How many guys here would actually DATE a TS?

[trish]

FWB does have a prerequisite commitment: that of being friends. The 'benefits' are sexual favors; not money, not material gain. In a FWB relationship it is universally understood that the 'benefits' are free of romantic entanglement and material compensation...but you do need to be a friend.

Why would a girl who could easily acquire a lover or just sell her body enter a FWB relationship? Perhaps because she's not ready to commit to a romantic relationship and she either doesn't want to sell her body for sex, or she's tired of one-night stands, or perhaps to her sex with clients is just acting. Perhaps FWB promises just the right amount of intimacy, safety and comfort.

[nysprod]

Yeah, prod, you're way off. FWB means sex with no strings attached - no relationship obligations. I'm pretty sure that fucking for trade or financial/material benefits is, and always was, known as whoring.

I'm pretty sure there are lots of girls who don't want to see themselves as escorts but trade sex for money and call it fwb as a way of denying reality.

[Laphroaig]

I'm pretty sure there are lots of girls who don't want to see themselves as escorts but trade sex for money and call it fwb as a way of denying reality.

No, they would call it having a "Sugar Daddy" or "Rinsing". Mind you, often those type of arrangements don't even involve sex...

[trish]

I'm pretty sure there are lots of girls who don't want to see themselves as escorts but trade sex for money and call it fwb as a way of denying reality. and they would be misusing the term as you do in posts #486 and #489. By definition FWB's are free of romantic and material entanglements. The conclusion you really seem to be reaching for is that true FWB's are rare or non-existent. Your argument for that conclusion is that the girl doesn't need sex (she can get plenty) and so her benefit gotta be money rather than sex. I gave a counterargument above which you haven't addressed.

I won't pretend to know just how many FWB relationships there are in proportion to other sorts of arrangements. You may be correct in assuming they're infrequent. I suspect they're unstable because one party may want the relationship to evolve romantically or one party will find a romantic partner and end the FWB. In any case, what Holzz is referring to in his posts an honest FWB relationship as it's universally understood by most people, except perhaps you.

[conan007]

I'd absolutely love to date a TS.

[runningdownthatdream]

FWB does have a prerequisite commitment: that of being friends. The 'benefits' are sexual favors; not money, not material gain. In a FWB relationship it is universally understood that the 'benefits' are free of romantic entanglement and material compensation...but you do need to be a friend.

Why would a girl who could easily acquire a lover or just sell her body enter a FWB relationship? Perhaps because she's not ready to commit to a romantic relationship and she either doesn't want to sell her body for sex, or she's tired of one-night stands, or perhaps to her sex with clients is just acting. Perhaps FWB promises just the right amount of intimacy, safety and comfort.

sounds like you're speaking from uh...experience, Trish?

[SanDiegoPervySage]

Didn't know there people out there who made FWB sound more complicated than it actually was.

[trish]

sounds like you're speaking from uh...experience, Trish?Yeah, been there; done that. Seen a few friends give it a whirl; have a few friends who are making it work. It requires a certain amount of openness, trust and honesty: especially if one or both parties are seeking romantic satisfaction, just not with each other.

[runningdownthatdream]

Yeah, been there; done that. Seen a few friends give it a whirl; have a few friends who are making it work. It requires a certain amount of openness, trust and honesty: especially if one or both parties are seeking romantic satisfaction, just not with each other.

It's a difficult relationship to sustain over time. I think it requires the rationalization of emotions which is somewhat of an oxymoron. In effect, to have a successful FWB relationship, one may need to subvert the very qualities that are needed in a romantic relationship. If the physical urges are too strong to ignore, it's much less complicated to just see an escort.

[kilgorerobert81]

I would in s heartbeat if feelings are there go with them

[CoolAwesomeBXDude]

i was totally against it a few years ago but now as time progressed i'm more open to dating one

[unstoppable69]

Don't get your hopes up boys im not in the market 4 a man :P
BUT I AM curious to see who here would consider being in a serious long term committed relationship with a TS! Post your pictures... maybe some girls on here ARE looking for someone. And fot those of you who would NOT date a TS, post your reasons!

When you start by saying 'don't get your hopes up boys' that just puts me off immediately so up your self or what.

[rodinuk]

That was 8 years ago and she's unlikely to read that anyway since she hasn't been on here for the best part of 18 months

[BBc34]

Don't get your hopes up boys im not in the market 4 a man :P
BUT I AM curious to see who here would consider being in a serious long term committed relationship with a TS! Post your pictures... maybe some girls on here ARE looking for someone. And fot those of you who would NOT date a TS, post your reasons!

I ll never date a tgirl because my friends and my familly they gonna see me as a gay man , and yes i care about what people think and say :)

[must93]

Would love to date a passable TS.

[Vladimir Putin]

If I like her and she likes me, absolutely. I would also have no qualms dating someone who does porn.

[ShemaleInTraining]

Unfortunately this is how most guys see it. Transsexuals are more or less mistresses or something to do till they find someone they want to actually settle down with. I've been lucky to find guys that actually want to date me, and I knock on wood hee hee every day for that!

That's so sad. I've started to notice that. In my case it really sucks cause I haven't started transitioning yet so I'm stuck in a limbo. I have to do it all on my own. But I guess that's why so many girls complain about how guys are asshole blah blah. I have met some nice guys though that understand and don't care so they're out there.

[mtfts4me]

I have dated a couple of girls, was deeply in love with one of them. So yes,,,,,

[Johnny_Vip]

I have date TS woman, its not an issue for me. Now in terms of a serious relationship the only way for me to work, is not to be a sex worker, the problem is that most of TS do sex as a way of living, some did it for awhile and now run their own business, witch is ok with me, i even wouldn't mind if she did some solo scenes in porn, or work at a cam site, but definitely not while escorting, knowing what i know now and lived, it just wouldn't work for me, but i do know some guys that are ok with that and does not affect them, or their relationship, that his Ts Woman has sex with other men, i guess they see it as normal job, well i don't see it that way, and for experience that i had with some of those TS woman with boyfriends/husbands while escorting, i wouldn't like to be on their shoes.

[socalsub]

You don't date a gender, you date an individual human being.

So, yeah, if I met the right individual human being, and we connected, and she happened to be TS, no big deal.

[Lorca81]

The discussion in this thread is so odd to me. I get that if you're not looking for a relationship, then avoiding attachments is a no brainer. But if you're attracted to transgender women, and simultaneously seek a meaningful, interpersonal-romantic relationship, why on earth would you not date a transgender women? Again, I understand there is a certain social stigma to being an out trans-attracted male; but I can tell you from experience, transgender women are attracted to men who have the confidence to not let that toxic BS effect them. In fact, that's why I, a solidly average-looking guy, have been able to date many transgender women who were completely out of my league . . . including a few Grooby Girls ;)

[SXFX]

yes

back in the day I used OKcpid and just so happened to meet two amazing ts women on it.
I recently signed up for grinder and I'll be honest I've fucked it up but I even got a date....

[must93]

I would.

[dirtrail]

I would if I was single again. I already have my kids and don’t want any more. Nowa days I’m more interested if she has the same values and interests as me. Of course looks are important also to some degree.

She could super hot, but with a shitty immature attitude that I see alot of younger girls having, I would not even be vaguely interested. Not for dating. Also if she’s escorting or making flicks that’s a deal breaker.

[kfortune]

I have.

[Budweiser]

I think I would date Kayleigh Coxx, and maybe one or two others. But that's never going to happen.

[cleats50]

Sounds reasonable. Good looking would be important to me. Shallow I guess but it wouldn't trump companionship.

[Niko166]

I actually would like to date a transgender female long term, I just have no idea where to even look or find a girl looking for the same. Any advice where to look would be great, I couldn't care less if someone had an issue with it. Life is short, do whatever makes you happy

[Wethole6969]

I would love to date a transgender girl. I’m married and I think I would most likely tell my wife at that point. But I would need a serious relationship for that. I think the majority of the people on here who want to have the same problem. Where do you meet girls like that. But I would be 100% into it

[Dudedude12345]

Hell, Im engaged to one. As long she's not an addict, bigot or a gun nut i don't mind dating one

[Wethole6969]

Hell, Im engaged to one. As long she's not an addict, bigot or a gun nut i don't mind dating one
Is she a good looking girl??? Pre or post op??? And how does ur family feel about her???

[Dudedude12345]

Shes pre op and whats between her legs is not a concern to my family or anyone else. The only thing that matters is that i love her

1090975

[Fitzcarraldo]

Is she a good looking girl??? Pre or post op??? And how does ur family feel about her???

WTF kind of questions are those?

[Wethole6969]

WTF kind of questions are those?

Jeez. I was just curious

[skribble1]

As long as they're 100% passable with a feminine voice. A Bailey Jay type in other words.

[markknyc]

If the personalities/values are a match and there's a reasonable level of attraction, of course.

If faced with the option of a TS girl or a genetic girl who met that criteria, I'd probably go with the TS girl. I wouldn't rule out a guy either if there was some crazy connection/attraction.

[jamesedwards]

Don't get your hopes up boys im not in the market 4 a man :P
BUT I AM curious to see who here would consider being in a serious long term committed relationship with a TS! Post your pictures... maybe some girls on here ARE looking for someone. And fot those of you who would NOT date a TS, post your reasons!

I would, I have, and I am at the moment. Funny thing is this relationship is a Poly relationship. And it's sexy as a mother fuck! We do all the nastiest fucking we want to each other and we chill and have fun together. What I love is how she force me to my knees and beat my face with her big ass cock, that shit is sexy as a mother fuck! We are open and we try new nasty shit all the time. So I don't see me breaking up with her no time soon. We were even talking about getting married, not under the United States law under our own. She is part of a TGirl society and I was initiated. Boy oh boy when I tell you I had my dreams come true that shit turned me out and she told me she was going to turn me out and I would fall in love with her cock. And I did, no denying it.

Never play XBox with a TGirl, they will kick your ass LOL My TGirl Mama KK beat my ass so bad I was angry at her for a week LOL When she got me she did what we call a "Rip" on my ass where she shoves her cock in my ass with one Push. and she spanked my ass and fucked me real good. My ass was sore and we laughed about that shit and her other TGirl friend laughed also. But we have fun, I am sick of chicks these days, there are only a few that are Dommes that I like and we hall have what we call "Fuck Parties" I tell ya it's off the hook.
Funny thing is she is femme and guys wanna fuck her LOL But she don't waste her time because when she tells them she has a bigger dick and she will rip their assholes open they just be like "Oooooooh shit wtf" lol She is packing 9 inches of pure African Meatage LOL hahahahah

[jamesedwards]

Hell, Im engaged to one. As long she's not an addict, bigot or a gun nut i don't mind dating one

LOL speaking of guns, my TGirl I am with now, has a TGirl that carries a gun for protection, plus she worked for the state. My TGirl Mama KK made me sit on her cock and lay back on her chest while her TGirl Friend beat my balls with the but of her gun. I ain't going to lie the pain of the hits while Mama KK was fucking me in the ass put me in heaven. She thought I wouldn't like it, and now we add that in some times. I take every inch of her cock in my ass and the rush from the pain of it drives me crazy. So with me a lil gun play won't hurt. One time she left one bullet in the chamber I said "Bitch are you crazy?" Why in the fuck did I say that, they both grabbed me by the neck slapped my face and told me to kneel my bitch and she told me " You bitch ass whore, I will blow your fucking head off, suck my dick bitch" while the gun was at my temple. Mama KK standing behind me jacking her dick off on my neck then leaning down saying "suck that dick you son of a bitch, spit all over and suck that motha fucking dick, you're our bitch, get nasty with that shit". They make me suck a lot of dick and tell you the truth I love that shit.
Now how come I loved that shit? LOL Why is my dick hard right now thinking about that shit LOL I have come to terms with myself IMA CRAZY MOTHA FUCKA lol lol lmao

[SXFX]

im half tempted to restart my okcupid profile just to maybe give it another chance....
dont try grinder to meet trans women it just doesn't work

[Lorca81]

If a guy has actually dated one of us, then it probably does seem a little silly. I've been several guys first t-girl (I use the phrase training wheels tranny), and at first they as questions like this. A better question is: would you date a T-girl sex worker. That adds another level of complication to a relationship.

This post is four years old, but is worth a response. When I was in my early 20's, I dated transwomen for about a year who was a full-time sex worker, meaning escorting, a few shoots with Grooby, and occasional HC scenes. What's crucial to remember is that sex workers have emotional needs, just like everyone else, and the person you meet as a trick or consumer of porn is (usually) a manufactured persona.

We met completely outside of her professional world (she replied to a M4T personal add I'd posted in Craigslist's "Miscellaneous Romance" section). She was upfront about her work, which she disclosed after two or three dates, and I got to know her as a complicated, three dimensional person with strengths, weaknesses and insecurities, who was very different from her up-for-anything, barely legal, sex kitten persona.

To sustain such a relationship, ground rules are important. For example, I made it clear that I didn't want to be part of her professional life. She was adamant that, since she'd been upfront about her work, I had no right be jealous or possessive about her interactions with clients. And, we mutually agreed that, other than her seeing clients and shooting scenes, neither of us would sleep with other people. Finally, even though she had a strict policy with clients that she never did bareback sessions, we always used condoms together.

From my perspective, the hardest aspect of the relationship was worrying about her safety because, no matter how many precautions a working girl takes, there is always an element of danger in escorting, and she had a few close calls before and while we were together.

[BostonBad]

Don't get your hopes up boys im not in the market 4 a man :P
BUT I AM curious to see who here would consider being in a serious long term committed relationship with a TS! Post your pictures... maybe some girls on here ARE looking for someone. And fot those of you who would NOT date a TS, post your reasons!

RIP Ruby TS. :(

[BostonBad]

LOL speaking of guns, my TGirl I am with now, has a TGirl that carries a gun for protection, plus she worked for the state. My TGirl Mama KK made me sit on her cock and lay back on her chest while her TGirl Friend beat my balls with the but of her gun. I ain't going to lie the pain of the hits while Mama KK was fucking me in the ass put me in heaven. She thought I wouldn't like it, and now we add that in some times. I take every inch of her cock in my ass and the rush from the pain of it drives me crazy. So with me a lil gun play won't hurt. One time she left one bullet in the chamber I said "Bitch are you crazy?" Why in the fuck did I say that, they both grabbed me by the neck slapped my face and told me to kneel my bitch and she told me " You bitch ass whore, I will blow your fucking head off, suck my dick bitch" while the gun was at my temple. Mama KK standing behind me jacking her dick off on my neck then leaning down saying "suck that dick you son of a bitch, spit all over and suck that motha fucking dick, you're our bitch, get nasty with that shit". They make me suck a lot of dick and tell you the truth I love that shit.
Now how come I loved that shit? LOL Why is my dick hard right now thinking about that shit LOL I have come to terms with myself IMA CRAZY MOTHA FUCKA lol lol lmao

So now u like gettin ya balls busted?

[crazyeditor]

I have dated and lived with the same TS woman for five years

[THEbottom]

If she were a top I certainly would.

[dirtrail]

It definitely would be an option if I was in the position to date again.

[crazyeditor]

Shes pre op and whats between her legs is not a concern to my family or anyone else. The only thing that matters is that i love her

1090975

Looks like the wedding cake bride is tucking

[wubwub]

have/do/will

[Niko166]

I definitely would date a TS woman however I just wouldn't know where to look. I live in NJ, I am never in the city and I never ever meet trans women when I am out. Anyone have any ideas on where to go or if there are any good dating sites? Im all ears haha

[dns4809]

RIP Ruby i would have been with you i thought you were cool and beautiful you are missed
hugs

[Lorca81]

I definitely would date a TS woman however I just wouldn't know where to look. I live in NJ, I am never in the city and I never ever meet trans women when I am out. Anyone have any ideas on where to go or if there are any good dating sites? Im all ears haha

Try OkCupid, Grindr, maybe Tinder; they have filers that will help you find someone. If you're in North Jersey there are lots of transwomen near you: Newark, Jersey City, Brooklyn, even Staten Island.

[DocLuvr]

Definitely!

[Special42]

Been in a few LT relationships with TS women. Sadly, they didn't work out for various reasons (alcoholism, drug use, distance).

[diddyboponTOP]

Don't even bump this thread folks Ruby was a terrible stain on the TS community. She's gone so I'll say no more but those who knew know.

[Dom Damazo]

I did, a good number actually but never more

I dont want give any advice or influence anyone, its a personal decision i took to my life only

[XXXTS4MEXXX]

I would :-)

No shame in being with a trans girl, long-term is the same. Everything is possible now a'days :pumped:

[zaphod]

Yes!

[hiwatt1000]

...I am back on the market and looking. Unfortunately - I have been on most of the dating platforms and it's hard (not impossible) to find someone. I was in a LTR and looking to get into another, soon...maybe I'm getting old and the girls are getting younger...some are 'working girls', some aren't...I'm not giving up - just not as easy as it was before here in L.A.

I never had a problem with the whole "dating a trans" stigma...I was proud to be with my partner with friends and family---just like dating in a hetero situation...look forward to meeting someone again

[mildcigar_2001]

One of the trans girls I dated when I lived in LA, I met on an internet dating site.

We exchanged phone numbers and chatted a little before our first date. On that first phone call she told me she was "narcissistic." I remember laughing after she said it because it had to be a joke (right?). I thought who the hell would tell you they were narcissistic on a first phone call.

Long story short, she wasn't joking.

[Cure4theitch]

I wouldn't

I have a couple reasons why.

First and foremost our social world is still not very accepting of male queerness or fluidity of any kind(especially in my community). And to be open and dating a translady that isn't super passable would really hurt my opportunities dating cis-women. Which is 99.9% of my dating pool so it wouldn't make sense to possibly alienate myself from the majority of my dating pool for just a small fraction of people.

Second, there is a difference between dating trans and cis-women. I don't intend on offending any translady this is just my experience. I think transwomen come with a lot of mental baggage that I personally can't help or support with. Dating cis-women is already A LOT of work and I am kind of an impatient person so dealing with them is hard enough and I get impatient with them. Dating a trans-women is like doing double time and I am not built for it.

Third, call this crass if you want, but I just LOVE pussy. I want to come home to it, wake up to it, and leave my home knowing it will be there when I come back after a long day. Don't get me wrong, I am very fluid. I love dick and balls as well but pussy is where home is. And no I don't like SRS pussy. I it actually freaks me out. But I prefer pussy over dick.

Fourth I have yet to do anything with a transwoman in person. So I am still am not sure if it's something I actually will like.

In a world that is more accepting I would probably be open to having a poly relationship with a transwoman or having a transgf who is a side girl but in my city and in my community it's just not happening.

I don't mean to offend any one. Mature and respectful discourse welcome.

[Cure4theitch]

I have my fair share of online/over the phone encounters with trans-women who have similar bizzare traits. It's not uncommon, there usually some weird set of baggage they come with.

[Faenon]

In a heartbeat. If I can ever get out of this dysfunctional marriage of mine I would pursue exclusively a relationship with a pre-op transgender woman, I have learned through time that this is my physical attraction. I still like CIS women but there would always be something I long for more if I went down that path again. I am not attracted to post op trans women though, sorry but that surgery scares the crap out of me, the results are generally not appealing to me and there are way too may horror stories out there of complication. So if the dysphoria is there, then beginning a relationship with a girl who sees that as her destination wouldn't be fair on her.

[kmersh]

In a heartbeat. If I can ever get out of this dysfunctional marriage of mine I would pursue exclusively a relationship with a pre-op transgender woman, I have learned through time that this is my physical attraction. I still like CIS women but there would always be something I long for more if I went down that path again. I am not attracted to post op trans women though, sorry but that surgery scares the crap out of me, the results are generally not appealing to me and there are way too may horror stories out there of complication. So if the dysphoria is there, then beginning a relationship with a girl who sees that as her destination wouldn't be fair on her.

I am married to a transwoman who has no interest in bottom surgery, she likes her body (including her penis) and while she has had breast augmentation and FFS, that is as far she wants to take it.

Interestingly enough I thought that my wife having a penis would be sexual Valhalla, but it turns out that living with her day and day out, seeing her naked, over time, it is just her and not like a trans porn actress showing her junk, it is just different somehow.

[obslam]

I am married to a transwoman who has no interest in bottom surgery, she likes her body (including her penis) and while she has had breast augmentation and FFS, that is as far she wants to take it.

Interestingly enough I thought that my wife having a penis would be sexual Valhalla, but it turns out that living with her day and day out, seeing her naked, over time, it is just her and not like a trans porn actress showing her junk, it is just different somehow.

Ah, it moves from special to normal. Been there!

[hiwatt1000]

..same here. had that and it was pretty much non-plus after a while...but, it's been so hard to meet someone since most of the folks have an ONLINE-ONLY/VIRTUAL-EXISTENCE...like, you'll never meet them...

[filghy2]

Interestingly enough I thought that my wife having a penis would be sexual Valhalla, but it turns out that living with her day and day out, seeing her naked, over time, it is just her and not like a trans porn actress showing her junk, it is just different somehow.

I think that's normal for most people in long-term relationships of any kind. It's not possible to sustain the same level of sexual excitement indefinitely, so the relationship has to evolve toward something different if it is to last.

[MrFanti]

Last woman I was with was full SRS.....

[sockratees]

I'd marry one.

[obslam]

I am married to a transwoman who has no interest in bottom surgery, she likes her body (including her penis) and while she has had breast augmentation and FFS, that is as far she wants to take it.

Interestingly enough I thought that my wife having a penis would be sexual Valhalla, but it turns out that living with her day and day out, seeing her naked, over time, it is just her and not like a trans porn actress showing her junk, it is just different somehow.

Anyway, you're very lucky to find such a special girl. Well done to both of you!

[Faenon]

I am married to a transwoman who has no interest in bottom surgery, she likes her body (including her penis) and while she has had breast augmentation and FFS, that is as far she wants to take it.

Interestingly enough I thought that my wife having a penis would be sexual Valhalla, but it turns out that living with her day and day out, seeing her naked, over time, it is just her and not like a trans porn actress showing her junk, it is just different somehow.

I am happy to hear you have found each other and seem in a great place.

The way I wrote my message makes it sound like the dick is the only thing I'm interested in. That's not really what a meant I was just trying to describe my "type" of girl, and it is only a girl, I don't want to form a relationship with anyone other than a woman.

What comes first and foremost for me is that connection not from a physical perspective but and emotional one, I want to actually like the person I am in a relationship with (which is not the case right now for me), I want to enjoy spending time with them, I want us to share interests and laugh together and make the most of life.

You can't however just dismiss the physical side of things, if you are not sexually attracted to your partner there will always be problems down the line. That's where I was comin from here. I would love to form a relationship with someone that embodies all those attributes I mentioned above but is also someone that turns me on and I of course turn her on. My "type" is most certainly pre-op transwoman.

For the last few months I have been checking out dating sites, facebook groups other online resources (because frankly where I live, the trans community is non existent), for potential partners. But it is a exercise in frustration. I know how difficult it is for a trans woman to find a genuine guy who wants to for a relationship with her rather than just fulfill some kind of sexual fantasy, I really feel for trans women in this regard.

However I have learned that it is also hard for men who have those intentions to find that suitable partner too, most profiles out there are fakes with pictures of famous trans porn stars, you'll get a lot of girls you maybe don't recognise who'll strike up a conversation with you, send you a unsolicited risky picture, then two messages later ask how you want to send her money, paypal or apple pay. Finding a genuine trans woman who is looking for a relationship is next to impossible it appears.

So stories like yours are inspiring where you've both found what you are looking for, thanks for sharing :)

[enam]

I​'d marry one.

[kmersh]

I am happy to hear you have found each other and seem in a great place.

The way I wrote my message makes it sound like the dick is the only thing I'm interested in. That's not really what a meant I was just trying to describe my "type" of girl, and it is only a girl, I don't want to form a relationship with anyone other than a woman.

What comes first and foremost for me is that connection not from a physical perspective but and emotional one, I want to actually like the person I am in a relationship with (which is not the case right now for me), I want to enjoy spending time with them, I want us to share interests and laugh together and make the most of life.

You can't however just dismiss the physical side of things, if you are not sexually attracted to your partner there will always be problems down the line. That's where I was comin from here. I would love to form a relationship with someone that embodies all those attributes I mentioned above but is also someone that turns me on and I of course turn her on. My "type" is most certainly pre-op transwoman.

For the last few months I have been checking out dating sites, facebook groups other online resources (because frankly where I live, the trans community is non existent), for potential partners. But it is a exercise in frustration. I know how difficult it is for a trans woman to find a genuine guy who wants to for a relationship with her rather than just fulfill some kind of sexual fantasy, I really feel for trans women in this regard.

However I have learned that it is also hard for men who have those intentions to find that suitable partner too, most profiles out there are fakes with pictures of famous trans porn stars, you'll get a lot of girls you maybe don't recognise who'll strike up a conversation with you, send you a unsolicited risky picture, then two messages later ask how you want to send her money, paypal or apple pay. Finding a genuine trans woman who is looking for a relationship is next to impossible it appears.

So stories like yours are inspiring where you've both found what you are looking for, thanks for sharing :)

Where I live and have lived pretty much my entire life there is no Trans Community or so I thought, if I am completely honest, I always sort of considered Transwomen to be extremely rare, like Porn and Jerry Springer rare. I never expected in my life that I would ever meet a transgendered woman let alone a transgendered woman who happens to live in my hometown.

I am currently 45 and I lost my first wife to cancer about 15 years ago now, it took me a long while before I was ready to enter a new relationship and the first few dates I went on were all complete duds.

That was until I happened to randomly meet this woman online (I cannot remember the website at this point, I want to say it was Match.com, but it could have easily been another one), we talked on the phone a few times before meeting in person. It was amazing how we shared so many of the same likes, F1 (we had both been to a few of the F1 circuits throughout the world), Food and Wine, Travel, Botanic Gardens, Cars (especially E chassis BMWs) and just a number of other topics.

In fact we both got so lost in our conversations that it was only after we agreed to meet that she called me back to tell me that she was Trans and that she hoped I was cool with it. At first, I honestly was taken aback, partly because I did notice that she was Trans from her profile and partly because I did not know how to tell her that I find Transwoman attractive (I did not want her to think that I was a chaser).

So, I said the only thing that I could think of at the time, that we shared so many of the same likes we should at least meet, the worst is that we do not like each other, but being Trans is not a disqualifier at this stage.

She said that was more than fair, we hung up and the next evening we met for a dinner at a favorite Thai place of hers where she knew the owners personally. We ended up talking for the entire two hours and then went to a bar down the road where we ended up closing down the place because we talked so much, it was the most fun that I ever had on a date without question.

The rest is history, we had a number of dates before the Trans topic came up again and that is when she went into great detail about her being Trans, explaining to me what it meant for her and what I should expect if we continued dating.

We have been married for 9 years now (will be 10 in September) and I could not imagine my life without her anymore, we are not just husband/wife, we are also best friends.

My point, is that you might be surprised who lives down the street from you or a town or two away, I never expected to find a Transwoman in my town, it is not exactly a multi-cultural kind of place.

[obslam]

Where I live and have lived pretty much my entire life there is no Trans Community or so I thought, if I am completely honest, I always sort of considered Transwomen to be extremely rare, like Porn and Jerry Springer rare. I never expected in my life that I would ever meet a transgendered woman let alone a transgendered woman who happens to live in my hometown.

I am currently 45 and I lost my first wife to cancer about 15 years ago now, it took me a long while before I was ready to enter a new relationship and the first few dates I went on were all complete duds.

That was until I happened to randomly meet this woman online (I cannot remember the website at this point, I want to say it was Match.com, but it could have easily been another one), we talked on the phone a few times before meeting in person. It was amazing how we shared so many of the same likes, F1 (we had both been to a few of the F1 circuits throughout the world), Food and Wine, Travel, Botanic Gardens, Cars (especially E chassis BMWs) and just a number of other topics.

In fact we both got so lost in our conversations that it was only after we agreed to meet that she called me back to tell me that she was Trans and that she hoped I was cool with it. At first, I honestly was taken aback, partly because I did notice that she was Trans from her profile and partly because I did not know how to tell her that I find Transwoman attractive (I did not want her to think that I was a chaser).

So, I said the only thing that I could think of at the time, that we shared so many of the same likes we should at least meet, the worst is that we do not like each other, but being Trans is not a disqualifier at this stage.

She said that was more than fair, we hung up and the next evening we met for a dinner at a favorite Thai place of hers where she knew the owners personally. We ended up talking for the entire two hours and then went to a bar down the road where we ended up closing down the place because we talked so much, it was the most fun that I ever had on a date without question.

The rest is history, we had a number of dates before the Trans topic came up again and that is when she went into great detail about her being Trans, explaining to me what it meant for her and what I should expect if we continued dating.

We have been married for 9 years now (will be 10 in September) and I could not imagine my life without her anymore, we are not just husband/wife, we are also best friends.

My point, is that you might be surprised who lives down the street from you or a town or two away, I never expected to find a Transwoman in my town, it is not exactly a multi-cultural kind of place.

Great to hear, thanks very much.

I'm not sure the truth will reach the minds of the fantasists who like to tell us there are no trans people who live within a hundred miles of them, but those who know, know.

[Faenon]

Where I live and have lived pretty much my entire life there is no Trans Community or so I thought, if I am completely honest, I always sort of considered Transwomen to be extremely rare, like Porn and Jerry Springer rare. I never expected in my life that I would ever meet a transgendered woman let alone a transgendered woman who happens to live in my hometown.

I am currently 45 and I lost my first wife to cancer about 15 years ago now, it took me a long while before I was ready to enter a new relationship and the first few dates I went on were all complete duds.

That was until I happened to randomly meet this woman online (I cannot remember the website at this point, I want to say it was Match.com, but it could have easily been another one), we talked on the phone a few times before meeting in person. It was amazing how we shared so many of the same likes, F1 (we had both been to a few of the F1 circuits throughout the world), Food and Wine, Travel, Botanic Gardens, Cars (especially E chassis BMWs) and just a number of other topics.

In fact we both got so lost in our conversations that it was only after we agreed to meet that she called me back to tell me that she was Trans and that she hoped I was cool with it. At first, I honestly was taken aback, partly because I did notice that she was Trans from her profile and partly because I did not know how to tell her that I find Transwoman attractive (I did not want her to think that I was a chaser).

So, I said the only thing that I could think of at the time, that we shared so many of the same likes we should at least meet, the worst is that we do not like each other, but being Trans is not a disqualifier at this stage.

She said that was more than fair, we hung up and the next evening we met for a dinner at a favorite Thai place of hers where she knew the owners personally. We ended up talking for the entire two hours and then went to a bar down the road where we ended up closing down the place because we talked so much, it was the most fun that I ever had on a date without question.

The rest is history, we had a number of dates before the Trans topic came up again and that is when she went into great detail about her being Trans, explaining to me what it meant for her and what I should expect if we continued dating.

We have been married for 9 years now (will be 10 in September) and I could not imagine my life without her anymore, we are not just husband/wife, we are also best friends.

My point, is that you might be surprised who lives down the street from you or a town or two away, I never expected to find a Transwoman in my town, it is not exactly a multi-cultural kind of place.

That is a wonderful story, inspirational and inspiring. You are living the dream that we all have really, no matter which way you lean, we all just want to meet someone that is more than just a life partner, someone we are truly in love with. The fact that she is trans is inconsequential, which is perfect. You have found this after tragedy of losing your first wife too, I am so sorry for your loss.

I wish there wasn't such a stigma attached to men who are trans attracted, often just branded "chaser", I understand why it's there, I understand that a lot are just there for the sexual fantasy, but it just makes it hard for those of us that want more than a quick roll in the hay to date. If I ever get out of my dysfunctional marriage I will look to follow a similar route but doubt I would get as lucky as you have.

[Lorca81]

The discussion in this thread is so odd to me. I get that if you're not looking for a relationship, then avoiding attachments is a no brainer. But if you're attracted to transgender women, and simultaneously seek a meaningful, interpersonal-romantic relationship, why on earth would you not date a transgender women? Again, I understand there is a certain social stigma to being an out trans-attracted male; but I can tell you from experience, transgender women are attracted to men who have the confidence to not let that toxic BS effect them. In fact, that's why I, a solidly average-looking guy, have been able to date many transgender women who were completely out of my league . . . including a few Grooby Girls ;)

PS—since posting this in 2018, I married a trans woman.

[Dark passenger]

I did and still do. A pretty girl is a pretty girl to me

[MrFanti]

My last flame was full SRS.....

[Castor_Troy05]

Have done for 15 years now. More of my adult life than dating cis girls, currently engaged to my girl

[FionaFortune]

There is a whole thread on here of tips to meeting tgurls .

https://www.hungangels.com/vboard/showthread.php?112846-Tips-on-meeting-Tgurls-in-Real-Life

It may be helpful

[BostonBad]

I am sad to say the person that started this thread, RubyTS passed away a few years ago. She used to escort out of RI.

I was told that her semen was NOT good to eat.
She was nice though and liked dogs too. 🐕

[mcaextreme69]

I've had 2 Trans girlfriends before. Both were wonderful experiences. I'm not really sure what the issue is.

[Ben]

Not just a transgender woman but I'd date a drag queen.
DQs I'd love to date: Derrick, Courtney Act, Naomi Smalls.
I'd date Sybilla. Who identifies as gender fluid.
I'd date Prince Flackoo too. Porn star.
I'd date Dennis Boer. 4 pics. Gay porn star too.

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[BostonBad]

Didn't know there people out there who made FWB sound more complicated than it actually was.

I had that with TS Chriselle Love (Nguyen).

I really had feelings for her. We met on a dating site and after our first date she and I were a thing, sort of. She worked in an Asian Spa and did the hand jobs. She did not cum during her encounters but she was cheating on me. Due to her beauty inside and out, I was okay with it. After all it's hard to find cool and beautiful ts women because there just aren't that many. So it really wasn't cheating after all because I knew she was doing the clean and jerks.

I was really happy with her. We would go out in public. Some people thought she was female, others could tell.

When we left the establishments they knew I was about to be a lucky man and I knew I wasn't going to bed on an empty stomach.

[MauiCelt]

Yeah, I would. I've been on a few dates and had fun so why not? My only hangup is not feeling like I'm really relationship material.

[BostonBad]

Yeah, I would. I've been on a few dates and had fun so why not? My only hangup is not feeling like I'm really relationship material.

I feel that I am. I dated 2 Asian girls and a few others. No matter how many dates I had or money I spent (dinners, drinks entertainment), they always had other guys in the picture. I was the main guy but other guys were also ejaculating with them. Many ts women really do act feminine but in this sense they have all been like men, player men. I feel their brains in this sense are more wired like men than women.

But the semen was good to eat, so I put up with it. Why? Because it would have been back to pussy or pay to play. At least they refrained with cumming with the other guy and I'd get very large sperms loads.

For some reason now it's harder to date ts women than before. I think a handful of years ago, they weren't as main stream. Now far more guys are dating ts women and it's less taboo.

Simply there is more competition now, more men have figured that semen is good to eat!!

[sd123223]

I feel that I am. I dated 2 Asian girls and a few others. No matter how many dates I had or money I spent (dinners, drinks entertainment), they always had other guys in the picture. I was the main guy but other guys were also ejaculating with them. Many ts women really do act feminine but in this sense they have all been like men, player men. I feel their brains in this sense are more wired like men than women.

But the semen was good to eat, so I put up with it. Why? Because it would have been back to pussy or pay to play. At least they refrained with cumming with the other guy and I'd get very large sperms loads.

For some reason now it's harder to date ts women than before. I think a handful of years ago, they weren't as main stream. Now far more guys are dating ts women and it's less taboo.

Simply there is more competition now, more men have figured that semen is good to eat!!

I would have no problems dating a trans woman, the question is would you date a trans woman that was not very passible? As not all trans look like our favorite porn stars, judge people for who they are.
A lot of girls are fetishized, hence why they may play the field and get what they can out of men. My view treat a trans person like anyone else. It isn't rocket science.

[BostonBad]

I would have no problems dating a trans woman, the question is would you date a trans woman that was not very passible? As not all trans look like our favorite porn stars, judge people for who they are.
A lot of girls are fetishized, hence why they may play the field and get what they can out of men. My view treat a trans person like anyone else. It isn't rocket science.

I am not attracted to the ts girls that aren't passible. It's not society's rules either. If I was stuck on an island with a masculine looking ts, I'm all set.

I try to treat pretty ts women better than cis.

[sd123223]

I am not attracted to the ts girls that aren't passible. It's not society's rules either. If I was stuck on an island with a masculine looking ts, I'm all set.

I try to treat pretty ts women better than cis.

I hear you B-Man, we all have our tastes in my early days I would only sleep with trans girls that were hyper feminine, had boobies. Over the years my preferences and standards are much looser whereby I can happily fuck a drag queen, let a femboy blow me, or fuck a crossdresser, sometimes if I have had a choice of a feminine young drag queen over a trans that cant get hard or cum,I go off with the DQ whilst not politically correct perhaps I much rather a functional hard cock that can blow rather than a limp noodle.

[BostonBad]

I hear you B-Man, we all have our tastes in my early days I would only sleep with trans girls that were hyper feminine, had boobies. Over the years my preferences and standards are much looser whereby I can happily fuck a drag queen, let a femboy blow me, or fuck a crossdresser, sometimes if I have had a choice of a feminine young drag queen over a trans that cant get hard or cum,I go off with the DQ whilst not politically correct perhaps I much rather a functional hard cock that can blow rather than a limp noodle.

There is definitely varying degrees to this. All of mine have been passible or really close to it.

However they don't have the fake tits.
I don't think I couldn't have sex with a DQ. They are too masculine.

[sd123223]

There is definitely varying degrees to this. All of mine have been passible or really close to it.

However they don't have the fake tits.
I don't think I couldn't have sex with a DQ. They are too masculine.

Some of the young feminine ones on Ru Paul like Farrah Moan, Gia Gunn, Trinity Tuck and Jada Jolie are all totally fuckable and feminine. Check them out and let me know.

[SanDiegoPervySage]

My girl is trans

[Discodavis]

In my late teens, I started seeing a girl I had been attracted to since we were in primary school. I thought I had finally become a man and all that was left in life was to finish school, get a job, buy a house, and start a family. I was so pleased with myself that I deleted my encrypted TS porn folder on my PC, but I continued fapping to fantasies of transwomen every night. That lasted all but two months and I found myself redownloading trans porn again. After that experience, I had pretty much resigned to the fact that I would never be happy with a cisgender woman and I'll end up cheating on her with transwomen.

I love femininity, but I'm repulsed by vaginas - they look like an axe wound. Every night I fantasise about making love to transwomen, but I would also like to start a family, so she would have to be comfortable with the housewife/mother role too.

[sd123223]

In my late teens, I started seeing a girl I had been attracted to since we were in primary school. I thought I had finally become a man and all that was left in life was to finish school, get a job, buy a house, and start a family. I was so pleased with myself that I deleted my encrypted TS porn folder on my PC, but I continued fapping to fantasies of transwomen every night. That lasted all but two months and I found myself redownloading trans porn again. After that experience, I had pretty much resigned to the fact that I would never be happy with a cisgender woman and I'll end up cheating on her with transwomen.

I love femininity, but I'm repulsed by vaginas - they look like an axe wound. Every night I fantasise about making love to transwomen, but I would also like to start a family, so she would have to be comfortable with the housewife/mother role too.

Thanks for sharing many men can no doubt relate to your predicament. I think trans porn can be quite addictive and lead to unrealistic expectations when it comes to dating trans women in real life just an observation. Awlways mindful of consuming porn in moderation and having realistic expectations as at the end of the day the performers are human too and it is a job.

[nycsal]

Have dated some great gurls and would again. Venues to meet them in NYC are few and far between though.

[BostonBad]

I have publicly dated several. They all looked like women tho.

It was super hard to tell.

[sd123223]

I have publicly dated several. They all looked like women tho.

It was super hard to tell.

Question B'Man would you date a girl who wasn't passable in public? For me the easy way is to date a TS that is passable it is dating one in public that isn't so much is the real proof of being open and inclusive rather than discreet.

[BostonBad]

Question B'Man would you date a girl who wasn't passable in public? For me the easy way is to date a TS that is passable it is dating one in public that isn't so much is the real proof of being open and inclusive rather than discreet.


It's not about what others think. I am just more attracted to the fem ts women. So I would date a non-passable ts. A border line ts? Maybe.
I am open and inclusive within the lines of my personal and sexual tastes.

[sd123223]

It's not about what others think. I am just more attracted to the fem ts women. So I would date a non-passable ts. A border line ts? Maybe.
I am open and inclusive within the lines of my personal and sexual tastes.

Well said B-Man. In my younger years I was with an attractive post op TS but being insecure I took her for A Happy Meal at McDoanlds drive through and was embarrassed. I regret this as I sense the girl I was seeing felt this too. The irony is this girl was unclockable.

[BostonBad]

Well said B-Man. In my younger years I was with an attractive post op TS but being insecure I took her for A Happy Meal at McDoanlds drive through and was embarrassed. I regret this as I sense the girl I was seeing felt this too. The irony is this girl was unclockable.

LMAO, I had a similar experience with a girl from Salem. She wanted me 2 pick her up and fuck. Her pics were all doctored up and when she got in my car, she was too manly for me. I drove to McDonald's we got food then I pretended 2 be sick then I drove her home.

[Dudedude12345]

I'd marry one of I had a chance

[Lovecox]

I've dated a lot of gurls in Los Angeles and I still do. There are a lot here and I have met them at the store, Home Depot, whatever. I don't even care if they're clockable. I've been to the movies, restaurants, etc. with them. Sometimes people stare sometimes they don't. Who cares? It's also about common decency. Would you want to go out with someone who's obviously embarrassed to be with you? The answer is no. So, if you don't think you can afford them that very small courtesy, don't do it.

[sd123223]

I've dated a lot of gurls in Los Angeles and I still do. There are a lot here and I have met them at the store, Home Depot, whatever. I don't even care if they're clockable. I've been to the movies, restaurants, etc. with them. Sometimes people stare sometimes they don't. Who cares? It's also about common decency. Would you want to go out with someone who's obviously embarrassed to be with you? The answer is no. So, if you don't think you can afford them that very small courtesy, don't do it.
Well said, fortunately I have matured as I have gotten older.

[sd123223]

LMAO, I had a similar experience with a girl from Salem. She wanted me 2 pick her up and fuck. Her pics were all doctored up and when she got in my car, she was too manly for me. I drove to McDonald's we got food then I pretended 2 be sick then I drove her home.

Yeah the irony is the girl I was with was hot if I had my time again I would be spoiling her senseless, I wondered if her being post op also had something to do with me subconsciously not wanting to be with her long time.

[BostonBad]

Yeah the irony is the girl I was with was hot if I had my time again I would be spoiling her senseless, I wondered if her being post op also had something to do with me subconsciously not wanting to be with her long time.

It was a strange thing too. On the way home she whipped out her cock just to prove that she had one.

It wasn't necessary though. It was almost as obvious as me having a cock.

[sd123223]

It was a strange thing too. On the way home she whipped out her cock just to prove that she had one.

It wasn't necessary though. It was almost as obvious as me having a cock.
That is a turn on in my book!

[BostonBad]

That is a turn on in my book!

She was like 10% above my threshold in terms of masculinity.

If it was super dark and she needed to bust out a load I would let her fuck me for the sake of her feeling good and just being a nice guy. Otherwise I wouldn't be DTF with her.

[sd123223]

She was like 10% above my threshold in terms of masculinity.

If it was super dark and she needed to bust out a load I would let her fuck me for the sake of her feeling good and just being a nice guy. Otherwise I wouldn't be DTF with her.
I understand B-man very generous of you. If I am not feeling it mutual handjobs works for me.

[BostonBad]

I understand B-man very generous of you. If I am not feeling it mutual handjobs works for me.


I never had that idea. For me, to suck or not to suck, that is the question.

If a ts isn't pretty enough to suck and swallow, I skip over the opportunity.

[sd123223]

I never had that idea. For me, to suck or not to suck, that is the question.

If a ts isn't pretty enough to suck and swallow, I skip over the opportunity.
Yes I wuld not suck any cock If not attracted to what is attached to it.
But a fem boy I would probably do mutual hand relief with even as a courtesy.
PS: Don't know if sucking TS cock is what Shakespeare had in mind B-Man when he uttered those words.

[hiwatt1000]

...I wanna go to the Home Depot you're going to!

I haven't had that much luck-I have made a sincere effort to get back into meeting someone.

That "small courtesy" you mentioned is dead-on...but really, do I have to go back to Cobra to meet someone? Online has been disastrous.

[BostonBad]

...I wanna go to the Home Depot you're going to!

I haven't had that much luck-I have made a sincere effort to get back into meeting someone.

That "small courtesy" you mentioned is dead-on...but really, do I have to go back to Cobra to meet someone? Online has been disastrous.


Social media can be very helpful.

Also there might be local drag shows, maybe you can catch a person starting to transition.
The yummiest semen I had was from a 19 year old Jewish girl that had just started transitioning.

I sucked 3 loads out of her in 1 evening.