Why is it so hard to ind a TS who actualy wants a relationship?

What the title says, ive been loikin and tryin but it seems imposible.

Im sorry for the miss prints, my android has a sensitive key pad.

We could almost say the same thing back to you...why is it so hard to find a guy who wants something more than exploring what's between my legs, and wants a relationship outside of the bedroom.

We all face the same challenges in looking for a relationship, it's just a matter of never giving up until you find that needle in the haystack.

Hm, I have different experience. Easy to start, but they finish after some months

Ive never have issues with females, but i seem to strike out with the other.

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Umm, it's not?

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Originally Posted by 559alphadog

Ive never have issues with females, but i seem to strike out with the other.

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I'm not sure I understand that...if you don't have problems having a relationship with GGs wouldn't you be in one now? It's always going to be harder to find a relationship when you narrow down your prospects like that. What are you looking for in a relationship? What do you consider a relationship to be (mind you, every one has a slightly different idea on the definition of a relationship)?

I think it's safe to say that most of us trans women want a relationship.

Most girls are working towards what they want to see in the mirror.

So many escort and many men aren't okay with that.

So unless you want to fund their transition, I doubt they will stay.

Plus men that say they want a relationship, usually only want the superficial sexy side of it.

That can be said about straight relationships too.

Relationships take a lot of hard work and a lot of compromise.

Most men aren't ready to stick around for surgeries, and if she ever decides to go post op.

They have to get over the fetish/fantasy.

Many girls make that hard for the guy, by being so guarded and also assuming or empowering the fact they are "freaks" with their attitude. Instead of educating and going slow with the guy.

Kelly is indeed very wise...

It's just hard to meet compatible transwomen for dating. I agree it's difficult from the other side too, but since the actual population of tgirls national is so fractional, a man isn't going to meet a TS for dating and a LTR unless he actively makes an effort to go find his dream woman.

I would like to add also even if a guy says he'll pay for said surgeries, many girls still wont go for it. Due to the fact they don't want to feel like they owe their partner everything. Also if you have any resentment towards it, it avoids bringing it up in arguments.

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Originally Posted by KellyShore

Most girls are working towards what they want to see in the mirror.

So many escort and many men aren't okay with that.

So unless you want to fund their transition, I doubt they will stay.

Plus men that say they want a relationship, usually only want the superficial sexy side of it.

That can be said about straight relationships too.

Relationships take a lot of hard work and a lot of compromise.

Most men aren't ready to stick around for surgeries, and if she ever decides to go post op.

They have to get over the fetish/fantasy.

Many girls make that hard for the guy, by being so guarded and also assuming or empowering the fact they are "freaks" with their attitude. Instead of educating and going slow with the guy.

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Could not have been said better

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Originally Posted by KellyShore

Most girls are working towards what they want to see in the mirror.

So many escort and many men aren't okay with that.

So unless you want to fund their transition, I doubt they will stay.

Plus men that say they want a relationship, usually only want the superficial sexy side of it.

That can be said about straight relationships too.

Relationships take a lot of hard work and a lot of compromise.

Most men aren't ready to stick around for surgeries, and if she ever decides to go post op.

They have to get over the fetish/fantasy.

Many girls make that hard for the guy, by being so guarded and also assuming or empowering the fact they are "freaks" with their attitude. Instead of educating and going slow with the guy.

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Yes, I will say it again - Very true.

Also my opinion:

Many of the Tgirls actually are very good and nice person in real.
The problem is the right approach, the right place.

Too many men called them and lie them only to get to their bed.
That's why it is very difficult to believe you, even if you are genuine.

If you really want a relationship with a Tgirl, be patient. It takes time. Let the girl know you better. Socialise. Go to places that tgirls go, meet, talk. Be positive and genuine.

Regards,
K.

Have you tried setting up traps in their natural habitat (surgeon offices, clubs, malls, etc)? The tranny is a very rare and elusive creature.catching one requires patience and sharp instincts

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Originally Posted by amberskyi

Have you tried setting up traps in their natural habitat (surgeon offices, clubs, malls, etc)? The tranny is a very rare and elusive creature.catching one requires patience and sharp instincts

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LOL. You joke but the truth is it IS hard because there aren't many of 'you' out here.
I can keep my daily routine and meet all kinds of women. But if I wanna meet a tgirl I have to make much more of an effort and investment of my time.

I do agree though there are more TS who are open to relationships than there are admirers/chasers who want the same thing.

Thank u everyone for thier input.

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Originally Posted by amberskyi

Have you tried setting up traps in their natural habitat (surgeon offices, clubs, malls, etc)? The tranny is a very rare and elusive creature.catching one requires patience and sharp instincts

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lol...what would you bait the traps with?Louis Vuitton? (Would a knock off work...or do TS have sharper than normal eyesight?)

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Originally Posted by giovanni_hotel

LOL. You joke but the truth is it IS hard because there aren't many of 'you' out here.
I can keep my daily routine and meet all kinds of women. But if I wanna meet a tgirl I have to make much more of an effort and investment of my time.

I do agree though there are more TS who are open to relationships than there are admirers/chasers who want the same thing.

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i never really find it hard to find someone to date me.now finding someone im actually into? thats where it gets hard.

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Originally Posted by fred41

lol...what would you bait the traps with?Louis Vuitton? (Would a knock off work...or do TS have sharper than normal eyesight?)

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im not your typical ts.i have to confess that i know almost nothing about brand names. all a guy would need to snare me is some awesome concert tickets to my fav band and a bottle of jack.

I've been trying to find that for years.
Good input Kelly!
I've spoken to a few and most say close to or exactly - "Can you afford me?" NO LIE!
LOVE FRED41's comment^^
Where I live there is no chance to "trap" anyone - they don't exist here

I mean ive been to almost 20 different countrts and every continent but antartica and ive yet to find one who is honestly looking for a real relationship. But kelly and ts curious hit it dead on

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Originally Posted by amberskyi

im not your typical ts.i have to confess that i know almost nothing about brand names. all a guy would need to snare me is some awesome concert tickets to my fav band and a bottle of jack.

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Would this work?

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Originally Posted by 559alphadog

What the title says, ive been loikin and tryin but it seems imposible.

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Huh? TF ru u talkn about thats all these trannies want

Thats B-cuz MOST tannies dont want that..They just want the "Attention"....

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Originally Posted by fred41

Would this work?

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Haha I would be so caught and mounted above someones fire place (or bed ;) )

Great comments, Janna & Kelly.:iagree: In my experience, most guys are only interested in sex, (just don't tell their wives LOL) they don't really want to do anything to foster a real relationship.

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Originally Posted by fred41

Would this work?

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You would get me.

I'd love to have a relationship with a tgirl, but I'm not sure that I fully realize what that entails until I'd be in one.

Anyway, in a country of 5 million, with maybe 400k people in my age range (20-25) out of which half are men, there isn't going to be many tgirls that I am compatible with. Zero to none I would say. :(

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Originally Posted by Kire89

I'd love to have a relationship with a tgirl, but I'm not sure that I fully realize what that entails until I'd be in one.

Anyway, in a country of 5 million, with maybe 400k people in my age range (20-25) out of which half are men, there isn't going to be many tgirls that I am compatible with. Zero to none I would say. :(

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Hey..Whatch'all driving over there in Norway????

i would lose interest just having anal sex every day....and wouldn't ya'lls ass get stretched and loose?

i love genetic women too but if a ts had a vagina that would be best...

I don't spend a lot of time with a lot of ts women especially the ones here in Vegas because for the most part the ones I've met are working girls and all about what a man can buy for them, and are so extremely picky looking for perfection physically. I always find it funny how they complain to me how they met their dream man and when they tell him of their secret they get dumped and don't want to be judged by what genitals they were born with, yet they are so picky and superficial that if a guy isn't perfect it doesn't matter how he treats them they want perfection. :hide-1:

As others have said a lot of us girls have been through a lot with men who are just looking for a fantasy and not the reality of what happens outside of the bedroom and might take a bit of convincing before their guard comes down.

I guess to the OP I guess my question would be why are you limiting yourself to just ts women? Is it the penis you're attracted to or the woman? I guess that would be my question if I met someone who said they were looking for a ts woman in particular.

^What Janna said! Awesome and run for President

Well said Janna. I learned from someone a few years ago, it is the person you fall in love with, not the sex/gender. it also takes alot of honesty and keeping realistic expectations with both people. Being honest with each other, realizing that no guy is going to be perfectly sculpted with 6 pack abs, beautiful home, car and money, and the girl will never be slim, perfect breasts and hung. It's not about what they have, it's about who they are and learning to like, respect AND THEN love each other

I agree with a lot of what Janna said, but I disagree with the last part.

Sex is a pivotal role in a relationship, and if you don't enjoy sex with a trans, you wont be into it, maybe the guy enjoys sex more with a trans woman than a female. Which is rare in straight men, but it does happen.

So sex cannot be totally ruled out.

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Originally Posted by KellyShore

I agree with a lot of what Janna said, but I disagree with the last part.

Sex is a pivotal role in a relationship, and if you don't enjoy sex with a trans, you wont be into it, maybe the guy enjoys sex more with a trans woman than a female. Which is rare in straight men, but it does happen.

So sex cannot be totally ruled out.

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I don't know why some transwomen sound almost offended that a guy would have a preference for TS.

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Originally Posted by giovanni_hotel

I don't know why some transwomen sound almost offended that a guy would have a preference for TS.

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Not sure why either, my husband prefers sex with trans over women. He says the ass is tighter and basically feels the same as pussy, and not a lot of females will let you fuck them in the ass. If they do, he said they were never good at it.

He also says, he loved eating out girls, but only found a few he actually enjoyed it with. He says as long as an ass is clean there is no smell and same with a cock if it's clean.

I find at least in the UK that all of the good girls are taken, the rest are escorting (and not interested) crazy, or not my type. Finding a relationship here is difficult to say the least.

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Originally Posted by FreddieGomez

i would lose interest just having anal sex every day....and wouldn't ya'lls ass get stretched and loose?

i love genetic women too but if a ts had a vagina that would be best...

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Good genetics and i do exercises lol.kinda sucks tho cause no matter how often i get dicked down I'm tight again in a few hours :(

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Originally Posted by FreddieGomez

i would lose interest just having anal sex every day....and wouldn't ya'lls ass get stretched and loose?

i love genetic women too but if a ts had a vagina that would be best...

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Well that's because you prefer pussy over ass.

Some men may disagree with you, and I've been fucked in my ass over and over again by my husband and it's still tight.

The problem is a lot of girls don't fuck a dick like a pussy can, some girls can but a lot of girls can't.

You even see it in porn movies, the girl barely takes it and bounces on it here and there. The guy is always jerking off at the end to climax.