Is a relationship with a transgendered woman difficult to maintain? If so, why?
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Is a relationship with a transgendered woman difficult to maintain? If so, why?
Ohhhhhhhhhhh......
*watches the can of worms slowly open*
depends on what she does career wise, what you do for a career, how secure you are w/ yourself, and if u have just as much balls to be yourself as she does to be herself
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Originally Posted by TomSelis
KABLAMO in ur face
*pulls tsntx in front as he narrowly escapes*
There's going to be a lot of feeling in this thread....from both sides.
mmmm all over my face
Warning!!! THIS POST FRAUGHT WITH PERIL!! POST AT YOUR OWN RISK :twisted:
Yeah baby...take it all.
mmm mmm mmm good ... and tasty
It's good for the skin too...
A relationship with any girl is totally easy. What a silly question.
Let's all have an orgy.
I'm going to bed. :roll:
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My intent is not to cause a controversey, but to be educated. I have never had a relationship with a transgenderd woman. It seems from what I have read that being a transgendered woman can be very stressful, and it also seems that some men are too busy questioning their sexuality.
lol tom look what i foundQuote:
Originally Posted by TomSelis
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Originally Posted by tsntx
Ummm i dont feel your line of work has anything to do with your personal life and holding a realationship....Wat a person does to survive is what they do to survive in life .....I feel regardless everyone one deserves to be with someone regardless of there occupationQuote:
depends on what she does career wise, what you do for a career, how secure you are w/ yourself, and if u have just as much balls to be yourself as she does to be herself
That's that protein shampoo....I see those silky strands!
really so you think being an escort youll be dating a celebrity or a politician... no .. so yes your job does determine the likely hood of ur relationship workingQuote:
Originally Posted by ANIYAH
sadly w/o a man i have to make the shampoo myself
or is it conditioner
It is difficult to believe that you are without a man.
its cream rinse :)
I personanlity dont aim to have a relationship with a politician or a superstar...Regardless of the fact being a transsexual period would hender that ....So hun u couldnt even use that ....
I feel sweety that there is someone for everyone regardless of occupation ,gender etc ...
I know many Transgendered females who have held longterm relationships though out there escorting careers ....If someone is in love with and honestly and truly wanna be with you nothing will stop them ....Even if ur and Escort ,PornStar,Crackhead anything ....
either or it works :D lolQuote:
Originally Posted by Felicia Katt
to the comment about being single... beleive it its true... very true
Texas whatever, QUIT. I can't take it any more. Instead of adopting, can i just manage?
What's wrong with the men in Texas?
Alright, I'll be the first to be serious even though playing with Jen is fun. It's going to be controversial just because of the nature of the topic. Girls catch feelings over this, some guys do too, and then there's just guys that want to suck a girl's dick. Everybody's going to chime in here. So you'll hear every perspective.Quote:
Originally Posted by Brideshead
I've been in two real relationships with a TS, before I found this site or went to parties and they just didn't work out well. That's not to say finding the T-girl of my dreams won't happen. I'm one of those guys that will take a girl to dinner, movies, out on the town and not care what people think.
The first one was a dominican girl, who looked pretty passable. I did have an "Oh shit!" moment in the beginning. Everything was good, she was trying to go to school. I worked, I always worked and eventually I moved in with her. That was cool for a couple of months, but then imagine your in the bathroom doing your thing and you see some loose molding, you investigate and see a bag of coke stuffed into the wall. I was pissed, we had a big argument. She cried, I tried to deal with it. Then I noticed she was a "perpetual student" which means she kept going into programs for school to get welfare and subsidized housing and a check every month. The coke and the scamming got to me and I left.
Some girls are into the easy, subsistent way of life and not to mention...drugs. If you're a guy on the straight and narrow, that's going to bother you.
The second girl was short. I met her on the internet, we talked, we went out a couple of times. She said she was a beautician. No she wasn't, she was an escort.
I don't have anything against escorts, it was the principle that she lied about something so big, so early. We could've still been cool, but to me, I could only see her as a liar. End of story.
i wasnt saying that i had a chance... yes i realize that being a ts would hender that as well... it was a point of saying how someones career can hender their relationships... y r u taking my comments so personal? they werent... and b/c i dont want to start a big arguement or fight or whatever im not even going to say how i feel about men that would date a girl ts or gg in the sex for money industry... ill let alpha do it for me ...Quote:
Originally Posted by ANIYAH
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I think this thread is going off topic.
That's an awesome post, Mega. I'm serious.
Julissa sounds like she was an amazing person.
Mega, there have been times in the past when I have had real issues about some of the things you post, but your last one about Julissa really hit a spot with me. I feel exactly the same way about the lady I am trying to set up a relationship with. She is also a TS and like you I think of her every minute of every day. For a variety of reasons I haven't been able to see her or contact her for several weeks so I'm having to wait until she returns to London. I am going through hell at the moment, so I can imagine what you are going through.
Thank you for sharing your experience with the rest of us.
I don't differentiate between dating a GG or a TS. It depends on the girl. But I do find it more difficult to find a TS that is up to my standards because of the smaller pool of candidates. What can I say, 50% of our polulation is GG and what's the percentage of TS? GGs get PMS, which is largely hormonal, once a month, seems some TS can get this hormonal thing daily. I'm not a very patient man so I really, really, really have a hard time dealing with PMS :wink: As long as you let me know before it starts I'll get myself out of your way girl :wink:
I myself don't really prefer between gg or tg, again it depends on the person i am seeing, but the truth of the matter is that we are mostly surround by gg all day so the chances of finding a relationship with a gg versus a tg are greater. But for those who fight the right person who is tg, like mega for instance, the love and the bond of the relationship can be just as strong as with a gg.
Going to wade into the fray:
In order to have any sort of relationship, you have to be capable of empathy, honesty and above all know how to give and receive unconditional affection. Most of us know this kind of love from growing up in secure stable homes, with one or both parents, and and extended network of relations and friends. If one grows up feeling "unloved" insecure about one's place in the world, and or with delusions about what normal human relationships are, then it is going to be difficult at best to form stable relationships as an adult.
Many trannies are simply caught up in several "worlds" and sometimes (not trying to be mean) are rather self centered. This can be a product of growing up with nothing ever being secure (love and or property),so one simply takes what one can get and hurts before getting hurt.
Many men report that dating trannies is "difficult" because they simply run too many games. Things such as saying they want to find a young, well built, gorgeous guy; they when they land one the guy finds out the trannie is cheating on him/turning dates, sometimes out of his own house while he is at work. Inability to tell the truth also comes up, as some girls will lie about weather the sun came up yesterday. Again not saying all girls behave this way, but feedback comes in to make such traits more common than rare.
In their defense many girls tell they know full well they are only sexual interests to many guys, who only come around when they want to get their freak on. Girls have feelings as well, and only can take so much of thinking a guy is "the one" only to find out he has a wife and kids and only wants sex. Soon they probably just say "yeah, I've heard this all before, I'm going to get my game on before this one splits too.
What would be informative is an examination of the whole transgender realtionship "thing" from both sides, trannies and the men who fancy them. How many young trannies come onto the scene only to be pounced upon and turned out by a series of guys? These same guys are always moaning "oh if I could only find a nice girl". Yet, when they do find one, it seems they soon are looking for a new face. Every trannie knows being the "new girl" in town will get you lots of attention for about one year or so, after that you become yesterday's goods as guys write on those review sites "yeah, I've been with "X" a few times, things were great but I want something new".
SS
Good long term relationships regardless of gender imo are about attraction, love,commonality of interests,trust and honsety. Both parties must be able to give their partners space to grow and develop within the relationship (without fear of being charged with "you've changed" or "Your not the same person" etc).
My relationship with my T-Girlfriend has just started, we've only been together for five years. We're both on a journey of discovery, the route has ups and downs,but most of it is glorious scenic freeway!