Seems I'm usually in the minority. :tongue:
I vote CBJ for giving and receiving.
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Seems I'm usually in the minority. :tongue:
I vote CBJ for giving and receiving.
I still don't see why the need for the long paragraph about it. If you don't do it oral without a condom and there is no need to write such lengthy statement explaining your position. You have been escorting for a good while, I will assume so why now complain about it now. Its not like you would be the only person in that position.
OK well this is a GENERAL FORUM where people come and DISCUSS what they want to talk about.. A sentence or a paragraph... I see i touched a nerve with the topic maybe because im shedding light on a dark situation. Like I said before if you dont like what I have to say then DONT read it would i be better if a posted a pic of my COCK? Im sure that wouldnt have so much negative responses SMH. Just searching for clarity and asked peoples opinion... If theres a stick up your ass then take it out or spin! This is a free world and EVERYONE is entitled to an opinion xoxoxox:dancing:Quote:
Originally Posted by lifeisfiction
Nope, didn't touch a nerve or anything. I just figure a top level escort like yourself who has been in the business (I am assuming for years) would let something like that bother her. Like I said its what you want to do, but to me I didn't make sense why that was the case for the rant.
I was wondering if someone was complaining or anything.
It's perfectly fair for you to set rules on how you provide your services, especially since they involve your own personal safety and health...and it seems you are upfront about it , so in that sense, no one can be upset then that they didn't know this once they pay their fee.
...but you will occasionally get bad feedback as you mentioned in your OP.
Why?
I think because it's like this-
You are one of the hottest girls in the business. I'm not blowing smoke up your ass - you have a mirror...and you probably work hard on keeping it hot.
But that's part of the problem - a guy will watch your porn and fantasize about being with you...and then , as luck would have it, you tour through the fan's town and he has an opportunity to be with you...but there's a problem - his particular thing may include sucking you bareback...or you sucking him BB...whatever, and it's like someone mentioned - what makes someone tick sexually can't always be altered. Common sense can be there - but it doesn't work to make someone's dick hard.
So then you have a situation where someone really wants to be with you but it wouldn't work because sexually you are not compatible because you can't do what they need you to do (like so many marriages I guess...lol)...so then resentment sets in...and then maybe, the comments you mentioned.
Don't know if that explains it...figured I'd take a shot.
...why can't we do both? - post your comments...and as many naked pics of yourself as you likeQuote:
Originally Posted by Natassia Dream
...in the interest of fairness...or justice...or whatever...
just be naked...
naked is good. :)
Personally, i don't see the point in covered oral. If that's the only option, I'll go without.
Saying that, people are free to set their own limits, make there own choices. And if someone else has a problem with that, then they can fuck off!
IMO. :shrug
Forward to more important things, i 2nd Brother Fredricks motion for more nudity! :peanutbutter
How about you also stop having random men insert their penis's up your arse in exchange for money. Naturally of course these men could be diseased, and it would only take one tear in that condom to expose you.
Seems to me you've picked the wrong thing to be all moralistic about. It's your body, do as you wish, but less of the preaching hey love ;-)
The libertarian in me says if that she wants to do, and they want to do (and good God why wouldn't they?!) its the risk they both take. And I don't see any preening or soap box standing on Natassia's part. (Though quite a few must be getting dizzy from the thin air as their noses are raised so high.)Quote:
Originally Posted by JordanNite
It's an interesting top, from someone who it affects, and is genuinely curious about men who partake and even from those who do not. If she can't talk about this without getting shit form people on a forum on the internet that deals with escorting in all forms, then I'm guessing there's no where.
(Lowers head and bites fist for a minute.)Quote:
Originally Posted by Natassia Dream
Ummm, well, now this could just be me, but like, I mean, if you don't mind and you have time, like, I definitely wouldn't object. Guessing there are many others around these parts who wouldn't object either. :tongue:
Hi Natassia,Quote:
Originally Posted by Natassia Dream
You're definitely on the top in my book! :dancing:
The last three times I performed unprotected oral sex on TS girls was in 2003. Shortly afterwards, I had an attack of karma wondering to myself "what if any or all of these three TS ladies I performed unprotected oral sex on were HIV positive?" It wasn't until 2006 when I had the opportunity to perform oral sex on another TS girl that I decided to bring a condom and have her slip it on. Then it was in 2007 when I had the courage to have an HIV test and the test came back negative.
That's when I decided from now on, all oral sex I perform on TS girls will include a condom. And I have been doing it that way since. This is because I don't want to have to worry about it for the following 3-6 months after the encounter and have to take an HIV test to see whether or not I've been infected.
I agree with you. The 15 minutes of forbidden pleasure is not worth doing something that could negatively impact your life forever.
Of course, the federal Centers for Disease Control and HIV groups agree that the risks of getting infected through oral sex is much lower if your partner doesn't cum in your mouth and much lower than vaginal or anal sex, but low risk isn't the same as no risk.