Anyone else find this F*ed Up

[MissBStar]

this is scary. MAkes me scared to shoot porn. God forbid I get a stalker and he kills me out of a fit of jealousy

[GroobySteven]

this is scary. MAkes me scared to shoot porn. God forbid I get a stalker and he kills me out of a fit of jealousy

If you worked in Starbucks you get a stalker and it would be easier to find you each day. Most models don't use their real name and can't be found that regularly in any one place.

[MissBStar]

If you worked in Starbucks you get a stalker and it would be easier to find you each day. Most models don't use their real name and can't be found that regularly in any one place.

true but if you're going to escort that's a direct way to find you

[FREEFALLL666]

I find it fucked up because these girls died for various reasons and are on a memorial site with ass tits and dick hanging out.
I find that very disrespectful to them.

Imagine how it would be to set up a memorial site to an actor without clips of their work. I mean how disrespectful of someone to post the very thing that made their legend work. Imagine how disrespectful it would be to say Robert Downey Junior died mention he was an alcoholic, imagine mentioning an actors drug problems, imagine mentioning they had AIDS..

These girls provided a fantasy, maybe one that exsisted in the minds of those viewing their pictures. If someone was painted in the nude 10 years ago and was put in an art gallery, say they died later on, would you be outraged if the work of art remained on display? I would say not, YOU are degrading these girls and their art.

Rather than complaining about this site, why dont you seek out those sites that continue to display these girls videos or those photo sets and get them to take the images down?

[rockabilly]

true but if you're going to escort that's a direct way to find you

It's a shame there's not a tgirl "bunny ranch".

You could escort and be protected. :

[BeardedOne]

STOP!

Jesus Christ in a fucking sidecar.

You people torque me off in ways that I can't describe. ALL OF YOU!

Still numb from Stacey's death in Philly just a few days ago we start seeing more news of another passing in LA and we have yet to absorb the passing of another lady that was murdered in Jersey not more than a month ago.

Three. THREE. THREE IN LESS THAN THREE MONTHS!

Yet, rather than mourne these people, rather than remember them in better times, we would rather poke each other in the eye over how they are viewed in death.

NEWS FLASH:

Most of the people that are memorialized on this and related sites, no matter how much they were loved/adored/appreciated, were adult entertainers, professional escorts, trans-obsessed wankers, or porn producers.

Get the fuck over it!

I see that Steven/Seanchai has defended his Fallen Angels/Devils link already, but he shouldn't have to. The link has been up for quite a while and I have viewed it and supported it from day one because it is the =ONLY= one that has done at least its small bit to acknowledge the existence of these people, let alone recall that there are a few people on this planet that appreciated them and truly miss them.

The newslinks are the only information we have as to how/when these people left us and they are an all-too-necessary reminder as to the cold and harsh ways that our friends are taken from us. As to the nude/semi-nude photos that accompany these dark obituaries: I challenge you to find a fully clothed, mundane image of some of these people in their natural gender. They are rare, if they exist at all.



There have been days in recent history when I have sat in front of this monitor, this 'phosohor teat' as Harlan Ellison once called it, and cried. Though I have not personally known the gurls that passed, I know people that have been close to them and have been clumsily trying to console them in emails and instant messages. Stacey's death was within blocks of people that I feel very close to and I can't help but wonder if they might be the next headline. The next fumbled gender pronoun of the press.

And you lot bicker over who has the right to memorialize them and in what form such memorial may take. You accuse others of profiteering upon the deaths of others in their clan or culture. You poke at the eyes of those that are in mourning.

Fuck off. For not a one of you is truly human.

[BellaBellucci]

And you lot bicker over who has the right to memorialize them and in what form such memorial may take. You accuse others of profiteering upon the deaths of others in their clan or culture. You poke at the eyes of those that are in mourning.

Fuck off. For not a one of you is truly human.

Seriously? So we should never discuss a better way to honor people because to do so is to dishonor them? Come on now! I know you mean well... but what the fuck?! The best way to honor a person's memory is to get it right, don't you think?

We don't know why any girl does porn, but I'm willing to bet that many of them just needed the money. That said, be honest. Do you really think that every one of these girls wanted to be memorialized as a sex object simply because they did a few shoots for some extra cash? And you don't think that posting sexual photos of a girl ('only a nipple,' or not) even after she's gone encourages guys to think, 'wow, I'm going to miss seeing that cock,' as opposed to 'wow, we lost another beautiful woman?'

I know you mean well and I know you've earned everyone's respect, including mine, so I'll just leave it at this: get a grip, baby.

~BB~

[tsparisangelline]

1. There are NO NUDES of any of the dead girls on this site of any of the deceased. The most you can see is a nipple. So whoever is sensationalising this and to what ends, they're wrong.

The fact, that I'm going to have to write another one today.

The issue is that the girls WERE potrayed in a sexual manner.
You think Paris Hilton will have an obituary with her sex tape on it?
Pamela Anderson will have a pic with her tits out?
NO, they will have pics covered of themselves that show them a classy manner.

Imagine how it would be to set up a memorial site to an actor without clips of their work. I mean how disrespectful of someone to post the very thing that made their legend work

The sex industry is low class and NO ONE wants to be remembered for it, unless they have severe mental issues.
I personally know if i died I wouldn't want anyone to say "Paris Angelline the transsexual Escort died" and then have them post my ass pics, come on now.

That said, be honest. Do you really think that every one of these girls wanted to be memorialized as a sex object simply because they did a few shoots for some extra cash?

~BB~

COSIGN

[BeardedOne]

I know you mean well and I know you've earned everyone's respect, including mine, so I'll just leave it at this: get a grip, baby.

I am truly not right in mind, soul, and heart right now. Thanx, at least, for your understanding, 'BB'.

All I am seeing here is family members at a wake all bitching over how the deceased is dressed.

[peggygee]

Too many, too soon.

Remembering our dead.



www.rememberingourdead.org