Men on dating ts women

[EvonRose]

Exactly! I think For me I deserve a man who would put in 100 percent emotional, sexual, mental, support on me.

Like I said the thread came from a girl who's okay with being in relationships with gay men, or bi men. I really don't want that for me, not that i hate them Because I rally to support the GLBT community with love.

I don't want to ever feel like i am not enough for someone just because I can't fulfill their sexual fetish, or whatever.

This thread has done nothing but made everything in a bad light for ts women.
It's horrible to to throw your community down to make yourself feel better, when in reality it just takes a little understanding to know why we feel this way. There is a lot of emotional, physical, and mental negativity behind this and it is a defense for ts women to not get hurt, or abused or taken advantage of. Regardless of our occupation we are still human and we still hurt like anyone else, and chasers don't take that in consideration when they lie, cheat, abuse, take advantage, threaten, harass, and do us wrong.

But in no way do we think all men into ts are chasers, but we are careful. Just prove yourself right to a ts woman and she'll appreciate that.

Nicole s right on with the chaser definition...

[EvonRose]

My advice to everybody: Just remember the Golden Rule - Do onto others as you would have them do on to you. We all have feelings, and don't like them to be hurt. Don't prejudge a person solely on what other people say, or where the go or who their friends are. We all have friends that are; Cool, better looking, uglier, idiots, etc...Be up front with your intentions, and if it's meant to happen it will, if it's not don't cause drama or label the person just because it didn't work out.

i agree with you 100%

it isn't right to develop the mentality of all men into ts as gay, perverts, or chaser... Not true.

But there are chasers so lets not forget the guys that we really should distance our selves...

And you said what I said already but i wasn't heard.

I said if a guy just wants sex and it doesn't benefit me in any way would rather charge to gain something as oppose to leaving feeling empty and used... That's what i said until Kelly rudely twisted my words...

I really like you actually...

[Nicole Dupre]

if the guy is a client keep it that way, if he's a dick or starts talking about sex right away then get rid of him unless he is a client. If he is generally interested in you then use your brain (AKA don't judge him or label him) and give it a shot. Don't have delusions of grandeur like the movies portray. Go on few dates with him, and treat them as real dates NOT PAY DATES. You may actually have fun, and meet a good guy.

This is exactly what I do.

[EvonRose]

Kelly just made it seem like all ts women view basically any guy to be chasers... that didn't sit right with me because ts know better. I felt a sabotage with her portrayal of ts image, and i felt if the purpose is to cause awareness, this was not the right thing to do. Instead I feel the image would be definitely misconstrued and it's an attacks to our community by her throwing us under the bus for her personal fame.

She does not explain our feeling behind not liking chasers

Or the fact of the real real world about what chasers do to us negatively, with or emotional, mental, and physical being.

Or the experiences we go trough and the confusion between ts lovers and chaser.

She was vague, fake, and careless...

[MrsKellyPierce]

Lmao....

Being bi automatically means a man cheats..oh lord girls...

I laugh so hard...

You guys don't want to be judged yet you point your finger and look down your nose at everyone and everything

Good Grief....

My husband is bi as am I.. we do threesomes together with men/women/ts when we pick them together and they have to play with both of us...

Everything is honest and done in front of each other...

Gay men aren't into transsexuals..they don't like boobs...much less all the feminine wiles...

I mean girls...don't you express this to straight guys who hate on you for being trans...

Yet you are hypocritical on this when a guy is bi...

So tiring..so confusing..and so so funny

[MrsKellyPierce]

If a man is into pussy and pussy alone..he isn't going to be into you...as soon as he finds out you have a boink boink...

You are living a fantasy...........if he is interested he has to be a little bi curious...

Sorry..that's the truth...

STRAIGHT MEN DON'T WANT THE COCK AT ALL!

And I'm sorry I don't want to be with a guy who doesn't get me off..

What if he can't fuck..oh yay he gets to cum..what the hell about me...

I mean this is just all too ridiculous..

And by the way before we get into more stereotypes..my husband is a top..I take it in the ass...

Just to clear the air on that...

I find the guys that are "straight" are usually the bottoms

[EvonRose]

Well what's the problem then Kelly?

Nicole already sad she wanted a sex change so obviously that's her reason for not wanting a guy who likes cock.

So what she said makes sense... Your the one with issues with women who prefer not to date guys who like cock.

[MrsKellyPierce]

Well what's the problem then Kelly?

Nicole already sad she wanted a sex change so obviously that's her reason for not wanting a guy who likes cock.

So what she said makes sense... Your the one with issues with women who prefer not to date guys who like cock.

I am happy to hear Nicole is on that path, but most men will not date her until she has the operation if they were straight..and even then knowing she used to have one...may still turn them out..

IF THEY WERE really straight..

[EvonRose]

I am happy to hear Nicole is on that path, but most men will not date her until she has the operation if they were straight..and even then knowing she used to have one...may still turn them out..

IF THEY WERE really straight..

If a guy is attracted to her he is attracted.

I have no problems dating straight men...

If this is the case that means that every guy I see and meet in the clubs, restaurants, bars, gym are all not really straight.

You really can't determine a sexuality, and you as psych should know that men who date transexual can still be classified straight.

[MrsKellyPierce]

If a guy is attracted to her he is attracted.

I have no problems dating straight men...

If this is the case that means that every guy I see and meet in the clubs, restaurants, bars, gym are all not really straight.

You really can't determine a sexuality, and you as psych should know that men who date transexual can still be classified straight.

Really? I think there has to be a curiosity or open-mind to even consider it..

I think even the guys that don't want to touch it are still turned on by the taboo of it or that it's there...

I just don't live in delusion...