Kissing the Girls..Ok?

OK--I know I will receive alot of shit for what some will consider to be a lame--ass question..but....is it cool to kiss a tranny? and doesnt anyone besides me feel skittish about it?

I'll admit..Im a bit paranoid about disease and that Im a tad germophobic...but I can never seem to (nor do i believe that we should) get the thought out of my mind that the girls we meet at parties are essentially prostitutes.and (though I am in NO way judging)...the present fairly high risk factors when it comes to sexual contact..

I had a lap dance with a gorgeous girl last night at one of the NY parties..and she was so fucking kissable that I was just dying to make out with her..

But isnt it risky? Hepatits--herpes etc.

she looked delicious enough..and it would certainly add to the eroticism of the experience..but........


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I don't see how it is any more dangerous than kissing anyone else....
It's not like you know what the non porn star has been doing either.

Hi everyone! I don’t see any reason why you shouldn’t kiss trans girl!? I don’t know what kind of lap dancers you were seeing, but 95-99% of us (trans women) aren’t sex workers or adult porn workers, so I see no reason why we shouldn’t be kissed like any other girls out there... kiss, kiss, kiss !!! :)

well--to answer both replies

yes---these girls ARE sex workers...if you want to define it like that..
whatever..they escort for sure...

so--what does that say?

Certainly many guys on these boards see escorts all the time...and do things alot riskier than kissing!

but --the point is..you can wear a condom..and lets hope most of the guys AND the girls do...but i think most people consider kissing a fairly low--risk activity..

but..its not really THAT low risk--or maybe it IS??

its a drag--because kissing is the hottest of all things

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Originally Posted by sheyum

well--to answer both replies

yes---these girls ARE sex workers...if you want to define it like that..
whatever..they escort for sure...

so--what does that say?

Certainly many guys on these boards see escorts all the time...and do things alot riskier than kissing!

but --the point is..you can wear a condom..and lets hope most of the guys AND the girls do...but i think most people consider kissing a fairly low--risk activity..

but..its not really THAT low risk--or maybe it IS??

its a drag--because kissing is the hottest of all things

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soooooo..... you're saying don't kiss?:confused:

I like passionate lovey-dovey T-Girls into make-out sessions rolling around on the bed.

Careful taking a drag directly from that Listerine bottle sitting on the bathroom floor though.

Im not advocating anything
just wondering what people think about it..


But then again..dont know why I ask....because Im constantly Stupified when I hear guys talking about taking loads down their throats..
just cant imagine what theyre thinking...

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Originally Posted by bluesoul

soooooo..... you're saying don't kiss?:confused:

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The question is offensive. We aren't some mutant animal subspecies. We are human just like anyone else. Asking if there are any health concerns about kissing a hooker would be one thing, still kind of stupid, but naively germane. Asking if kissing a transgendered person is ok? Might as well ask if niggers have different colored blood than regular people.

And we go right to racist remarks....fanfuckingtastic!

Not to good with context are ya? Re-read the post. Use your brain this time.

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Originally Posted by Chaos

And we go right to racist remarks....fanfuckingtastic!

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Context means shit. Context doesn't negate the fact that you could say black people instead,and it would have not been offensive. So,yeah,used my brain.

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Originally Posted by Jamie French

The question is offensive. We aren't some mutant animal subspecies. We are human just like anyone else. Asking if there are any health concerns about kissing a hooker would be one thing, still kind of stupid, but naively germane. Asking if kissing a transgendered person is ok? Might as well ask if niggers have different colored blood than regular people.

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Of course is offensive.... anything that comes from this bottom bunk bitch "sheyum" is offensive...

Don't kiss these hoes

i dont know what the fuck is going on here..
amber--is your comment serious

as for you Jamie..i was going to respectfully answer after reading your first post..but after you second..seems you are just a fucking asshole..

There was NOTHING inherently offensive about my post at all..
I prefaced it by saying ( NO JUDGEMENT) when explaining that--in fact the girls we're talking about here ARE prostitues..

as --(SORRY) most of the girls at the parties are..

again..no judgement on that..just asking a question

I fully realize that you are not a mutant sub-specie

but im not talking about Transgendered people Per se..
Im talking about ones who fuck for money

(once again..not JUDGING them)..just NOTING the facts..

this girl was lovely and a very nice human being

shit--I WANT to kiss her!!

is it necessary to insult me? Im not insulting ANYONE

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Originally Posted by amberskyi

Don't kiss these hoes

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Quite right Amber. Civilised conversation over a nice cup of tea beats sex any day..... :ignore:

Ok ...first of all...Jamie's point is very valid on how offensive your question is and YES ...CONTEXT is EVERYTHING. Read up on Christopher Hitchens and George Carlin for information on CONTEXT.

She was making a comparison. Your question is as offensive as if you had asked about closed-minded race-based differences.

Perhaps when you say "prostitutes", you should say all genders...but it's clear that it was aimed at T-girls who escort. As to my knowledge of tgirls I know who escort ( who are porn models ), one thing you must understand...

ANY porn model is TESTED. I am, Jamie is, among all other porn models. We can't do porn if we aren't clean...and guess what, we are still making porn...because we are CLEAN.

Now for girls, tgirls, and any others who are not in porn ( who usually don't get tested regularly ) are risky. That's elementary dating concerns...unless you become severely drunk and give no shits, as I am sure most people have been there.

You may not have meant your question to insult...but it was in reference to a tgirl and the way you question was constructed it sounded offensive. Also keep in mind...TYPING a concern or whatever, has no facial expression behind it, and no emotion to DISTINGUISH how you are trying to get anything across.
If it was a conversation in a bar or anywhere else that is not the interwebs, this discussion would be handled a lot differently and most likely more respectively.

Everything is better in person! :kiss:

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Originally Posted by sheyum

i dont know what the fuck is going on here..
amber--is your comment serious

as for you Jamie..i was going to respectfully answer after reading your first post..but after you second..seems you are just a fucking asshole..

There was NOTHING inherently offensive about my post at all..
I prefaced it by saying ( NO JUDGEMENT) when explaining that--in fact the girls we're talking about here ARE prostitues..

as --(SORRY) most of the girls at the parties are..

again..no judgement on that..just asking a question

I fully realize that you are not a mutant sub-specie

but im not talking about Transgendered people Per se..
Im talking about ones who fuck for money

(once again..not JUDGING them)..just NOTING the facts..

this girl was lovely and a very nice human being

shit--I WANT to kiss her!!

is it necessary to insult me? Im not insulting ANYONE

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Also...those who escort...and do porn...take every precaution and protection when escorting.

I can't speak for those of whom I don't know or those who are not in porn.

Thanks Eva
but I still contend that Jamie is insulting me, and I hold to my point that I insulted noone..

And--if you read my posts, I'm not talking about Porn stars---im talking about normal girls in a bar./club..

and--Im not SINGLING out transgendered escorts over GG's--the simple fact os this is a TG board!! We;re not talking about GG prostitutes..

anyway--the agression and hatred that comes out of girls like jamie just boggles the fucking mind..

and yes---i could have the discussion face to face with someone..

but this board is intended for just this sort of discussion

and I fucking hate these self-hating trannies..

why dont they just go away and leave us all alone?

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Originally Posted by robertlouis

Quite right Amber. Civilised conversation over a nice cup of tea beats sex any day..... :ignore:

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What about shagging during tea...a hand job under the table,i love doing stuff like that lol

lets have tea amber....sound safe to me

So it's perfectly ok to take the question out of context....

And when you tell me his question could have been worded different so too,could Jaime's response.

Thanks Chaos

By the way--just went back to re-read my original post..

I suppose I opened up with a misleading question
"is it cool to kiss A tranny?"

i SHOULD have worded that differently...I mean--i went on to explain that I was talking specifically about Girls working parties --which is different than just kissing A tranny...

so--maybe that was a less than elegant way to phrase it..

I suppose I was in my head--and knowing what the context of my question was..


but--i think now its clear what I meant

no intention of offending anyone on this board...

so--once again --just to be clear..

i wasnt asking
"is it cool to kiss a tranny?"--but more precisely--"is it cool to kiss a girl at a party who you know escorts?"


in ANY case..Jamie;'s comment was uncalled for.

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Originally Posted by Chaos

Context means shit. Context doesn't negate the fact that you could say black people instead,and it would have not been offensive. So,yeah,used my brain.

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Dude, it was just an analogy, and she wanted to make it as offensive as the OP's question of "Is it cool to kiss a tranny?" I think Jamie hit the nail right on the head. Not literally, just so to speak. Get it?

You understand that Jamie isn't insulting you...all she did was make a comparison. The use of certain words in context are used to show the magnitude and weight of the subject at hand. Like using the word "fuck" or "cracker" or "nigger" or "cunt" or anything else to show great elaboration in context.

1. Anyone, anywhere...YES, you should be cautious about doing anything sexually if you don't know them personally. Like I said, that is BASIC "scoping out girls" and "Picking up girls". We've all been there.

2. You said PROSTITUTES or making an assumption that whomever this girl was, was a "prostitute".

3. Your "discussion" could have been worded better to not give the impression of "insulting" or "offensive". Hope you noticed the others who posted in this thread who gave their concern as well. Notice that you have offended or gave the wrong impression to quite a few people here, not just Jamie and I.

4. Lastly and quite important. Jamie French is my girlfriend. I love her dearly.

I hope that your remark of "and I fucking hate these self-hating trannies" wasn't towards Jamie.

"the aggression and hatred that comes out of girls like jamie just boggles the fucking mind". You do NOT know her personally. She is a sweet girl and very intelligent. There is no aggression and hatred. Trust me, I know Jamie VERY personally. You are reading people very incorrectly.

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Originally Posted by sheyum

Thanks Eva
but I still contend that Jamie is insulting me, and I hold to my point that I insulted noone..

And--if you read my posts, I'm not talking about Porn stars---im talking about normal girls in a bar./club..

and--Im not SINGLING out transgendered escorts over GG's--the simple fact os this is a TG board!! We;re not talking about GG prostitutes..

anyway--the agression and hatred that comes out of girls like jamie just boggles the fucking mind..

and yes---i could have the discussion face to face with someone..

but this board is intended for just this sort of discussion

and I fucking hate these self-hating trannies..

why dont they just go away and leave us all alone?

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Originally Posted by amberskyi

What about shagging during tea...a hand job under the table,i love doing stuff like that lol

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LMAO. "Shagging". You're almost English, my dear.

THANK YOU!!! :) Someone who understands. :Bowdown:

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Originally Posted by gaysian71

Dude, it was just an analogy, and she wanted to make it as offensive as the OP's question of "Is it cool to kiss a tranny?" I think Jamie hit the nail right on the head. Not literally, just so to speak. Get it?

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ORIGINAL POST

OK--I now I will receive alot of shit for what some will consider to be a lame--ass question..but....is it cool to kiss a tranny? and doesnt anyone besides me feel skittish about it?

kI'll admit..Im a bit paranoid about disease and that Im a tad germophobic...but I can never seem to (nor do i believe that we should) get the thought out of my mind that the girls we meet at parties are essentially prostitutes.and (though I am in NO way judging)...the present fairly high risk factors when it comes to sexual contact..

I had a lap dance with a gorgeous girl last night at one of the NY parties..and she was so fucking kissable that I was just dying to make out with her..

But isnt it risky? Hepatits--herpes etc.

she looked delicious enough..and it would certainly add to the eroticism of the experience..but........


thoughts?

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Notice the bolded!!!!! I go to parties...does that mean I am a prostitute?

Also....really take a good, hard look at the 1st bolded!!!!

My point is CLEARLY MADE!!!

You people are stupid! Being offended is a choice you made. Has more to do with you than the OP. This is a site about TS girls not hookers in general so of course his question is aimed at them not just hookers. It is insane to even interject crap about porn stars and who ever being tested when this guy is talking about NYC parties where 90-99% of the girls are trying to get you into a hotel (or bathroom, or private room, depending on the venue). Oh, and many of these girls have been naked on film, so I think that qualifies as porn. There are plenty of things going on in a NY Tranny "strip club" that don't go on in regular clubs. So stop acting like its not different.
That being said, personally I don't see kissing as any stupider than the other things. If you sit back and be honest, to tell yourself "I think this girl may have a disease that could turn my dick into a burning pus filled unrecognizable appendage or kill me... but I'm gonna put this thin piece of latex on and go in anyway"-- it's pretty stupid. As Sam Kinison said "If you don't trust the pussy, why are you fuckin the pussy?"
The point is alot of the stuff we do is not wise. Either reconcile yourself to that or don't do it.

Not stupid...re-read the OP and Original Posters responses...

--He asked for "our thoughts" about his OP. IM JUSTIFIED! :)

--no mention of "NY Tranny Strip" at all. He mentions only seemingly "random parties" or "normal parties"

--Being naked on film does not mean it was "porn" where you would be tested and be required to show proof, being as though he did not say "NY Tranny Strip" in OP.Anyone can be naked on film and you can easily find it of youtube...even twitter.

--Also...about the interjection of "porn" and "being tested" and your assumption of it being the "NY Tranny Strip"....my points are still valid because of several girls who do perform there are in PORN and YES they would be tested. But since he mentions and I quote again....
"OK--I now I will receive alot of shit for what some will consider to be a lame--ass question..but....is it cool to kiss a tranny? and doesnt anyone besides me feel skittish about it?

kI'll admit..Im a bit paranoid about disease and that Im a tad germophobic...but I can never seem to (nor do i believe that we should) get the thought out of my mind that the girls we meet at parties are essentially prostitutes.and (though I am in NO way judging)...the present fairly high risk factors when it comes to sexual contact....." .........need I say more???

I've done a crazy amount of partying before and I have been to NYC. Your numbers are completely and outrageously fallible. 90-99% ?????? REALLY....I hope you're not an accountant or an astronaut. HAHAHA....because that would suck if you assume about numbers and girls and not take into account the facts.

And to end on a personal note....any escort who's got any lick of sense....would not fuck any ole dude in a bathroom, or at a bar, or in a private room. way too motherfuckin risky on every level.

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Originally Posted by sheyum

But then again..dont know why I ask....because Im constantly Stupified when I hear guys talking about taking loads down their throats..
just cant imagine what theyre thinking...

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they're not thinking- hence why they're doing it.

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Originally Posted by amberskyi

What about shagging during tea...a hand job under the table,i love doing stuff like that lol

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I know this is off-topic of the rest of this thread...but...
Amber, you sound like a fun girl. My kind of lady.

hey---Thanks sukaforachik....

and yes--Tranny Strip is EXACTly what Im talking about..
Now Eva is getting all indignant...but...lets be fair here..

If you read the thread...I went back and very humbly apologized ..and I did it in all sincerity...because upon re-reading my OP>.i realized that maybe I WASNT totally clear...and to word it "Is it Ok to kiss A Tranny" is in and of itself offensive to transgendered women...without a doubt...

but lets look past that....and take it in context ..yes--context..as Chaos pointed out..

Im talking about the NY parties..and i dont mean dinner parties in upper east side apartment with sushi appetizers being passed around

I mean the Ny tranny parties..i think thats pretty clear

so yes---Eva is being stupid (sorry)...and her GF was being offensive and an asshole for calling me what she did..

Im not offending Transgendered people..Im not attemting to offend ANYONE.
but yes--i hold to my original statement...90 percent of the women there ARE prostitutes...what would YOu call them?

and yes--they WILL suck your dick in the bathroom

Im being lewd--but lets call a spade a spade

and once again--i reiterate..Im really NOT judeging them
cause if you participate --and then judge--youre a fucking hypocrite..

and the girl i was talking about in the OP..was sweet as hell..and i genuinely liked her...alot in fact

Im just referring to health facts..

sorry to offend..my intention is Not to offend..
im having a discussion

and as Suka sort of alluded to...
lets be honest about the forum we're on...

Hey I think we all get what Jamie was say, but still whenever a white person says 'nigger' it just sounds fucked up. Even if it's done to elaborate or clarification.


Kissing a TS generally speaking?? Why is that even a big deal?? The question is very phobic and bigoted.

Kissing a sex worker??

You have to go with your instinct. Put it this way, you aren't going to get AIDs from kissing an escort. At worst you could potentially I guess catch herpes.

To be honest, I'd go for it because most guys won't kiss an escort therefore there's little chance you'll catch something from a previous client.

Secondly, most escorts won't open mouth kiss a john, therefore if she's willing to go there with you I think odds are low you're catching something from her.

My rule is if you're with an escort who blows you without a condom, I wouldn't be in a rush to make out because she's potentially exposing herself to STDs.

That said I don't know of anyone personally who's caught something from kissing an escort.

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Originally Posted by giovanni_hotel

Hey I think we all get what Jamie was say, but still whenever a white person says 'nigger' it just sounds fucked up. Even if it's done to elaborate or clarification.


Kissing a TS generally speaking?? Why is that even a big deal?? The question is very phobic and bigoted.

Kissing a sex worker??

You have to go with your instinct. Put it this way, you aren't going to get AIDs from kissing an escort. At worst you could potentially I guess catch herpes.

To be honest, I'd go for it because most guys won't kiss an escort therefore there's little chance you'll catch something from a previous client.

Secondly, most escorts won't open mouth kiss a john, therefore if she's willing to go there with you I think odds are low you're catching something from her.

My rule is if you're with an escort who blows you without a condom, I wouldn't be in a rush to make out because she's potentially exposing herself to STDs.

That said I don't know of anyone personally who's caught something from kissing an escort.

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I disagree with most of this. Not even getting into the racism fray because it's not worth my time, but it's annoying how pundits say its IMPOSSIBLE to get HIV from kissing and then talk about saliva. If both parties have blood present, which is more common in the mouth than you think, I would ASSUME it's POSSIBLE. Second, Herpes is no joke. People think it's just annoying breakouts, but it increases your chances of heart attacks drastically, so it's potentially a killer. Third, if she'll kiss you she'll definitely suck a dick or maybe even toss a salad or two, so there you go. Finally, how many people do you know who are gonna tell you they caught a disease from kissing a TS escort?

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Originally Posted by Jamie French

Not to good with context are ya? Re-read the post. Use your brain this time.

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Jamie...I understand your context perfectly well however, you should still not be using racist words...

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Originally Posted by giovanni_hotel

Hey I think we all get what Jamie was say, but still whenever a white person says 'nigger' it just sounds fucked up.

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Can I still call someone "my nizzle"?

Seriously, I agree with GH. Poor word choice.

And hey- kiss all the escorts you want, OP. But when you lean in for a buss and catch a whiff of latex, think of why that might happen.

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Originally Posted by Jamie French

The question is offensive. We aren't some mutant animal subspecies. We are human just like anyone else. Asking if there are any health concerns about kissing a hooker would be one thing, still kind of stupid, but naively germane. Asking if kissing a transgendered person is ok? Might as well ask if niggers have different colored blood than regular people.

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I started to agree with this until i got to that racist word. Jamie - how to be 100 per cent right and 100 per cent wrong in one post!

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Originally Posted by C. Saw

I know this is off-topic of the rest of this thread...but...
Amber, you sound like a fun girl. My kind of lady.

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im too fun for my own good lol

Wow! Lot of anger over a simple, albeit asked in an extremely awkward manner, question. The obvious answer, of course, is that if any involved parties feel uncomfortable, don't do it. Maybe that's too complicated.

Makes me wonder how rich I would have been if I'd ever gotten that "Stepford" prototype up & running properly. Interchangeable attachments could have been a big selling point.