Unprotected sex

[Banty]

Seems I'm usually in the minority.
I vote CBJ for giving and receiving.

[lifeisfiction]

I still don't see why the need for the long paragraph about it. If you don't do it oral without a condom and there is no need to write such lengthy statement explaining your position. You have been escorting for a good while, I will assume so why now complain about it now. Its not like you would be the only person in that position.

[Natassia Dream]

I still don't see why the need for the long paragraph about it. If you don't do it oral without a condom and there is no need to write such lengthy statement explaining your position. You have been escorting for a good while, I will assume so why now complain about it now. Its not like you would be the only person in that position.

OK well this is a GENERAL FORUM where people come and DISCUSS what they want to talk about.. A sentence or a paragraph... I see i touched a nerve with the topic maybe because im shedding light on a dark situation. Like I said before if you dont like what I have to say then DONT read it would i be better if a posted a pic of my COCK? Im sure that wouldnt have so much negative responses SMH. Just searching for clarity and asked peoples opinion... If theres a stick up your ass then take it out or spin! This is a free world and EVERYONE is entitled to an opinion xoxoxox

[lifeisfiction]

Nope, didn't touch a nerve or anything. I just figure a top level escort like yourself who has been in the business (I am assuming for years) would let something like that bother her. Like I said its what you want to do, but to me I didn't make sense why that was the case for the rant.

I was wondering if someone was complaining or anything.

[fred41]

It's perfectly fair for you to set rules on how you provide your services, especially since they involve your own personal safety and health...and it seems you are upfront about it , so in that sense, no one can be upset then that they didn't know this once they pay their fee.

...but you will occasionally get bad feedback as you mentioned in your OP.
Why?

I think because it's like this-
You are one of the hottest girls in the business. I'm not blowing smoke up your ass - you have a mirror...and you probably work hard on keeping it hot.
But that's part of the problem - a guy will watch your porn and fantasize about being with you...and then , as luck would have it, you tour through the fan's town and he has an opportunity to be with you...but there's a problem - his particular thing may include sucking you bareback...or you sucking him BB...whatever, and it's like someone mentioned - what makes someone tick sexually can't always be altered. Common sense can be there - but it doesn't work to make someone's dick hard.
So then you have a situation where someone really wants to be with you but it wouldn't work because sexually you are not compatible because you can't do what they need you to do (like so many marriages I guess...lol)...so then resentment sets in...and then maybe, the comments you mentioned.
Don't know if that explains it...figured I'd take a shot.

....would i be better if a posted a pic of my COCK? Im sure that wouldnt have so much negative responses SMH.

...why can't we do both? - post your comments...and as many naked pics of yourself as you like
...in the interest of fairness...or justice...or whatever...
just be naked...
naked is good.

[Jericho]

Personally, i don't see the point in covered oral. If that's the only option, I'll go without.
Saying that, people are free to set their own limits, make there own choices. And if someone else has a problem with that, then they can fuck off!
IMO.

Forward to more important things, i 2nd Brother Fredricks motion for more nudity!

[JordanNite]

How about you also stop having random men insert their penis's up your arse in exchange for money. Naturally of course these men could be diseased, and it would only take one tear in that condom to expose you.

Seems to me you've picked the wrong thing to be all moralistic about. It's your body, do as you wish, but less of the preaching hey love

[CuriousClient]

How about you also stop having random men insert their penis's up your arse in exchange for money. Naturally of course these men could be diseased, and it would only take one tear in that condom to expose you.

Seems to me you've picked the wrong thing to be all moralistic about. It's your body, do as you wish, but less of the preaching hey love

The libertarian in me says if that she wants to do, and they want to do (and good God why wouldn't they?!) its the risk they both take. And I don't see any preening or soap box standing on Natassia's part. (Though quite a few must be getting dizzy from the thin air as their noses are raised so high.)

It's an interesting top, from someone who it affects, and is genuinely curious about men who partake and even from those who do not. If she can't talk about this without getting shit form people on a forum on the internet that deals with escorting in all forms, then I'm guessing there's no where.

[CuriousClient]

Like I said before if you dont like what I have to say then DONT read it would i be better if a posted a pic of my COCK? Im sure that wouldnt have so much negative responses SMH.

(Lowers head and bites fist for a minute.)

Ummm, well, now this could just be me, but like, I mean, if you don't mind and you have time, like, I definitely wouldn't object. Guessing there are many others around these parts who wouldn't object either.

[Vladimir Putin]

OKAY I am back boys and girls and I REALLY need to get something off my chest... Ladies and gentlemen fell free to comment and give opinions on what I have to say as I am leaving it open to discussion.
Lately I have been bad mouthed on blogs because I dont do oral without a condom or receive while escorting. Heres the thing that people dont realize, in the porn movies we are all tested and have our status under control(even then there are the ocassional slips as those in the industry know what I mean) in the normal life WHO KNOWS when was the last time that ANY of you have been tested and GOD ONLY KNOWS how many Escorts genitals have been in your mouth/ass! Its sad that many people are so willing to do oral without a condom, cum in mouth/ bareback sex etc (as i get soo many crazy request) and I think to myself is it that worth it to put your HEALTH in jeopardy just so you can say you had so and so cum in your mouth? 9 out of 10 johns are married and with girlfriends and dont you feel bad about going home and kissing your wife or kids with the spunk of a transsexual ESCORT on your breath(plus the occasional STD)? Im sorry but I think of the future and not only 15 minutes of fun because the trip to the clinic to get antibiotic shots and pills is not my type of thing! Plus there are things that you can get that dont have a cure that would be with you for the rest of your life (HIV, Herpes, Hepatitis ) that scares me enough to not even want to touch a penis without a condom because I want to live a long life and see my nieces and nephews through their lives! WHAT is the big draw to do this throwing out all risks of getting a STD in the throat/ass ( as you can get gonrrhea and chlamydia in your throat) and how would you explain that to your wife or GF???!!! Its sad to see soo many people careless of their health as i was created in the NYC lifestyle where many of the girls who I came out around are not here today to tell their stories and even though i dont know these people I am a human being and have a conscience... Can anybody fill me in on thoughts and ladies feel free also I just want to clear the air and get this off my chest. I myself prefer sex without condoms also but the risks outway the desire and Id rather keep it safe then be a regular at the STD clinic. SMH
Please feel free to elaborate as I am really disturbed by this whole topic.
End note is WRAP IT UP PEOPLE if you dont know who you are sleeping with ( or who they are sleeping with) Do you REALLY think its worth it? Cant wait to see the thoughts and have a great day everyone and Happy Holidays
Love
Natassia
xoxoxoxoxxo

Hi Natassia,

You're definitely on the top in my book!

The last three times I performed unprotected oral sex on TS girls was in 2003. Shortly afterwards, I had an attack of karma wondering to myself "what if any or all of these three TS ladies I performed unprotected oral sex on were HIV positive?" It wasn't until 2006 when I had the opportunity to perform oral sex on another TS girl that I decided to bring a condom and have her slip it on. Then it was in 2007 when I had the courage to have an HIV test and the test came back negative.

That's when I decided from now on, all oral sex I perform on TS girls will include a condom. And I have been doing it that way since. This is because I don't want to have to worry about it for the following 3-6 months after the encounter and have to take an HIV test to see whether or not I've been infected.

I agree with you. The 15 minutes of forbidden pleasure is not worth doing something that could negatively impact your life forever.

Of course, the federal Centers for Disease Control and HIV groups agree that the risks of getting infected through oral sex is much lower if your partner doesn't cum in your mouth and much lower than vaginal or anal sex, but low risk isn't the same as no risk.