Am i the only one

[Birgitta]

Of this I'm sure... and now I have to be serious for a second: if you feel that way you really should be seeing a professional. In case you missed it, a friend of ours here with very similar feelings to yours took her own life recently. You're annoying, you're insecure, you're closed-minded, but you don't deserve to die. Your account here on HA maybe, but not you. Please get help. I'm not joking.

~BB~

She probably developed those feelings despite of all the love she got from the males in the t community scene, who really are open minded and undetstanding and cared for her feelings,

Im just being honest, doesnt mean i have to see a therapist and i do actually, just to keep me sane

[Birgitta]

I do understand, and yes self acceptance is a issue for alot of people. but as a TS, you need to be strong or your not going to make it.. especially if you cant accept your body.

I made it so far lol

[dderek123]

the understanding the general public gets from the TS community... is that we are all a bunch of straight masculine males that selfishly ruin marriages and the lives of children by insisting we are female while NOBODY in our envirement actually believes us....

And that those who are non/op love to fuck males and be top.... That is the image the general public will have of us...

I am sorry for expressing my feelings about it lol!
I will practise "openmindedness" next time LOL!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Well the general public is dumb and misinformed. Not everyone thinks of TS that way.

Let's flip it around for a second.

The general public most likely believes that men that are into TS and want to do whatever with them sexually are: crazy, gay, gay and in denial about it, a cockhound, closet case, a chaser. All those negative stereotypes wrapped up and dumped on little old me.

And so what do I get out of pondering about what the general public thinks of me and what I do? Pretty much nothing. I have made up my own mind about what I want to do and how it's going to be done.

I just keep on given'r and not worry about all the other crap.

[Birgitta]

Well the general public is dumb and misinformed. Not everyone thinks of TS that way.

Let's flip it around for a second.

The general public most likely believes that men that are into TS and want to do whatever with them sexually are: crazy, gay, gay and in denial about it, a cockhound, closet case, a chaser. All those negative stereotypes wrapped up and dumped on little old me.

And so what do I get out of pondering about what the general public thinks of me and what I do? Pretty much nothing. I have made up my own mind about what I want to do and how it's going to be done.

I just keep on given'r and not worry about all the other crap.

I cannot blame the general public for thinking men that are into Twoman are gay... I mean look at the porn lol!
But you probably are right... and I should not be bothered with it anyway...

Still I think in the end all this stuff will make it harder for tgirls to be accepted as woman, and for them to find a bf, who can deal with the prejudice the community only feeds instead of reducing it.

[amberskyi]

I cannot blame the general public for thinking men that are into Twoman are gay... I mean look at the porn lol!
But you probably are right... and I should not be bothered with it anyway...

Still I think in the end all this stuff will make it harder for tgirls to be accepted as woman, and for them to find a bf, who can deal with the prejudice the community only feeds instead of reducing it.

lol.men are the least of my problems.well actually having to much men in ones life is one of my current problems now lol.im in the process of elimination now.

[TsVanessa69]

That.

And it's sad to see all those threads trying to convince himself that he's straight, when he's in fact the only one who really cares.

It kills me when guys don't know what they want, nor are the people they diss have the remote interest in them. As a transexual who just turned 39, I have seen alot and been through alot. But when I see people like this dude, I THANK GOD I was man enough to accept MY reality and live it and love it! There are some sorry ass people in this world, this dude talks so much shit about trans woman, what trans woman would ever lower herself to acknowledge him unless he was paying??

[TsVanessa69]

Of course your penis does not define your womanhood.

Freddy asked you what made you better then other woman...
You answered: my penis!

That was the correct answer.
Many men are realizing that for them, a transexual is better than a female.
Being female just means that there is a vagina.
A vagina means she can get pregnant, trap a nigga for 18 years of child support and God knows what else.
Some men don't want children, its not part of their life plan.
Some men want a fem-bot, a barbie doll, a dime piece every day they wake up.
So yes a penis does make a transexual BETTER than a female for MANY men in 2011.

[TsVanessa69]

lol.men are the least of my problems.well actually having to much men in ones life is one of my current problems now lol.im in the process of elimination now.

amen!

[TsVanessa69]

fuck thats shit.if you can eat a girls pussy than you can sure as hell put my dick in your mouth.
no one puts their cock in my ass without putting mines in theirs mouth.
"this junk in my trunk aint made for chumps"

AMEN!!!!! With all the sexier dudes in this world who will, why waste time with a lame ass nigga who won't. If dick is that big of a turn off to a man, he can stick to females. As transexuals we pick and choose as we please. A man is here to please us, if you can't please me you can pay me. If you can't do both, I have no problem throwing you out, mid fuck!

[TsVanessa69]

no youre not the only one ive wondered this myself why in the hell would someone waste time becomming a tranny if they want to top and fuck guys in the ass?

Ignorance and lames seem to run amuck on this site.
Gender identity and sexual preference are 2 very different things. As a transexual, I transitioned for me, not to please other people or follow their norms.
I am the best of BOTH worlds, and MANY men appreciate that. Thats why you dudes are bitchin and moanin on a tranny forum, while the REAL men are spending that time and energy enjoying their ts!