Would you start a relationship with a Escort

[Ryz]

I mean girls who allow no condoms with other men and then don't tell you when you get with them. I was with a TS once and AFTER I got oral and was like two seconds from entering her, she asked if I wanted to go bareback for more money. I said no. Still had sex with her but probably shouldn't have.

Sometimes I ask to see who wants to do bareback. If they agree. I'm not really going to do anything with them. If they're going to let me, a complete stranger hit it raw. Most likely everyone else is. :

[Mayrah]

Have you got any sex worker friends?

I dont mean on the internet, or being fans etc. Or visited a sex worker/escort for his/her services (not that im suggesting you do, but many on here do so it's possible you could be one of those guys, nothing against you).

It's actually a pretty sad life.

It's made up to be glamourous on these boards and the whole 'porn' side of things sells a fantasy that makes it look like some sexual fetish dreamland.

People are getting fired everyday from their oh so fun jobs because their boss cant pay them anymore, with the current economy, everyone is scared for their future if they will keep their jobs or not.

Finding a normal job is already hell.

If a friend escorts 2 or 3 days a week, and the rest of the week she is with friends and family, she is close with all of them,that sounds pretty good if you ask me. Sure your probably not going to be relationship material, but if you do find that guy who can live with it, then thats what BellaBellucci said, it might be the best thing ever.

[DL_NL]

Would you start a relationship with a Escort

No, not into old Fords.

[Imakeiteazy]

Sure.. why not .. were all human and need companionship despite our choice in profession

[Paulistano]

Have you got any sex worker friends?

I dont mean on the internet, or being fans etc. Or visited a sex worker/escort for his/her services (not that im suggesting you do, but many on here do so it's possible you could be one of those guys, nothing against you).

It's actually a pretty sad life.

It's made up to be glamourous on these boards and the whole 'porn' side of things sells a fantasy that makes it look like some sexual fetish dreamland.

The reality is nothing like that. It's not glamourous at all.

Imagine this. Being a male escort (let's presume you are a straight/bi man, who likes women and trans, obviously seeing as you are on this board).

So now imagine that every day you chat to your mates, you dont have a real solid family/girlfriend to connect with. You are alone. Your friends even bitch about you behind your back. Then your first client calls, a complete stranger who says some derogatory remarks on the phone, so you cut her off.

Then you get a regular, shes 53 years old, out of shape and doesnt smell too good. But she makes an effort and shes friendly with you. You have to talk to her and kiss and lick her out and fuk her for 30 mins solid and try and cum.

Then you go have a shower. Then you get a few more phone calls from idiots and one genuine phone call, it's a ts this time, she sounds a bit manly but because youre into ts as well you agree to seeing her.

She turns up and is polite and friendly but is very masculine and wants to fuck you! You try and be polite with her and say you will only fuck her, but she can suck you off (you can barely get hard), but you do the business and try and be pleasant and she leaves but is a bit dissatisfied.

Thats it, 2 clients done and you're 300 bucks in for the day, cant be asked anymore so call it wraps. But later on you see that the ts has given you a terrible review on a review site because you wouldnt let her fuck you.

Does this sound like a glamourous lifestyle?

Now ask yourself the question. Would you want this for your girlfriend?

I dont have anything against sex workers at all. They arent harming people therefore i do not view them as criminals. Infact they probably have benefits to society that are uncounted for by government agency's or police. But when youve seen their life, it's a bit sad, i have compassion for them because often they are good people but get sucked in. The others will just say that they are using the system and using men, but they are sucked in to the point that they cant see what is really happening.

Best thing is to study hard, graduate and get a good job with a company. It's hard work, but it pays off. I know a few transgendered women who have done this. Escorting wouldnt even come ot their mind.

Everyone is different, as long as someone is a good person, they deserve to find someone special in their life regardless if they are a sex worker or not. Just being an escort will make it 10 times harder.

Perfect post!

Here in Brazil there's another problem: DRUGS.

Because their lives are not a heaven, 90% of TS escorts are drug users in my country. Combination of ALCOHOL ABUSE + HEAVY DRUGS ABUSE + HUGE HORMONES DOSAGES + BAD NUTRITION HABITS = SERIOUS DESEASES.

Most TS escorts in Brazil die young. It's really sad.

[theone1982]

Sometimes I ask to see who wants to do bareback. If they agree. I'm not really going to do anything with them. If they're going to let me, a complete stranger hit it raw. Most likely everyone else is. :

Yeah, that's what I should have done. But it was like really in the moment when she let know that she did bareback, so it would have been hard to just jump back in my pants and say no thanks. I did wear a condom though so it turned out all right. I agree with you though that if someone allows bareback than most likely many people have taken them up on the offer.

[saintpatrick]

Yeah, I met a TS chick in Houston TX right after I broke up with wife and sold my home in Massachusetts. (part of a rough year--2009--ended with an IRS audit.) She was an escort, I paid her what was a pretty reasonable price. We wound up dating, I met her friends, ate nice dinners with her, learned more than I ever thought I'd learn about the tranny scene in Houston, and had great sex with her.
She dropped her price with every date. It wound up with her having me buy her a sewing machine at WalMart for her once as the price. The line between ex-wife and TS escort got blurry
She died, stupid dumb tragedy that could have happened to anybody. Don't pass up a chance to have some happiness with somebody because they are either TG or pro.

[MdR Dave]

Have you got any sex worker friends?

I do.

None of it's easy.

But I am fortunate that she's my friend.

Nice post, though. Seriously.

[Star Angel 86]

Probably not but definitely not if she's still turnin' tricks. Not sharing my woman with anyone.

I agree 100 % I was seeing one lass that had a strong resemblance to Lisa Paradise at the Blacklite and when I wasn't around I'm sure she left with other lads.As is she told me about this one incident where she was standing out front of the Blacklite after they had closed and this young lad lad on bike drove by with a knife and cut her purse strap and drove off with her belongings.That put an end to her standing on the corner of Santa Monica and Western other than that she was a hairdresser Tuesday thru Friday.

[testtickle]

I really can't see why it would make any difference if my girlfriend were an escort or not. - It's just work. It's not like escorts are in the job for a deep meaningful relationship with their clients. With a film actress, boyfriends are not going to get jealous if there's been a sex scene on camera, so why would a someone be worried if his partner just had sex for money with a client? - It'd be totally different if the partner then went on to see the client "outside of business hours" etc. Obviously , purely from a safety point of view, I'd prefer my girlfriend to practice safe sex unless she was certain about the clients HIV etc status.
Jealousy is all consuming and usually means the relationship is on the rocks anyway. If my partner were an escort, I'd expect total and frank transparency with what she was doing. Once that honesty and trust were established in the relationship, nothing else would matter.