Men who are attracted to transgendered women- Straight, bi, gay?

I've been with both TS and women in my life. They all have different opinions on the topic. Some women have told me I'm bi and transgendered women have called me everything from straight, bi, and gay. Would love to hear everyone's thoughts.

Men who are attracted to women, and only women are straight.
A transsexual woman is a woman.

A man who is attracted to cock, no matter what it is attached to, is a cockhound. and is closer to gay, and bisexual. if they like pussy that is.

So, ask yourself, in your transsexual partner, how important to you is it that she has a cock, that it functions, or she lets you pleasure her?

If you get offended that a TS does not get hard, then you're probably just after the cock.

"Am I gay/straight/bi/pan/assexual?"

Does. It. Really. Matter?

Ah, this old chestnut again.

Who cares? What would you call someone who likes ggs/tgs and finds tg penises nice but doesn't want it in their ass or mouth?

I know, someone who doesn't give a fuck.

I completely agree, who cares? But was just wondering what other peoples thoughts were. I honestly don't care and don't see the need to put someone/everyone into a specific sexual group. Just was wondering....

Human beings?

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Originally Posted by jockboy

I've been with both TS and women in my life. They all have different opinions on the topic. Some women have told me I'm bi and transgendered women have called me everything from straight, bi, and gay. Would love to hear everyone's thoughts.

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you're gay. but that's actually good news

Guys that only like girls and ts girls are straight, not even bi.

The publics perception will remain the same unfortunately. So you have to ignore that and live your life.

Doesn't seem gay to me

Jesus Fuck. This thread again?

It should be stickied, and auto-bannable to post a new one.

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Originally Posted by Ms.Stepford

Jesus Fuck. This thread again?

It should be stickied, and auto-bannable to post a new one.

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It's like trying to solve the da vinci code.

I think the ones who moan alot about their sexual identity they are the ones who are scarred of themself..I think this thread is with the number thounsands on here and still plenty to come..Doesnt matter what you are ,just fuck and go like pay as you go.imao.

I'm not familiar. Did they have to do that over and over without getting anywhere?

this thread is like the Twilight Zone episode where the woman is driving from New York to California. No matter how many exits she passes she keeps seeing the same hitch hiker on the side of the road. She thinks she is slowly going insane. Of course we discover the woman had died in a car crash at the beginning of her journey and the ubiquitous man thumbing a ride was none other than The Grim Reaper, summoning her to the hereafter.
Rod Serling framed this theme for many different stories. He was a genius.
But yet another Am I gay thread doesn't quite cut it.

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Originally Posted by Ms.Stepford

I'm not familiar. Did they have to do that over and over without getting anywhere?

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Yes, for better reference this question is equivalent to asking "What does the fox say?"

(I'd like to think he dings)

Ylvis - The Fox (What Does the Fox Say?) [Official music video HD] - YouTube

Bisexual. Love transwomen but they identify their gender has being female, but their sex is male. But in the end what does it matter.

Will It Go Round In Circles - Billy Preston (1972) - YouTube

TGirls are women. How can you be gay if you like women?

Women don't have dicks.

Somebody with a dick is a man.

And there is nothing wrong with being attracted to, and wanting to, have sex with a transgendered person.

But don't think for a minute that you're straight.

Once you leave the labels behind, you'll have a much easier time with your sexual identity.

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Originally Posted by pariahsan

Women don't have dicks.

Somebody with a dick is a man.

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Sounds like someone's playing by the old rules...

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Originally Posted by pariahsan

Women don't have dicks.

Somebody with a dick is a man.

And there is nothing wrong with being attracted to, and wanting to, have sex with a transgendered person.

But don't think for a minute that you're straight.

Once you leave the labels behind, you'll have a much easier time with your sexual identity.

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Obviously, there are way more facets to gender and gender identity than your simple mind could comprehend.

So if you took a TS or TG girl on a date, you would refer to her as a man?

I don't think so.

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Originally Posted by pariahsan

Women don't have dicks.

Somebody with a dick is a man.

And there is nothing wrong with being attracted to, and wanting to, have sex with a transgendered person.

But don't think for a minute that you're straight.

Once you leave the labels behind, you'll have a much easier time with your sexual identity.

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So Buck Wild is a girl? lol

Buck Angel is so badass. Without a doubt in my mind he's a guy and I'm a girl.

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Originally Posted by pariahsan

Women don't have dicks.

Somebody with a dick is a man.

And there is nothing wrong with being attracted to, and wanting to, have sex with a transgendered person.

But don't think for a minute that you're straight.

Once you leave the labels behind, you'll have a much easier time with your sexual identity.

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Some women have penises and some men have vulvae and vaginas. Get over it!

Who cares? Have sex.

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Originally Posted by Michelle Firestone

Who cares? Have sex.

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That is kind of where I am with it too.

The right term nowadays is 'queer'.

That's what an Aussie straight chick called me recently.
It's the catchall phrase for everyone with grey area sexuality.

There is a simple answer here. Just go to church and ask your priest, minister, pastor, rabbi or whatever. He will give you the answer ;)

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Originally Posted by LilyRox

Guys that only like girls and ts girls are straight, not even bi.

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Lilly I think even in the TG community this is not agreed upon. I have been with TG providers who say I am bi or even gay because I enjoy going down on them. If the girls can't agree on this how are we dumb chasers supposed to know?

I agree with Michelle though "just have sex". There will be time for homophobic navel gazing in the morning.

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Originally Posted by STARTUP999

Lilly I think even in the TG community this is not agreed upon. I have been with TG providers who say I am bi or even gay because I enjoy going down on them. If the girls can't agree on this how are we dumb chasers supposed to know?

I agree with Michelle though "just have sex". There will be time for homophobic navel gazing in the morning.

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I'm not sure what a "TG provider" is, but it's not surprising they would call you bi or gay. Coming from me you're straight, unless you only like cock or like boys. Just because someone labels you something doesn't mean it's accurate.

There is no right answer to this because it's different for each individual. You would think that people on this site would realize at this point that it's a sliding scale. Some guys that like GG's and Transsexuals may be straight or straight with a strong fetish, while others may tip more to the Bisexual part of the scale. Some folks might say that because transsexuals are women... that guys that lust for them must be straight...but some transsexuals are so early on in their transition that the ONLY way you know they are TS is because they tell you and that's what some of the members prefer...there is often nothing at that point that differentiates them physically from a CD or very effeminate male...so what to make of that?
I believe that it's not wrong to say some are relatively straight...and some are bisexual. I think everyone at some point figures this out for themselves...don't let someone who's opinion isn't any more valuable than your own foist it upon you...especially since very few of the members here are psychologists...and even they're not all very certain on the subject.
Best thing to do is not worry about it...you can't change it anyway...only deny it , and that's never very healthy.
Just Fuck and be happy.

1. How original, are the men who like TS gay or bi?

2. As others have said who cares.

I have been on this site for over 2 years plus and this same type of thread has come up at least 50 times. Please if you have a new thread just search it to make sure it is not the same one we have seen for the thousand time. I am sexually attracted to gg and tg. I guess that makes you bisexual that is how I look at.

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Originally Posted by MHarrigan82

I have been on this site for over 2 years plus and this same type of thread has come up at least 50 times. Please if you have a new thread just search it to make sure it is not the same one we have seen for the thousand time. I am sexually attracted to gg and tg. I guess that makes you bisexual that is how I look at.

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Life sucks, then you die...straight, bi, gay...doesn't matter.

The key and obvious point to remember is that tgirls are not guys. Cisgender women and transwomen are both women. If you have attracted to them and not guys, you are straight. If you are attracted to women (cis or trans) as well as guys, then you are bisexual. That's the basics.

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Originally Posted by Jackal

The key and obvious point to remember is that tgirls are not guys. Cisgender women and transwomen are both women. If you have attracted to them and not guys, you are straight. If you are attracted to women (cis or trans) as well as guys, then you are bisexual. That's the basics.

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Yep.

Doesn't matter one way or the other, but my take is that if you like transwomen, you're straight, but there is an asterisk. The fact that two cocks are involved changes the orientation calculus ever so slightly, even if one cock belongs to someone who is otherwise entirely female. You wouldn't be attracted to us if we weren't feminine, but on the other hand a lot of guys who like transwomen tend to lose interest once we get SRS. If we need both to be feminine and to have a cock to be attractive, then you're straight, but with an asterisk. :)

This IS a topic that comes up time and time again and, generally I ignore it, or say simply "be who are you, enjoy and don't worry. Labels are not important." And yet clearly the deep anxiety that some guys feel about finding transsexuals attractive does matter to them.

I like Miranda's answer. I do like it when the girls take time to reassure these guys.

But as someone else aid sexuality is on a sliding scale. There are guys eho like transexuals for reasons way beyond the cock. Because they enjoy the unique range of mind sets that these girls have (not i said rane... everyone is an individual a) and at the other end there are thoe who are omniseual and ejoy sex with men, women, tv and ts girls. The deeper question is - do YOU perceive yourself to be gay? And if so - what does this meaning your life? Do you really worry that this stigmatizes you somehow? If you are gay will you be happy to tell family, friends workmates/ I suspect that in this arena there is quite possibly a wider perception of stigma to admitting you like transsexuals than a public admission of gayness.

Of course i live in a big liberal city. Many who post here do. If you live in a village or a small town in the midwest or in Russia or Africa the situation is almost certainly very different in social terms.

But i guess the final answer I'd offer is
1. NO - you are NOT gay. Do you also fancy that hunky guy who delivers the pizza? Probably not. If you do and you fancy the girl behind the bar at your local oub and you fancy TS girls - then you are Bi sexual.
2. If you were, would it matter? Your sexuality is no big deal.
3. Just live... enjoy things. Be nice and decent to everyone.
4. Stop worrying.