Would you start a relationship with a Escort

[BellaBellucci]

I really can't see why it would make any difference if my girlfriend were an escort or not. - It's just work. It's not like escorts are in the job for a deep meaningful relationship with their clients. With a film actress, boyfriends are not going to get jealous if there's been a sex scene on camera, so why would a someone be worried if his partner just had sex for money with a client? - It'd be totally different if the partner then went on to see the client "outside of business hours" etc. Obviously , purely from a safety point of view, I'd prefer my girlfriend to practice safe sex unless she was certain about the clients HIV etc status.
Jealousy is all consuming and usually means the relationship is on the rocks anyway. If my partner were an escort, I'd expect total and frank transparency with what she was doing. Once that honesty and trust were established in the relationship, nothing else would matter.

That's the logical line on this. Unfortunately those pesky emotions always seem to get in the way for some people.

~BB~

[Paulistano]

I really can't see why it would make any difference if my girlfriend were an escort or not. - It's just work. It's not like escorts are in the job for a deep meaningful relationship with their clients. With a film actress, boyfriends are not going to get jealous if there's been a sex scene on camera, so why would a someone be worried if his partner just had sex for money with a client? - It'd be totally different if the partner then went on to see the client "outside of business hours" etc. Obviously , purely from a safety point of view, I'd prefer my girlfriend to practice safe sex unless she was certain about the clients HIV etc status.
Jealousy is all consuming and usually means the relationship is on the rocks anyway. If my partner were an escort, I'd expect total and frank transparency with what she was doing. Once that honesty and trust were established in the relationship, nothing else would matter.

I guess you don't know what are you talking about... Have you had a t-escort girlfriend in your life? Do you feel comfortable to know she spend hours sucking someone and after a while she comes to kiss you on the mouth? It's impossible to have sex always without pleasure... some clients are nice guys... how do you feel meanwhile she's in bed with a handsome guy younger than you? (IF YOU DO LOVE HER, for sure).

No man... you have no idea what does it mean...

There's a point you may want to kill yourself... I passed this situation, but swear for God never will do it again in my life.

And I lost T-girlfriends to drugs also. It's a crazy world man... it's only for those who have same "job" they have.

[Boardwalkempire]

Yeah, I met a TS chick in Houston TX right after I broke up with wife and sold my home in Massachusetts. (part of a rough year--2009--ended with an IRS audit.) She was an escort, I paid her what was a pretty reasonable price. We wound up dating, I met her friends, ate nice dinners with her, learned more than I ever thought I'd learn about the tranny scene in Houston, and had great sex with her.
She dropped her price with every date. It wound up with her having me buy her a sewing machine at WalMart for her once as the price. The line between ex-wife and TS escort got blurry
She died, stupid dumb tragedy that could have happened to anybody. Don't pass up a chance to have some happiness with somebody because they are either TG or pro.

Srry to hear that man.

How did she die?

[Boardwalkempire]

Some people look at escorting like it just being anther job. When in reality it is not just anther job.

Lets be honest.

[testtickle]

Paulistano doesn't sound convinced but 100% genuinely, if my partner is an escort, it would be of no concern to me whatsoever. Someone made the comment "what if she'd just sucked someone off, then came home and wanted to kiss you" - I'd like to think that my partner would have the decency to brush her teeth and shower first! I wouldn't be having a relationship with someone that didn't exercise a reasonable level of hygiene. But think about it. If your partner is getting paid to make love to other guys - who she charges - then comes home you *you* and makes love to you and doesn't charge, then you know for a fact who has her heart. As long as you get on, you interreact well, have fun and enjoy each others' company, then what your partner does as a living is immaterial. Her presence after work shows the commitment. Besides, if your partner is having sex with many other guys and choses you to be the stable partner, then it's a bit of an honor, isn't it, that you're "the chosen one". Re the bit about the fact that I don't know what I'm talking about - actually I do. I've had a relationship with a sex worker many years ago. It fizzled out, not because of what she was doing but because family and other commitments separated us. Whilst we were together, life was good She would often tell me about her clients. Not in a gloating or unpleasant way - but just the same way that I'd discuss what I did at work. There was never any jealousy or recriminations. The fact that she'd be having sex with many partners meant that there was desire on her part to have affairs. Paradoxically, she was the most faithful of all my girlfriends. I knew I could always trust and rely on her. The only negativities were that she'd often be out at night, which meant we couldn't be together and sometimes she came home a little sore and obviously sex was out on those times. All taken into account I wish the relationship had lasted much longer.

[amberskyi]

this is very easy.....we're not real people so of course we dont deserve love,understanding,intimacy or any of the other things that make yall human.

[Infern0]

this is very easy.....we're not real people so of course we dont deserve love,understanding,intimacy or any of the other things that make yall human.

Obviously that's not true, but peoples careers DO affect their chances of a LTR

A lot of women wouldn't want to have a relationship with a guy who works on oil rigs, and is away for 6 months at a time, and one of my girlfriends decided we should go our seperate ways, when i started working in nightclubs and wasn't as "avaliable" to her, other people may not be happy with their partner having sexual intercorse or providing gfe to other people, some people don't want to be in an open relationship.

At the end of the day this world is made up of choices and consequences, it's an individuals CHOICE to become an escort as opposed to another occupation, but if thats what you chose, you also chose the consequences of that.

Now, BRING ON THE FLAMING!

[Boardwalkempire]

Obviously that's not true, but peoples careers DO affect their chances of a LTR

A lot of women wouldn't want to have a relationship with a guy who works on oil rigs, and is away for 6 months at a time, and one of my girlfriends decided we should go our seperate ways, when i started working in nightclubs and wasn't as "avaliable" to her, other people may not be happy with their partner having sexual intercorse or providing gfe to other people, some people don't want to be in an open relationship.

At the end of the day this world is made up of choices and consequences, it's an individuals CHOICE to become an escort as opposed to another occupation, but if thats what you chose, you also chose the consequences of that.

I agree 100% I could not have said it better myself

[amberskyi]

Obviously that's not true, but peoples careers DO affect their chances of a LTR

A lot of women wouldn't want to have a relationship with a guy who works on oil rigs, and is away for 6 months at a time, and one of my girlfriends decided we should go our seperate ways, when i started working in nightclubs and wasn't as "avaliable" to her, other people may not be happy with their partner having sexual intercorse or providing gfe to other people, some people don't want to be in an open relationship.

At the end of the day this world is made up of choices and consequences, it's an individuals CHOICE to become an escort as opposed to another occupation, but if thats what you chose, you also chose the consequences of that.

what consequences? i never really had too hard of a time dating.
ass and tits = more options and opportunities lol.
im very private when it comes to my personal life.i keep a very strict separation between my personal life and the adult industry.i also have goals and aspirations outside of this industry (ive been kinda distracted lately tho).most guys recognize this.while theyre not exactly thrilled by what i do,they are understanding.
have ive been passed over because of my profession? of course,it happened to me a few weeks ago.i was casually dating a guy who i was really into but he couldnt deal with what i do.im severely disappointed but i respect his decision.
i look at it this way now tho.im human and life is about progression/growth.im not perfect but i know i have alot to offer.if you cant accept me at my "worst" than i know you dont deserve me at my best

[Infern0]

what consequences? i never really had too hard of a time dating.
ass and tits = more options and opportunities lol.
im very private when it comes to my personal life.i keep a very strict separation between my personal life and the adult industry.i also have goals and aspirations outside of this industry (ive been kinda distracted lately tho).most guys recognize this.while theyre not exactly thrilled by what i do,they are understanding.
have ive been passed over because of my profession? of course,it happened to me a few weeks ago.i was casually dating a guy who i was really into but he couldnt deal with what i do.im severely disappointed but i respect his decision.
i look at it this way now tho.im human and life is about progression/growth.im not perfect but i know i have alot to offer.if you cant accept me at my "worst" than i know you dont deserve me at my best

That's your stance and you are of course entitled to it.

The whole "we are not people thing" is a bit stupid though imo, I'm not sure if you were just fooling around or you think people actually think that.

like i said, it's all about choices, I might be friends with an escort, maybe even in a casual relationship, but my choice is to want exclusivity in a serious relationship, and i think i'm entitled to that choice, doesn't mean i don't have respect for the person in question.