Thoughts on dating someone in the adult business?

[Stavros]

Literally the first result I found on Google: https://transequality.org/sites/default/files/Meaningful%20Work-Full%20Report_FINAL_3.pdf

A survey of 694 respondents, of whom 10.8% said they had done sex work -what about the other 80.2%?

The statistical problem lies in the lack of comprehensive and accurate data, just in the US.   Moreover, to calculate the difference you would need complemetary data on 'cis-women' and sex work.  I think the problem lies with the assumptions, because there are a worrying number of transgendered Americans -particularly in the under-25 age group- who have multiple problems associated with parental rejection, poor education, homelessness, alcohol and drug abuse, and thus sex work which I suspect is probably common, even if ony casual, with their cis-female cohorts, but to prove it you need data you don't have. I would bet that the proportion of transgendered Americans who do sex work declines with age, so that someone who decides to transition in their 40s is less likely to engage in sex work than someone in their teens or twenties.

 

[diddyboponTOP]

When I was younger I dated several T girls in the xxx business who escorted on the side, I would still do my thing so it didn't matter but once I for serious about one and was ready to break up with her, very nicely I said I have to leave because every time you mention work I'm getting sick to my stomach because Im in love with you I never would have asked her to leave the business because that's how I met her and the feelings just happened. She started crying telling me I was breaking her heart etc long story short two weeks ago she called me told me she was leaving both businesses, she started her make up business back up and had a nice amount in the bank from a family members life insurance after they passed so the next few years we were together day in and day out, eventually I fucked up by cheating three times with three different people and she knew them all, till this day I regret it she is the only person aside from my parents that ever truly loved Me and I loved her too but thought with my dick unfortunately. Anyway she never went back into the business, she had wanted
Out for a while but thought she would miss the fans once she left she never went back and is now wealthy from smart investments, married and living in another Country doing very well.
I'll love her forever, I ruined it.

[Castor_Troy05]

So she left the business, had a fling with you, which you ruined by being a moron, and she left the country, got married and wealthy, all in two weeks??

[SanDiegoPervySage]

Nope

[SanDiegoPervySage]

Not dating someone who is putting her business out there like that. I don't even want a girl who is active on every single social media platform. Shit screams attention seeker and the need for validation from strangers. The girl posting every single intimate detail about her life, running to Twitter before anything else when something happens ain't for me. I don't respect that. I'm the total opposite. I pretty much quit messing with social media like that. And theres just something about constantly asking for tips, cash apps, gifts and even GoFundMes that really doesnt sit well with me. I hate having to be provided stuff I should save up for and buy for myself. I dont even like celebrating birthdays or Christmas.

The only exception would be if it was a one off thing and she never did it again

With a lot of people whose lives revolves around people looking at them, a big ego is almost guaranteed. A lot of sex workers,(well girls who require attention in general), including broke ones tend to be materialistic and respect the wallet and the status. Many regular careers with average incomes are often shamed while wanting sex work to be seen as real work. It is, but everyone isn't trying tho take that seriously

[SanDiegoPervySage]

A survey of 694 respondents, of whom 10.8% said they had done sex work -what about the other 80.2%?

The statistical problem lies in the lack of comprehensive and accurate data, just in the US. Moreover, to calculate the difference you would need complemetary data on 'cis-women' and sex work. I think the problem lies with the assumptions, because there are a worrying number of transgendered Americans -particularly in the under-25 age group- who have multiple problems associated with parental rejection, poor education, homelessness, alcohol and drug abuse, and thus sex work which I suspect is probably common, even if ony casual, with their cis-female cohorts, but to prove it you need data you don't have. I would bet that the proportion of transgendered Americans who do sex work declines with age, so that someone who decides to transition in their 40s is less likely to engage in sex work than someone in their teens or twenties.

The statistics afte just as valid as the fact that trans people have less access to health and social services than cis women or that sex workers who are victims of crimes are more likely to be ignored or receive less Attention from law enforcement and the media.

[diddyboponTOP]

So she left the business, had a fling with you, which you ruined by being a moron, and she left the country, got married and wealthy, all in two weeks??

A few years. We were together, and FF 18 years she's married and living in another country, and If you would have been in my shoes you wouldnt dare call me a moron all the girls you jerk off too I had leaving the business for and going nuts over Me.... I admitting I messed up with her though. I don't know what you read but how was a several year relationship a fling? And two who ever mentioned two weeks lol you guys never if go out in public with these girls who they wouldn't be caught dead with you period.

[diddyboponTOP]

Not dating someone who is putting her business out there like that. I don't even want a girl who is active on every single social media platform. Shit screams attention seeker and the need for validation from strangers. The girl posting every single intimate detail about her life, running to Twitter before anything else when something happens ain't for me. I don't respect that. I'm the total opposite. I pretty much quit messing with social media like that. And theres just something about constantly asking for tips, cash apps, gifts and even GoFundMes that really doesnt sit well with me. I hate having to be provided stuff I should save up for and buy for myself. I dont even like celebrating birthdays or Christmas.

The only exception would be if it was a one off thing and she never did it again

With a lot of people whose lives revolves around people looking at them, a big ego is almost guaranteed. A lot of sex workers,(well girls who require attention in general), including broke ones tend to be materialistic and respect the wallet and the status. Many regular careers with average incomes are often shamed while wanting sex work to be seen as real work. It is, but everyone isn't trying tho take that seriously

Yeah that's annoying, most of them can't get a guy to hold their hand on the street or take them to dinner that's why they all gold dig which is like publicly begging all those amazon links and only fans etc may as well be a stripper and have guys throw dollar bills them

[Fitzcarraldo]

A few years. We were together, and FF 18 years she's married and living in another country, and If you would have been in my shoes you wouldnt dare call me a moron all the girls you jerk off too I had leaving the business for and going nuts over Me.... I admitting I messed up with her though. I don't know what you read but how was a several year relationship a fling? And two who ever mentioned two weeks lol you guys never if go out in public with these girls who they wouldn't be caught dead with you period.

He got the "two weeks" part from your ramble:

She started crying telling me I was breaking her heart etc long story short two weeks ago she called me told me she was leaving both businesses, she started her make up business back up and had a nice amount in the bank from a family members life insurance after they passed so the next few years we were together day in and day out, eventually I fucked up by cheating three times with three different people and she knew them all, till this day I regret it she is the only person aside from my parents that ever truly loved Me and I loved her too but thought with my dick unfortunately.

[diddyboponTOP]

Oh lol I meant two weeks later, if you read the post you would see it was over a few years span my bad there