they also havr made me feel like an old woman, which is a really awefull feeling, i think most of us girls are neglected by our doctors, not everyone responds the same to hormones and when it goes wrong it can be aserious problem on an emotional and energetic, physical level,

[Birgitta]

you wanna talk about stable?? lets talk about the guys that on average are interested in trannies...

-married
-liars
-crossdressers
-odd fetishes
-see women of any form as objects
-ashamed
-self hatred

yeah theres a list of qualities right there that makes you not only emotionally unstable, but mentally as well.

Sooo trueeee

[Birgitta]

martin48's post read so well - until he said "these guys."

I agree that the experiences most TS girls have been throgh make it hard for them to be seen as "stable." But I've met quite a few who seemed well grounded and perfectly sane and a few others who were stark raving bonkers. (Drugs i suspect) But then madness is pretty prevalent in the wider public.

And madness is not always easy to determine, coz we sociaty as a whole often behave like psycopaths tangled up in a mass psychosis, so sometimes it only seeeems the other person is mad, while in reality he is more sane then you are,