Goodbye

[TatianaSummer]

In tranny porn, inability to produce a cumshot is generally an immediate pay cut and sufficient cause to not get you invited for further shoots, so I'm not sure how this wouldn't be a deal breaker.

As for alternative options, I may be smart and educated, but I'm nearly 30, have no professional work experience, or even the threads with which to weave the kind of narrative you need to tell an HR manager in order to get hired at the entry level. Furthermore, jobs at the bottom of the wage scale seem even less inclined to hire me, having been rejected by such prestigious firms as McDonald's, Target, and Safeway. The bottom line is that I don't have anywhere to go, and as my mood cycles yet again into another long-term depressive episode, I frankly don't have sufficient hope of my life ever getting better to continue to be patient about things.

Miranda, there are many other options to get an income and to be at least able to pay your bills and live without doing porn. In my case I transition completely almost 5 years ago. When I moved to Las Vegas I didnt have a shit, I decided to do porn and I tried it. My experience wasnt the great so I needed to look for other ways to make a living. I knew there was a market for web cam models and for strong woman like me in the fetish community so I decided to do what I like, to be a Domme. Being a pro domina opened a whole new world for me and its something I have rely mostly as my principal income. I also decided to start my own business as a photographer which is something I love to do, and started getting things little by little. I also started an ebay store and started reselling and manufacturing fetish items. When one thing was slow I would put the time into the other. I also kept doing webcam shows for an additional income on the side to pay some of my bills. Clearly like other people have said, you need a few little jobs to make things happen. Thats why I wanted you to contact me so I could see what things makes you happy doing that you can make some money off from it as well. Life is hard but then again with the right tools things are much easier. I know how you feel, I was there once but I promised myself not to visit it again. My hand still open, its up to you to reach for it.

[needsum]

Miranda, there are many other options to get an income and to be at least able to pay your bills and live without doing porn. In my case I transition completely almost 5 years ago. When I moved to Las Vegas I didnt have a shit, I decided to do porn and I tried it. My experience wasnt the great so I needed to look for other ways to make a living. I knew there was a market for web cam models and for strong woman like me in the fetish community so I decided to do what I like, to be a Domme. Being a pro domina opened a whole new world for me and its something I have rely mostly as my principal income. I also decided to start my own business as a photographer which is something I love to do, and started getting things little by little. I also started an ebay store and started reselling and manufacturing fetish items. When one thing was slow I would put the time into the other. I also kept doing webcam shows for an additional income on the side to pay some of my bills. Clearly like other people have said, you need a few little jobs to make things happen. Thats why I wanted you to contact me so I could see what things makes you happy doing that you can make some money off from it as well. Life is hard but then again with the right tools things are much easier. I know how you feel, I was there once but I promised myself not to visit it again. My hand still open, its up to you to reach for it.

Tatiana, this is frigging awesome. I hope it doesn't sound condescending , but I really am proud of you. Your example is something everyone should read and follow because you realized the only way for you to ever get ahead is to help yourself and work your ass off. you found ways to do it, and you did it. So, good for you. I loved reading this. and I pray that Miranda takes it to heart and finds a way to pick herself up and move forward. we all know she can do it, I just hope that she realizes it too. <3

[crystalsopen]

that is a major key to balanced and good life Everybody should try to surrond themselves with good people. No matter if a person does adult work or not.

Miranda, it is nice to see you are here again. I know, this doesn't mean all your troubles are gone. I hope you have someone around, who support you and to whom you could trust.

Wish you all the best and that hard times will be soon over.

[SmithXXX]

I started a new thread with these links. Please add any helpful links to that thread.

Trans help info
Emergency:
http://www.suicidepreventionlifeline.org/
https://www.imalive.org/
http://www.transhousingnetwork.com/

Legal:
http://transequality.org/index.html

http://transgenderlawcenter.org/

Change your name -free http://jacobintransit.tumblr.com/pos...-name-for-free

Copwatch Infographic Guide
http://brokenbalder.tumblr.com/post/...ts-materials-i

Medical:
Transgender Surgeons in the U.S.
- http://www.zeemaps.com/view?group=57...37.758465&z=14

Center of Excellence for Transgender Health
- http://transhealth.ucsf.edu/trans?page=home-00-00

FTM Hormone Guide
-
http://www.camh.ca/en/hospital/care_...rmones-FTM.pdf

FTM Surgery Guide
- http://www.camh.ca/en/hospital/care_...urgery-FTM.pdf

MTF Hormone Guide
-
http://www.camh.ca/en/hospital/care_...rmones-MTF.pdf

MTF Surgery Guide-
http://www.camh.ca/en/hospital/care_...urgery-MTF.pdf


Mcalc Gender Neutral Menstruation Calculator
-
http://mcalc-app.com/

Mental + Support

Online Gender Therapy (can also issue letters of recommendation)
-
http://gendertherapist.com/

Emotional Baggage Check
-
http://emotionalbaggagecheck.com/

TransSpace Reddit
-
http://www.reddit.com/r/TransSpace

School + Education
:
Trans Student Equality Resources
-
http://transstudent.org/

Study Abroad for GLBT Students
-
http://studyabroad.isp.msu.edu/forms/glbt.html

Applying to College as a Non-Binary Trans* Person
-
https://docs.google.com/document/d/1...eHI/edit?pli=1

[ed_jaxon]

Great resources Scott.

[TatianaSummer]

I started a new thread with these links. Please add any helpful links to that thread.

Trans help info
Emergency:
http://www.suicidepreventionlifeline.org/
https://www.imalive.org/
http://www.transhousingnetwork.com/

Legal:
http://transequality.org/index.html

http://transgenderlawcenter.org/

Change your name -free http://jacobintransit.tumblr.com/pos...-name-for-free

Copwatch Infographic Guide
http://brokenbalder.tumblr.com/post/...ts-materials-i

Medical:
Transgender Surgeons in the U.S.
- http://www.zeemaps.com/view?group=57...37.758465&z=14

Center of Excellence for Transgender Health
- http://transhealth.ucsf.edu/trans?page=home-00-00

FTM Hormone Guide
-
http://www.camh.ca/en/hospital/care_...rmones-FTM.pdf

FTM Surgery Guide
- http://www.camh.ca/en/hospital/care_...urgery-FTM.pdf

MTF Hormone Guide
-
http://www.camh.ca/en/hospital/care_...rmones-MTF.pdf

MTF Surgery Guide-
http://www.camh.ca/en/hospital/care_...urgery-MTF.pdf


Mcalc Gender Neutral Menstruation Calculator
-
http://mcalc-app.com/

Mental + Support

Online Gender Therapy (can also issue letters of recommendation)
-
http://gendertherapist.com/

Emotional Baggage Check
-
http://emotionalbaggagecheck.com/

TransSpace Reddit
-
http://www.reddit.com/r/TransSpace

School + Education
:
Trans Student Equality Resources
-
http://transstudent.org/

Study Abroad for GLBT Students
-
http://studyabroad.isp.msu.edu/forms/glbt.html

Applying to College as a Non-Binary Trans* Person
-
https://docs.google.com/document/d/1...eHI/edit?pli=1

Thanks for taking the time to post these, I know this is a porn oriented forum but it would be nice to have a list like this one on a separate tab maybe on the menu bar where anyone that needs help can have easy access.

[SmithXXX]

Thanks Ed & Tatiana. As I said in the fore mentioned post I created a new thread with all those links too. Let's just hope that people will comment on it and keep it alive. I'd hate to see it get lost deep on down the line. Hopefully it will get (and stay) as a sticky post at the top of main page (hint hint hint moderators lol).

[TatianaSummer]

Tatiana, this is frigging awesome. I hope it doesn't sound condescending , but I really am proud of you. Your example is something everyone should read and follow because you realized the only way for you to ever get ahead is to help yourself and work your ass off. you found ways to do it, and you did it. So, good for you. I loved reading this. and I pray that Miranda takes it to heart and finds a way to pick herself up and move forward. we all know she can do it, I just hope that she realizes it too. <3

thanks needsum!

[robertlouis]

Miranda appears to have been banned. Don't know why.

Maybe she deserved it, maybe she didn't. But I do know from personal exchanges that she was no better when she reappeared yesterday; possibly worse, if anything.

So I'm saddened to see the one avenue that most of us had to reach her appears to be closed. I only hope that the additional isolation doesn't drive her down still further.

And I would have been more active on the thread today if I hadn't spent a fair chunk of it in A&E after falling out of my car - not as dramatic as it sounds, feet got tangled in the seatbelt - but badly bruised and concussed so have just come round from the sedation.

Then BT decided to shut me out of my own email. Fuck fuck fuck. And that frustration is largely because I can't get in touch with Ms Meadows.

[GroobySteven]

Miranda appears to have been banned. Don't know why.

Why do you think that?