if she isnt a ho and they aint looking between her legsQuote:
Originally Posted by FreddieGomez
they have no need to
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if she isnt a ho and they aint looking between her legsQuote:
Originally Posted by FreddieGomez
they have no need to
Really because if you godfather was gay and he practically raised you one would think you'd be a little more tolerant and open minded about all this stuff,seriosuly if you grandfather was a "fem faggoty type dude" would you be ashamed of him to be around your "peeps" just saying you keep talking about trannies being ultra passable but in the end if she is a nice girl it shouldn't matter because its your life not your "peeps".Quote:
Originally Posted by FreddieGomez
GODFATHER. And i probably would have been who knows....and the ultra passable is my preference. I don't have anything against those who aren't, it's just not my thing.Quote:
Originally Posted by Legend
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Originally Posted by tsparisangelline
This is my feeling. Let them try to guess. Most times they try to out you by saying something and waiting to see how you react. If you just laugh, and keep it moving, nothing will come of it.
People will always try to measure you. Stand tall, and most people will stroll on. Like I said before, I haven't been with a TS, but I have chilled out in public with a few. Hell, a couple girls from here have the digits, and we text and chop it up all the time. It's no problem if you just go on about your bizness. People don't need to know your private life unless they are in your circle.
you like what you likeQuote:
Originally Posted by FreddieGomez
why keep trying to explain it?
ignore the fags who like men in wigs and move on.
Even if someone does guess, unless they have a large adams apple, a deep voice, or someone saw there dick how can they be for sure?Quote:
Originally Posted by goku
Denial is a very enjoyable thing
Because whether transsexual are escorts or not...we all have dealt with the same or similar issues. No one said it wasn't difficult but nothing in life is. Nothing in life comes without sacrifice and that includes having the strength to love who you love regardless.Quote:
Originally Posted by giovanni_hotel
Why can't I stand up for escorts? I have to be one in order to feel their plight. Its like asking white person why are they at a civil rights march
Like i told you on BGC
Your son is young enough to be impressionable. Why cant you be the one impressing upon him? And fuck the world other than him. Youre not wearing a different shirt once you admit it to someone. We all have our on unique tastes in different things: food, clothes, women, music etc. If ANY difference makes a person not like you after they find out means they really werent that into you in the first place. LOYAL people accept differences, w/e they be, and know that who u fuck, what you eat, where u sleep, how u live your life, are your choice and respect that same way u respect that in them.
thats a cop out but not to badQuote:
Originally Posted by goku
Bad analogy, but whateva.Quote:
Originally Posted by www.tglovers.com
I understand the solidarity among ALL transgendered females, but IMO you speak a little too freely about something that goes beyond having a sometimes difficult time dating men as a TG.
Most TGs who escort, from what I've seen and read, have minimum respect for most men, and it erodes by the hour.
It gets to the point that many tgirls resent men viewing them sexually at all.
MOST people are not into the TS/TG
because of the religious part of your personality or and the anti-gay sentiment and or upbringing and many times its the stigma that goes with it like,
TS/TG carry disease such as AIDS,syphilis,warts ,herpes and antibiotic resistance STD'S
I think analogy...made perfect sense, but whateva.... You don't know me, so how you can develop an opinion of me is beyond me. As a transsexual several of my friends work as escort so I fell personally connected to it. Besides when most men encounter me....they automatically assume I'm an escort based on the fact that I am transgendered.Quote:
Originally Posted by giovanni_hotel
I have respect for anyone who respects me so I judge men on an individual basis and not as a collective. However when speaking I sometimes make generalizations to make a point.
As far as being a sex object goes...that's not my issue. I like for man to sex me as sexually desired but I also want him to see me as intelligent, driven, loyal, passionate and so many other variables that contribute to my overall make-up.
I really don't get that part tgl, about men assuming you're an escort. Not unlike some members on this board seeing a picture of a TG, immediately start asking for contact info and her rates. I don't frequent non TG pornstar boards, but from what I can recall, I've very rarely if ever seen someone ask a pornstar if she escorts too, unless that's already known. Pretty fucking low, but hey.
TGL isn't in the adult industry.
I wasn't saying that either. I was whining about how some people assume you're an escort just because you're a TG, like some people on this board for instance.
A lot of them assume because I dress sexy and I'm transsexual that I have to be a working girl. I used to be offended but now...I say who cares. Its like sexy and intelligent can't coexist. In order to be seen as intellectual, I have to dress like a librarian.Quote:
Originally Posted by circ
But I don't want to turn this into a thread about me. So lets stick to the topic at hand.
I've seen a little how you dress on those youtube vids, TGL, and you throw off that serious sexy vibe like daggers!!
There is a middle ground between dressing like a prude and like you're going to the club.
But hey I don't mind!lol
(to bump into the middle of a conversation) I'd say it is kind of stupid for people to even have this kind of mindframe (as to sexuality being separated from intellectualness - it is not).. Sexuality, and geniousness are both the same, they go hand in hand, and sexual energy is also intellectual energy - if it is rightly "aimed".Quote:
Originally Posted by www.tglovers.com
Good health, is allways good health... being in shape is being in shape, and that will manifest in multitudes of ways..
I'm basically just trying to tell your freind that he shouldn't be ashamed for liking someone who is transgender or feel the need to care what people think.I know that its his preference for super,ultra passable transsexuals but even if he finds that super, ultra passable transsexual that isn't going to change the fact that the person is transgender so it just makes sense to be more understanding and tolerant.Quote:
Originally Posted by tsparisangelline
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The Middle Ground is relative. I don't always dress sexy. There are some videos when I am not as sexy. I just don't see why being sexy is a bad thing?Quote:
Originally Posted by giovanni_hotel
No disrespect but as I said earlier...I don't want to turn this post into a post about me. I think the topic is a very interesting one, so I want to return the focus back to the subject at hand.
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Originally Posted by amberskyi
Hun, you need to remember that most of these guys are young and still learning to be comfortable with themselves. It takes a degree of courage and self-surety to be able to go out with a TS and say fuck it if anyone realizes.
I know that doesn't make you feel any better when some guy wants to only know you indoors, but just saying to give it some time. Some (not all) of them will come around.
but idk if i wanna be in a relationship wit a trannie only because ima get the urge for some pussy from time to time and a trannie can't provide that. for the most part i'm into trannies for the ass and the female form and all, not really into the dick so i'd probably get alone better wit a trannie who's gone all the way wit the surgery thing. but i guess after i'm done wantin kids because a nigga still want at least one more. idk...[/QUOTE]
I feel your conflict, I too am conflicted and semi-new to lusting after TS ladies and still being with GG's......It is difficult, I attempt to meet TS ladies then flake out on the actual meeting not wanting to through with it trying to control my urge.......Why not find a GG that loves anal sex, they are out there
I love this kind of stuff on the Onion. Always hilarious.
IDK how some of you ended up realizing you were into trannies, but missed the 'clit' part.
Pasta, 'trying to control my urge'....LOL!!
Some of you talk like one day you were bitten by a tranny vampire and now you go out at night looking for dicks to bite off!!
Yall are gonna give yourselves mental complexes.
Dude registered this month......
I can't even control my urges for lusting after fine ass broads on a daily basis, where I'm from they're everywhere! I mean I only see TG's online and on rare occasion when I'm out. I guess the urge part comes from me to stop looking at porn in general and that leads to me wanting to meet a TG. I'm not going to stop looking at porn, but I can control my time spent looking at it. I have been with about 4 TG ladies and it was good the sex part, and partial conversation.....That's been over two years ago since last experience. My conflict comes in when I'm still attracted to GG's, but trying to deal with a lot of their emotional bullshit.....It seems like most TG's understand men more and are more laid back, and are still feminine, I like that. If I could find that in a GG it would be a lot easier.
LOL @ tranny vampire , btw they hate being called t.v's for short.Quote:
Originally Posted by giovanni_hotel
The correct nomenclature is udtg (undead transgender) ... but "Tranpire" is acceptable.
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Originally Posted by rockabilly
You should do stand up!
Most ALL guys who are into trannies, like genetic chicks. (this is NOT a gay mans hobby)Quote:
Originally Posted by FreddieGomez
A tranny is a chick with a dick :) Basically the same shit as a genetic girl, except one woman has 3 holes and the other woman has 2 holes and a stick. :)
Every one is living a lie in one manner or another. It is called keeping things in the closet. Gay men have married genetic women just for appearances sake and the rest of their life they cheat on their wife with men.
10% of priests have sex with boys and men, you think that is living the truth? The bible says that homosexuality is a sin to be repented of, not adjusted to. (I wonder how Jesus types and pastors feel about the concept of a boy being born a boy and switching genders later in life < a TS >. Is that some thing that should have been repented of too? )
Keep your love of trannies in the closet like every one else does. :) I express my appreciation of trannies to most every one who I know beyond superficially. It's a part of who I am and sharing of my self, similar to having an interest in kayaking and bike riding. I like chicks with dicks too. :)
Surely if you only look at pics and videos of TS's, it'll save you a fortune in hooking up with escorts. :)
Give up one vice and you'll pick up another. Loving trannies is a better habit than smoking cigs IMO. :)Quote:
Originally Posted by FreddieGomez
Amen and amen.Quote:
Originally Posted by Schimmel
Keep it in the closet!Quote:
Originally Posted by FreddieGomez
Did your Mom and Dad tell you about their sex life and sexual interests? No!
Guide your son through the necessities of life. Teach him how to thrive and survive.
Your interest in trannies is not some thing that he needs to know about.
Drama queen
We've to address the issues of transphobia and homophobia.
It'll take time.
It comes through: education, education & education -- :) , tolerance, being rational -- ha!ha!
Ahhh... maybe one day transphobia and homophobia will disappear.
well freddie, if you're that uncertain, get out now, cause once you start going out to parties or ts bars, you'll be into this scene for life.
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Originally Posted by SunshyneMonroe
No it's not. Men will keep pushing you to the verge of fighting. These days with assault charges and losing a job, it's best to just keep moving. If you engage a group of dudes catcalling your girl about her gender, nothing good will come of it.
the fact that i been labeled as a trans-admirer makes me wanna get out now!
about to join my local church
LOL!! What's the big deal???Quote:
Originally Posted by FreddieGomez
I'm a Beyonce-, Miss Koi-, and Bria Myles-admirer too.
Any dude up on HA is 'admiring' the view the ladies provide!!:geek:
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Originally Posted by giovanni_hotel
It's equivalent to bein labeled a faggot
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Originally Posted by FreddieGomez
Lol, I'm a member of a church already, I still lust, we are not perfect people.
Maybe you should try the Monastery
You might find worse people in church than you will on this forum. I don't trust anyone that tells me to believe in something that can't be proven and expects me to pay money to listen to their speculation.
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Originally Posted by FreddieGomez
That's the problem with labels, especially when they are inaccurate, they provide miscommunication.Quote:
Originally Posted by FreddieGomez
It is unfair to a gay man to call a tranny chaser gay. (or a faggot)
Gay men are sexually attracted to MEN, not to women who have a penis.
The label Bisexual means some one is attracted to both men and women. That label does not apply to tranny chasers either.
IMO tranny chaser are 100% straight men who enjoy a little bit of kinkiness in their sexual escapades.
Since much of society is not liberal or open minded, they 100% go by the medical basis that a TS was born a boy and has a penis, therefore no matter how transitioned the TS is (implants and totally passable), cause she has a penis, she is ALWAYS gonna be a man and any one who hooks up with her is 100% gay or bisexual at the very least. THAT is most of societies perception.
Avoid the whole gig via keeping your interest in trannies a secret. Keep it in the closet! :)
lol @escapades