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05-01-2013 #71
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Re: The paradox of dating a transgendered woman
Blueboy, I would recommend that you join Transgenderdate.com. Post an honest, detailed profile with at least a few photos. Then be patient, positive and hopeful.
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05-01-2013 #72
Re: The paradox of dating a transgendered woman
how can we be deemed gay if we like cocks on our women?
jeez.. does it make me a vegetarian if I like a cabbage on a badger?
wanker!
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05-01-2013 #73
Re: The paradox of dating a transgendered woman
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05-05-2013 #74
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Re: The paradox of dating a transgendered woman
I agree with you - I'd definitely have a transsexual girlfriend, it doesn't matter if she has a penis, but I'd be reluctant to go with one who was escorting/camming/pornstar. She'd also have to NOT draw attention to herself - if she truly identifies as a woman why would she bother to say she's a transsexual.
My reasons are my own, people are free to live as they want, but I do have standards where I'd not want my partner showing off all over the internet under her own name - having myself attached to that stigma wouldn't be good, at least in America. If I was in Japan, where its much less of an issue, I'd be more lenient. Also, my secondary reasoning for not having an escort or a pornstar is I'd not want some trash giving her STI's off his dirty cock and then I have to be at risk.
A person's gender is not defined karyotypically. What someone is born does not constrain them to that gender role for the rest of their life. No, gender identity is complex and only the bearer of that identity can decide for themselves.
Myself:
Male who identifies as Hetero, considers TSes their preferred sex, and enjoys meeting people who are on societal fringes.
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05-05-2013 #75
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Re: The paradox of dating a transgendered woman
totally agree regarding venue. when you go to night clubs/bars, you meet trash regardless of gender. every time i go, i am reminded of this. has nothing to do with ts/tg.
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05-05-2013 #76
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Re: The paradox of dating a transgendered woman
Originally Posted by Wendy Summers
You're spot on Wendy. I've been with Mr Tyler over 4 years;
he didn't meet me in a tranny club.
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05-05-2013 #77
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Re: The paradox of dating a transgendered woman
Originally Posted by Wendy Summers
Then he'll have other transsexual women's numbers filling his (her) speed dial
and he (her) can subsequently spend huge amounts of time dodging speculative messages from hopeful men.
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05-05-2013 #78
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05-05-2013 #79
Re: The paradox of dating a transgendered woman
I agree. We all do what we have to do and there's no shame in sex work, at least not from my perspective. But I know myself well enough to know I could never go deeper. Plus I have heard far too many horror stories, which there's no need to go into. I have done plenty of p4p, enjoyed it, moved on. Nice time with, usually, very nice girls. But p4p is not an emotional attachment and for me personally, a romantic relationship, with a sex worker, would be a route to madness, and one that I know is paved with broken hearts. (Being friends, enjoying off duty drinks and so on, is fine of course.)
I'm the kind of soppy big schmuck that really gets fucked up in situations like that so I avoid 'em.
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05-05-2013 #80
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