Tops and Transbians??

For the trannys out there who call themselves tops and transbians if thats even a word.

Why on earth did you even bother with transitioning to a woman if you only like fucking men or fucking only girls and other trannys?

I dont get it and I dont think I will understand how someone can say they feel like they were born in the wrong body and then claim they like men but only like to be a top with them? That just doesn't pass the common sense test and if you were really born in the wrong body wouldn't the norm be that you actually liked getting fucked in the ass by a man and not the other way around? I know there are lots of guys who like being bottoms for trannys too, but I think those guys would also love getting fucked in the ass by another man too and they're just gay!!

The I feel like I was born a woman thing just ain't registering here when I see trannys who like to play the man role with other trannys or men. Hell just save your money and time and don't bother with transitioning if it's like that..

That's just your opinion, worth what we've paid for it and maybe not even that.

The problem here is that most people think in black and white and only see things from their perspective. A little empathy goes a long way.

Blatantly trying to wind Amy up after the other thread from Freedie Gomez.


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No not really, i'm jus saying why waste the time and the doe when in the end you're still trying to pull of a masculine role?

Busted!

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Originally Posted by SammiValentine

Blatantly trying to wind Amy up after the other thread from Freedie Gomez.
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The other thread proved this guys level of ignorance already. He is up there with Freddie. Just another lost cause, not worth arguing with. We all know your gender and your sexual identity are the same lol....(sarcasm) Nice troll thread though.

You wanna talk about someones level of ignorance, someone using race stats as a basis of their flawed argument, but I digress..

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Originally Posted by slingblade

You wanna talk about someones level of ignorance, someone using race stats as a basis of their flawed argument, but I digress..

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So why do guys like you like girls with cocks? Don't you grow up to be a man to like girls with Vaginas? Why don't you just be a woman slingblade. Such a feminine trait to be attracted to someone with a cock.

So you admit that this was a troll thread?

Of course it was.

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Originally Posted by AmyDaly

So why do guys like you like girls with cocks? Don't you grow up to be a man to like girls with Vaginas? Why don't you just be a woman slingblade. Such a feminine trait to be attracted to someone with a cock.

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Yes you're right, and I did grow up liking girls with Vaginas, still do...I mean i'm sure if you offered the ass to most men they'd fuck you and I dont care how straight they say they are.

It was probably by accident that I somehow got a bit derailed liking women with cocks, but make no mistake about it.. I don't like anyone who trys to pass themself off as a woman with a cock, for starters hell you actually have to look like a woman and to even get my attention.. I understand there probably are a lot of guys who like anyone who puts on a wig and a dress as long as they have a cock down there, I can't say i'm one of those guys...

Naw baby, I couldn't become a woman no more than a donkey could turn himself into a horse.. I like being a man, and i'm a real man too....

I'm so much in awe of your OP Slingbade I'm at a loss where to begin.

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Originally Posted by Miss Aeryn

I'm so much in awe of your OP Slingbade I'm at a loss where to begin.

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so I guess its safe to say that you don't agree with me here? :)

Hi Slingblade,

I understand where you are coming from, when i was thought to be gay i could never find a respectfull masculine top lover that was not interested in my male parts, and liked a feminine boy. Still i transitioned because i had no choice, not because i thought it would improve my lovelife, before i went on hormones i even thought i was saying goodbye to sex and love for the rest of my life...my libido dimished, and dating men was the last thing on my mind, luckely that improved over time and im a bttmgirl now, but while i used to not let anyone near my genitals, the hormones have changed me, i am much more at ease with it now...when a lover treats me respectfull and like a woman, i feel free to play with what makes me different from woman :)

i dont think commen sense gets you very far in the ts community...
There indeed are very masculine guys that even worked in the army or simular masculine jobs that decide to start hormones and get srs while even post op they think like men and in a masculine way,
But there are very feminine tgirls too, very feminine and sensitive at heart, but sometimes they look masculine, arent very pretty, and a lot of guys here might have trouble regarding them as woman, looks can be deceiving!

The pressure for tswoman is very high i think...when a post op still looks masculine it is considered a crime by some if not most men....no matter how feminine they may be and feel on the inside...and of course for most men into twoman, a post op woman is only attractive when they look very feminine, model like girls...
But even then most it seems would rather have her pre op.

So being a woman for a ts is a bit more complicated then commen sense...
In many many ways...

I do understand your feelings but i dont think they will get you very far in the ts community...ive even learned to accept that men that like to bttm for trannies arent gay, took me a while :)

The best thing to do is to just drop every label and go after what you feel comfortable with, there are a lot of straight bttmtgirls out there that you should be able to have a good time with...

Xx
Birgitta

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Originally Posted by slingblade

so I guess its safe to say that you don't agree with me here? :)

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To the contrary, I honestly am intrigued to your line of reasoning. Whether I agree with you or not is another matter.

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Originally Posted by Birgitta

Hi Slingblade,

I understand where you are coming from, when i was thought to be gay i could never find a respectfull masculine top lover that was not interested in my male parts, and liked a feminine boy. Still i transitioned because i had no choice, not because i thought it would improve my lovelife, before i went on hormones i even thought i was saying goodbye to sex and love for the rest of my life...my libido dimished, and dating men was the last thing on my mind, luckely that improved over time and im a bttmgirl now, but while i used to not let anyone near my genitals, the hormones have changed me, i am much more at ease with it now...when a lover treats me respectfull and like a woman, i feel free to play with what makes me different from woman :)

i dont think commen sense gets you very far in the ts community...
There indeed are very masculine guys that even worked in the army or simular masculine jobs that decide to start hormones and get srs while even post op they think like men and in a masculine way,
But there are very feminine tgirls too, very feminine and sensitive at heart, but sometimes they look masculine, arent very pretty, and a lot of guys here might have trouble regarding them as woman, looks can be deceiving!

The pressure for tswoman is very high i think...when a post op still looks masculine it is considered a crime by some if not most men....no matter how feminine they may be and feel on the inside...and of course for most men into twoman, a post op woman is only attractive when they look very feminine, model like girls...
But even then most it seems would rather have her pre op.

So being a woman for a ts is a bit more complicated then commen sense...
In many many ways...

I do understand your feelings but i dont think they will get you very far in the ts community...ive even learned to accept that men that like to bttm for trannies arent gay, took me a while :)

The best thing to do is to just drop every label and go after what you feel comfortable with, there are a lot of straight bttmtgirls out there that you should be able to have a good time with...

Xx
Birgitta

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Thank you so much miss Birgitta... I know i've heard girls from this very site stating how turned off they get sometimes from guys they meet wanting to bottom for them.. I don't understand the men either who are so eager to get fucked by a transsexual..

I guess you're right you can't always apply common sense when talking about transsexuals..

That's just something that always registered on my mind though so maybe it was just a little bit of venting going on.. I know when I used to see trannys advertising as Top only I used to think well there's no way that she can make a living doing that, but it seems like there is a big market for that I guess since a lot of them do it?

I'm a traditional kinda guy and I love treating a woman like a woman.. I just can't say or consider a woman a woman who wants to fuck me when we're in the bedroom.. sorry, that's too much of a role reversal lol..

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Originally Posted by Miss Aeryn

To the contrary, I honestly am intrigued to your line of reasoning. Whether I agree with you or not is another matter.

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Alright fair enough Miss Aeryn.. :)

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Originally Posted by DL_NL

That's just your opinion, worth what we've paid for it and maybe not even that.

The problem here is that most people think in black and white and only see things from their perspective. A little empathy goes a long way.

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Originally Posted by slingblade

Thank you so much miss Birgitta... I know i've heard girls from this very site stating how turned off they get sometimes from guys they meet wanting to bottom for them.. I don't understand the men either who are so eager to get fucked by a transsexual..

I guess you're right you can't always apply common sense when talking about transsexuals..

That's just something that always registered on my mind though so maybe it was just a little bit of venting going on.. I know when I used to see trannys advertising as Top only I used to think well there's no way that she can make a living doing that, but it seems like there is a big market for that I guess since a lot of them do it?

I'm a traditional kinda guy and I love treating a woman like a woman.. I just can't say or consider a woman a woman who wants to fuck me when we're in the bedroom.. sorry, that's too much of a role reversal lol..

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Guys that want their tgirls to actually be and behave like girls/traditional girls are rare but i think a lot of tgirls secretly dream of a "normal" traditional guy like you...

Got to be carefull with that word "normal" lol

Perhaps amongst admirers you are abnormal lol, coz indeed there is a big market for men being dominated and fucked by trannies, i think the majority is like that...

But i like my man to be traditional purrrr

sexuality and gender are not the same thing numpty :)

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Originally Posted by slingblade

I'm a traditional kinda guy and I love treating a woman like a woman

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Traditional and obviously very old fashioned! Lots of gg women in lesbian relationships love using a strap-on. Guess that's another thing you just can't understand.

imagine if i created this thread? bwahahaha

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Originally Posted by Birgitta

Guys that want their tgirls to actually be and behave like girls/traditional girls are rare but i think a lot of tgirls secretly dream of a "normal" traditional guy like you...

Got to be carefull with that word "normal" lol

Perhaps amongst admirers you are abnormal lol, coz indeed there is a big market for men being dominated and fucked by trannies, i think the majority is like that...

But i like my man to be traditional purrrr

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Ya think.. I guess you're right though.. Maybe with a lot of guys they see tgirls as girls with toys that they like to play with.. lol.. I dunno, i'm more into the whole girly thing and that turns me on..I love feminity and I love it when a tgirl embraces that, that is a whole kind of sexy and turn on right there for me..

Yeah I think you're probably right... Maybe some of the girls are just giving the guys what they want? lol. It's always good to see women like you around though baby girl..mmmmm

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Originally Posted by FreddieGomez

imagine if i created this thread? bwahahaha

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Wouldn't have surprised me.

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Originally Posted by catherinefan

Traditional and obviously very old fashioned! Lots of gg women in lesbian relationships love using a strap-on. Guess that's another thing you just can't understand.

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Actully you're right I don't understand that one either.. I think in a lot of women minds a red flag comes on the moment a guy mentions that he wants to be penetrated by a strap on and I know a lot of Black Women automatically equate a man asking for that with a man that's on the DL or Down Low getting fucked by other men in the streets whenever he can..

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Originally Posted by LibertyHarkness

sexuality and gender are not the same thing numpty :)

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Perhaps so, but you're looking quite sexy in your avatar.. :dancing:

thanks but i like to bum ferrets lately i find :) then cook em and eat em ..:)

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Originally Posted by slingblade

Actully you're right I don't understand that one either.. I think in a lot of women minds a red flag comes on the moment a guy mentions that he wants to be penetrated by a strap on and I know a lot of Black Women automatically equate a man asking for that with a man that's on the DL or Down Low getting fucked by other men in the streets whenever he can..

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Strange response! I was talking about lesbian relationships.

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Originally Posted by catherinefan

Strange response! I was talking about lesbian relationships.

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Oh I thought we were talking about the context of man and woman relationships, but since we're talking about lesbains.. They can always find a man to do the job right if they're looking for a good pipping...

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Originally Posted by LibertyHarkness

sexuality and gender are not the same thing numpty :)

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Well i sometimes think this is said to be politically correct...of course they are not the same thing BUT you cannot escape the fact that for a majority of straight people they are not as seperated as they appear to be here in the t community!!!!!

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Originally Posted by slingblade

Oh I thought we were talking about the context of man and woman relationships, but since we're talking about lesbains.. They can always find a man to do the job right if they're looking for a good pipping...

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No we are not talking about men and woman relationships, but men and ts, the latter being something else entirely to many lovers and haters alike across the globe...

Hahaha, so true!

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Originally Posted by Birgitta

No we are not talking about men and woman relationships, but men and ts, the latter being something else entirely to many lovers and haters alike across the globe...

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lol... Yes I guess thats what we're ultimately talking about... I was speaking on I guess the social norms or man and woman relationships and was including ts in that since after all I think that's how they want to be treated... well the ones who embrace their feminity do at least I think..

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Originally Posted by slingblade

lol... Yes I guess thats what we're ultimately talking about... I was speaking on I guess the social norms or man and woman relationships and was including ts in that since after all I think that's how they want to be treated... well the ones who embrace their feminity do at least I think..

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Not really, from your recent comments, you demand them to be treated like that or its not ok in your eyes.

Suprise not everyone likes it in the ass or cant take it for some reason, should they be cellibate then? no, If someone likes to top, then let them be.. who are you to say otherwise.

Seriously, the rude opinions what is right or wrong with ts is getting fucking disgusting.

He is not being rude and i think its his right to express his opinion, i personally think he is one of the few guys that wants to treat us like girls/woman....and i respect guys like that and certainly wont spit him in the face....i sometimes think tgirls and lovers want sociaty to accept their norms, almost like gay people that say that every man is or should be gay...a reality check is needed then, just because you are different does not mean everybody else is too, and just because you think you are normal does not mean that you are normal....

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Originally Posted by Birgitta

He is not being rude and i think its his right to express his opinion, i personally think he is one of the few guys that wants to treat us like girls/woman....and i respect guys like that and certainly wont spit him in the face....i sometimes think tgirls and lovers want sociaty to accept their norms, almost like gay people that say that every man is or should be gay...a reality check is needed then, just because you are different does not mean everybody else is too, and just because you think you are normal does not mean that you are normal....

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What do you consider normal?
Is normal a constant or does it evolve as society becomes more or less honest with itself?

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Originally Posted by Merkurie

What do you consider normal?
Is normal a constant or does it evolve as society becomes more or less honest with itself?

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i would like everyone to be honest with themselves, but i as a tranny am a minority, not normal, not even for a tranny lol!!! and i can deal with that, so why cant you?
Its not like the majority of men are in self denial about wanting to be fucked by woman, i hope looool

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Originally Posted by Birgitta

He is not being rude and i think its his right to express his opinion, i personally think he is one of the few guys that wants to treat us like girls/woman....and i respect guys like that and certainly wont spit him in the face....i sometimes think tgirls and lovers want sociaty to accept their norms, almost like gay people that say that every man is or should be gay...a reality check is needed then, just because you are different does not mean everybody else is too, and just because you think you are normal does not mean that you are normal....

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This might be one of the ultimate paradoxes, but you come across as a self-hating narcissist. Hating yourself for being a woman with a cock and yet loving yourself in the extreme for supposedly being the most unique transsexual on the planet - that no other transsexual could possibly think like you because you (unlike other MTF transsexuals) actually only think of yourself as a woman. Get over yourself already.

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Originally Posted by Mayrah

Not really, from your recent comments, you demand them to be treated like that or its not ok in your eyes.

Suprise not everyone likes it in the ass or cant take it for some reason, should they be cellibate then? no, If someone likes to top, then let them be.. who are you to say otherwise.

Seriously, the rude opinions what is right or wrong with ts is getting fucking disgusting.

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I agree with you.

It's easier, though, for some people to simplify things - it helps them cope with their own insecurities. We're all guilty of it but at least the majority isn't constantly crowing about their 'manliness' while surfing for pictures of women with cocks on the internet. Instead of beating a dead horse (proclaiming their masculinity because they only fuck ass and don't get fucked in the ass) they should go felch a dead horse.

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Originally Posted by runningdownthatdream

This might be one of the ultimate paradoxes, but you come across as a self-hating narcissist. Hating yourself for being a woman with a cock and yet loving yourself in the extreme for supposedly being the most unique transsexual on the planet - that no other transsexual could possibly think like you because you (unlike other MTF transsexuals) actually only think of yourself as a woman. Get over yourself already.

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I dont hate myself i just dont think im exactly normal aaand i dont feel better then others, you get over yourself...

Btw dating as a ts with a guy that freaks out when somebody thinks he"s gay for it, is rather pointless dont you think?

You just dont understand where im coming from, does not mean you can make all these assumptions about me coz you dont know me pal