Am i the only one

[Birgitta]

You see Bella...that's where you lose me, and I'm guessing lots of others. You don't need a fucking blow torch to light a joint ...a bic lighter will do just fine. Holy Shit. Heard of being subtle? Brigitta has grown more opinionated , but you above anyone should respect that. The fact her opinion doesn't jive with yours ...doesn't make hers wrong. She's livin' her life as she sees fit in a sometimes unfriendly world and she seems pretty well adjusted from what I read . You told me once I was passive/aggressive. Look in the mirror lately baby?
There isn't anybody on here capable of shrinking someone else...I know of no PHD's here...Lighten up ...have another bad day did we?

Thanks honey, yes i am pretty well adjusted. Bella seems to want to take everything i say very personally, even starts a thread centered around me "who is birgitta" with false accusations to make people here hate me. At the same time she wants to see me banned.

Its very funny people here tell me i should be thick skinned, that i have mental problems, that i feel better then them (which i dont lol) only for not agreeing with them and for having a different opinion. You should be able to deal with people that do not agree when you are a ts, because there always people that will not agree with you, and just because they dont does not mean their opinion is less valid or untrue.

I am probably one of the few girls here that wants to be and enjoy life as a woman as much as i can. I dont much enjoy the t community scene and the chaser types, i like guys that behave like straight men, causs i feel like a straight woman.

[Birgitta]

And yes its true a lot of t girls do not behave like woman, they want to be special, get loads of attention, etcetc, with respect and admiration for the girls that are into escort to pay for their transition and the rent etc thats not what i mean, but ts in tporn are portryed as ts woman with a gay sexuality, they are not woman, often are not treated like woman, and their admirers do not want them to be woman. This maybe fitting for a lot of girls but not all of us are like that.

And please dont start again calling me closed minded etc, there are a lot of people out there in the world that would not consider me a woman because i am a ts, what makes you think i am any better then them. I can have sympathy and respect and understanding for their opinion as long as they give me the freedom to be who i am. Bella and others here are forcing openmindedness on people like dictators lol

[Birgitta]

Also i dont see why i should get mental healthcare for not wanting to be a ts. I think that is probably one of the few things that makes ME sane loool

But i do enjoy life as much as i can, the other day after our discussion, i went into the city and had guys flirt with me more the usual lol, and that really helps to improve my mood, the same guys in the past would shout hoooomooooo from the open windows of their cars, its funny the way this has changed

I enjoy this but i am not delusional, i will always remember where i came from and how they treated me back then

[Birgitta]

Great point. Some people just think that they are the center of the universe. Everything needs to be scrutinized according to their standards. The things that don't pass this test are "wrong" or "bad". And then they turn to the internet to bitch about it on forums.

What gets me is that some of the people that practice what I mentioned above tend to feel surprised when someone else doesn't share the same opinion as them.

I am actually the centre of my universe, just like bella and just like you. And yes i do have my own standards thank the heavens xxx

And i am actually extremely used to people not agreeing with me and i will be quite suprised if anyone backed me up for once lol

[Prospero]

Well I'll say it again. Birgitta - you and i may not agree on everything, but I think you're terrific.

[Birgitta]

Well I'll say it again. Birgitta - you and i may not agree on everything, but I think you're terrific.

I believe diamanda once said in an interview that she thinks we should not all want to get along and agree with eachother.

You know seriously if i only allowed myself to be around people who think im a real girl even when they know i am a ts, i am making life hard on myself and hard for the people around me. Its up to them what they think of me as long as they treat me with respect for the human being i am and my freedom to be who i am. I am not telling anyone here they should change what they love or how to live their life.

I would not even dare to do so lol.

I am sure that we would get along just fine in real life, and if i did not care at all, why would i even bother to share my views. When i dont like someone i usually just stay away lol.

And i may not sound like it but i do respect you and the way you identify yourself.
Thats really up to you,

The problem is that you cant force people to see you in the same manner, i cant force all people to believe i am a real girl from the inside, i dont even try anymore, its all good. I know who i am and thats enough, but it is nice to share it with someone, and i agree kind of sad when you cant.

But it does not mean we cant be friends, i got lots of gay friends, allright prospero, you may spank me for saying that, or shall i spank you, maybe thats a better punishment for me, lets hope i wont enjoy it otherwise i will get in trouble with bella again looool
Xxxhugs
Birgitta

[Prospero]

[LibertyHarkness]

each to their own i say ...i live by a simple rule in that there isnt a single human/being/entitiy in existence that can tell me how to live my life, other than myself ..

I listen to others, accept others ideals/ whether i think its a crock of old shit is irrelevant just smile and move along life is to short for getting into bickering about who is correct, what should be right etc ...

Just live for you and you alone ..then your life will be better thing to enjoy ..i learn the hard way of trying to live my life to please others and its a waste of time as its always a one sided affair .

Bella finds birgetta opionated but then the same was said of bella not that long ago etc then before bella it was tsntx i think i cant remember there has been so many characters that come and go on these boards lol but ultimately who actually really gives a fuck its just a silly internet board that is here for light entertainment, promotion, escorting, porn and just amusing banter ... if your looking for serious thought out converstaions join a proper site for that type of affar ... .. Now i rarely get involved with disputes and arguments on here as its just a frugle affair as it doesnt benefit me in anyway so not worth the time of day ....people just need to lighten up ...

your not going to get along with everyone, and yes you will offend people with words etc , shit happens get over it .... sticks and stones eh

on a side note about bottoming .. i love to bottom lol

[traLika]

your not going to get along with everyone, and yes you will offend people with words etc , shit happens get over it .... sticks and stones eh

Couldn’t agree more. In the immortal words of Mr Senor Love Daddy: “Time out! TIME OUT! Y'all take a chill! Ya need to cool that shit out! And that's the double truth, Ruth!”

[TJ347]

Another dumbass who cant read past 3 lines and immediatly says what is right or wrong

Neither he nor Freddy said anything was "right or wrong". They clearly stated that what they were giving was their opinion. Some people here would be greatly helped if they could actually be bothered to read a post before emotionally reacting to what they think is being said.