Am i the only one

[BellaBellucci]

Dear Birgitta,

Damage control. It is a bitch. And yes, fuck me. Fuck me indeed. I didn't realize that being mistreated by those you consider men in dresses gave you carte blanche to come in here and make rude statements towards other real, full time, transsexual women simply because they have different preferences than you do. I apologize for not seeing your victimization complex sooner and not changing the laws of basic logic and universal understanding to accommodate your prejudiced, exclusive, self-serving, and closed-minded views.

You have no excuse for the things you said.

Sincerely,

~BB~

PS: I thought you were leaving. The logout link is located at the top, right-hand corner of every page.

[Birgitta]

Damage control. It is a bitch. And yes, fuck me. Fuck me indeed. I didn't realize that being mistreated by men in dresses gave you carte blanche to come in here and make rude statements towards other real, full time, transsexual women simply because they have different preferences than you do. I apologize for not seeing for victimization complex sooner.

~BB~

Honestly it is not a victimization complex... I am a Tgirl myself and HONESTLY...I believe many of my supposed sisters simply aren't woman. AT LEAST they are NOT behaving like woman. Thats my opinion. Do with it as you please lol.

[BellaBellucci]

Honestly it is not a victimization complex... I am a Tgirl myself and HONESTLY...I believe many of my sopposed sisters simply aren't woman. AT LEAST they are NOT behaving like woman. Thats my opinion. Do with it as you please lol.

OK, so you're not talking about me anymore. Well, that's a start. And I agree that a lot of transwomen are decidedly not women. I'd be a fool to argue the point. However, a person's womanhood isn't defined by their preferred sexual positions and there's no shame in using what a fluke of nature gave us in order to drive physical pleasure from relationships, and yes, dare I say it, in order to make an income. You still haven't redacted your statement to the contrary. You didn't state a personal preference; you made an unwarranted, unsolicited judgement and you should clarify your statement or stand by it, not just re-tailor it in a poor attempt to placate me. I'm not going away anytime soon.

Is any of this getting through?

~BB~

[Birgitta]

I apologize for not seeing your victimization complex sooner and not changing the laws of basic logic and universal understanding to accommodate your prejudiced, exclusive, self-serving, and closed-minded views.

You have no excuse for the things you said.

Please explain the laws of logic and universal understanding when it comes to straight heterosexual masculine men that want to have a pussy between their legs, and Tgirls (that were forced and unable to be themselves for usualy half of their lifetime) that find PLEASURE in performing like males in the bedroom.

Educate me.

[dderek123]

I would never have transitioned if not absolutely necessary, an my only wish is just to be normal girl.

But the circus around transgended woman in general is damaging.
I think it is a really bad stigma that due to TS porn Tgirls are portreyed as men serving passive men. Just because it sells.

Also it is damaging that those straight heterosexual lesbian T woman find their way to the media each time and make a fool out of the T community.
Cause nobody believes them!!!!

The amount of prejudice a T girl has to deal with due to her supposed sisters is a lot to swallow.

If Bella does not understand that, fuck her! lol

Well this kind of stuff happens in other walks of life. I imagine some republicans in America shudder each time they see some of the republican nut jobs on TV (Ann Coulther and such). One of my best friends is a priest and started his own church out here in Thailand. And he gets a little annoyed about how the nuttiest Christians end up on TV and give all of them a bad name (naturally he forgives them and moves on). I could go on and on.

You got to be thick skinned. I think I only have an idea what a TS has to go through on a daily basis but I don't think it's productive to judge others by your own criteria. Even the straight heterosexual lesbian T women. I just hope that people will see TS having positive relationships with others in the media. I think things would turn a corner and the general public would have a better understanding of TS.

[BellaBellucci]

Please explain the laws of logic and universal understanding when it comes to straight heterosexual masculine men that want to have a pussy between their legs, and Tgirls (that were forced and unable to be themselves for usualy half of their lifetime) that find PLEASURE in performing like males in the bedroom.

Educate me.

I was very clear. Yes, old men who think they're women and want vaginas are probably nuts (and we weren't even talking about them - I'm not sure how that even came into the convo). No, girls who top are not men. Is that clear enough for you? But you have to let people live on their own terms.

You're the one that needs to be doing the explaining right now Miss Thing!

~BB~

[Birgitta]

OK, so you're not talking about me anymore. Well, that's a start. And I agree that a lot of transwomen are decidedly not women. I'd be a fool to argue the point. However, a person's womanhood isn't defined by their preferred sexual positions and there's no shame in using what a fluke of nature gave us in order to drive physical pleasure from relationships, and yes, dare I say it, in order to make an income. You still haven't redacted your statement to the contrary. You didn't state a personal preference; you made an unwarranted, unsolicited judgement and you should clarify your statement or stand by it, not just re-tailor it in a poor attempt to placate me. I'm not going away anytime soon.

Is any of this getting through?

~BB~

Honey with the right guy...I would let him suck me... but it will never be the first thing that is on my mind.

What I am adressing is that I think the T-porn/escort world is a fantasy world created not by the girls themselves but by the the desires of the males with feminine masochistic transvestite longings.

It is perfectly ok to make money from escort, or porn.

[BellaBellucci]

Honey with the right guy...I would let him suck me... but it will never be the first thing that is on my mind.

What I am adressing is that I think the T-porn/escort world is a fantasy world created not by the girls themselves but by the the desires of the males with feminine masochistic transvestite longings.

It is perfectly ok to make money from escort, or porn.

Actually, I think that the 'fantasy world' is regulated by a give and take between the girls and the guys that desire them. On the other hand, you insist that only your way is valid. I heard you loud and clear, so what's the issue here? If that's really what you believe, stand by it and I'll even respect you more for it, but even as you back peddle you're still being passive aggressively judgmental, not simply stating an opinion.

~BB~

[Birgitta]

OK, so you're not talking about me anymore. Well, that's a start. And I agree that a lot of transwomen are decidedly not women. I'd be a fool to argue the point. However, a person's womanhood isn't defined by their preferred sexual positions and there's no shame in using what a fluke of nature gave us in order to drive physical pleasure from relationships, and yes, dare I say it, in order to make an income. You still haven't redacted your statement to the contrary. You didn't state a personal preference; you made an unwarranted, unsolicited judgement and you should clarify your statement or stand by it, not just re-tailor it in a poor attempt to placate me. I'm not going away anytime soon.

Is any of this getting through?

~BB~

I dont remember I was ever talking about you lol.
I am not stating a personal preference... It is NOT my personal preference to NOT want to be a top, to NOT be able to be a male.
People should not confuse preference with the way I am conditioned. Its not like open mindedness will save me from my condition lol.
I was simply born this way.... one can only argue with me about if being born is actually a choise.. but that is something else entirely.

And no I do not think my way is the only way.
Apparently "my way" is far more unique then I imagined. And I dont like to be unique lol. kind of tired of it lol.!

[Birgitta]

Well this kind of stuff happens in other walks of life. I imagine some republicans in America shudder each time they see some of the republican nut jobs on TV (Ann Coulther and such). One of my best friends is a priest and started his own church out here in Thailand. And he gets a little annoyed about how the nuttiest Christians end up on TV and give all of them a bad name (naturally he forgives them and moves on). I could go on and on.

You got to be thick skinned. I think I only have an idea what a TS has to go through on a daily basis but I don't think it's productive to judge others by your own criteria. Even the straight heterosexual lesbian T women. I just hope that people will see TS having positive relationships with others in the media. I think things would turn a corner and the general public would have a better understanding of TS.

Which is why I dont call myself a christian....even though I am one at a certain level...

I simply cant state I am not a TS anymore because I cannot identify with my sisters....unfortunately.