Men on dating ts women

[tsadriana]

T he real comunity in the UK is Crossdressers/TRANSVESTITES .TRANSEXUALS COMUNITY?is not such a thing yet .

[EvonRose]

I have loyalty to my community, bec there are good ppl out there. My best friend alisha is my sister. We love each other dearly and protect each other like blood sisters.

You cant group everyone based on individuals.


Nicole u hit it right on the head!!!
If we dont want a certain relastionship with chasers, that is our standard to uphold and no one else! Do as you please, but you cannot blame us for all the gay bashing and chaser name calling. Just because we refuse to give any regards to chasers.

[Prospero]

I wonder if I might raise a question here. Serious question.

There is across the Hung Angels site lots of criticism of men who "chase" transexual girls. There is, especially, criticism of men who like to bottom. (And this comes especially from some guys who'd like to present themselves as alpha males.. ie the sort who are proud to say have never ever let a cock near them. They are in a category of their own. ) But is the level of contempt aimed at chasers really fair?

The girls who are here deserve - for the most part - great respect. I certainly accord them that. I think they have great courage.

But do they fully understand what motivates the chasers?. Perhaps the chasers are, in some respects, not entirely disimilar from them? Perhaps they too are born with a difference and some may not learn of this difference until later in their lives? When perhaps they are already committed to complex networks of relationships from which they can't or don't wish to walk away. I would categorise myself within this broad group. It was not until i was established as, in theory, a well settled and red-blooded heterosexual male that i had stirrings of interest in the "otherness' of transexual women.

Perhaps the difference between those "who are transgendered and those males who enjoy the company and sexuality of transgendered women is not as profound as the girls who find themselves women trapped in male bodies beleive?. These are girls/women who have the courage to embark on the challenging and difficult journey to proper womanhood. And yet the admirers or chasers who will never undertake that journey are - nevertheless - attracted to some of the same sexuality that some of the girls are. Don't many of the girls like to be treated as women by men (even if their bodies still bear traces of the gender they are working to abandon) and indeed don't some of the girls still derive sexual satisfaction from utilising their remaining male sexuality? The admirers are drawn - in some way - to the notion of male sexulity but they are not properly gay in that they find the male body in its normal manifestation unnattractive or even repellent.. They admire women. They/we are perhaps bisexuals. I think the hate directed at some admirers/chasers is a little harsh.

Aren't we all - in the end - strung out on a rather more complicated spectrum of sexuality with greater or lesser degrees of difference?

But maybe I'm wrong.

[tsadriana]

And our journey is not fnished yet Prospero ,we still have to deal with the real world with the people who judge so easy without knowing anything about you ,but they think is smart think to do.Another thing is botherd me is that we are comparred with the real women and i dont find it right either ....We are what we are end of story full stop.

[Nicole Dupre]

I have nothing against bi guys, but I sure as hell would NEVER date one. lol

Transsexuals don't have a formal community like CDs and transvestites because we don't confuse our gender with a part-time hobby. It's not an escape or based on a kink. I can't relate to men dressing up like women for shits and giggles. Personally, I was more like Pete Burns I guess. I was just a fem queer, and later a drag queen, until I was F/T TS. But I never could relate to these hetero guys playing dress up. I think they fuck things up for transsexuals actually. Most transsexuals just want to become women, figure out how they're going to make a living, and then to be left the hell alone asap. Maybe some need the attention and validation that porn gives them, but I don't need that either. I don't give a shit. Let someone else have it. I tried porn to see if there was money or stability in it, and there is none. Or, not the kind of money or stability that impresses me. Does anyone think any of the biggest TS porn stars have retired on what they've made? lol Hardly. Everyone keeps sucking dick for coins unless they move on to bigger and better things. That's just the way it is.

[tsadriana]

One thing we forgot to mention in here that is a difference btw ts women and real women .why ...because we care more about our look ,about how to dress to impress the men ,in the other side real women think more ,what to provide for their kids,if the dinner is ready on time for her husband /bf ,if the house is clean normal stuff ,well are real women who dont give a pint about this ,but most of them do.

[tsadriana]

And is not so easy being a mum and wife everyday ,specially if there are 2 or 3 kids involved.

[EvonRose]

Chasers and admirers are very diffrent...

Although a chaser can be an admirer.

I find admirers are ver deep and try to understand every aspect of our situation, they are easy to date and have meaningful relastionships, they give outmost respect to a ts on any condition. Admirers dont necessarily like penis, but the feminine quality of what its attached to, admirers dont necessary have to like pre ops.

Chasers are sexually driven. Those guys send dick pics on your work number, stalk you. Liars, cheaters, sexually confused, etc. They like because you have a dick, chasers dont like post ops, they are the giys who discourage women from getting srs and once they do they leave. They want to only fuck u in private but no dating, no courting, its meaningles perversion.

I do think its fair for us to weed out chasers, because ts like me do not want to get caught up in this.

[Nicole Dupre]

I'm very domestic and have great maternal instincts. To me, being a woman is not just one big kinky, sexy fuck fest. lol It's not that simple. I don't approach it like a man who's just a horny wolf. If I could have had children with a guy, I probably would have by now. But biology didn't put that possibility in the cards for me. But I would never want kids with a GG, and have to fuck one to do it. lol

[tsadriana]

I'm very domestic and have great maternal instincts. To me, being a woman is not just one big kinky, sexy fuck fest. lol It's not that simple. I don't approach it like a man who's just a horny wolf. If I could have had children with a guy, I probably would have by now. But biology didn't put that possibility in the cards for me. But I would never want kids with a GG, and have to fuck one to do it. lol

I think if i want to have a kid has to come from me and u pointed right as i heard several times some TS sayng i fuck a woman if i want to have a kid ,is not so transexual thing isnt it?