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[bruceleefan]

If someone can deserve something good, then they should be equally capable of deserving something bad...
(I'm not saying Evon deserved to get stalked)

There was a lot of talk about what girls feel they 'deserve' in positive terms on some of these threads (e.g money). Surely it works both ways?

Everyone deserves a good life, some are just lucky to have that luxury and some not. Some have to work harder for it, and some use their looks to get it. It doesn't mean they are undeserving because they are blessed with good looks, talents, brains, business swag, connections, creativity to earn that financial security. Bad things happen because people who are hateful for their luck cause that problem.

[catherinefan]

Dude it's not that serious, life does not revolve around the forum, if she's trying to share her opinion it's called debating. I didn't agree with many things she said either, but I'm not going to be the dick to call her degrading names. All for what? An opinion? The stalker is a coward, if he really was that manipulative why didn't he say her family name? She implied her power over him if he did say anything and to me he is a bit hesitant to do it. But she also admitted to being young and naive for speaking to him when she was younger. But I was stalked before to by a crazy ex. But not on this level.

Hitting the nail right on the head, bruceleefan! There is nothing wrong with stating your opinion here but there's no need to call each other names, or even worse, issue ugly threats.
I appreciated Evon as much for her opinion as for her physical prettiness, even though I did not always agree with her. I just like people with an opinion.

Must admit I miss her a little!

[loveboof]

Everyone deserves a good life, some are just lucky to have that luxury and some not. Some have to work harder for it, and some use their looks to get it. It doesn't mean they are undeserving because they are blessed with good looks, talents, brains, business swag, connections, creativity to earn that financial security. Bad things happen because people who are hateful for their luck cause that problem.

Well then do the 'lucky ones' deserve their good life less than the one's who have to work hard for it? And do the unlucky people who don't want to work hard deserve to earn less money?

See what I'm getting at here? In many ways 'deserve' is a qualitative statement.

Does a murderer deserve to go to prison?

It seems fairly obvious to me that someone can deserve something bad just as easily as something good - and that the distinction would be subjective...

[bruceleefan]

Well then do the 'lucky ones' deserve their good life less than the one's who have to work hard for it? And do the unlucky people who don't want to work hard deserve to earn less money?

See what I'm getting at here? In many ways 'deserve' is a qualitative statement.

Does a murderer deserve to go to prison?

It seems fairly obvious to me that someone can deserve something bad just as easily as something good - and that the distinction would be subjective...

Mind you someone like Evon turned lemons to lemonades. I don't think she started of with the same opportunity, and most women here for that matter, I had an ex girl and I know these women claw and elbow their way in life. Something you and I can never comprehend. Starting from nothing, with the injustice society creates, with the Gender issues, and other life altering problems that happens. I do think they deserve this opportunity to further their transition and live a financially secure life. I doubt they had everything easy. And I doubt Evon hurt people to deserve what Just happened here. Her being a 5k a night girl may be very high paid for a 21 year old girl, And most of us can only wish that salary at 32. But I wouldn't want to have her life either. So who am I to say she doesn't deserve it.

[MrsKellyPierce]

Mind you someone like Evon turned lemons to lemonades. I don't think she started of with the same opportunity, and most women here for that matter, I had an ex girl and I know these women claw and elbow their way in life. Something you and I can never comprehend. Starting from nothing, with the injustice society creates, with the Gender issues, and other life altering problems that happens. I do think they deserve this opportunity to further their transition and live a financially secure life. I doubt they had everything easy. And I doubt Evon hurt people to deserve what Just happened here. Her being a 5k a night girl may be very high paid for a 21 year old girl, And most of us can only wish that salary at 32. But I wouldn't want to have her life either. So who am I to say she doesn't deserve it.

Life is what you make it..

And Evon in her posts was degrading me on my age/looks..

What's good for the goose is good for the gander...

However I don't condone what Ignatius did..

I think girls like playing the victim, and there are too many guys trying to play prince charming, to hopefully get farther with them..

[bruceleefan]

Life is what you make it..

And Evon in her posts was degrading me on my age/looks..

What's good for the goose is good for the gander...

However I don't condone what Ignatius did..

I think girls like playing the victim, and there are too many guys trying to play prince charming, to hopefully get farther with them..

It's funny that you say many girls like to play victim. Because from what I read You attacked her making her retaliate. Both of you don't want to admit it but you both had low blows, but since your the older and more experienced one It weighs heavier on you.

[MrsKellyPierce]

It's funny that you say many girls like to play victim. Because from what I read You attacked her making her retaliate. Both of you don't want to admit it but you both had low blows, but since your the older and more experienced one It weighs heavier on you.

I didn't attack her person under a phony name...

I stated she was being delusional if she thinks the majority of transsexuals do not act how I stated..

I never said she/her/you do this or this is how she acts.

that's attacking her...

then I pointed out the fact she contradicted herself...

I never took jabs at her..

She took jabs at me, my relationship, my husband, my age, my "new face", and more..

I kept it on topic and didn't make it personal.

She is the one that made it personal..

So again it's hypocritical on your part...

She can dish it, but she can't take it?

Again not talking about Ignatius..

I'm just saying don't put her up on a cross...

If you give negativity - you get negativity..

[bruceleefan]

I didn't attack her person under a phony name...

I stated she was being delusional if she thinks the majority of transsexuals do not act how I stated..

I never said she/her/you do this or this is how she acts.

that's attacking her...

then I pointed out the fact she contradicted herself...

I never took jabs at her..

She took jabs at me, my relationship, my husband, my age, my "new face", and more..

I kept it on topic and didn't make it personal.

She is the one that made it personal..

So again it's hypocritical on your part...

She can dish it, but she can't take it?

Again not talking about Ignatius..

I'm just saying don't put her up on a cross...

If you give negativity - you get negativity..

No. You said she was delusional implying she makes up stories about her family. The only thing she said to you was your a washed up porn star. I have not read her say your ugly. She just stated a fact you got your facial feminine surgery. I don't know what's it's called. Nicole was the one who stated your husband was bisexual and Evon went on with that information. But why is that bad? It's the truth isn't it? You did say he was bisexual am I wrong? No one is attacking you, but your above condescending, Like I said this is why Evon retaliated.

[LibertyHarkness]

this thread is better than coronation street

[SammiValentine]

this thread is better than coronation street

your my hayley cropper?? i am your roy??