Examining Trans Attraction

[SXFX]

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[LongTom101]

You make some very interesting points. This area is so gray. Transsexuals are not in nature, physically speaking. I can only speak for myself about why I am attracted to transsexual women. It runs pretty deep in some parts. Their femininity from their faces, large fake breast, and cocks turn me on. Cocks on men don't do anything for me.

In my opinion men who desire masculine male to female transsexuals are more on the gay side. They are simply into the masculinity more than anything feminine.

Great article Wendy

I find my attraction to transexuals strange as its quite specific, and also paradoxical

The most powerfully attractive TSs for me have very feminine faces, realistic looking breast implants and small boned, delicate bodies, as in you really couldnt tell them apart from a petite and pretty GG save for a very big, rock hard, beautiful and ideally circumcised cock (purely as this is aesthetically more pleasing to me)

The visual appeal of this has an instant and strong effect, yet I have no desire to be topped at all, and I've been with several TS escorts who fit my preference as closely as I could find in London.....Wasabi, Wine, Hung Helen

Additionally I have zero sexual interest in men, and find men in any kind of passive/submissive role in TS porn a huge turn off

By far, the most arousing TS porn for me features solo, TS on TS or TS on GG action.

While I have occassionally dabbled in sex with TSs, I generally found it, largely in terms of the mechanics, harder work and less enjoyable than sex with GGs and for this reason, sexually, have been with GGs only for several years now, including a long term live-in relationship.

So your simplification of placing men who are attracted to male-to-female transexuals on 'the gay side' of the spectrum just comes across as lazy categorising and of no benefit in terms of shedding light on a fascinating modern phenomena

[TSPornFan]

So your simplification of placing men who are attracted to male-to-female transexuals on 'the gay side' of the spectrum just comes across as lazy categorising and of no benefit in terms of shedding light on a fascinating modern phenomena

Did you even read my comment? I did not say all men, who are attracted to male-to-female transsexuals are gay. I said the men, who prefer MASCULINE transsexuals are on the gay said. READ!

[Wendy Summers]

Did you even read my comment? I did not say all men, who are attracted to male-to-female transsexuals are gay. I said the men, who prefer MASCULINE transsexuals are on the gay said. READ!

And who exactly defines what is a "masculine transsexual?"

[wearboots4me]

Good writing, Wendy! I have often wondered about my own trans-attraction. I don't really understand it myself, but I think that a few things probably helped develop it. I know I had fetishes at an early age, (initially only involving genetic women), I think that was a part of it. Also, my older sister had a friend that was a CD, (a person that I actually knew and liked as a friend) I think that is the one thing that kind of confirmed it. I grew up just before the Internet, TS porn was not simply a Google search away and I didn't have much access to porn magazines until I was a senior in high school, 17 or 18 years old. I kind of think porn was secondary to it.

[MrFanti]

And who exactly defines what is a "masculine transsexual?"

And better yet....Are genetic males without any type of muscle or muscle definition "feminine males"?

[scottnapx]

Thanks for the article Wendy. For obvious reasons this is an area of intense interest for me! I actually had a very long discussion about the topic with a transgender woman I am seeing.

There are two key points to me. Firstly we have begun to accept in this country, the idea that gender is a spectrum. There are cis men, cis women, transgender men and women, androgynous persons, genderqueer etc etc etc... But we seem to be stuck at the idea of an equally vibrant spectrum of sexuality. There are people of all of those categories attracted to people of one or more of all of those categories in a near infinite combination.

Secondly, and this is my personal pet peeve, humanity seems to have a limitless need to categorize everyone and everything. I find it maddening. Why do we need to have all of these boxes to fit people and ideas into? I long for the day when I can meet someone, be attracted to them and have no one care what category of sexuality that fits me into.

[scottnapx]

Does that mean I'm gay?

[SXFX]

And who exactly defines what is a "masculine transsexual?"

well according to the argument...the guys on the gay side duh!
I mean really! They are fabulous!

But all things considered I don't consider myself gay in any way.
Have i enjoyed dating trans women....um yeah....have i liked it more than dating GG....well....maybe...but that has to do with me not wanting to have kids.
And well since TS women lack a given part of the anatomy.....then i won't have that conversation with them which won't lead to an argument which then means i'm happier....

Now guys on the gay side.....let's see those jazz hands!

[shamus124]

Intersting question. I bet there is a lot of variation on this as well. Let me take a shot. After about 200 pussies I just got bored with them. Almost all of those 200 were shitty fucks as well. Just thinking of that time I had to sit through The Blair Witch Project to get some ass only to have her lay there like a dead fish then tell me she was tired and didn't feel like working that hard at it makes me laugh! Seriously, she closed her eyes tight as she could and turned her head to the side the whole time. She didn't say she had a kid either but, that was now obvious from that beat as belly she had. But, I didn't call back and I was an ass for that. You'll never tell that story with a TS in it! Two things you can do with a TS and not a girl is suck cock and get fucker. Both are fun and when they cum its exciting. Girls having an orgasm is less interesting and lots of times a lie. Getting fucked feels good and it's more exciting with a real penis than a plastic one. TS tend to retain a bit of male labido in my experience. Half of them are kinkier than me and that's out there. They are way funner fucks and they are up for anything without the rediculous hangups the vast majority of GG's have. TS don't judge you. period. I've fucked 30+ and never had an issue with that. You always get the ass. Back to GG's and relationships with them. Women universally have, how do you just say; entitlement and bitchiness issues. I'm not a servant or a meal ticket. Women think that pussy makes them the fucking boss and they know everything. That's not even up for debate. I got 3 degrees and an IQ i can brag about but, all my life I've had women with less mental equipment and education trying to tell me shit and looking at me like a martian when I lay down some knowledge on them. I pretty much go to thailand and fuck ladyboys these days. Jesus you take a girl to dinner or the mall and it's a nice low pressure time. It's thanks you and you are a nice guy. Same experience with a GG in america and it's meh. Oh and in thailand then you have mind blowing sex all night, give them some $ to send back home for a new ox or whatever and do it all over with some new poontang the next day. The money you save on an American girlfriend is two x two weeks in thailand a year. On a wife it's more like take a less paying easier job and go to thailand like 4 or 5 times a year. No competition! What was this thread about? OH, it's common sense; short answer.