Would you have a serious relationship with a TGIRL?

[amberskyi]

I don't fit into any of that at all. Also, don't play the victim. You girls use men just as much as they use you. You wouldn't want to date half of the guys who would actually want to date you. You'd rather spend his money and get rides in his sports car. It's not just TS women but all women. And when I say victim, I mean as though you are the only one being played. You are playing each other, that's why it's called a game in most situations.

And when you say willing to "give of themselves" what does that mean? more money? I have yet to find a TS woman who wants to hang out and it NOT be about money. Though it's hard to find that with many women it's damn nigh impossible with TS women. And no, I don't mean cross dressing men.

i see.nice strategy with playing the whole "all ts woman are gold diggers and whores so they set themselves up for the objectification" card.
all you have to do is go through this forum and see all the threads these guys have about how hard they struggle with theyre attraction to trannies or threads similar to this.its not hard to see its alittle bit deeper than just ts woman only care about money.

[Dkg]

That's not entirely true brother...maybe you need to get the fuck out of DC, lol...

The last 3 ts girls I've hung out with haven't asked me for a dime and were more real than most ggs I've been with....and if you saw the 3 I'm talking about, you'd shit yourself-so fuckin hot, but none of them were really into the scene...maybe I'm just a lucky bastard, but it can happen, not impossible...

I think I'm just looking in the wrong places. And there aren't exactly any ts bars/clubs/social venues around here. Like I said once before on this forum, I can't even spot them when I'm just out and about (both a good and bad thing). Maybe you are just a lucky bastard...

i see.nice strategy with playing the whole "all ts woman are gold diggers and whores so they set themselves up for the objectification" card.
all you have to do is go through this forum and see all the threads these guys have about how hard they struggle with theyre attraction to trannies or threads similar to this.its not hard to see its alittle bit deeper than just ts woman only care about money.

Of course, not all are. I'm just saying, it's not fair to play the victim card when they are no more victims than the men are. Since I joined this thread I've maybe seen a 2 or 3 such threads. Most guys here accept that they are attracted to ts women, they just aren't necessarily open about it in their personal lives. With the society we live in, it's not exactly hard to understand why that is. Like I said, most ts women I've meet (in person or on the net) seem to mostly care about the money. I'm just speaking from personal experience.

[T$420]

I think we are all just curious Ruby, since you know...you wouldn't date ANYBODY on this website and all...where did you meet your Soul Mate? I think we all would like some insight on how to pull such an amazing & beautiful girl such as yourself...

Ruby...

[RubyTS]

i see.nice strategy with playing the whole "all ts woman are gold diggers and whores so they set themselves up for the objectification" card.
all you have to do is go through this forum and see all the threads these guys have about how hard they struggle with theyre attraction to trannies or threads similar to this.its not hard to see its alittle bit deeper than just ts woman only care about money.

DING DING DING!!!

We're all suckers. We all get used for one thing or another. And usually the last thing we want to be used for. Men dont want to be used for their money, women dont want to be used for their body, but i have to say that i try my damned HARDEST to be seen as a person and not an object, and give men PLENTY of reasons to like me beyond just physical attraction. Its like u guys cant help some of the stupid shit that comes out your mouth sometimes. Like those dating shows where the guy screws up in 3...2...1....

lol i remember this one time (i told this story b4) i was with this guy who drove me somewhere and my tuck was hurting so i loosened it up a bit and the guy noticed and wouldnt stop commenting on my cock the whole ride, telling me i could take it out if i wanted to and hang it out the car window and stuff ... ughh... so inappropriate. and he just wouldnt stop!!!! Another guy i met as friends and was playing video games and he just kept looking for reasons to brush up against me, or touch me, or make little random flirty comments and when i wouldnt respond as he hoped after an hour he dropped his pants in my house to ask me what i thought of his cock like we were in some cheesy porno scene and i was gonna jump on it. i was SO disrespected i kicked his ass out after giving him a hot piece of my spanish mouth!!! And not the good kind!

the truth is it doesnt matter WHERE u meet the girls, its all about you, your confidence, and the way you make her feel about herself. women like men to treat them like friends. Let the GIRL make the first advance, she wouldnt be spending time with u if she wasnt interested, (or time your advances accordingly. Pay close attention to mannerisms and mood, its not hard people are very easy to read!) u dont have to remind her that u like her every 5 seconds, or OVER compliment her, its looses it's genuine-ness after the first 5 times u tell her how pretty she is and makes u look a little desperate! Women love confidence, and believe me, that goes a LONG WAY!!! Its right up there with WIT and humor! But there is a VERY fine line between confidence and cockiness and there nothing more of a turnoff than an egotistical guy! Try treating a girl like u would your mom, or your sister, or a close family friend. With respect! That will take u so much further than bragging about how many hot chicks you get (lol) or making inappropriate comments that only YOU find funny!

And finally, i met my boyfriend online. He wasnt my type initially and i shot him down over and over again. One day i noticed an awesome away msg and commented on aim and we just got to chatting. i didnt know it was him, but i was so enveloped in his personality, natural charm and charisma that i decided to contine talking with him as friends. He went WAYY out of his way and met me in Atlantic City BTW A CASINO IS AN AWESOME FIRST DATE!!!! Anything interractive and fun really.... I was impressed by his persistence and confidence. Our conversations flowed effortlessly, and from day i we were BEST FRIENDS. He would pick on me and i would pick on him and the playfulness was exhilirating and such a great change of pace. i kept him with me for 3 days, and after that we were inseperable. It wasn't long before we were exchanging "i love you's" The chemistry was amazing and effortless. then i started to realize how cute he really is, and wondered why i didnt see it sooner. Now i feel very fortunate to have found him. He is the best thing that has ever happened to me!

[Caff_Racer]

Most guys here accept that they are attracted to ts women, they just aren't necessarily open about it in their personal lives. With the society we live in, it's not exactly hard to understand why that is.

Fair enough, but if us blokes don't start speaking openly about the fact that we like transwomen the same way we like genetic women then that society isn't really likely to change any time soon, is it?

DING DING DING!!!

We're all suckers. We all get used for one thing or another. And usually the last thing we want to be used for. Men dont want to be used for their money, women dont want to be used for their body, but i have to say that i try my damned HARDEST to be seen as a person and not an object, and give men PLENTY of reasons to like me beyond just physical attraction. Its like u guys cant help some of the stupid shit that comes out your mouth sometimes. Like those dating shows where the guy screws up in 3...2...1....

lol i remember this one time (i told this story b4) i was with this guy who drove me somewhere and my tuck was hurting so i loosened it up a bit and the guy noticed and wouldnt stop commenting on my cock the whole ride, telling me i could take it out if i wanted to and hang it out the car window and stuff ... ughh... so inappropriate. and he just wouldnt stop!!!! Another guy i met as friends and was playing video games and he just kept looking for reasons to brush up against me, or touch me, or make little random flirty comments and when i wouldnt respond as he hoped after an hour he dropped his pants in my house to ask me what i thought of his cock like we were in some cheesy porno scene and i was gonna jump on it. i was SO disrespected i kicked his ass out after giving him a hot piece of my spanish mouth!!! And not the good kind!

the truth is it doesnt matter WHERE u meet the girls, its all about you, your confidence, and the way you make her feel about herself. women like men to treat them like friends. Let the GIRL make the first advance, she wouldnt be spending time with u if she wasnt interested, (or time your advances accordingly. Pay close attention to mannerisms and mood, its not hard people are very easy to read!) u dont have to remind her that u like her every 5 seconds, or OVER compliment her, its looses it's genuine-ness after the first 5 times u tell her how pretty she is and makes u look a little desperate! Women love confidence, and believe me, that goes a LONG WAY!!! Its right up there with WIT and humor! But there is a VERY fine line between confidence and cockiness and there nothing more of a turnoff than an egotistical guy! Try treating a girl like u would your mom, or your sister, or a close family friend. With respect! That will take u so much further than bragging about how many hot chicks you get (lol) or making inappropriate comments that only YOU find funny!

And finally, i met my boyfriend online. He wasnt my type initially and i shot him down over and over again. One day i noticed an awesome away msg and commented on aim and we just got to chatting. i didnt know it was him, but i was so enveloped in his personality, natural charm and charisma that i decided to contine talking with him as friends. He went WAYY out of his way and met me in Atlantic City BTW A CASINO IS AN AWESOME FIRST DATE!!!! Anything interractive and fun really.... I was impressed by his persistence and confidence. Our conversations flowed effortlessly, and from day i we were BEST FRIENDS. He would pick on me and i would pick on him and the playfulness was exhilirating and such a great change of pace. i kept him with me for 3 days, and after that we were inseperable. It wasn't long before we were exchanging "i love you's" The chemistry was amazing and effortless. then i started to realize how cute he really is, and wondered why i didnt see it sooner. Now i feel very fortunate to have found him. He is the best thing that has ever happened to me!

I couldn't believe the bit about the bloke dropping his kecks in front of you! I really wonder what goes through some blokes' heads! I'd never dream of behaving like that to anybody, not even if I was totally off my face...

And the bit I've highlighted in red (hope you don't mind) are words of wisdom that I think all blokes ought to read attentively every so often - indeed, some of the loudmouths on this forum should recite them as a mantra, several times a day: it might stop them from making bigger fools of themselves than they already are! (one can only hope...)

[amberskyi]

I think I'm just looking in the wrong places. And there aren't exactly any ts bars/clubs/social venues around here. Like I said once before on this forum, I can't even spot them when I'm just out and about (both a good and bad thing). Maybe you are just a lucky bastard...



Of course, not all are. I'm just saying, it's not fair to play the victim card when they are no more victims than the men are. Since I joined this thread I've maybe seen a 2 or 3 such threads. Most guys here accept that they are attracted to ts women, they just aren't necessarily open about it in their personal lives. With the society we live in, it's not exactly hard to understand why that is. Like I said, most ts women I've meet (in person or on the net) seem to mostly care about the money. I'm just speaking from personal experience.

"they just aren't necessarily open about it in their personal lives. With the society we live in, it's not exactly hard to understand why that is"

yep that just smacks of acceptance.pleaseeee.if you wanna treat me like a dirty secret,ima keep running those pockets.why should i give the time of day to men who are to ashamed and hung up to take me seriously.show me your not a trick then ill respect you as a man.come at me with a bunch of hang ups and wanting to be on the low than youll just go in the box with the dollar signs.
and im guessing you havent seen the thread where almost all the men in here were discussing their addiction to trannies and how they try to cope or kick their habit.it was crazy,you really would of thought they were talking about crack.its great to know that im something to be coped with or tried to kick.

[amberskyi]

DING DING DING!!!

We're all suckers. We all get used for one thing or another. And usually the last thing we want to be used for. Men dont want to be used for their money, women dont want to be used for their body, but i have to say that i try my damned HARDEST to be seen as a person and not an object, and give men PLENTY of reasons to like me beyond just physical attraction. Its like u guys cant help some of the stupid shit that comes out your mouth sometimes. Like those dating shows where the guy screws up in 3...2...1....

lol i remember this one time (i told this story b4) i was with this guy who drove me somewhere and my tuck was hurting so i loosened it up a bit and the guy noticed and wouldnt stop commenting on my cock the whole ride, telling me i could take it out if i wanted to and hang it out the car window and stuff ... ughh... so inappropriate. and he just wouldnt stop!!!! Another guy i met as friends and was playing video games and he just kept looking for reasons to brush up against me, or touch me, or make little random flirty comments and when i wouldnt respond as he hoped after an hour he dropped his pants in my house to ask me what i thought of his cock like we were in some cheesy porno scene and i was gonna jump on it. i was SO disrespected i kicked his ass out after giving him a hot piece of my spanish mouth!!! And not the good kind!

the truth is it doesnt matter WHERE u meet the girls, its all about you, your confidence, and the way you make her feel about herself. women like men to treat them like friends. Let the GIRL make the first advance, she wouldnt be spending time with u if she wasnt interested, (or time your advances accordingly. Pay close attention to mannerisms and mood, its not hard people are very easy to read!) u dont have to remind her that u like her every 5 seconds, or OVER compliment her, its looses it's genuine-ness after the first 5 times u tell her how pretty she is and makes u look a little desperate! Women love confidence, and believe me, that goes a LONG WAY!!! Its right up there with WIT and humor! But there is a VERY fine line between confidence and cockiness and there nothing more of a turnoff than an egotistical guy! Try treating a girl like u would your mom, or your sister, or a close family friend. With respect! That will take u so much further than bragging about how many hot chicks you get (lol) or making inappropriate comments that only YOU find funny!

And finally, i met my boyfriend online. He wasnt my type initially and i shot him down over and over again. One day i noticed an awesome away msg and commented on aim and we just got to chatting. i didnt know it was him, but i was so enveloped in his personality, natural charm and charisma that i decided to contine talking with him as friends. He went WAYY out of his way and met me in Atlantic City BTW A CASINO IS AN AWESOME FIRST DATE!!!! Anything interractive and fun really.... I was impressed by his persistence and confidence. Our conversations flowed effortlessly, and from day i we were BEST FRIENDS. He would pick on me and i would pick on him and the playfulness was exhilirating and such a great change of pace. i kept him with me for 3 days, and after that we were inseperable. It wasn't long before we were exchanging "i love you's" The chemistry was amazing and effortless. then i started to realize how cute he really is, and wondered why i didnt see it sooner. Now i feel very fortunate to have found him. He is the best thing that has ever happened to me!

bitch,when you write i shut up and listen lol.your always right on point.i think im going to have to write ya another letter.

[BigDF]

DING DING DING!!!

We're all suckers. We all get used for one thing or another. And usually the last thing we want to be used for. Men dont want to be used for their money, women dont want to be used for their body, but i have to say that i try my damned HARDEST to be seen as a person and not an object, and give men PLENTY of reasons to like me beyond just physical attraction. Its like u guys cant help some of the stupid shit that comes out your mouth sometimes. Like those dating shows where the guy screws up in 3...2...1....

lol i remember this one time (i told this story b4) i was with this guy who drove me somewhere and my tuck was hurting so i loosened it up a bit and the guy noticed and wouldnt stop commenting on my cock the whole ride, telling me i could take it out if i wanted to and hang it out the car window and stuff ... ughh... so inappropriate. and he just wouldnt stop!!!! Another guy i met as friends and was playing video games and he just kept looking for reasons to brush up against me, or touch me, or make little random flirty comments and when i wouldnt respond as he hoped after an hour he dropped his pants in my house to ask me what i thought of his cock like we were in some cheesy porno scene and i was gonna jump on it. i was SO disrespected i kicked his ass out after giving him a hot piece of my spanish mouth!!! And not the good kind!

the truth is it doesnt matter WHERE u meet the girls, its all about you, your confidence, and the way you make her feel about herself. women like men to treat them like friends. Let the GIRL make the first advance, she wouldnt be spending time with u if she wasnt interested, (or time your advances accordingly. Pay close attention to mannerisms and mood, its not hard people are very easy to read!) u dont have to remind her that u like her every 5 seconds, or OVER compliment her, its looses it's genuine-ness after the first 5 times u tell her how pretty she is and makes u look a little desperate! Women love confidence, and believe me, that goes a LONG WAY!!! Its right up there with WIT and humor! But there is a VERY fine line between confidence and cockiness and there nothing more of a turnoff than an egotistical guy! Try treating a girl like u would your mom, or your sister, or a close family friend. With respect! That will take u so much further than bragging about how many hot chicks you get (lol) or making inappropriate comments that only YOU find funny!

And finally, i met my boyfriend online. He wasnt my type initially and i shot him down over and over again. One day i noticed an awesome away msg and commented on aim and we just got to chatting. i didnt know it was him, but i was so enveloped in his personality, natural charm and charisma that i decided to contine talking with him as friends. He went WAYY out of his way and met me in Atlantic City BTW A CASINO IS AN AWESOME FIRST DATE!!!! Anything interractive and fun really.... I was impressed by his persistence and confidence. Our conversations flowed effortlessly, and from day i we were BEST FRIENDS. He would pick on me and i would pick on him and the playfulness was exhilirating and such a great change of pace. i kept him with me for 3 days, and after that we were inseperable. It wasn't long before we were exchanging "i love you's" The chemistry was amazing and effortless. then i started to realize how cute he really is, and wondered why i didnt see it sooner. Now i feel very fortunate to have found him. He is the best thing that has ever happened to me!

Way to go, Ruby. Very good primer for the guys to read and learn from. Any guy looking for any kind of serious relationship with a woman should mine all of the gems out of your post.

I loved the story about the two boys with you, mainly because I was like that myself at one time due to a combination of nerves, horniness and alcohol. I'll pretty much guarantee that the boy who couldn't keep his mouth shut in the car knew that he was going too far in his comments and was actually trying desperately to shut up. And one of the problems that guys have from watching too much porn is that they don't realize that no real woman is going to act like that unless she's getting paid.

I also liked your personal love story too because it shows how really strong relationships evolve. I met my wife at work and we used to talk a lot as friends. At first I had no romantic attraction to her, she just seemed and smelled nicer than the guys that worked with her. We enjoyed chatting about things that went on at work and around the town where we lived and after a couple of years we just moved into a romantic relationship. She told me then that she'd never planned it that way and in fact was going to try and hook me up with her friend who was constantly having man problems. But the timing of that never worked out right and she decided to keep me for herself, thank God.

I think you a very attractive woman and person, Ruby, especially for sharing you life and thoughts with us. Your inner beauty shines through your words.

Thank you,
Dave

[alyssaluxor]

im looking for a boyfriend/long term relationship!

anyone out there looking for a TS girl 100% passable and hot just contact me and lets FUKC everynight *wink wink*

[Ryz]

im looking for a boyfriend/long term relationship!

anyone out there looking for a TS girl 100% passable and hot just contact me and lets FUKC everynight *wink wink*

Where are you baby? I'm ready to get married