How many of you could actually be in a relationship Bf/Gf with a TS or are TS just casual sex for you nothing more?
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How many of you could actually be in a relationship Bf/Gf with a TS or are TS just casual sex for you nothing more?
I could but it would be an adjustment.
Ofcourse it is possible to have a normal relationship with a TS/TV Girls.
Why not ?
TV/TS girls are also human being and need some love and some person next to them...
Regards,
K.
I am currently dating a tgirl really no different than a gg.
I have relationships with people. It's not tags I'm interrested in. If you meet someone with whom you have a deep sense of communication and lust on top of it, you go for it! T-women are women to the full extent of the word. I don't see why it wouldn't be possible, and especially why you would restrain yourself more in this case than another.
Of course, the question surely relates to the reactions of people close to you. Yet I would make the same answer: if it is someone with whom there's really something emotionnaly special, don't let it pass by, just step on it, keep it and cherish it, as it doesn't happen to everybody, as it is the most precious thing that will happen in your life, no matter what the reactions could be.
Yes, you can find yourself in touchy situations. But the secret is: don't wait until something like this happens to you to be frank with your entourage. Just open up slowly, strategically if you need to. Talk about what you like and who you are. Or else, you might fall one day in a situation where you will regret having to suddenly reveal secrets or renounce to great things happening in your life. Just learn to stand on your own two feet, and be honnest with the people you want and need in your life from the get-go. And stop telling yourself and others that it is sooo difficult; it's not that difficult. Start slowly, if you need to, once again, explain, educate, prepare, but just find a way to do it.
Just my take on this. :2cent
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Why yes, she is a woman. I would need a good connection for it to build upon. If the one you fall in love with happens to be a Tgirl it will probably work well. If you seek a Tgirl to fall in love with, it will the a square peg in a round hole.
Of course. I have and I do.
Shit im in one
I've been in one for the past three years plus. Honestly, it is no different than any other relationship I have been in including being married. I love her and treat her right.
As a matter of fact the woman in the picture profile is my girlfriend.Quote:
Originally Posted by Tim&Erin
I could, have and would again if I met someone I was interested in
Kudos she is beautiful!Quote:
Originally Posted by Tim&Erin
It may surprise some but TG ladies are people. They have the same needs and issues as the rest of us (plus a few). They are not all sex workers, but even those are human beings with the same capacity and need for love and respect. In my limited experience I found that when I stopped thinking of them as TG and just G. We were both happier.
And even sex workers are - remarkable as it might seem - people too with human needs.
of course. that's the goal
I could be in a relationship with a TS no problem. To me, there is no difference in dating a TS or a GG, both are beautiful
First, congratulations!Quote:
Originally Posted by Tim&Erin
Tim&Erin, you've been here since March. It's nice to see you starting to participate in the conversations. A warm welcome to you!
The contribution of someone like you, who's in a relationship with a t-woman is always a great addition to the members, imo.
Hell yes I would ;-) ..But I am not sharing my underwear!..lol its a long story.
I am in a relationship with a TS and I love her very much. It's true that in many ways it is no different to being in a relationship with a genetic girl. I live in London, a very diverse city, and so when I walk down the street holding hands with my girlfriend nobody bats an eyelid. The biggest change I can feel is that I will never have children (I wasn't so keen anyway)and this has changed my outlook a little. But I am happier now than I have ever been:)
I'd love to but as for YoungBlood it would be quite a change !
Yes...But I'd need to get my head examined first! :hide-1:
Can't see any great difference myself--she can whip me at pool, does that count? (but not at snooker, yet anyway.)
A transgirl's a girl. This is not rocket science.
I think I could. For me personally, I want it to be a full fledged relationship not casual.
Could...have before...was difficult after awhile...willing to try again with the right girl.
Wait a sec! Does liking trans girls make me a lesbian?! :sadcry
Relationship with a TS? Fuckin' gross.
I know! I could never do it. I mean, what would people think of me?! I don't want people thinking I'm a pervert!Quote:
Originally Posted by Jamie French
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to the below......:jerkoff
currently in one - and had a couple of relationships with TS's already.
I'm planning to go to Philippines next year to find a TS girlfriend I will love and is willing to relocate to live with me in Martha's Vineyard and I would propose to her when the relationship gets serious and marry her someday
^ Not sure if serious ...
These ones I've met lately? I think I could. They look so damn good with voices from heaven.
Yes, was in a really serious relationship for almost 5 years, dated a gg for a while, and am now currently in a serious relationship again with a trans woman.
so, yes.
Somebody earlier said that it is no different than dating a gg. Well, yes it is not different in that they are BOTH human females and should be treated as such, but there is DEFINITELY a difference between dating a gg and trans woman. Almost more specifically there are MORE issues, depending on the level/time of transition.
on a scale of issues/concerns I would rate it as such (just personal opinion)
hardest to date: early transition transsexual females, still require a lot of hormone treatments, medical expenses (electrolysis, implants) , low or too high self esteem, insecurities, still have male name etc,very comparable to young immature gg women (the types that want sugar daddies etc or are just perpetual party girls).
medium: typical woman (gg or trans woman), nice head on her shoulders usually further along in her career. Usual woman "issues" lol: jealousy, cattiness, high maintenance , but any man knows this.
easiest to date: usually older gg or transsexual woman, TS woman has finished her transition for the most part, only sporadic surgeries or issues. Is firmly established in her career. Is content with her look and behaves very "womanly" in public, virtually indistinguishable from a gg of the same age in terms of behaviour and self assurance and perhaps physical appearance. the
"bring home to meet mom" type .
Trans women specially in earlier stages of transition, have way more needs and issues and therefore require a more understanding man.
You should have made many more posts than you have. Excellent.Quote:
Originally Posted by my my my!
I don't think its a transitional stage thing but just what goes along with age and maturity regardless of gender.everything you described sounds like stages of emotional and mental development that cis woman go through as well.Quote:
Originally Posted by my my my!
I think where allot of men go wrong with dating ts woman (and i suspect woman in general if your this type) is relating to people based on generalities.i personally try to deal with people on an individual level.have i seen some commonalities with certain groups of people based on experience? Yes but I've also meet some who have "broke the mold"and if i treated them based on pass experiences i would miss out on knowing a really cool person.
I think I could have a relationship
I just want relations with a beautiful & passable TS, then we can talk about a relationship!!
They're not generalities, they're just comparisons. Of course there are 18 year olds that have the mindset of a mature 40 year old , and there are 40 year olds, that act like a teenage brat (any gender).Quote:
Originally Posted by amberskyi
GG women, DONT go through a gender change. That is why IT IS different dating a TS woman and a GG. Yes, like you said, a teenage transsexual is going to have the mindset and issues of a teen gg, starting to like boys (or girls or both)
, getting into makeup, clothes, mood swings, but the GG is not going through androgen blockers, family issues for coming out as transgendered, other issues, and doubts about being treated as a woman in society. Hence the difference, and the EXTRA attention and compassion that has to be provided by whoever is dating that transsexual individual.
Once the self confidence comes in, yes, in later years and through experience and depending on how the trans woman handled her transition she will be "easier" to date for a man.
When a man or woman dates a transsexual female, he or she deals with all the issues he or she would dating a GG , PLUS all the non GG issues that a Transsexual female has. So yes, it is different dating a GG and a trans woman.
Not saying that early transition is NOT date worthy or relationship worthy, It's just different i.e. MORE issues, than would be with a gg.