I married my college sweetheart, but I deeply regret it. I am infatuated with tgirls, I wish I could just have a redo:mad:
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I married my college sweetheart, but I deeply regret it. I am infatuated with tgirls, I wish I could just have a redo:mad:
Well that sucks for you.
Don't have kids!
Too late. Im actually depressed over this. My only hope is to find a few ladies that I can spoil and spend so.e quality time with.
Or be a man and stay true to vows or talk to your fucking wife about your desire to be unfaithful.
I continue to be amazed at men who get married without thinking things through.
Thanks for the words of wisdom. I dont particularly like the situation either.
Talk to her then.
Easy for me to say, but I don't see you being fulfilled otherwise.
How you approach it is up to you. Maybe she has desires unspoken, as well.
Or die with regret and resent her until then. Either way.
Best of luck.
Like a sugar daddy?Quote:
Originally Posted by summer 69
this seems to be a reoccurring theme here
Yup like a sugar daddy
Unless you're wife is a bible thumper and dresses like Holly Hobby, you should be able to communicate your sexual fantasies - mutually! What have you got to lose? Divorce?
If you are truly infatuated with trans women, the it would be best to man up and get a divorce. Otherwise you will end up cheating on your wife and be always have that sense of guilt. Or you can just be faithful to her and forever regret ever getting married. And that's not good for any relationship.
And who knows, if you get a divorce e and start dating, you just might meet the woman of your dreams, get married and be forever happy.
The choice is yours.
Sucks. I still can't relate to people who want to get married. Especially those who get married young and miss out on so much. Variety is the spice of life.
In most cases marriage is a horrible trap .The stats for divorce is very high , the sex goes of almost immediately .And if you are a man , you will be turned into a provider .
You will live with endless guilt and emotional blackmail , and most likely end up emasculated and dumped .
The solution is , do not ever get married and go with T girls .T girls are the best women on the planet- period .
Hi summer 69
Lucky you!
Just read what you wrote a few times.
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Originally Posted by summer 69
Go hire some nice T-girl escorts and do what ALL the other guys do who married their college sweethearts.
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Originally Posted by Dahlia Babe Blah Blah Blah
Because human beings (male or female) can be blinded by love.Quote:
Originally Posted by saifan
This probably isn't the best place to go for advice. What would your actual plans for this be? There are a lot more girls out there then Tgirls it probably won't be easy finding a real Tgirl for a real relationship unless you are just looking for escorts/hookups. If it's just for the experience do like most others said and talk to the wife first.
Wow I guess I should have just kept that to myself. I didn't realize my desire for a tgirl was that disturbing to most just because I am married. I suppose when I do find her it will be that much better. Thx for your opinions regardless, just remember you have all been where im at today.
It's the cheating that bothers people, not that you have desires for tgirls.Quote:
Originally Posted by summer 69
u should be happy that ur married n someone actually is willing to put up with u for life...
depending on ur age ud get a certain response from me but
y get married in the first place if this is how u gonna feel later
Just jerk it off bro. Dont risk your marriage. And dont put her at risk either if you fuck up and cheat with a ts. Somethings should remain a fantasy.
It seems that a lot of members on this forum have an issue with married men having sex with TS escorts .Yet the majority of the client base for an escort is married men..
I can't help feeling that there is an hypocrisy or double standard at work here - ie with the one hand this forum promotes sex with transexual escorts , yet condemns it for married men with the other .
My only advice to married men seeking advice on this forum , is to keep the fact you're married to your self .Tell no one .
On another thread, a married man who was asking advice had AIDS wished upon him ...nice!
So married men , the only sound advice is not to ask advice in this place , as you will be condemned.
This entire post is awful, but of particular note, I'd like to point out that promoting escorts and use of their services does not contradict or conflict with condemning people for cheating, being dishonest and betraying their loved ones.Quote:
Originally Posted by tarot
I understand .But my point is then , that is not a forum for married men who like transexual escorts .
It is no point arguing the toss and bringing morality to bare .Marriage not sex is the issue here .this foul institution invented by the priest and politicians makes a prisoner of man.
So easy to get into and takes a life time to get out of.And yet when you use the words " cheat "and other condemning terms you are no better than the priest whose weapon is guilt .Marriage is a hell and most men can't break free because of this guilt and poverty - they can't afford to .So before any of you condem others , spend some time meditating on what conditions you.
Wowwwwwwwwwww!
Marriage is much more than sex, it's about building a life together. Support is emotional and financial. Some of the better marriages find a way to make things work, so that each has their own space to make themselves happy. Many wives will let a husband go out and enjoy himself, knowing that he will come home and be a husband also. And sometimes a man will have to pursue his infatuation, in order to understand what true happiness is. Then he comes back home, a wiser man, if it's really there, at home. It will all work out one way or the other.
If you and I were to swapped bodies and I was now living your life. I would stay married to the GG who would become the mother of my children. And just like you're suggesting i would have a few girls on the side too - strictly for pleasure ;)Quote:
Originally Posted by summer 69
Put the "Male" back in "AlfaMale" - rape, pillage and take what you want!
If the post stated that he was first getting a divorce, then going out to do whatever it is he wanted to do, judgments would be far and few in between.
And before you ask who is anyone to judge another human being... turns out it's EVERYONE. We live in a civilized society assholes, judgments are just one of the many mechanisms that make all this shit work. Don't like it? Get a boat and hit the open waters.
Thats just what I plan to do!Quote:
Originally Posted by AshlynCreamher
Im not offended by any of the replies, I like to hear others opinions.
This is such a difficult subject and there probably is no other answer than abstinence .
or think before you act and don't let your lusts control you
It seems like you're in pain. I wish I could help you, but it's hard to give strangers advice over the internet.Quote:
Originally Posted by summer 69
look there is nothing wrong with his desires but hes made a commitment and hes either going to have to A be honest B control himself C be dishonest and be someone who many will look down on for good reason
I agree with ,Summer69, it is kind of weird that so many people would find this disturbing .
What about being married and jacking off to TS porn ?How does everyone feel about that?
After reading all these reactions on married threads ,it's probably better if those married , keep it to themselves .
No good reason?Quote:
Originally Posted by itsnotme
Edit: I misread this.
I actually believe every circumstance is different...I don't know the circumstances of the marriage (love, shot gun wedding, splitting a pension, whatever..) or how long the marriage lasted so far...are there kids involved...etc.Quote:
Originally Posted by tarot
The problem I had with a previous thread you commented on was different - that dude was relishing the idea of cheating on his future spouse before he even got married...that's almost predatory.
One question I always like to ask, even of guys who claim they have approval, is "would it be okay if you found out your wife is cheating also"?
or would you use that for grounds of divorce ?
I agree with you ,and to be premeditated about the cheating could be somewhat sociopathic .There would also have to be a total lack of empathy for ones partner , and maybe that is the issue .
Research into porn has found that it creates a lack of empathy and objectification.
Apples and oranges.Quote:
Originally Posted by tarot
Can watching porn potentially expose your wife to an STD?
Good news! Your wife is probably going to leave you anyway in a few years and it won't have anything to do with you liking trannys so cheer up.
Dude you're a disgrace, you married the woman of your life and you regret it coz your selfish self prefer to live up to your fantasies with tgirls?!
I feel sorry for your wife.