How do I find a TS girlfriend in San Diego?

[inSD]

Not sure why that's treasonous but thanks I'll take a look at okcupid. The CL ads look pretty questionable and I'm not into CDs at all, plus I don't want a disease I'm also not looking for just a quick hook-up or casual encounter. I'd like to meet a higher caliber person who would be concerned about letting it all hang out on CL. NPI

I'll probably be considered a traitor to the cause, but my advice is okcupid.

When I was dating before I got into Adult Entertainment, I had a stealth ad on there. Part of the reason I used the website was their match questions. They have a slew of TS/ TG/ Gender related questions which are frequently answered by everyone not just TSs and their admirers. I could determine whether someone was Ts friendly or not by reading their answers and I didn't need to out myself to sift through guys. I typically waited until the second date or so to make sure there was chemistry before outing myself.

And it does work for the guys... one of our Hung Angels posters dated me through okc LOL.... so there's hope for you.

[inSD]

I heard SRO but my point is I want to find a girl that doesn't have to go to a known spot. If I saw a really cute TG at the market or whatever I'd talk to her. I just never see them in real life. I saw a really hot girl at waterfront once years ago but it before I was ready and once I saw one at the gym but I wasn't that into her, too ripped.

[inSD]

Well maybe, but I can't imagine that just because someone is TG it means they are looking to make a quick buck. BTW, there's usually a dead giveaway that a girl is TG so I don't think you have some special skill other than being observant. on the other hand if I was surprised I'd be exstatic!

and I can tell which are and arent...this skill I picked up over the years! Lol...Being said im kinna laying low myself! ahh I hope I dont get clocked Lol jk jk
to the Op.- most girls are there for your wallet just hire an hour wife nuff said!

[inSD]

Was at the game the other day. Didn't see her. Thanks for the photoshop hack but I wouldn't quit your day job.

there are no FREE girlfriends be they genetic or transgendered.
that said, I checked Google Earths new TS girlfriend locator and there seems to be hottie near PETCO park right now!!! they'll even send her a text message with your failbook profile stating your interest - go for it

[inSD]

Exactly, that's what makes it even better the fact that she passes and it's just our secret. not into CDs or CL ads and risky behavior. Like I said I'm into super feminine women that just happen to have something extra. I actually find them more feminine than a lot of GGs because they are aware of what makes women fem even more than GGs.

Just a piece of advice for all! Girls who are stealth and live normal lives that would want a bf dont frequent gay clubs or ts events. A lot of times they might be standing next to you in line at grocery store. It kills me how people go crazy over not finding a ts. Most ts who live normal lives that are not in porn or escorting dont want people to know they are a ts. And then all the others you gotta pay for or good luck on CL like someone suggested. You never know what your going to get. Most freebies are CDs if thats your thing!

[TSMichelleAustin]

Exactly, that's what makes it even better the fact that she passes and it's just our secret. not into CDs or CL ads and risky behavior. Like I said I'm into super feminine women that just happen to have something extra. I actually find them more feminine than a lot of GGs because they are aware of what makes women fem even more than GGs.

Like i said good luck! Most of those girls are planning to cut their dicks off too! I lived the life in Chicago years before I went into porn. I actually found my husband when I wasnt looking. He wasnt into ts or a chaser. We have now been together 4yrs. Sometimes people come into ur life when ur not looking. Seems u want it so bad u will never find the girl! Stop looking she might fall right into your lap!

[archineer]

I really like looking at very feminine Transsexuals and I've had a couple of experiences in Vegas that I enjoyed. I'm actually considering trying to date one but I don't know how to meet them. I'm not comfortable using a dating site and I don't feel gay so I don't really want to hang out at gay clubs and I rarely go out to straight clubs anymore either. I think I might like having a TS GF that was very fem, pretty, and passable for dating and maybe a LTR but I never see them anywhere.

If anyone has advice where I should go in San Diego to meet one of these lovely ladies please tell me.

Thanks!

btw, I'm 38yo 6'1" 200lbs. decent looking white guy
and sorry if this is the wrong place to post this.

What others have said about ts' loving money is largely true, but be patient - there are decent ts out there too who want an LTR. The problem is they're most likely taken (in my experience). Trannies are either:

1. Not passable
2. On the game
3. Married/engaged

Edit: Also in my case - too tall! (I'm 5'8") Why are most of the really beautiful passable TS' pushing 6" in heels?

[archineer]

Like i said good luck! Most of those girls are planning to cut their dicks off too! I lived the life in Chicago years before I went into porn. I actually found my husband when I wasnt looking. He wasnt into ts or a chaser. We have now been together 4yrs. Sometimes people come into ur life when ur not looking. Seems u want it so bad u will never find the girl! Stop looking she might fall right into your lap!

Its 50/50 I reckon at least amongst asians. All of the girls i've met are either already post op, Only want SRS when they're like 50 or don't want it at all.

[bluesoul]

btw, I'm 38yo 6'1" 200lbs. decent looking white guy
and sorry if this is the wrong place to post this.

[bluesoul]

Why are most of the really beautiful passable TS' pushing 6" in heels?

a great question. also, have you noticed trannies cannot get pregnant? i mean, what's up with that?