GGs have the biggest issue with transsexuals

[Paladin]

Sexual orientation is not the attraction to a pussy or a cock. People are not attracted to genital. Example I like cock but I dont want to be with a tranny. I would be with a FTM be4 a tranny. I am attracted to a man, and someone who has the gender roles of a man.

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Hey Julie,

I respect you as a person,

but it seems now that in your attempt at fooling others,


You've now managed to fool yourself.



*shrug*





Good luck, I suppose.

Oh suck my dick, but give me 300 bucks first....silly trick

There you go - finally setting the record straight

[Hara_Juku Tgirl]

Who thinks that T girls should tell guys right away?

To me it all depends on the situation. First, if it was only to quench a thirst for a quickie..no. It's not like you'll bend over so he could fuck you. LOL Second, If he was bf material then yes. You should tell him after awhile of getting to know each other. It will be his test. If he pass or fail depends on how he would handle the whole situation. And if he likes you that much he will go for it!

Then again, I myself am not doing a good job at it rightnow. I sometimes mistake guys who doesn't know to know and then the guys that know to don't know I'm a T! LOL It's a confusing world I know! So when some guy finds out I'm a T in the midst of *things.. I feel terrible! Though none ever got up and left thankgoddness. SCORE!!

~Kisses.

HTG

[Mylon]

Men look at their friend's girl and think,
"I want a girl like her."

Women look at their friend's man and think,
"I want him."

It's just how women think, unfortunately.

[justatransgirl]

I'm sorry I got in on this late and didn't read all 19 pages so far, but I just wanted to say to Kelly and Julie that I feel for both of you. That's really low in both cases.

I have two GG GF's. One was my very first little GF in Jr High school believe it or not - and she's actually a cop in another state now. The other I've known since the 10th grade. They were the first and second people to know I was trans. We been best friends longer than many of you here have been alive. I can't imagine either one ever doing that to me, I'd be devastated.

Most of the other GG women I know are escorts, or else lesbians who are hot for Jessica, or service workers like my housekeeper, hair dresser, etc.

But the one thing I've noticed with all women, and perhaps it's just me, but GG's still relate to me as a guy once they know I'm trans. It's like they find it "cool" or something, to hang out with a trans girl, but they fall right into the female submissive role and I find myself usually forced into the domme position. Not just in sex, but just in general. Like I'm supposed to hold the door open for them and pay for dinner or something.

But I haven't experienced anyone acting vindictive like that (yet). Though perhaps it's because I'm not competing with them for suitors.

I've run into a few butch lesbians as I've mentioned before who have penis envy and can get really nasty. But they weren't people I knew personally.

Anyway ladies - just slap the bitch and be on your way.

Hugs,
TS Jamie

[blackrob]

Me and another t-girl actually just went to a straight club in Boston the other week and I have to say I had lots of fun. But when I go to these places, I make sure that i'm very careful with these kind of situations. There we're a few guys that tried to buy us drinks, wanted to dance with us but I just said no. I was there to have fun for myself and my friend. So we we're dancing and two guys came on to us and started grinding and almost touching to a point where they are actually going to touch my private part.

I SAID "OH HELL NO" , I am not gonna be stupid and act that I have a pussy down there cause I don't (not yet anyway) So I immediately told my tgirl friend that i'm gonna make an excuse so we can get the hell out of there. I feel so much better when I left and we went down to the bar area and the guys that we're hitting on us started going towards me, and said "what ethnicity are you? and can I ask your number?" and I just said no, I have a bf which is true in my case cause I actually do. And my main purpose in going to that bar is to have fun....a CLEAN FUN!

But the lesson to my story is: if I didn't get out of the situation and was smart enough to save my life then I would probably get in trouble right there and then. Thankfully I wasn't too drunk to have my right judgement blurred out yet.

It's a trip when I read stories like this. I have to alway wonder if the guys know what they're doing when they just start grabbing on a woman and why they dont get slapped?

[tghtpussybitch]

I second that woman are like that, is about competition same with some guys,, I know lots of gg and been around girls who dont know about my past and I seen them talking bout other girls, putting other girls on blasst ,,

I know how mean it is and we all been there but is facts of life besides how you think tranny chasers came to be.

The female species since they do not resort to physical fighting well not as the first defense mechanism like men. They are catty and start spreading rumors.

I swear women feel threatened. They get all catty when you’re more attractive than them or you get more attention...

It sounds like women are like that with any other women (T's or not). That's what all my female friends say.

[Celeste]

I think Transexuals have the biggest issue with Transexuals!

In my experience with gg's, I dont believe they have a big issue with us. I think we have an issue with ourselves. There is more hate amongst eachother, then anyone else. I have also found with gg's, that you give respect, to get respect. And If you carry yourself like a lady, there is less likely going to be a problem.

Yes, gg's do view us as, men trying to hard, to be women/gay. And may find humor in it. But c'mon now girls... how many ts's actually carry themselves like women?! Most are so over animated, flamboyant, over the top, its funny even to me. From the way we walk, to the way we talk, what we talk about, how we say it, hand movements, head movements, we stand out! Alot of trannies want to be noticed 24/7, Our main goal is to be sexually attractive to men 24/7, most of our lives... revolve around sex, and are very aggresive... thats not how women are. I dont believe they are threatened by us, but when we are out there "queening out", parading ourselves around, flaunting it in their face, they are bound to get upset.

I mean imagine yourself a gg, growing up, being taught things, going through things, living life... whats normal... male and female. Never in life ever being exposed to gay/tranny life, then BAM! You meet one or see one, it would be weird! Dont you think? Comical? a Joke? Maybe even gross, wrong, unethical, a sin... Wouldnt be able to understand or would even want to.

Julie: she may have felt she was being a friend to the guy, and not catty towards you. Now maybe she did you a favor... What if you had waited even longer to tell him, and he had a bad reaction to it, because he felt, you had strung him along? You never know! I know its hard for us, and whos to say whats right and whats wrong, but just take it as a lesson learned. But yeah I wouldnt go anywhere, him or her frequent, cause you know... words gonna spread

[Solitary Brother]

I think Transexuals have the biggest issue with Transexuals!

In my experience with gg's, I dont believe they have a big issue with us. I think we have an issue with ourselves. There is more hate amongst eachother, then anyone else. I have also found with gg's, that you give respect, to get respect. And If you carry yourself like a lady, there is less likely going to be a problem.

Yes, gg's do view us as, men trying to hard, to be women/gay. And may find humor in it. But c'mon now girls... how many ts's actually carry themselves like women?! Most are so over animated, flamboyant, over the top, its funny even to me. From the way we walk, to the way we talk, what we talk about, how we say it, hand movements, head movements, we stand out! Alot of trannies want to be noticed 24/7, Our main goal is to be sexually attractive to men 24/7, most of our lives... revolve around sex, and are very aggresive... thats not how women are. I dont believe they are threatened by us, but when we are out there "queening out", parading ourselves around, flaunting it in their face, they are bound to get upset.

I mean imagine yourself a gg, growing up, being taught things, going through things, living life... whats normal... male and female. Never in life ever being exposed to gay/tranny life, then BAM! You meet one or see one, it would be weird! Dont you think? Comical? a Joke? Maybe even gross, wrong, unethical, a sin... Wouldnt be able to understand or would even want to.

Julie: she may have felt she was being a friend to the guy, and not catty towards you. Now maybe she did you a favor... What if you had waited even longer to tell him, and he had a bad reaction to it, because he felt, you had strung him along? You never know! I know its hard for us, and whos to say whats right and whats wrong, but just take it as a lesson learned. But yeah I wouldnt go anywhere, him or her frequent, cause you know... words gonna spread

Let me weigh in WAY late on this issue.
First of all Celeste.
I think your way naive about GGs true feelings towards TS women like you.
I think for the most part GG's are very fake with their friendship towards transexuals ESPECIALLY if the transexual is attractive.
I have personally seen GG's go around the club and OUT transexuals to EVERY guy in the club.
Its true about transexuals being very competitive with each other but as time goes on MORE AND MORE straight guys will be getting with transexuals....TRUST ME ON THAT POINT.
I use to be in the military and a lot of military guys get with trannys on the DL.
You all think "Oh he doesnt know my T"....BULLSHIT!
A lot of them do.
As for trannys being "honest" and telling a guy up front....i dont believe this is practical.
The real world doesnt work this way.
If a guy is attracted to you its not because he sees your penis dangling there...He sees the woman that you are.
Most guys arent "honest" about stuff either....they arent "up front" about a lot of stuff.
Transexuals should stop being so evil and nasty and too faced towards each other.
its hard i know because society is always telling you that your nothing.
Many trannys use the insults and nastiness they have experience by the straight world to insult each other.
You all have to love each other....dont look to some fucking GG for approval or acceptance or some false sense of "sisterhood".

[TsVanessa69]

By the way, if you think that SRS will release you from the responsability of being honest or being who you are - That is a HUUUUUUGE mistake. You will still need to be honest with yourself and others to acheave true happiness. That goes for the tranny chasers as well. Releasing yourself from what holds you from completing your lessons in life is a HUUUUGE mistake.

Love is about honesty - It starts with yourself first!

Don't be delusional thinking SRS will change things. MOST men will turn you down just out of fear of being "OUTED " even if you do have a pussy. You were still born a man and that will always be part of who you are. A relationship is based on honesty first. That is why alot of people are unhappy in their current relationships, they forget what is the fundemental basis of a healthy living.

There is a big difference between Living and just Surviving

AMEN!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! which is why I'm keeping my cock!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

[Alyssa87]

I guess I’m really really lucky.
I haven’t had any problems with any gender.

But I’m really non-confrontational in general. I’m really non-chalant and sometimes oblivious to ignorant or intolerant people.

I will say that gay guys are probably a little annoying. The guys on my campus flock around me like I’m mother goose. And it bothers me. They act as if I am(underneath it all) truly one of them. They get real queenly, and it makes me uncomfortable if other people are around. But even that, I doubt comes from a malicious place…

I’ve said this to you girls (about guys in my area) before.
But its really good down here on the Jersey Shore. Besides guys that aren’t trying to be secretive about dating me, people don’t seem give me very many problems about being-T..lol.

You should move down here! I’m the only TS I know. I have to travel to they city just to see you bitchezz…