Unprotected sex

OKAY I am back boys and girls and I REALLY need to get something off my chest... Ladies and gentlemen fell free to comment and give opinions on what I have to say as I am leaving it open to discussion.
Lately I have been bad mouthed on blogs because I dont do oral without a condom or receive while escorting. Heres the thing that people dont realize, in the porn movies we are all tested and have our status under control(even then there are the ocassional slips as those in the industry know what I mean) in the normal life WHO KNOWS when was the last time that ANY of you have been tested and GOD ONLY KNOWS how many Escorts genitals have been in your mouth/ass! Its sad that many people are so willing to do oral without a condom, cum in mouth/ bareback sex etc (as i get soo many crazy request) and I think to myself is it that worth it to put your HEALTH in jeopardy just so you can say you had so and so cum in your mouth? 9 out of 10 johns are married and with girlfriends and dont you feel bad about going home and kissing your wife or kids with the spunk of a transsexual ESCORT on your breath(plus the occasional STD)? Im sorry but I think of the future and not only 15 minutes of fun because the trip to the clinic to get antibiotic shots and pills is not my type of thing! Plus there are things that you can get that dont have a cure that would be with you for the rest of your life (HIV, Herpes, Hepatitis ) that scares me enough to not even want to touch a penis without a condom because I want to live a long life and see my nieces and nephews through their lives! WHAT is the big draw to do this throwing out all risks of getting a STD in the throat/ass ( as you can get gonrrhea and chlamydia in your throat) and how would you explain that to your wife or GF???!!! Its sad to see soo many people careless of their health as i was created in the NYC lifestyle where many of the girls who I came out around are not here today to tell their stories and even though i dont know these people I am a human being and have a conscience... Can anybody fill me in on thoughts and ladies feel free also I just want to clear the air and get this off my chest. I myself prefer sex without condoms also but the risks outway the desire and Id rather keep it safe then be a regular at the STD clinic. SMH
Please feel free to elaborate as I am really disturbed by this whole topic.
End note is WRAP IT UP PEOPLE if you dont know who you are sleeping with ( or who they are sleeping with) Do you REALLY think its worth it? Cant wait to see the thoughts and have a great day everyone and Happy Holidays
Love
Natassia
xoxoxoxoxxo

You nailed it Agree 100%

I agree wholeheartedly.
Cumming from someone as beautiful and sexy as the famous Natassia, and my first fatal attraction, the temptation of working without a net would certainly be there!
But for me, my big head always get the final vote of the little one.
It may be like showering with a raincoat, but this is comforting to hear and think most intelligent folk would agree

Full agreement here as well.

If one is still barebacking in THIS day and age, that's just ignant.

I'm a cold hard realist so here goes:

The vast majority of guys who see tg escorts want to give and receive bj's bare.

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Originally Posted by nysprod

I'm a cold hard realist so here goes:

The vast majority of guys who see tg escorts want to give and receive bj's bare.

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without caring about the reprocussions? :dead:SMH what is this world coming too>??

The reality is that when AIDS became understood, a big percentage of people still decided to pursue unprotected high-risk sex. Hence why folks in the 80s died in what was carnage.

Perhaps the only change is that in 2014 there is a line of thought that AIDS can be managed. For those who want to spend the rest of their life managing AIDS, bon chance.

Stick with the rubber, Natassia. You'll live longer and the ones who try to insist on bareback are the ones you want to pass on by.

I only see escorts that allow me to give them a BBBJ. I like to receive a BBBJ, but that isn't a deal-breaker.

This is all very true and contains a rational, logical thought process but the problem is that when we become aroused the side of the brain that thinks like this shuts down!!! And the desire for pleasure is so strong that it overrides our common sense. I totally agree with Natassia though and think it is really good that she protects herself as this will also lead to improved protection for her clients and all of us because she is not spreading anything

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Originally Posted by Natassia Dream

without caring about the reprocussions? :dead:SMH what is this world coming too>??

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Yep...let's try a little experiment...run an ad saying "I love giving and receiving BBBJ" and another saying "will only give and receive covered bj."

Then let's see which ad blows up.

See what I mean?

http://newyork.backpage.com/Transsex...53407/54146103

http://tscoco1.tumblr.com/

Yes you're always a risk for random STDs when you put your mouth on someone's genitals but I was always under the impression it's damn hard to get HIV from swallowing cum(unless there are cuts or sores inside your mouth).

About escorts receiving unprotected oral from johns, I don't see the big deal. Unless doing so implies you'll do the same to them.

I don't have a problem with escorts using condoms. Most girls I know who are iffy about em usually you hear about a few years later end up catching something nasty and incurable.


One day they'll have a 20 minute home test kit for STDs that every john and provider can take before providing services.lol

I mainly see gg's; but when I see TS escorts (3 so far, 1 2x) I do give and receive oral w/o condoms. I'm not into giving oral, so I usually only do it for a few minutes. The majority of escorts seem to give oral without a condom with no problems. In so far as I'm aware, the risk of getting HIV through oral is very low.

I generally don't see escorts who don't perform oral w/o condoms, but I may make exceptions in certain circumstances. It's never been an issue with any of the providers I've wanted to see.

Bare back sex seems to be fairly common on the GG side. I have never asked and I will never do so, but informally it appears that many will upgrade for an extra donation. I won't see those providers out of principle.

I don't know very much about the TS side, but it still seems to be on the menu more often than one would think. There are even some reviews that mention it. I notice some higher end TS's offering a 1 K "VIP" session (which the regular is $300) and I wonder what extra services are included. I assume most of the TS's who offer BB already have HIV and perhaps so do some of the customers ask for it.

Well, if you feel that is the case then of course no one can argue with you being concerned about your health. I will say I have do prefer to give and receive oral without a condom. That being said, its not something I do with everyone. I have never had a std. You have to be careful in what activities you do. I think as an escort the decision can be much different since a client is paying for a service and may even expect certain activities at a certain price point. So yes they will complain much more.

You have the right to do what you feel is necessary to protect your health. (Even in the adult industry with everyone tested, still do use your common sense). So don't take it personal, just leave them be, there is no need to explain your choice unless you provided really bad service then that's a different story.

(This whole conversation is pertaining oral sex without condoms, not other activities).

So, at some point during your life you decided it was a good idea to meet total strangers and based on how much they would pay you, you would have sex with them and now you are perplexed by the fact that your clientele may not have the highest hygienic standards or that maybe they aren't the best at making long term life decisions? You're fucking kidding, right?

i wouldn't see a tgirl or gg who would not let me suck her dick or lick her pussy bareback. no dental dams or condoms for me. i need the flesh to flesh touch to really feel incredible. the condom just ruins it.

YES i have gotten sick over and over (a few times actually) from oral sex on gg prostitutes. so what? i took antibiotics and stopped for a while then came back. i was also licking girls' assholes, many of them, over and over. maybe the e. coli screwed me up or maybe oral gonorrhea from their pussy. was it worth it? sadly, YES it was. as a 38 year old man on his way out of his sexual prime (my erections are now soft and it takes a lot more to arouse me), i am going out with a bang and some possible risks. hiv is not a risk from oral if you do not have cuts.

note - i have never gotten an std from a shemale from sucking her dick. of course i never licked her asshole. with gg's, yes i have gotten std's but they see a lot more men. nowadays, i just stick to licking girls' armpits and sucking shemale dick. i still love the smell and taste of pussy and once in a while i do try it taking a risk i won't get oral gonorrhea again.

so as a client, i would not visit a girl or tgirl who would not let me taste her flesh in the raw. i need the nasty taste/smell in my mouth against my tongue. no barriers please.

and no, i never do intercourse. ever. since i hate condoms, that is not a possibility.

i second woody allen: if you're not doing sex dirty, you're not doing it right. nasty and dirty is what i love.

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Originally Posted by Jimmy W

So, at some point during your life you decided it was a good idea to meet total strangers and based on how much they would pay you, you would have sex with them and now you are perplexed by the fact that your clientele may not have the highest hygienic standards or that maybe they aren't the best at making long term life decisions? You're fucking kidding, right?

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FIGURES the people who dont show their face talk the MOST shit! UGH
Shoot me for caring but ive been with people when they have found out their HIV test results came out positive and TRUST ME its not a good look. To each his own!! What I do with MY body is MY choice and if anybody has a problem with it they can KISS MY BLACK ASS!! COVERED OF COURSE LMAO :salad

There are few things I would like more than an hour with Nastassia, however one of my things is having a TS cum in my mouth and it wouldn't be the same if that wasn't possible.

The risks of catching something serious are pretty low, and like most here I would never consider barebacking for anal.

Protected oral sex is a little over the top IMO especially when the services are being compensated. The real question though is are you being up front with covered oral before the clients meet up with you? I definitely understand why escorts would want to use a condom for everything believe me. But if I'm donating I'm already taking a bigger risk just by getting into a car and driving..I'm not sure I'd do that for covered oral.

Nastassia CLAP CLAP sister. :rock2

"Protected oral sex is a little over the top IMO especially when the services are being compensated."

NO! What? In an escorting context it's EVEN more important, simple durrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrr-level reasoning.

Seems I'm usually in the minority. :tongue:
I vote CBJ for giving and receiving.

I still don't see why the need for the long paragraph about it. If you don't do it oral without a condom and there is no need to write such lengthy statement explaining your position. You have been escorting for a good while, I will assume so why now complain about it now. Its not like you would be the only person in that position.

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Originally Posted by lifeisfiction

I still don't see why the need for the long paragraph about it. If you don't do it oral without a condom and there is no need to write such lengthy statement explaining your position. You have been escorting for a good while, I will assume so why now complain about it now. Its not like you would be the only person in that position.

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OK well this is a GENERAL FORUM where people come and DISCUSS what they want to talk about.. A sentence or a paragraph... I see i touched a nerve with the topic maybe because im shedding light on a dark situation. Like I said before if you dont like what I have to say then DONT read it would i be better if a posted a pic of my COCK? Im sure that wouldnt have so much negative responses SMH. Just searching for clarity and asked peoples opinion... If theres a stick up your ass then take it out or spin! This is a free world and EVERYONE is entitled to an opinion xoxoxox:dancing:

Nope, didn't touch a nerve or anything. I just figure a top level escort like yourself who has been in the business (I am assuming for years) would let something like that bother her. Like I said its what you want to do, but to me I didn't make sense why that was the case for the rant.

I was wondering if someone was complaining or anything.

It's perfectly fair for you to set rules on how you provide your services, especially since they involve your own personal safety and health...and it seems you are upfront about it , so in that sense, no one can be upset then that they didn't know this once they pay their fee.

...but you will occasionally get bad feedback as you mentioned in your OP.
Why?

I think because it's like this-
You are one of the hottest girls in the business. I'm not blowing smoke up your ass - you have a mirror...and you probably work hard on keeping it hot.
But that's part of the problem - a guy will watch your porn and fantasize about being with you...and then , as luck would have it, you tour through the fan's town and he has an opportunity to be with you...but there's a problem - his particular thing may include sucking you bareback...or you sucking him BB...whatever, and it's like someone mentioned - what makes someone tick sexually can't always be altered. Common sense can be there - but it doesn't work to make someone's dick hard.
So then you have a situation where someone really wants to be with you but it wouldn't work because sexually you are not compatible because you can't do what they need you to do (like so many marriages I guess...lol)...so then resentment sets in...and then maybe, the comments you mentioned.
Don't know if that explains it...figured I'd take a shot.

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Originally Posted by Natassia Dream

....would i be better if a posted a pic of my COCK? Im sure that wouldnt have so much negative responses SMH.

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...why can't we do both? - post your comments...and as many naked pics of yourself as you like
...in the interest of fairness...or justice...or whatever...
just be naked...
naked is good. :)

Personally, i don't see the point in covered oral. If that's the only option, I'll go without.
Saying that, people are free to set their own limits, make there own choices. And if someone else has a problem with that, then they can fuck off!
IMO. :shrug

Forward to more important things, i 2nd Brother Fredricks motion for more nudity! :peanutbutter

How about you also stop having random men insert their penis's up your arse in exchange for money. Naturally of course these men could be diseased, and it would only take one tear in that condom to expose you.

Seems to me you've picked the wrong thing to be all moralistic about. It's your body, do as you wish, but less of the preaching hey love ;-)

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Originally Posted by JordanNite

How about you also stop having random men insert their penis's up your arse in exchange for money. Naturally of course these men could be diseased, and it would only take one tear in that condom to expose you.

Seems to me you've picked the wrong thing to be all moralistic about. It's your body, do as you wish, but less of the preaching hey love ;-)

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The libertarian in me says if that she wants to do, and they want to do (and good God why wouldn't they?!) its the risk they both take. And I don't see any preening or soap box standing on Natassia's part. (Though quite a few must be getting dizzy from the thin air as their noses are raised so high.)

It's an interesting top, from someone who it affects, and is genuinely curious about men who partake and even from those who do not. If she can't talk about this without getting shit form people on a forum on the internet that deals with escorting in all forms, then I'm guessing there's no where.

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Originally Posted by Natassia Dream

Like I said before if you dont like what I have to say then DONT read it would i be better if a posted a pic of my COCK? Im sure that wouldnt have so much negative responses SMH.

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(Lowers head and bites fist for a minute.)

Ummm, well, now this could just be me, but like, I mean, if you don't mind and you have time, like, I definitely wouldn't object. Guessing there are many others around these parts who wouldn't object either. :tongue:

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Originally Posted by Natassia Dream

OKAY I am back boys and girls and I REALLY need to get something off my chest... Ladies and gentlemen fell free to comment and give opinions on what I have to say as I am leaving it open to discussion.
Lately I have been bad mouthed on blogs because I dont do oral without a condom or receive while escorting. Heres the thing that people dont realize, in the porn movies we are all tested and have our status under control(even then there are the ocassional slips as those in the industry know what I mean) in the normal life WHO KNOWS when was the last time that ANY of you have been tested and GOD ONLY KNOWS how many Escorts genitals have been in your mouth/ass! Its sad that many people are so willing to do oral without a condom, cum in mouth/ bareback sex etc (as i get soo many crazy request) and I think to myself is it that worth it to put your HEALTH in jeopardy just so you can say you had so and so cum in your mouth? 9 out of 10 johns are married and with girlfriends and dont you feel bad about going home and kissing your wife or kids with the spunk of a transsexual ESCORT on your breath(plus the occasional STD)? Im sorry but I think of the future and not only 15 minutes of fun because the trip to the clinic to get antibiotic shots and pills is not my type of thing! Plus there are things that you can get that dont have a cure that would be with you for the rest of your life (HIV, Herpes, Hepatitis ) that scares me enough to not even want to touch a penis without a condom because I want to live a long life and see my nieces and nephews through their lives! WHAT is the big draw to do this throwing out all risks of getting a STD in the throat/ass ( as you can get gonrrhea and chlamydia in your throat) and how would you explain that to your wife or GF???!!! Its sad to see soo many people careless of their health as i was created in the NYC lifestyle where many of the girls who I came out around are not here today to tell their stories and even though i dont know these people I am a human being and have a conscience... Can anybody fill me in on thoughts and ladies feel free also I just want to clear the air and get this off my chest. I myself prefer sex without condoms also but the risks outway the desire and Id rather keep it safe then be a regular at the STD clinic. SMH
Please feel free to elaborate as I am really disturbed by this whole topic.
End note is WRAP IT UP PEOPLE if you dont know who you are sleeping with ( or who they are sleeping with) Do you REALLY think its worth it? Cant wait to see the thoughts and have a great day everyone and Happy Holidays
Love
Natassia
xoxoxoxoxxo

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Hi Natassia,

You're definitely on the top in my book! :dancing:

The last three times I performed unprotected oral sex on TS girls was in 2003. Shortly afterwards, I had an attack of karma wondering to myself "what if any or all of these three TS ladies I performed unprotected oral sex on were HIV positive?" It wasn't until 2006 when I had the opportunity to perform oral sex on another TS girl that I decided to bring a condom and have her slip it on. Then it was in 2007 when I had the courage to have an HIV test and the test came back negative.

That's when I decided from now on, all oral sex I perform on TS girls will include a condom. And I have been doing it that way since. This is because I don't want to have to worry about it for the following 3-6 months after the encounter and have to take an HIV test to see whether or not I've been infected.

I agree with you. The 15 minutes of forbidden pleasure is not worth doing something that could negatively impact your life forever.

Of course, the federal Centers for Disease Control and HIV groups agree that the risks of getting infected through oral sex is much lower if your partner doesn't cum in your mouth and much lower than vaginal or anal sex, but low risk isn't the same as no risk.

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Originally Posted by Natassia Dream

OKAY I am back boys and girls and I REALLY need to get something off my chest... Ladies and gentlemen fell free to comment and give opinions on what I have to say as I am leaving it open to discussion.
Lately I have been bad mouthed on blogs because I dont do oral without a condom or receive while escorting. Heres the thing that people dont realize, in the porn movies we are all tested and have our status under control(even then there are the ocassional slips as those in the industry know what I mean) in the normal life WHO KNOWS when was the last time that ANY of you have been tested and GOD ONLY KNOWS how many Escorts genitals have been in your mouth/ass! Its sad that many people are so willing to do oral without a condom, cum in mouth/ bareback sex etc (as i get soo many crazy request) and I think to myself is it that worth it to put your HEALTH in jeopardy just so you can say you had so and so cum in your mouth? 9 out of 10 johns are married and with girlfriends and dont you feel bad about going home and kissing your wife or kids with the spunk of a transsexual ESCORT on your breath(plus the occasional STD)? Im sorry but I think of the future and not only 15 minutes of fun because the trip to the clinic to get antibiotic shots and pills is not my type of thing! Plus there are things that you can get that dont have a cure that would be with you for the rest of your life (HIV, Herpes, Hepatitis ) that scares me enough to not even want to touch a penis without a condom because I want to live a long life and see my nieces and nephews through their lives! WHAT is the big draw to do this throwing out all risks of getting a STD in the throat/ass ( as you can get gonrrhea and chlamydia in your throat) and how would you explain that to your wife or GF???!!! Its sad to see soo many people careless of their health as i was created in the NYC lifestyle where many of the girls who I came out around are not here today to tell their stories and even though i dont know these people I am a human being and have a conscience... Can anybody fill me in on thoughts and ladies feel free also I just want to clear the air and get this off my chest. I myself prefer sex without condoms also but the risks outway the desire and Id rather keep it safe then be a regular at the STD clinic. SMH
Please feel free to elaborate as I am really disturbed by this whole topic.
End note is WRAP IT UP PEOPLE if you dont know who you are sleeping with ( or who they are sleeping with) Do you REALLY think its worth it? Cant wait to see the thoughts and have a great day everyone and Happy Holidays
Love
Natassia
xoxoxoxoxxo

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Common sense...:) and you look really cute...

it's something I've thought about, but then I'd have unprotected sex with a TS escort ONLY if we both did FULL STD tests and had a certificate saying as such.......other than that...the johnny is my best friend.lol.

Ima make it simplistic, FUCK EVERYONE WHO DOESN'T AGREE TO PROTECT YOURSELF!
You don't owe them an explanation, if they want to see someone do oral without a condom why don't they go suck a dick without one then, instead of putting you at risk for their 3 second feel good.

That's like being a cop and not wear a bullet proof vest, that's like putting a baby in the car without a car seat.

Protect you cause if some thing was to go wrong they can't help you, nor will they help you. They will move on while you're sick, fuck them.

Have a great day NATTY!

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Originally Posted by Natassia Dream

OKAY I am back boys and girls and I REALLY need to get something off my chest... Ladies and gentlemen fell free to comment and give opinions on what I have to say as I am leaving it open to discussion.
Lately I have been bad mouthed on blogs because I dont do oral without a condom or receive while escorting. Heres the thing that people dont realize, in the porn movies we are all tested and have our status under control(even then there are the ocassional slips as those in the industry know what I mean) in the normal life WHO KNOWS when was the last time that ANY of you have been tested and GOD ONLY KNOWS how many Escorts genitals have been in your mouth/ass! Its sad that many people are so willing to do oral without a condom, cum in mouth/ bareback sex etc (as i get soo many crazy request) and I think to myself is it that worth it to put your HEALTH in jeopardy just so you can say you had so and so cum in your mouth? 9 out of 10 johns are married and with girlfriends and dont you feel bad about going home and kissing your wife or kids with the spunk of a transsexual ESCORT on your breath(plus the occasional STD)? Im sorry but I think of the future and not only 15 minutes of fun because the trip to the clinic to get antibiotic shots and pills is not my type of thing! Plus there are things that you can get that dont have a cure that would be with you for the rest of your life (HIV, Herpes, Hepatitis ) that scares me enough to not even want to touch a penis without a condom because I want to live a long life and see my nieces and nephews through their lives! WHAT is the big draw to do this throwing out all risks of getting a STD in the throat/ass ( as you can get gonrrhea and chlamydia in your throat) and how would you explain that to your wife or GF???!!! Its sad to see soo many people careless of their health as i was created in the NYC lifestyle where many of the girls who I came out around are not here today to tell their stories and even though i dont know these people I am a human being and have a conscience... Can anybody fill me in on thoughts and ladies feel free also I just want to clear the air and get this off my chest. I myself prefer sex without condoms also but the risks outway the desire and Id rather keep it safe then be a regular at the STD clinic. SMH
Please feel free to elaborate as I am really disturbed by this whole topic.
End note is WRAP IT UP PEOPLE if you dont know who you are sleeping with ( or who they are sleeping with) Do you REALLY think its worth it? Cant wait to see the thoughts and have a great day everyone and Happy Holidays
Love
Natassia
xoxoxoxoxxo

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Originally Posted by Natassia Dream

9 out of 10 johns are married and with girlfriends

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Is this really true? :confused:

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Originally Posted by CrystalKing

Is this really true? :confused:

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From my own experience I would say thats about right. They are just guys who want to do something a bit taboo and outside the box that is their life and to fulfill a fantasy. I dont see it as cheating though, its not like we sipping champagne and talking and planning about leaving their partner etc its just an sexual itch that needs to be scratched from time to time. Once its scratched and they leave my house they go back to their normal lifes.

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Originally Posted by RobynBlakeTS

From my own experience I would say thats about right. They are just guys who want to do something a bit taboo and outside the box that is their life and to fulfill a fantasy. I dont see it as cheating though, its not like we sipping champagne and talking and planning about leaving their partner etc its just an sexual itch that needs to be scratched from time to time. Once its scratched and they leave my house they go back to their normal lifes.

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Physical cheating is still cheating, some women may be able to forgive it but not if it's a reacquiring thing
I would only be seeing escorts if i'm single or in open relationship.

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Originally Posted by Kioji

Physical cheating is still cheating, some women may be able to forgive it but not if it's a reacquiring thing
I would only be seeing escorts if i'm single or in open relationship.

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It is but then the dynamics of morality fall squarely on the punter and not the escort.

Morality (????) applies to both. One decides to be a prostitute. The other decides to visit a prostitute.

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Originally Posted by iagodelgado

Morality (????) applies to both. One decides to be a prostitute. The other decides to visit a prostitute.

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Well morality isn't divine its human so its not set in stone its all an matter of opinion. My morality says there is no morality if one chooses to be an whore. My point was the question of morality can only fall to those who see the whore but only based on their own morality in which case they have to look at themselves.

christianxxx agrees

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Originally Posted by hairyguy

i wouldn't see a tgirl or gg who would not let me suck her dick or lick her pussy bareback. no dental dams or condoms for me. i need the flesh to flesh touch to really feel incredible. the condom just ruins it.

YES i have gotten sick over and over (a few times actually) from oral sex on gg prostitutes. so what? i took antibiotics and stopped for a while then came back. i was also licking girls' assholes, many of them, over and over. maybe the e. coli screwed me up or maybe oral gonorrhea from their pussy. was it worth it? sadly, YES it was. as a 38 year old man on his way out of his sexual prime (my erections are now soft and it takes a lot more to arouse me), i am going out with a bang and some possible risks. hiv is not a risk from oral if you do not have cuts.

note - i have never gotten an std from a shemale from sucking her dick. of course i never licked her asshole. with gg's, yes i have gotten std's but they see a lot more men. nowadays, i just stick to licking girls' armpits and sucking shemale dick. i still love the smell and taste of pussy and once in a while i do try it taking a risk i won't get oral gonorrhea again.

so as a client, i would not visit a girl or tgirl who would not let me taste her flesh in the raw. i need the nasty taste/smell in my mouth against my tongue. no barriers please.

and no, i never do intercourse. ever. since i hate condoms, that is not a possibility.

i second woody allen: if you're not doing sex dirty, you're not doing it right. nasty and dirty is what i love.

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so you are going to get infected