Tops and Transbians??

[slingblade]

Eeehm no, i dont respect that point of view.

It's funny that Amy when she can't get her way will try to twist and turn everything that someone says.. She's starting to act more and more like Bella Bellucci in here..

I simply said most of the girls that i've came across were working girls, and that's just from my personal experience... I wasn't lying about that but there's no need to say that I beleive all girls are like that cause I don't I was talking about the girls that i've personally meet....

[slingblade]

That's the kind of thinking that people take issue with, by the way.Since TS people already exist outside the "social norms" anyway, shouldn't they get to define just how they'll go along with them? Social norms are only defined by what the majority says they are and not necessarily how they act in private.

You're absolutely right.. They should be able to define whatever social norms are right for them, but if you dont wanna embrace womanhood and feminity totally stop saying that you don't see yourself as any different that any woman period..

[AmyDaly]

It's funny that Amy when she can't get her way will try to twist and turn everything that someone says.. She's starting to act more and more like Bella Bellucci in here..

I simply said most of the girls that i've came across were working girls, and that's just from my personal experience... I wasn't lying about that but there's no need to say that I beleive all girls are like that cause I don't I was talking about the girls that i've personally meet....

Thats pretty low. All I am doing is defending TS girls as a whole. All of you saying that most of us are hookers and escorts don't care enough to see that what you are saying is not true. So what if most of the girls you have met are hookers. Is it really necessary to say it then? The few girls that you have met has no bearing on the rest of us. If you only hang out with trans girls at clubs or when you want to hire an escort, you don't think that is going to skew the % of girls you meet that are hookers? Whats the point of bringing it up then? When people are telling us that most of us are hookers and escorts, and you are like "Yea, most of the girls I have met are escorts" or something to that extent, isn't it just trying to further the point that they are making that most of us are hookers?

Then you go and say that translesbians and girls who like to use their cocks should of might as well not transitioned? Who are you to say who should transition or not?

I love how I am the villain around here for defending TS girls and saying that we are not all hookers and we are Women regardless of our sexual preferences. What kind of fucked up place is this?

[Birgitta]

I never wanted to be usual. I am not a female, I am a transexual. I am unique different and special.
If a man doesn't like dick, stick to fucking pussy. Plain and motherfucking simple.

I am dating a guy now, who likes my dick. But our lives nor our relationship revolve around my dick.
So a man can like a bitch and her dick and NOT see her as a fetish

i never wanted to be unusual, i feel like a female but i know im not a female, i dont want to be a ts, but i have accepted it that i am, i dont feel better then others, still i will not turn a guy down that has no interest in my cock but is interested in ME, and these guys are out there!. I dont hate my penis. But im not glad im a ts, i want to experience a normal life as a woman as much as i can. Ive been unusual for such a long time, i love to feel what its like to be usual for a change. We both want different things from life, that does not mean you are wrong or that im wrong, it just means we are different. Being different and thinking different does not mean im closed minded.
I think you have spent to much time educating the world about your fabulousness that you forgot the t community does not begin and end with you. Lol

[nicebrn]

You're absolutely right.. They should be able to define whatever social norms are right for them, but if you dont wanna embrace womanhood and feminity totally stop saying that you don't see yourself as any different that any woman period..

My whole point is that fucking and femininity are not mutually exclusive. People identify fucking with penetration and figure that being the active one is the masculine role. But just because most people believe that doesn't make it inherently right. It just makes it what most people believe.

You might disagree, but other people aren't obligated to agree with how you see it, much less live up to it right?

[Birgitta]

You're absolutely right.. They should be able to define whatever social norms are right for them, but if you dont wanna embrace womanhood and feminity totally stop saying that you don't see yourself as any different that any woman period..

I think you are soooo right about this!!!
Im suprised im the only one that sees it lol!

I try to embrace womanhood but even i dont present myself as a woman on message boards like this, i simply state that i feel like one, not that i am one.

[AmyDaly]

but if you dont wanna embrace womanhood and feminity totally stop saying that you don't see yourself as any different that any woman period..

Tell me. Is being attracted to someone with a cock masculine? Yes or no?

[arnie666]

Well if all trannies were bottoms I would not be wasting my doe on them put it that way. To put it bluntly if it was about anal ,girls have buttholes and I can get that for free.

Besides there are girls who enjoy putting a strap on on,there are girls that enjoy dominating men ,who are you to judge how they should behave and what is masculine ? Should all of them transition to men because it doesn't fit your view of things?

Just because you like taking a role in the bedroom doesn't mean you do so all the time, either.And if the business with girls with c0cks makes you so uncomfortable, why are you on the site?

[Birgitta]

Tell me. Is being attracted to someone with a cock masculine? Yes or no?

Eeehm, there are men out there that appreciate femininity when they see it...men that rather date a feminine boy then a masculine girl, for some people its about the person they are dating with, not the genitals.

[AmyDaly]

Eeehm, there are men out there that appreciate femininity when they see it...men that rather date a feminine boy then a masculine girl, for some people its about the person they are dating with, not the genitals.

So.....is that a yes or a no?

I just want to know, because slingblade is telling us not to call ourselves women if we don't want to be 100% feminine as defined by the social norms. I don't think liking girls with dicks is 100% masculine. I think he should stop calling himself a "real man" if he doesn't want to accept complete masculinity.