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[amberskyi]

If you don't escort, does that mean you don't expect money? Or you do expect money but you don't call it "escorting?"

Fetish: definitions 1c and 3. From Merriam-Webster online.

Definition of FETISH
1
a : an object (as a small stone carving of an animal) believed to have magical power to protect or aid its owner; broadly : a material object regarded with superstitious or extravagant trust or reverence b : an object of irrational reverence or obsessive devotion : prepossession c : an object or bodily part whose real or fantasied presence is psychologically necessary for sexual gratification and that is an object of fixation to the extent that it may interfere with complete sexual expression
2
: a rite or cult of fetish worshipers
3
: fixation
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Don't worry. My fetish doesn't extend to anyone as nasty as you.

"an object or bodily part whose real or fantasied presence is psychologically necessary for sexual gratification and that is an object of fixation to the extent that it may interfere with complete sexual expression"

hmmm....so are you telling me that when guys are so cock (whats her size,does she come,im not interested in trannies who've had srs or dont use their cocks) fixated its actually a fetish?..no wayyyyyy

[SunshyneMonroe]

You hoes are crazy lol at the end of the day you all suck dick for money the end

[cragorama]

Most Tgirls do not like guys that are into tgirls, as stated.
To me it is looking a gift horse in the mouth.
However maybe this is just a sign the guy is billable.

My observations have led me to believe most tgirls only want straight guys with massive cocks that are not attracted to shemales in the least.

Many seem to think all guys that like tgirls are gay as can be.

[mrbigler]

This is very interesting.. I have been dubbed a chaser in the past and it cracks me up.. I love beautiful women period, its just that simple. I do not get caught up in labels and all of that shit. Why does she have to be a GG or TG why can she not just be G. Its not about whats down there it about what inside her heart, mind and soul. Yes if things become intimate with any woman then your to please her in every way possible just as she is to do the same with you. If I have to be concerned about being a chaser a having a fetish because I want to please every inch of your body from head to toe then what the fuck is the point of developing something special with any G.

Now i have paid for time with both a GG and TG or a G in my case. Sometimes being out of town I wanted to be with a woman in that way and instead of playing the bar all night I skipped right to it.. other times I enjoyed the hunt, the game and so did she whether it was at a TG freindly spot, a reg spot or a who gives a fuck cuz I dont spot.

Show me the smile, let them eyes sparkle.. have a scent that makes me stop and seek you out. Be smart, confident and sexy and its on.. TG GG or better yet a G.. Dont label me cuz I will never label you

Kelly your one cool G

[giovanni_hotel]

Most Tgirls do not like guys that are into tgirls, as stated.
To me it is looking a gift horse in the mouth.
However maybe this is just a sign the guy is billable.

My observations have led me to believe most tgirls only want straight guys with massive cocks that are not attracted to shemales in the least.

Many seem to think all guys that like tgirls are gay as can be.

Bizarre yet so true.
Which is why to me trying to get inside most TG's heads is like swimming in quicksand.

You may think you're making progress, but eventually if you don't climb out of that hole, you will drown.

[EvonRose]

Most Tgirls do not like guys that are into tgirls, as stated.
To me it is looking a gift horse in the mouth.
However maybe this is just a sign the guy is billable.

My observations have led me to believe most tgirls only want straight guys with massive cocks that are not attracted to shemales in the least.

Many seem to think all guys that like tgirls are gay as can be.

Well that's why ts make assumption of some men as chasers, because men make these ignorant assumptions as well...

Not true at all.

I like rocker types, who wear skinny jeans and leather jackets.... So please throw that dumb assumption out the window.

[Nicole Dupre]

Most Tgirls do not like guys that are into tgirls, as stated.
To me it is looking a gift horse in the mouth.
However maybe this is just a sign the guy is billable.

My observations have led me to believe most tgirls only want straight guys with massive cocks that are not attracted to shemales in the least.

Many seem to think all guys that like tgirls are gay as can be.

It has nothing to with dicks. It has to do with certain guys having nothing but sex on their brains. And guys with cocks on their brain often sleep with men on the DL. Kelly even just said that her BF is bi. Do you just assume that all women want to date men who occasionally want to sleep with men? Maybe she's ok with it, but most women aren't. I'm not. And most transsexual women aren't. Maybe that mentality works out in your favor. I don't know if you're bi. But tranny chasers are often sleeping with men, behind even their TS GF's backs. But guys aren't going admit that here. They're just going to bitch about what horrible people transsexuals are for charging them for accommodating them sexually.

Anyway, GG escorts, strippers, porn stars etc don't mix business with pleasure, and neither do we if we're smart. People who meet Arianna have the chance to get to know ME. But if you came across me as "Nicole Dupre", you're either looking at porn or for escorts. And at that point, traditional dating isn't up for discussion. You're just another dude looking for a quick, cheap thrill. You're not dating or relationship material.

[Admiral]

"an object or bodily part whose real or fantasied presence is psychologically necessary for sexual gratification and that is an object of fixation to the extent that it may interfere with complete sexual expression"

hmmm....so are you telling me that when guys are so cock (whats her size,does she come,im not interested in trannies who've had srs or dont use their cocks) fixated its actually a fetish?..no wayyyyyy

Amber: That was in response to this from Nicole (page 17ish):


Stop kidding yourself. Having sex with someone is not a fetish; not by definition. It's sex. Get over it. And if you consider yourself to be "gay", I won't argue with you. Good luck being a closet fag. But sex is sex. Bestiality is not a fetish. Necrophilia is not a fetish. And homosexuality is not a fetish. You just like cock. In fact, I would dare say that you must love it if you actually spend time on a forum like this.

[allurstouse]

http://thedccenter.org/facts_transgender.html

In Washington DC, check these facts. Feel free to ignore them, if you like.

This is so unneccessary and tragic. There really has been an abject failure of the public health services to meet your needs and you could use some communitty activism. Some of you are clearly smart enough/. those numbers speak to an untold and avoidable legacy of human suffering. Complacency kills and silence in the face of injustice is aquisence

[SmithXXX]

I just recently got out of a relationship with a TS that lasted almost 4 years. I'll try not to repeat anything that hasn't already been said, but then again this post has 33 pages, and I got tired of reading the same things over and over. Many of you on this board know me, and know my EX as well. I will say this first off (and many of you will disagree). She is a wonderful woman and I will always love her, BUT over the time we'd spent together we had both changed, and made good and bad decisions.

We she and I had first met on (don't laugh) MYSPACE, we talked for a few months even before meeting face to face, and upon our first date we had a great time. At the end of the night she went to kiss me, and I had told her I don't kiss on the first date. Knowing in full that she wanted more than just a kiss, but out of respect for her I did not. The reason I didn't is that I wanted to show her that I am different than a majority of the men in the TS scene. After that night we had started to spend a lot of time together, and we didn't have sex until after we were together for over a month. She at the beginning of the relationship was not an escort. She had a full time well paying job (not in the industry). I had met her family, which was NOT easy for either of us at the beginning, but over time they saw that I had respect for her & treated her as the woman she is 100% of the time. She had also met my family as well. We had gone on vacations together, and when we were together everybody saw us as a happy couple in public and private. I did not nor will I ever hide the fact that I date transsexuals.
Well after time, and good and bad decisions on both of our parts we decided to call it quits.

It all broke down basically to this - She had a man that loved and respected her NOT for what is in between her legs, but for who she is as a woman. All she saw in me was a guy that prefers TS's opposed genetic women (yes I like both). So she labelled me a "tranny chaser", and she decided to listen to what other girls thought about "chasers", and that caused problems. For the later part of our relationship she preferred to go out to gay clubs or straight clubs, but didn't want me to go with her. So I'd go and hang out with my friends, and she decided to call me and my friends "Tranny Chasers" even though we did not go home with girls after the club, or really try to. We basically sit around have a couple drinks and talk about how delusional 85% of the TS's are....lol

No matter what we men do, no matter how much we try. Regardless if we support the community or not. If we like TS's we will all ways have the burden of being labelled as a chaser, a pervert, a client, etc....

My advice to the girls: DROP THE DRAMA, if the guy is a client keep it that way, if he's a dick or starts talking about sex right away then get rid of him unless he is a client. If he is generally interested in you then use your brain (AKA don't judge him or label him) and give it a shot. Don't have delusions of grandeur like the movies portray. Go on few dates with him, and treat them as real dates NOT PAY DATES. You may actually have fun, and meet a good guy.

My advice to the guys: The girls are NOT pieces of meat, or some toy for you play with and then discard at will. If she is an escort pay for it, don't expect a freebie. You don't work for free why should they? They are women and should be treated as such. Would you go up to a genetic girl at a club and start fondling them, and pawing all over them...No.

My advice to everybody: Just remember the Golden Rule - Do onto others as you would have them do on to you. We all have feelings, and don't like them to be hurt. Don't prejudge a person solely on what other people say, or where the go or who their friends are. We all have friends that are; Cool, better looking, uglier, idiots, etc...Be up front with your intentions, and if it's meant to happen it will, if it's not don't cause drama or label the person just because it didn't work out.