Originally Posted by
GrimFusion
Nonop girls aren't always down for receiving oral either. It doesn't necessarily mean they're more comfortable; could just be they don't relish the idea of going under the knife, they're worried about a botch-job, or figure that if sex is going to require lube, it defeats the purpose of full GRS/SRS.
It sounds to me like you're not necessarily willing to pay to preform oral for a girl who's just giving you want you want instead of enjoying it. Good luck on that quest, though dude. You're talking about a minority of a minority here. Honestly, if you wanna suck some dick, you'd have a MUCH better chance finding a dude who's willing. If that's just not your thing, my apologies, but the point still stands.
What you're talking about right now is a fetish. There's nothing wrong with being fetish-driven. A ton of the guys around here are. If you can somehow move PAST that, though you'll probably find that the transwomen around you act more relaxed too and your chances of hooking up increase. You ain't gotta lie to kick it, though. You can't just act like it ain't no thang. Get your first experience or two out of the way first, and then figure it out.
You don't have to feel meek for being inexperienced. Believe it or not, the vast majority of guys who claim to be transattracted have NEVER been with a transwoman. I really wouldn't be surprised if that's also true for a small majority of guys around here who claim to have had previous experience. You're not alone.
I know you have this perfect little scenario worked out in your head where you're having sex with the very first transwoman you're able to strike up conversation with, but is that how s*** works with GG's? Nah. Not so much. You're still going to have to woo a chick and risk getting turned down.