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I need some insight on being a bottom for a tgirl and how to prepare for it. Last time I did it with a tgirl it was a rough experience as she just shoved it in. I want to know how to open myself up easily from pornstar experts instead of reading it on a site from someone who doesnt really know what they are talking about.
Give yourself an enema. It will clean your colon and open up your anus wide
Don't be afraid to tell her if you like or don't like what she's doing. If it hurts, tell her. If you don't tell her how it feels for you, how will she know? Communication is a key part of sex, whether you're the one fucking or getting fucked.Quote:
Originally Posted by Icandigit
Clean yourself out, #1. I've bottomed 3 times for 2 tgirls before. Not to mention with a couple guys too (I'm bi). Biggest thing is to be relaxed. I clean myself out, which helps open me up, then if I feel I must (depending on the size of the guy/gal) I will use a toy to open myself up a bit. Everyone is different, but if that tgirl just rammed it in, without asking how you felt, find another one. Both girls I've been with asked how I was doing, and if I was comfortable. When first starting, the position you're in can make all the difference.
Warm shower and an enema for starters and then poppers, poppers and more poppers!! I always used to really struggle with the experience of being a bottom, and then I was introduced to poppers by none other than Naomi Black Hammer! with the use of poppers I was able to with reasonable comfort survive a complete anal onslaught 😜
^^ what the other posters said.
Self-enema for sure, and ditto for being relaxed.
The first time I bottomed, I wasn't relaxed at all when she went to slide it in, it hurt a little at first, but once I relaxed it felt amazing.
Ever since then I've always been totally relaxed and tell the girl to slide it in slowly at first, and it always feels really good.
I also prefer missionary style cause I can JO and while watching her fuck me.
Pro tip - the water in the enema is a diuretic that is meant to help get more things out.....dump out that water and replace it with warm tap water.
Pro tip #2 - you can reuse the same enema bottle as many times as you need. I once saw a male model using a bunch of them a single time hahaha.
Also take Immodium AD which will stop up anything left in your colon for about 4 hours. It generally takes loperamide about 1.5 hours to hit your system.
After finishing your enema, then use a toy to open yourself up which also removes any excess water or fecal matter left inside you.
Additionally, the night before you should avoid eating things that pass through your digestive system easily like salad, soup, Chinese food, etc. Heavy food like steak or chicken will stay in your system longer and won't be in there when you go to douche in the morning. Or just fast the night before and the day of (it's what I generally do).
I've had a client enema and use muscle relaxers. He didn't seem to be in any pain at all. I've never used them personally. If your worried about pain but don't want drugs try anal ease, it's amazing.
Open wide!!! Just like the dentist says!!
Lots of cleaning tips out there, but one problem is a big girl pummeling away creates even more suction, which can pull more stuff through the plumbing. And getting all the remaining enema liquid out can be a challenge.
Ask the girl to use her fingers, use a toy (smaller than her cock), use as much lube as is comfortable. Ask her to go slow, be gentle. Then when all feels OK, encourage her to go as fast, deep, hard as feels good for you, and her. Standard missionary (you on your back) might be best to start off with? Then you can move on to try different positions.
I didn't know you were a top too. I thought you were strictly bottom.Quote:
Originally Posted by AdaBlackXXX
Depends on the guy. Brock Avery is a must. Mickey Taylor.. I wish. I used to top my ex regularly. All these men are **young** and good looking.
ask her to put it in slow, slow slow!!! Slower than she has ever put it in before- once she is inside, she can speed up, but still be very slow and build up in speed. Soon she will be enjoying your tight hole and calling you her bitch. Being degraded like that can be exciting but afterwards you may feel embarrassed.
the other option is to choose someone with a skinny cock, but that can still hurt if they go rough and fast too soon. And you don't always know what their cock is like until you get them naked and hard. If you choose someone and you discover their cock is too big, just give them a blow job, and wait until you meet someone thinner.