Conflicted about liking trannies

[www.tglovers.com]

Bad analogy, but whateva.

I understand the solidarity among ALL transgendered females, but IMO you speak a little too freely about something that goes beyond having a sometimes difficult time dating men as a TG.

Most TGs who escort, from what I've seen and read, have minimum respect for most men, and it erodes by the hour.

It gets to the point that many tgirls resent men viewing them sexually at all.

I think analogy...made perfect sense, but whateva.... You don't know me, so how you can develop an opinion of me is beyond me. As a transsexual several of my friends work as escort so I fell personally connected to it. Besides when most men encounter me....they automatically assume I'm an escort based on the fact that I am transgendered.

I have respect for anyone who respects me so I judge men on an individual basis and not as a collective. However when speaking I sometimes make generalizations to make a point.

As far as being a sex object goes...that's not my issue. I like for man to sex me as sexually desired but I also want him to see me as intelligent, driven, loyal, passionate and so many other variables that contribute to my overall make-up.

[circ]

I really don't get that part tgl, about men assuming you're an escort. Not unlike some members on this board seeing a picture of a TG, immediately start asking for contact info and her rates. I don't frequent non TG pornstar boards, but from what I can recall, I've very rarely if ever seen someone ask a pornstar if she escorts too, unless that's already known. Pretty fucking low, but hey.

[giovanni_hotel]

TGL isn't in the adult industry.

[circ]

I wasn't saying that either. I was whining about how some people assume you're an escort just because you're a TG, like some people on this board for instance.

[www.tglovers.com]

I really don't get that part tgl, about men assuming you're an escort. Not unlike some members on this board seeing a picture of a TG, immediately start asking for contact info and her rates. I don't frequent non TG pornstar boards, but from what I can recall, I've very rarely if ever seen someone ask a pornstar if she escorts too, unless that's already known. Pretty fucking low, but hey.

A lot of them assume because I dress sexy and I'm transsexual that I have to be a working girl. I used to be offended but now...I say who cares. Its like sexy and intelligent can't coexist. In order to be seen as intellectual, I have to dress like a librarian.

But I don't want to turn this into a thread about me. So lets stick to the topic at hand.

[giovanni_hotel]

I've seen a little how you dress on those youtube vids, TGL, and you throw off that serious sexy vibe like daggers!!

There is a middle ground between dressing like a prude and like you're going to the club.

But hey I don't mind!lol

[loveburst]

...I used to be offended but now...I say who cares. Its like sexy and intelligent can't coexist. In order to be seen as intellectual, I have to dress like a librarian.

(to bump into the middle of a conversation) I'd say it is kind of stupid for people to even have this kind of mindframe (as to sexuality being separated from intellectualness - it is not).. Sexuality, and geniousness are both the same, they go hand in hand, and sexual energy is also intellectual energy - if it is rightly "aimed".

Good health, is allways good health... being in shape is being in shape, and that will manifest in multitudes of ways..

[Legend]

you like what you like
why keep trying to explain it?
ignore the fags who like men in wigs and move on.

I'm basically just trying to tell your freind that he shouldn't be ashamed for liking someone who is transgender or feel the need to care what people think.I know that its his preference for super,ultra passable transsexuals but even if he finds that super, ultra passable transsexual that isn't going to change the fact that the person is transgender so it just makes sense to be more understanding and tolerant.

[loveburst]

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[www.tglovers.com]

I've seen a little how you dress on those youtube vids, TGL, and you throw off that serious sexy vibe like daggers!!

There is a middle ground between dressing like a prude and like you're going to the club.

But hey I don't mind!lol

The Middle Ground is relative. I don't always dress sexy. There are some videos when I am not as sexy. I just don't see why being sexy is a bad thing?

No disrespect but as I said earlier...I don't want to turn this post into a post about me. I think the topic is a very interesting one, so I want to return the focus back to the subject at hand.