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11-29-2012 #31
Re: An escort has changed my whole perception on Transwomen
last night an escort changed my life
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11-29-2012 #32
Re: An escort has changed my whole perception on Transwomen
The responses to the OP here veer between cynicism about the girl's motives, castigating him for being naive,comments from other girls who admit they'd never date a client and those who wish him well.
I fall into the last category. But with some serious reservations. I sincerely do hope that what you experienced wasn't just the rapture and exhileration at having a wonderful sexual encounter (clearly one shared by your partner) and intimations of something deeper.
I think your later remark - about taking it slowly - is the correct one. But that would be true of any utterly wonderful encounter in any context. You sound like you've almost fallen for this girl. Fair enough. But step back, keep a cool head and ask yourself if either you want her to be your exclusive partner in which case you might be asking her to undergo a radical change - to give up her chosen profession (chosen for whatever motive... Because she enjoys it? Because she needs to make the money for transition? Whatever.) or whether you want simply want to date - and accept what she does for a living. The latter is a tough call. It is human nature to be jealous - and the idea of a girl you love having sex with strangers is hard for most of us to deal with. And remember until you walked through the door and had a wonderful time you were just another stranger.
I think you have some questions to ask and find answers to for yourself. Perhaps the best step would then to see this girl in a different and perhaps non sexual context. Take her out for a meal or to a bar or to a movie or out for the day - or whatever you and she think might be fun. Get to know more about her. Get to know her. Beyond sex is really someone you might get along with. (And then there is the age thing.... she is gonna be a lot more emotionally mature than you). Lots to think about. Go slow. Take care of your feelings.
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11-29-2012 #33
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Re: An escort has changed my whole perception on Transwomen
^^^These are very good advices, Flaco. I'm glad to see you got over your reservations and scruples, and seem to now agree with your own desires and feel comfortable with them. I think that's the most important for you. Be happy! But also be careful. Don't get over excited, take your time, assess the situation step by step and don't set your hopes too high not to be hurt if it fails, because it often does, unfortunately. Good luck! I wish you the best in this!
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11-29-2012 #34
Re: An escort has changed my whole perception on Transwomen
Amber, I think you're really cool and everything but I wonder sometimes...if you would never date a client that's fine, everyone is different. And when did I say I was "Falling in Love" with the other girl? WTF? I said I was thinking of going into a relationship with her, little did I know she would start acting crazy over little things a few days after. Maybe you should go back and read the thread.
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11-29-2012 #36
Re: An escort has changed my whole perception on Transwomen
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11-29-2012 #37
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Re: An escort has changed my whole perception on Transwomen
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11-29-2012 #38
Re: An escort has changed my whole perception on Transwomen
Thanks a lot, Prospero. And my plan really is to get to know her, even if I didn't date her, me and her could still be really close friends. In my personal life my best friends tend to be girls, usually because girls tend to really appreciate guys that genuinely care about them. And what people don't seem to understand in this thread is that she's a new escort and just started escorting because she lost her job. Her circumstances are different from a typical escort who has been making a living off this occupation for years. She's still looking for a normal 9-5 but for now she has to do something to survive. But it is what it is I guess.
Thanks Dan, I feel like you're always supporting me. I appreciate it. The biggest thing this girl did for me was that she really made me see Transwomen as beautiful and complete women. I've always struggled with being insecure about liking TS, or questioning myself about liking them, or just seeing them as a fetish. After my experience with her I KNOW they're women now, just a different type of women. Even if me and her end up as just friends, I will always appreciate her for making me see transwomen in that light.
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11-29-2012 #39
Re: An escort has changed my whole perception on Transwomen
No worries, I still think you're awesome that post just kind of rubbed me the wrong way...And I've always thought people get in relationships because there's an attraction that they're trying to build on. People get Married because they're falling in love, or have fallen in love.
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