Would you want to have Long Term Relationship with ts in adult industries? why or why not?
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Would you want to have Long Term Relationship with ts in adult industries? why or why not?
I would ... Work is work and at the end of the day she would be coming home to me. But i imagine it must be difficult ... to maintain a LTR and work.
LMAO! I didn't look at who authored this thread, I was going to weigh in, and then I thought "hey, who wants to know"? OMG I'm still laughing.
No, but it's only because I don't want a long term relationship with anybody. If I ever change my mind (unlikely), I don't believe it would matter what they did for a living. Now if a couple of days or a week were considered long term, I could deal. :)
Whats soo funny about this ??? Its just a general question. Never know u may learn something new from this lmao. oh i forgot ure still kinda slow up there... :roll:Quote:
Originally Posted by raybbaby
I'm not a jealous man but if i did date a Ts in the biz i think it might become an issue for me. If it was solo vids and pics i could deal with it far longer than i could if it was sex. I could date a stripper long term. I did once date a hooker right after she got out of the biz but we didn't last because she wanted kids and at the time I wasn't ready for that(shes got three now and works as a social worker).
fuck that; bitches gonna cheat on you anyways, might as well cheat on you with people who are routinely tested for STDs
lol.Quote:
Originally Posted by worldbro
not all of them do. there are still some good ones out thereQuote:
Originally Posted by worldbro
My concern would be Hiv/Aids --Herpes--Std's
Is it a open LTR,are we committed?Are we swingers in a LTR.Or are we so in love its just us, and the hundreds of hunks she"works" with.
WTF,who am i kidding,i'm to jealous...NO
I don't think I could. I respect a persons right to work in the industry and treat it professionally but in all honesty it would bother me. Maybe I'm not mature enough. Maybe I'm too selfish. Maybe I'm not confident enough in myself. In the end it would bother me enough that I couldn't deal with it even if I truly loved the person. The thought of other guys touching her and having her do the same. Whenever I kissed her I would be thinking to myself "where have those lips been?". Same thing goes for escorts or other people in the sex industry. Just couldn't do it. When I am with someone I am totally devoted to them and expect them to do the same. It wouldn't be fair but to stay together I would demand she quit.
Thats what part of me thinks as well but after working and having faux intimacy these ladies must really crave true intimacy and ... love. To be able to come home to a bf/gf and do what couples do , movies , dinner and just watch tv , dont they deserve that? Maybe i'm naive ... i dont know.
IF I were to pursue a LTR daily thing with a a girl in the 'business', come on, let's be real.
At some point she would have to quit.
IF we're fucking each other AND other folks, we're friends, cool, but not a serious couple.
It would also mean I might like ya alright, but it's not a LOVE joint.
Naw, LTR means one on one.
i think Kelly had a good policy.
she would only fuck a guy in porn.
she saved her ass for her man.
Compromise ... The cornerstone of most relationships.
Only if she did double anal.
:what: :jawdrop :whoa :oops: Mandy ...Quote:
Originally Posted by tsmandy
Do you?Quote:
Originally Posted by tsmandy
:roll: what a misconception porn performers are safer:lol:Quote:
Originally Posted by worldbro
LOL I remember Bianca did a photo shot with lesions on her penis
Well, IF it got 2 that point why not, she working.
Agree in general with the sentiment that it would be hard.
Two aspects currently bug me most, one is the chemistry behind relationships. We're not just some nebulous collection of experience and emotional growth, we're also a chemical system. You get off with folks and your body gets rewarded with feel good drugs. We're wired to bond with the folks we get off with, so I would want my special someone to keep that between us.
It's only part of the story, but why fight an uphill battle to keep your relationship intact if you don't absolutely have to.
Second one is the Kelly thing. If you can save something for your special someone, that really can help, but does it then take other things off the table for when your being together? Does it make a whole list of things 'feel like going to work?'
Just really hard to do. Girl would have to be really special to risk her just not being able to bond
Yea, but she sucked plenty of schlongs on camera. :wink:Quote:
Originally Posted by Alyssa87
I have nothing against the sex industry, otherwise I wouldn't participate in this forum and enjoy the lovely pics. However, on topic :
I don't accept the argument that "it's just a job". If you're in porn you're having sex with other people. Considering that I'd have plenty of other choices for a potential LTR, it's easy enough to avoid this trouble.
But this is very hypothetical ! Not only do I already have a special someone, but I'll also admit that at my age it's very doubtful I would even attract a young porn starlett (LOL). So, hypothetically, I could imagine if she quit porn it might work out. Of course, I'm not thinking of LTR with them when I watch the vids. :)
37? :wink: Anyway, I would totally be amenable to having a LTR with a girl in porn. I've dated exotic dancers before and yes, it was harder than "civilian" dating, but if it is a strong connection it should transcend petty squabbles and minor shit-fits!Quote:
Originally Posted by 2009AD
I maybe could but it's like having a gf who is a working girl, it's not easy to deal with. It tends to be hard for most people to cope with their significant other having sex with someone else. A lot of people fantasise screwing a porn star but few fantasise about going grocery shopping with them.
You don't know until you try. I'd be willing to give it a go, good communication would be key, however I would probably prefer short answers to questions like, "How was work today hun"?
Better check to see if Rosetta Stone has Sign Language course just in case?
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Yea, but she sucked plenty of schlongs on camera. :wink:[/quote]37? :wink: Anyway, I would totally be amenable to having a LTR with a girl in porn. I've dated exotic dancers before and yes, it was harder than "civilian" dating, but if it is a strong connection it should transcend petty squabbles and minor shit-fits![/quote]
"37 ...In a row? " lol
Sure.
Only if I'm luckyQuote:
Originally Posted by Quiet Reflections
Best answer on here!Quote:
Originally Posted by tsmandy
Ooops, should have read whole thread, you've outdone yourself!Quote:
Originally Posted by tsmandy
The bitch about this question is that 95%, and that's a conservative estimate, of TS adult performers are also "working girls" which is another can of worms altogether. This can and will complicate things way further than an occasional fit of jealousy....Quote:
Originally Posted by Olivialove
Sounds hot, got any pics from that set?Quote:
Originally Posted by AverageJob
would a ts in adult industries accept a guy who is willing to have Long Term Relationship with her?Quote:
Originally Posted by Olivialove
Long Term Relationship is possible only if both answer : yes 8)
Good answer +1Quote:
Originally Posted by yosi
To be honest, my cock says yes, but my heart says no. I just couldn't get over the fact that every few weeks or whatever, some guy will be fucking my girl in the ass or sucking on her dick. Kind of unnerving and at the end of the day, yeah it's a job but then I would say "Well if you love me then you would quit" and all that drama. So no I wouldn't.Quote:
Originally Posted by Olivialove
What if the girl only did girl on girl or solo? Would you guys change your mind?
Yes
If you get to know them and hit it off why not? I'm sure there will be a few situations where they love the look, but then get to know eachother and it's not quite a good match.