Through experience I think generally most tgirls are very superficial and only care about money and nothing else. The question is why?
Now don't get me wrong there are few really genuine girls I have met, but they are few and far between.
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Through experience I think generally most tgirls are very superficial and only care about money and nothing else. The question is why?
Now don't get me wrong there are few really genuine girls I have met, but they are few and far between.
That sounds tight and superficial.
well I assume you are talking about escorts smooth007 ?
I have met quite a few and, it is true, some are very focused on the money without the requisite accompanying charms. Get you in. Do the business. Get you out asap.
But in my experience most are actually nice girls - trying to make a living - in a world that is very difficult for them. And in the end it is work. If you spend some decent time talking to them about their lives and work you will hear loads of horror stories about just how truly awful many of their customers are - rude, disrespectful, dirty, arrogant etc. Many treat the girls as if they are simply pieces of meat to fuck and leave. Would you enjoy having sex with total strangers every day smooth007 not knowing who is going to walk through the door after you get a phonecall?
As for superficial? It is my experience that, with some exceptions, the more pleasant you are with these girls the more you will find their respond well.
there is work mode and real life mode for most Girls …
most clients will only ever see work mode, simply as that is what they are part of yes ? meet a ts girl in a social environment with no hint of fetishism/sex/pervy junk and you will most likely see a different side ..
Myself catch me at a comic con, games workshop store etc you will see a very normal side to me .
Also add in the loneliness factor for some people .. alot of lonely people will often embrace material/wealth as a means of counter acting there situation ..many TS i have met are very introvert as well and like to surround themselves with nice things or objects etc .
I think there is more genetic girls money hungry than TS girls though due simply to numbers .
Sometimes I wonder if what is or comes across as being superficial or money hungry is just the effects of the world we live while being as true to our gender as we can...
I'm sure we have all seen many genetic women who are unattractive yet given certain freedoms that are denied many trans women, or the trans women are subject to discrimination or the knowledge of the past where time and time again we have been victims of hate.
IMO this leaves many of us with a desire for various amounts of surgery so we can live in the world around us safety. In many cases that leads to sex work, to afford these surgeries, which can sometimes, but not always, change a young girl in the formative years of her transition.
I'd love to see a world where we are accepted and safe no matter our body frame or bone structure. I believe when that day comes many things will change, including the attitudes you may be familiar with.
Personally I would love to catch you inside a GW store! How sweet would a 40k game be against you?!Quote:
Originally Posted by LibertyHarkness
Well I've met Liberty a couple of times in a "professional" context and she was simply great company - funny, smart, sexy, a great conversationalist and more. (As well as being great at her job) And plenty more have similar qualities. So the stereotype being pedalled by the opening poster simply doesn't fly.
DEAR "smooth007"Sometimes the attitude you expect is the one you yourself portray ...we are all of different ages and have different life experience ..It is quite a generalisation to say we are mostly superficial ..Is it not that many people living in the money obsessed world in which we were all born in ,tend to put more value on what we have .rather than who we are ..I guess its only when you strip away our possessions and money that the real US will hopefully emerge ..Its hard to be a deep truthful caring person .in a customer orientated profession which in all honesty is what the adult profession is all about ..I have met some really great deep thinking clients and also some very superficial customers who do view me as just a Cock on a body ..but i guess those who take the time to get to know us ..will always come away with a much more enjoyable deeper experience ..My advice is to see more t girl escorts .As i believe all the things we have been through and experienced by living full time in a gender we were not born into enable us in time to be deeper and fuller beings .And please do not forget dear poster that some newly transitioned girls, are going through really tough times adjusting and maybe being shallow is the only way to cope for them just now .I transitioned a long time ago and remember how lost i felt and that money was my new emotional crutch ..In time that changed as i just decided to be well me ..:kiss:
What the hell does this have to do with transexuals? Everybody seems money hungry & superficial today. That's what sets true friends and genuine people apart.
I think one has to accept that the relationship with a T.girl, escorting, is primarily commercial.
Then take the time to behave like a gentleman and check your attitude at the door.
My experience, which whilst not as extensive as some/many is however reasonable and I have found that it is my own attitude that governs the experience.
In addition, and no pun intended, these beauties have balls. Most of us exercise this passion secretly. It takes real courage to live a life outside the lines of convention...if we're honest with ourselves this is perhaps a part of the frisson.
In any event. I have had some magically erotic afternoons and evenings. Thanks girls.
'and in the end, the love you take is equal to the love you make'
Ever thus.
I raise a glass indeed to the girls with balls enough to be themselves - I like Liberty and TS Celine's posts in that regard. (memo to self: must get myself along to meet Celine.)
read a thread like this. there was another tranny that had similar views but i forget the name.Quote:
Originally Posted by smooth007
i find it's better to read the subtext than ask for direct answers with such a question because it can masked to simply make you believe something that isn't true
And, just how a Tgirls (as you refer to them) any different than GGs? Stop whininh and deal with it....that's life!!!
Your welcome Prospero ..bring your glass along and i might be tempted to fill it with a nice aged Rioja :banana:Quote:
Originally Posted by Prospero
Wimmen...Snakes with tits, the lot of them!
Once you accept that, they're lovely! :hide-1:
I think everyone in this economy is pretty money hungry. As far as superficial, I do not have any answer to that one. If we are just talking about escorts, its kind of their job to be superficial, no? My two cents...
I would say their desire to be feminine and their lack of ability to get a real job. Most Men only want them for sex and they can't find a regular job so they develop and attitude and do what they have to do.
I personally know a very nice girl who've I seen change almost into this. She has a sweet soul but circumstances dictate otherwise.
Maybe its because they get tired of chasers lowballing and trying to get freebies.
lol...all are?
Or could it be because of discrimination, most have to work in the sex industry?
Some TSs may be so passable that a cute woman in your workplace is actually a TS....just you can't see her cock to know for sure...;)
Agreed, I have known totally passable T-girls who were bartenders, hairstylists, nurses and other health care proffessionals.Quote:
Originally Posted by holzz
I've been saying this for years. They only care about money. Only date or marry GG.
Very rare. Most are sex workersQuote:
Originally Posted by STARTUP999
I get it it's a forum full of porn but a lot of the girls in the scenes you watch frequent this site and interact with y'all here ... if you care at all about them you may want to take a little time before you type and compose something less offensive.Quote:
Originally Posted by LittleGuy
there's always a person behind the porn the porn star.
Sadly we live in a superficial era. When weather girls on local TV stations earn more than nurses then its surely time to change channels. Good and bad in all things - personally I've had more fun than I deserve with trans escorts and T girls generally...occasionally been burned, but nobody said life was fair. I genuinely admire your courage. Braver than me and I run North when everyone else runs South: for a living. xxQuote:
Originally Posted by Athena_Addams
I think the OP may just be a little confused. The only trans women he has been exposed to are probably escorts. And every time he asks them to date him or marry him, they probably turn him down and offer him sexual pleasure for money instead. Since he knows no other transsexual women, he just assumes all other transsexual women must be the same.
Do you think the girls that come here care about men at all? All they care about is "roses".Quote:
Originally Posted by Athena_Addams
If you come to a porn site to find a girlfriend or even a wife, your chances are pretty slim. Most of the girls here get paid to make it possible for you to have your sexual fantasies. But most transsexual women are not in the porn industry. If you can't find any, then you are just spending way too much time on Internet porn. There is a whole world of Transsexual women just waiting for the right guy out there.Quote:
Originally Posted by LittleGuy
If you are looking for real people in a virtual world then you should realize these two dimmensions do not overlap.
Most of your post are about escorts and sucking thier cock, it's their job they are not dollars stores where you get discounted specials.Quote:
Originally Posted by smooth007
Well, most girls are money hungry and superficial.
Are you poor & ugly by any chance?Quote:
Originally Posted by smooth007
I'm offering this one more time..then I'm out.
You get what you give. Check your depression at the door. Don't try and renegotiate the rate. Take a shower from time to time.
Engage with the person.
Stop whining...and, ironically, even if you're there to be fucked...man up :-)
how can I say what any one person cares about... that being said, how can you say what any one person cares about...Quote:
Originally Posted by LittleGuy
we can assume, but surely someone taught you about assuming.
so let's not...
how about we just listen, read, interact, and be the best people we can be.
You're just wasting your time arguing with one of the bigger trolls on the forum Athena.Quote:
Originally Posted by Athena_Addams
For that I ask, wouldn't you be if your hot and cute and everyone wants to fuck your cute hiney all day long?
The ego does get a super boost but its deserved, they do look good and should get nice compliments for working on themselves to make your gawking a fun and delicious experience. I love when my Heart beats out of my chest seeing a real hottie.
This 007 sounds like just as much of a douche as tspornfan.
Because they don't like most of their clients.
It's not a TS thing, it's a hot girl thing. That's what happens when you gas up girls with constant compliments and call them over the top names like goddesses and come off as submissive. Most girls don't want to hear "you're a goddess, I would marry you!"
In the beginning of my transition...I was naive and believed every guy. I had tons of guys wanting to date me but actuality they just wanted to call when it was convenient for them. I caught on quick that most men only wanted me behind closed doors, being kept a secret. One my my close friends who also happens to be ts but transitioned yrs prior then warned me and told me she charges men. I thought it was disgusting at first but then I used it more as a idk fee to get to know me n prove that I wasnt just a piece of ass. And if I was well then at least I got some gifts out of it lol. I dont escort for a living. I have a career and a bf but now just do it on the side for extra cash, plus my bfs a piece of shit so y not fuck someone on the side, get paid n have a bf too lol
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Originally Posted by melody mayheim
Then why is he still your boyfriend? You deserve a boyfriend who's not a piece of shit.