Reality vs. Fantasy

[lerla]

Hi all,

As you can see this is my first post. However, I have been lurking for awhile now and visit the board just about every day.

Anyway, I have been an admirer of TGirlz for a few years now but as of yet have not been with one in reality. Although, I think that things are coming to a head and I am gonna take that next step. However, I wonder if the reality will ruin my fantasy.

I'm not sure exactly what my point is here or what I'm asking (if anything), but has anyone had a first experience where the reality of the experience ruined the fantasy? I'm sure that you all will tell me that the only way to find out is to do it, yet I guess I need to work this out and this is how I'm doing it. Thanks for listening.

Anyway, thanks for reading my ramblings and if anyone has any good advise I would appreciate it.

[Ecstatic]

I waited (silly me) almost 25 years before my first experience with a Tgirl...and it was one of the best things I've ever done. First: why the wait? Well, for the first five years or so (late 70s) I only encountered a handful of pics and vids and didn't think there were very many TS out there let alone that I could meet. Then I got married and the AIDS scare hit: two big reasons for me to pretty up abandon my hedonistic ways. But a few years ago I decided it was now or never, so I combed through Eros, found an ad for a girl who blew me away, and called her. We met, and she was five times as amazing as my wildest dreams. Gorgeous, intelligent, friendly, hot, sexy...and although we only did oral that time, I had one of the five most intense orgasms of my life.

But I hear your fear: if I had seen any of the next three TS escorts I saw first, I might not have gone back. These girls were quite pretty, but had almost no interest in me or in sex. Fortunately, I continued to see that first girl, and a year later met another who is totally awesome, as much a friend as a provider, and I'm happy. So I think there's a lot depending upon who you see for that first encounter as to whether the reality will dash the fantasy. That's always a risk, but if you don't try it, you'll never know for sure.

My advice: read the reviews at SER (shemaleescorts.com) for an overview of what other guys have to say about TS escorts. Then look through Eros for your city and see who really turns you on. Go back to SER and read her/their reviews. Then make the call. Oh, also, think about what you're looking for. You don't need to do everything at once the first time, but think about whether you're looking for oral, a bottom, or a top. Think about what kind of girl you're attracted to. And to help make that first time (and every time) truly memorable, prepare for it: be well-groomed, well-dressed, showered (especially where it counts if you're looking to be topped), and maybe even bring a small gift to break the ice (flowers, candy). She'll have condoms, but bring a few of your own just in case.

[LBCDO]

Im in my 20s now, started liking TSs when I was like 13 or 14 becuase I was always on the internet and then curiosity got the best of me. I had my first experience in person when I was like 18 from some older TS I met off of the internet. It was a straight experience, but it she really didnt do it for me, so it was a problem for me because I couldnt really stay "excited". She understood, and eventually I hooked up with another and loved it. That was cool and all, true, but then I jumped head in. I was new to it, young, so I had a jump on the average admirer because of my age, and that usually most girls are the same around mine.

Avoid this scenario. You meet one girl, get cool with her, your thinking "Damn, this is the only TS I know", her friends get around you, and your like "Damn, ANOTHER ONE! I want another experience" and then you start messing with her friends. Do not under any circumstance do this. Seriously, you dont want to take that route. This will get you marked as a tranny chaser, and in all reality, that is what you are doing.

[Vicki Richter]

My personal opinion is fantasy has always been better than reality and I know Asia Carerra agrees with me on that. A lot of guys say just the opposite though. I've never asked any of my girlfriends that question before though.

[ONEWORLD]

Anyway, I have been an admirer of TGirlz for a few years now but as of yet have not been with one in reality. Although, I think that things are coming to a head and I am gonna take that next step. However, I wonder if the reality will ruin my fantasy... I'm sure that you all will tell me that the only way to find out is to do it, yet I guess I need to work this out and this is how I'm doing it. Thanks for listening.


THE GOOD THING ABOUT THIS POST IS THAT YOU'RE TAKING YOUR TIME...

BREATHE...DON'T RUSH YOURSELF...

IF YOU'RE WITH A GURL AND IT DOESN'T FEEL RIGHT, THEN DON'T...

BUT WITH THE SAME TOKEN, YOU HAVE TO GET IN THERE AND GET THE BAD EXPERIENCES OUT OF THE WAY SO YOU KNOW WHAT THE GOOD ONES ARE LIKE, LOL...

MY BIGGEST ISSUE IS BEING SOMEWHERE SAFE AND COMFORTABLE...

YOUR SURROUNDINGS PLAY A BIG PART IN SETTING THE MOOD...

AND IF YOU'RE GOING THE ESCORT ROUTE, SPEND SOME MONEY...

AND TELL THE GURL THAT YOU'RE GONNA SPEND SOME MONEY AND

THAT DON'T WANT ANY OF THAT BULLSHIT, LOL...

BELIEVE IT OR NOT, GURLS LIKE "TURNING OUT" THE NEW GUYS SO

BEING A FIRST TIMER IS PLUS (ESPECIALLY IF YOU'RE ATTRACTIVE)


PERSONALLY, I NEVER HAD TRANSEXUAL FANTASIES BEFORE BEING WITH ONE, SINCE I WAS BAMBOOZLED BY A CRAFTY VETERAN IN THE GAME...MY FANTASIES ABOUT T-GIRLS DIDN'T COME UNTIL MUCH LATER...THIS MAY EXPLAIN WHY I DON'T HAVE THOSE PENIS FANTASIES...

[lurker]

In my fantasies....

The women I try to talk to always repsond positively, I never get shot down. I have never been too nervous to get/keep an erection. I have never had to watch out of a window for approaching police officers, I have never wondered if an "escort" is leading me to an ambush by her peeps. No woman or tgirl in my fantasy has ever rushed me through a session. And every one of them has been as hot for me as I am for them, and they always, always, have an orgasm!

How can reality compete with that!
In reality, I have to wonder if the girl I'm trying to get with is gonna flash a badge and haul my ass off to jail. In reality, i have to wonder if I'm gonna take home an STD to my wife, in reality I have to deal with conscience and the trouble of paying for the companionship. In reality I'm scared shitless of anyone I know finding out that my fantasies involve tgirls!

Speaking of fantasies... Vicki, Danielle, Gia, Tara, please report to my ready room, we must prepare for our trip to the Lauxesnart Galaxy.

--lurkerl