We're Not Gay And We're Not Straight

[lifeisfiction]

Everytime there is a thread on whether you are gay or straight or bi, I wonder why people have to get all huffy about being straight or gay. I have a suspicious feeling that some men who aggressively say they are straight are really not straight. For the heck of it I put some photos of my dick on lpsg, just because I wanted to do something silly on my b-day (I hadn't sleep all night). Low and behold I actually had some "straight" men ask if I wanted to meet up. ???Wah???? I don't care what you call yourself just be honest with yourself.

[Yvonne183]

Everytime there is a thread on whether you are gay or straight or bi, I wonder why people have to get all huffy about being straight or gay. I have a suspicious feeling that some men who aggressively say they are straight are really not straight. For the heck of it I put some photos of my dick on lpsg, just because I wanted to do something silly on my b-day (I hadn't sleep all night). Low and behold I actually had some "straight" men ask if I wanted to meet up. ???Wah???? I don't care what you call yourself just be honest with yourself.

Similar thing when I was young. Guys that would come up to me/meet me would say that they are 101% straight but would make an exception for me. They thought since I had female features, face, body somewhat(I was a teenager at the time), this put it in their head that is was now OK to have sex with a male cause they refused to see the male in me, even after I told them I was a male, this didn't didn't matter,,, they had to justify having sex with me and also stay with their macho hetero being 101% straight.

Even now, I would classify myself not as a female but because they view a female then it was OK to have male to male sex and not call it gay sex. These guys are afraid of the word gay, not the actual act but just the word gay.

[lifeisfiction]

Exactly, they are afraid of being called gay, its a weird masculinity thing (possibly). Men who like transsexuals are in fear that they might be gay. I find there are two camps, men who like to have sex with men or women who turn them on. Particularly they like men but they are afraid of the stigma it would carry being called bi or gay. I have to find the clip but it was about some male model on a tv show who said he was not gay or bi but had a relationship with another man for 9 months. Then there are the other camp where they see ts as women and are attracted to them because they are women.

It further makes me laugh when men say they don't perform oral or even bottom since that makes them more of a man. I laugh because the first time I bottomed was for two bisexual women during a threesome with one woman wearing a strap-on. Does that I mean I am gay???? What lengths people go to reassure they masculinity.

[Yvonne183]

Exactly, they are afraid of being called gay, its a weird masculinity thing (possibly). Men who like transsexuals are in fear that they might be gay. I find there are two camps, men who like to have sex with men or women who turn them on. Particularly they like men but they are afraid of the stigma it would carry being called bi or gay. I have to find the clip but it was about some male model on a tv show who said he was not gay or bi but had a relationship with another man for 9 months. Then there are the other camp where they see ts as women and are attracted to them because they are women.

It further makes me laugh when men say they don't perform oral or even bottom since that makes them more of a man. I laugh because the first time I bottomed was for two bisexual women during a threesome with one woman wearing a strap-on. Does that I mean I am gay???? What lengths people go to reassure they masculinity.

I understand what you say and agree.

I would put this idea to some here:
Quite a few men here say that they have sex with a transsexual is not gay cause she has the mind set that she is a woman despite the plumbing. OK, let's say for arguments sake that this correct, then what about someone who looks like a woman but has the mindset that they are male, would that then be gay? I mean, if the person has boobs, takes hormones and looks quite pretty,, but still has the mind set that they are male, would that mean a male having sex with that person be gay? And someone who looks exactly the same, boobs, hormones and things but considers themselves a women would make that sex act straight? So the act of sex being gay or straight is just in the mind?

[lifeisfiction]

Shhhs Yvonne, your going to make guys freak out in the middle of sex. Its about the attraction for them. If a person looks like a woman, in their mind they are a woman unless they have something otherwise that would make them overlook the fact. Generally if you have breast its hard to think of a person as man when a there is breast in your face. For the situation you describe anyone looking at the person will see the person as a woman, that is the appearance that is presented to public. It would be hard for a person who wasn't aware of the situation to just say that person is a man.

[Rusty Eldora]

i view it as if you have a cock and your playing with another cock , (and no i dont differentate a TS cock to a Male cock , a Cock is a fucking cock at the end of the day ) then that is a bisexual act at best .. so on that token i just deem everyone bisexual ..

But then i think all humans have the capacity to be bisexual just that the masses choose not to act on it through moral/relgious beliefs or peer pressure ..

Myself I am bisexual .

and as stated earlier by someone , who cares what you are , just enjoy .

I'll call myself anything you want just to spend a night with you - that would be so hot. (Just a dream of mine)

Tgirls could really be bisexual, as they have attributes of both.

There isn't just 3 positions: straight - bi - gay but a range or a plane.

Each day we are at a different place - like all last week I was very naughty but straight. A week with a hot Chinese lady, including 5 duos with 2 of her hot Chinese friends. One a real spinner 4'11, 100 pounds. I must say I didn't think Tgirl all week. But now I am home and Tgirls on my mind

[scroller]

I'm somewhat surprised this thread hasn't gone full-on flamewar in the last few hours. There's a certain contingent that must be pleasantly off for the weekend.

[decastro]

we're bored.

[bluesoul]

we're bored.

gay and bored is a deadly combination

[Amy Gray]

We're not gay and we're not straight, we're GRRRRREAT!

Okay, technically it's graight but Tony the Tiger will not be denied!