Are Transexuals emotionally Stable?

[Azanti]

Julie summed it up better than I ever could, as always. :O)

[TsVanessa69]

this was meant to be funny right?? is ANYBODY mentally stable? Are YOU mentally stable,

[tsntx]

^^ too bad you didnt

[downblow]

I'm not trying to put anyone down here or anything, but I was just kinda curious about the mental stability of some transexuals..

I know that a lot of them are are harmonal threapy and some more than others, but over the years I come to beleive that a lot of them are actually emotianally unstable..

I mean look as Danielle Fox and Yasmine Lee, as beautiful and fine as they both are when they posted on the boards regualarly even though I love when TS post on here, sometimes reading the crap that they dumped in here often times made me wonder were they emotionally stable? Not just them, but also from some of the my dealings with trannies, I come to beleive that they're just very emotionally unstable beings, and most don't even have a clue about what they really want out of life, or it changes every day!

Some talk about chopping their dycks off on day and enjoying being a top the next?

What are your thoughts in reguards to this subject?

Okay this might get a bunch of complaints but i'm new here so please don't hang me just yet.

I've had two wonderful t-girl best friends in my life-time and through them i've have met tons of other great t-girls. In EVERY conversation, situation that i was in with these ladies i found myself enjoying their company very much. The answers i got were full of insight and logic. They were non judgmental, very accepting of others, and not materialistic in the least.
Any of those ladies could easily be the perfect wife for any lucky guy.
Unfortunately one of my friends past away from hiv and my other friend felt canada was not the country for her due to the lack of respect towards her community at the time and left for brasil. Apparently it was better there. Anyways there isn't a day that i don't think about these great ladies and also the experiences them and their friends provided me. Today i find t-girls are not what they used to be. They either try really hard to be like a GG emotionally or they completey identify with they culture/ideals of that set.

Personally i think that is such a shame. I think t-girls are the perfect female because of their inherit ability to identify logic and deal with situations and problems without the drama and severe emotions that come with GG's. All my conversations with GG's have drama and way too much emotions attached. If i ask what is your favorite movie i get a whole damn song and story. But with a t-girl i never get headaches and talking to them is usually refreshing and fun. If society accepted t-girls more i think women would become obsulete. The average t-girl is always prettier than the average woman.

Bottom line to all the wonderful t-girls..........please don't change into GG's we all love you the way you are. You are so special you all have no clue how happy guys can be if they had a t-girl wife. Why would you want to change such a great part of yourselves? Society will come to accept you and people will respect you more when they see how perfect you are. They won't care for you at all if you all turn into GG's. There is a general reason why most men don't respect women, do you want them to treat you like that?
They won't when they see how much better you all are in comparison to GG's.

Okay that my take, so please don't ban me because i really like this place.
Thanks.

[TJ347]

please don't change into GG's we all love you the way you are. You are so special you all have no clue how happy guys can be if they had a t-girl wife.

Well, I guess you're fortunate, seeing as how a TG can't actually become a GG. Anyway, I doubt your plea that a TG sacrifice who she sees herself to be for the sake of any man will be met favorably.

I think t-girls are the perfect female because of their inherit ability to identify logic and deal with situations and problems without the drama and severe emotions that come with GG's. All my conversations with GG's have drama and way too much emotions attached. If i ask what is your favorite movie i get a whole damn song and story.

Wow! Way to put down women, which transsexual women are mentally before anything else.

If society accepted t-girls more i think women would become obsulete. The average t-girl is always prettier than the average woman.

No, and no. First... well, there's no explanation needed really if you take a minute to think about it, and secondly, who are you considering an "average" tgirl? "The average t-girl is always prettier than the average woman"? In what town? Because that sure as hell isn't true to what I've experienced. Oh, and BTW, an average transsexual woman is an average woman. The woman thing kinda stays constant there...

There is a general reason why most men don't respect women, do you want them to treat you like that?
They won't when they see how much better you all are in comparison to GG's.

I forgot to thank you for villifying men as well, as if that was necessary here. Thanks!

[TJ347]

TJ347, why do you complicate things so much???

Honestly? Because I tend to get irritable when it's late. I've already sent a PM telling the guy more or less to just ignore me... I don't know what the hell I'm still doing up or what I'm going to say next...

Good night, Sil. Check ya tomorrow.

[downblow]

please don't change into GG's we all love you the way you are. You are so special you all have no clue how happy guys can be if they had a t-girl wife.

Well, I guess you're fortunate, seeing as how a TG can't actually become a GG. Anyway, I doubt your plea that a TG sacrifice who she sees herself to be for the sake of any man will be met favorably.

I think t-girls are the perfect female because of their inherit ability to identify logic and deal with situations and problems without the drama and severe emotions that come with GG's. All my conversations with GG's have drama and way too much emotions attached. If i ask what is your favorite movie i get a whole damn song and story.

Wow! Way to put down women, which transsexual women are mentally before anything else.

If society accepted t-girls more i think women would become obsulete. The average t-girl is always prettier than the average woman.

No, and no. First... well, there's no explanation needed really if you take a minute to think about it, and secondly, who are you considering an "average" tgirl? "The average t-girl is always prettier than the average woman"? In what town? Because that sure as hell isn't true to what I've experienced. Oh, and BTW, an average tgirl is an average woman. The woman thing kinda stays constant there...

There is a general reason why most men don't respect women, do you want them to treat you like that?
They won't when they see how much better you all are in comparison to GG's.

I forgot to thank you for villifying men as well, as if that was necessary here. Thanks!

Just from reading your answers on other posts i knew i'd have to deal with your negativitey so here goes.............

1: I am not suggesting sacrifice, in fact what every person wants is to be with someone else is it not? Do t-girls not want to be married and have a family unit? Every one i've ever talked to does. Again you took my example way out of context and put a nasty spin on it like you do in most of your posts.

2: There is no denying t-girls are women but they genetically think on a different level than women. In many studies the brain of a transgendered person does not change. Men in general think logically and women don't. It's a proven scientific fact. Again why must you put a bad spin on science?

3: Again try reading scientific weekly where women can and will not be the only way to reproduce in the upcoming future. There has been trails done in many areas and one of them is men carrying a fectus. As for the average t-girl being prettier than the average women, that's what i see in toronto sad that you don't have the quality ladies i have here i feel for you.

4: If you are a man you know damn well what i'm talking about. Plain and simple i don't feel the need to lie about the way most men are. I'm a man and i know exactly how we are and it isn't nice things we do so why lie about it. Knowing who and what we are capable of is one way of changing ourselves for the better is it not? In context of what i was stating before i was clearly saying that the reason why most men don't respect GG's can never happen with t-girls their in essence making t-girls the perfect woman.


Why do you have to make everything so bad? I'm trying to tell all the t-girls how wonderful they are and you want to ruin it. Why?
I can clearly see why you choose the EVIL leader of the Transformers instead of the GOOD one and it comes across in almost every post you write on here.
Come on man be happy and don't be so down about things.

Damn can't i say something nice without being hounded?

[RangeHova]

Some girls are unstable I will agree but not all of them. I dont think its because of hormones or anything chemical.

I think in some cases its due to someones lifestyle. Some girls live harder lives then others and that might cause them to go a little nuts.

I think hormones can play a huge part in the issues that a lot of girls have. Just think of how many girls that are on hormones that really have someone who knows hormones really overseeing and monitoring the doses and combinations of hormones. There really aren't that many doctors that even specialize in hormones beyond what is learned in basic gyno studies.

It seems most doctors look for a dosage that doesn't harm the patient's body and gets results from an appearance standpoint.

Girls these days aren't even looking for anyone at all to oversee thier mental health because it has become extra taboo in TS circles, as if it says that you aren't sure if you are a woman and that you need some doctor to validate what you feel if you see a shrink on anything trans related. Like it is only for those late in life men that all of a sudden decide they want to be women, So of course the mental issues that come with hormone imbalances don't get properly diagnosed by the professionals when it comes to the effects on emotions.

That ain't a knock on transwomen, most men in the world that have wives, girlfriends or even daughters can tell you 100 stories of the effects of hormones on genetic women. Hormones are no fucking joke on any women's mental and emotional health. Imbalances are not rare at all and with the very delicate balances that exist in the female (and male) body. Human interaction and human tampering with that delicate balance will have some adverse side effects.

Combine that with the many TS women that are getting hormones underground and black market as well as rampant self dosing you will have some serious effects emotionally and mentally.

A good friend of mine (who has always been level headed and stable emotionally) just got under a doctor's care, a hormonal specialist, after years and years of black market hormones and she is now even more clear headed and in control emotionally. The difference is astounding. It has even had positove effects on her body that she never expected or thought she needed.

[downblow]

TJ347, why do you complicate things so much???

Honestly? Because I tend to get irritable when it's late. I've already sent a PM telling the guy more or less to just ignore me... I don't know what the hell I'm still doing up or what I'm going to say next...

Good night, Sil. Check ya tomorrow.

oops i just got your pm, i sent you off one too.
NOT TRYING TO FIGHT HERE, i just get touchy about t-girls.
I generally hold them in high admiration due to everything i said before and every decent relationship i've ever been in was with a t-girl, so i get kinda defensive when i feel they are being attacked.
Anyways i sent you a pm so please read it and i look forward to talking more with everyone in the future.

[NYTSJulie]

Some girls are unstable I will agree but not all of them. I dont think its because of hormones or anything chemical.

I think in some cases its due to someones lifestyle. Some girls live harder lives then others and that might cause them to go a little nuts.

I think hormones can play a huge part in the issues that a lot of girls have. Just think of how many girls that are on hormones that really have someone who knows hormones really overseeing and monitoring the doses and combinations of hormones. There really aren't that many doctors that even specialize in hormones beyond what is learned in basic gyno studies.

It seems most doctors look for a dosage that doesn't harm the patient's body and gets results from an appearance standpoint.

Girls these days aren't even looking for anyone at all to oversee thier mental health because it has become extra taboo in TS circles, as if it says that you aren't sure if you are a woman and that you need some doctor to validate what you feel if you see a shrink on anything trans related. Like it is only for those late in life men that all of a sudden decide they want to be women, So of course the mental issues that come with hormone imbalances don't get properly diagnosed by the professionals when it comes to the effects on emotions.

That ain't a knock on transwomen, most men in the world that have wives, girlfriends or even daughters can tell you 100 stories of the effects of hormones on genetic women. Hormones are no fucking joke on any women's mental and emotional health. Imbalances are not rare at all and with the very delicate balances that exist in the female (and male) body. Human interaction and human tampering with that delicate balance will have some adverse side effects.

Combine that with the many TS women that are getting hormones underground and black market as well as rampant self dosing you will have some serious effects emotionally and mentally.

A good friend of mine (who has always been level headed and stable emotionally) just got under a doctor's care, a hormonal specialist, after years and years of black market hormones and she is now even more clear headed and in control emotionally. The difference is astounding. It has even had positove effects on her body that she never expected or thought she needed.

I agree that hormones can play a role is someones mood, but to make someone "an emotionally unstable person" I disagree. I think that is due to greater issues.

I do agree that most doctors dont know much about prescribing hormones. Most of them under-prescribe due to a lack of knowledge and to play it safe. I have met with some doctors and I ended up knowing more about hormone replacement therapy then them.

I have researched a lot on HRT (hormone replacement therapy). When I started HRT I wanted to make sure I was going to get the best results and did extensive homework.