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10-07-2005
chromeheart44m

Help I tricked off w shemale coworker she is harassing me

I had posted earlier whether or not to "date" a tgirl coworker .I then saw her on the stroll in jersey I was kinda drunk so I picked her up, we hit it off she of course recognized me from work. we went back to her place and all was good I;ll give details if you guys want. anyway I saw her @ work and all was good she acted cordial; but did not blow me up great I thought.Then 3 days I go I went looking for her again we dated again she gave me her #'s, this time she appeared a little bit high but I said dont worry about it.Yesterday she comes to me @# work asking for 50 dollars and said I never paid her wtf? 1st of this is a violation am I correct we had an agrrement to keep it hush.Today i had to leave work early as she came to my deept looking for me. I got scared and told my boss I was sick.Help what am I to do! 1st time she was very sweet and we had a great time was she just coked up the 2nd time and how do I tell her I just want to date and not be an item.ps she is calling my # she looked it up on the company database.
10-07-2005
Vicki Richter

You crossed the streams baby. A wise man used to tell me, "there ain't nothing worth your job". You picked up a street walking, on drugs, shemale hooker (who also works with you) and didn't expect anything to happen?

If she is just bugging you for $50, then give her the $ and tell her thanks but you're not interested anymore.
10-07-2005
AllanahStarrNYC

And the clock strikes 12 and says

COO COO

COO COO

COO COO
10-07-2005
chromeheart44m

hello I didnt know she was on drugs for crying out loud she works in a corporate environment along side me. I guess Im to blame but I f I give her the $ who says she wont keep asking . I mean she sounded crazy of course I paid her that night. am I going to have to pay her dailywtf?
10-07-2005
chromeheart44m

Ok allanah I guess I get no compassion but I was curious and she is cute and like I said I was drunk everyone does stupid stuff now and again at least I do.
10-07-2005
Paul

was thinking the same myself
10-07-2005
NickTheQuick

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10-07-2005
hwbs

Quote:

Originally Posted by AllanahStarrNYC

And the clock strikes 12 and says

COO COO

COO COO

COO COO

speaking of coo coo....i got a coo coo clock as a house warming present from switzerland,lol.....
10-07-2005
Vicki Richter

Here is my recommendation...

Get a big dog and while she is on crack get her to have sex with it while you take pictures. Then threaten her to send them to her manager if she keeps bugging you.

Problem solved.

V
10-07-2005
TomSelis

Told you not too...a hard head makes a soft ass.

Now you're going to have to tell her to fuck off. Hunker down, because she's a drug addict, there's no telling what she might do then.

Or you could just keep paying her off and watch your dick shrink.

...they say cocaine is a hell of a drug....
10-07-2005
castabyss

Quote:

You crossed the streams baby.

You've got to love a GhostBusters reference.

And, dude, you're screwed. If she's an addict, there's no telling what extremes she'll sink to in order to extort money from you. This is actually how people end up getting killed and on an episode of A Current Affair....

CA
10-07-2005
chromeheart44m

yes unfortunately I was warned and it is atrue story. I work in nj there are many tgirls @ my workplace well 2 I know of but pay is so bad nowadays people need a side hustle I guess. Paramus has many companies that are gay friendly,unfortunately I fucked up now I'm gonna have to pay the price. I rather pay than get fired don't even mind being embarassed anymore but I need my job, i take she does too so she may not force the issue.Is it considered sexual harassment w/ a transgender person .
10-07-2005
AllanahStarrNYC

the sotry doesnt make sense

what street walker- who uses drugs is also able to keep a day job???
10-07-2005
chromeheart44m

my thoughts exactly .I guess if you are not a 100% but use recreationally you can still do a day job.I wouldnt call her a streetwalker but she does it part time from what she tells me only when rent is due!
10-08-2005
TomSelis

Quote:

Originally Posted by chromeheart44m

yes unfortunately I was warned and it is atrue story. I work in nj there are many tgirls @ my workplace well 2 I know of but pay is so bad nowadays people need a side hustle I guess. Paramus has many companies that are gay friendly,unfortunately I fucked up now I'm gonna have to pay the price. I rather pay than get fired don't even mind being embarassed anymore but I need my job, i take she does too so she may not force the issue.Is it considered sexual harassment w/ a transgender person .

Unfortunately, you're a fool. What's the worst thing that can happen? She tells somebody you fucked her? She tells someone you fucked her for money? That makes her look worse than you. STOP PAYING THIS BITCH. Tell her to kiss your ass. Yes, you can slap her with a harrassment suit. Tell her not to fuck with you. You can get another job. What happens when she asks for $100? $200? Your whole damned check? You're going to give that up too, because you need your job? Everybody needs their jobs, thats why we work. What the fuck does that mean?

You might as well bend over now and just let her fuck you up the ass too. That'll be next, because she found a good little bitch.

You need to stop worrying about what other people are going to think and handle your business.
10-08-2005
chromeheart44m

Quote:

Originally Posted by TomSelis

Quote:

Originally Posted by chromeheart44m

yes unfortunately I was warned and it is atrue story. I work in nj there are many tgirls @ my workplace well 2 I know of but pay is so bad nowadays people need a side hustle I guess. Paramus has many companies that are gay friendly,unfortunately I fucked up now I'm gonna have to pay the price. I rather pay than get fired don't even mind being embarassed anymore but I need my job, i take she does too so she may not force the issue.Is it considered sexual harassment w/ a transgender person .

Unfortunately, you're a fool. What's the worst thing that can happen? She tells somebody you fucked her? She tells someone you fucked her for money? That makes her look worse than you. STOP PAYING THIS BITCH. Tell her to kiss your ass. Yes, you can slap her with a harrassment suit. Tell her not to fuck with you. You can get another job. What happens when she asks for $100? $200? Your whole damned check? You're going to give that up too, because you need your job? Everybody needs their jobs, thats why we work. What the fuck does that mean?

You might as well bend over now and just let her fuck you up the ass too. That'll be next, because she found a good little bitch.

You need to stop worrying about what other people are going to think and handle your business.

truth hurts
10-08-2005
Canucklehead

never fish off of the company pier.
10-08-2005
chromeheart44m

nobody has any advice thanks alot yes I messed up i can be negative by myself thanx to Tomselis for theonly real advice.
10-08-2005
Saintrose

Quote:

Originally Posted by chromeheart44m

nobody has any advice thanks alot yes I messed up i can be negative by myself thanx to Tomselis for theonly real advice.

Yo chromeheart44m ...

You asked if you should have messed with this chick on a previous thread...
and the overwhelming answer was
DON'T SHIT WHERE YOU EAT !!!!

AND NOW YOU WANT SYMPATHY !!!?

WOW....not too bright are you ? :wink:

Man...grow up and take responsbility !
Actions have consequences. Think with the head on your shoulders...not the one between your legs.

Don't give that functioning crackhead sh*t !!!!!
I highly doubt she is going to call you out on the job and risk blowing up her own spot.

GOOD LUCK !
10-08-2005
GroobySteven

Da plane boss, da plane!

This guy is living in his own little fantasy and everyone who answers his topic is a co-conspirator...oops...
seanchai
10-08-2005
Saintrose

Quote:

Originally Posted by seanchai

Da plane boss, da plane!

This guy is living in his own little fantasy and everyone who answers his topic is a co-conspirator...oops...
seanchai

Hey seanchai:

You think this guy is blowing smoke up our asses ?
Can somebody be this dumb or is he just playing games ?
10-08-2005
Felicia Katt

Did you check the Human Resources Reference Manual for your employer? Look under Blackmail, if there is no entry for Unintentional solicitation of Trangendered Prostitutes. LOL

FK
10-08-2005
Shandus

Welcome to "No Sympathy" night.

Welcome to "You Fucked Up" night.

You asked our advice and ignored it. That tells me you had already made up your mind and just wanted us to give you justification so you could rationalize it.

My advice: Go to your department head and tell him or her what's going on and what caused the situation. Don't lie and don't try to smooth it over. Be open and honest. You have to act first, before she does. Before she can try to slap a sexual harrassment suit on you or the company. I'm not going to lie, Your fuck up may have cost you your job. But it beats getting blackmailed or getting hit with the Sexual Harrassment suit. That shit stays with you forever, man. If it goes to court, you have to be able to prove that she was hooking, and you probably won't be able to do that unless she has a record.
10-08-2005
TomSelis

The truth is stranger than fiction.

I don't care if it's true or not it's just damned fun to respond to.

You don't need to go to the department head right now. You just need to say, "No" the next time she thinks you're her personal ATM. If she tries to get shady (which she probably will because you paid her already), that's when you tell her what you know she has to lose and that YOU don't care. (You know how hard it is for a tranny to find a legit good paying job like Cingular?) Then tell her to get the fuck out of your face.

If you don't, her tranny girlfriends will be asking you for money and rides and your first born too. Don't be a punk.
10-08-2005
JohnnyWalkerBlackLabel

I've been trying to stay outta this thread but it's getting harder & harder to

#1: Why am I just finding out there is a Jersey stroll? LOL

#2: You need to name this broad on the board so we all know who is the psycho chick trying to stop a guy from making his paper................... because most [ladies] wouldn't be so immature

#3: KEEP YOUR DICK IN YOUR PANTS!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! (shaddup you know who, just shaddup)
next time you feel the urge go to the gym or something, look where this shit has gotten you

and last but not least
#4: I heard someone say you mentioned this shit prior to it actually happening, pay attention to the advice given to you by the other members from now on, they usually have the right idea.
10-08-2005
willib

Anonomously turn her into HR and have her tested for drugs (piss test)
10-08-2005
Janus

Quote:

Originally Posted by chromeheart44m

Ok allanah I guess I get no compassion but I was curious and she is cute and like I said I was drunk everyone does stupid stuff now and again at least I do.

Dude, don't shit where you eat. Rule #1 of work. :D
10-08-2005
ARMANIXXX

Wrong board bro......

You need to post this story here dude:

http://www.hungangels.com/board/view...fce79fe3036202
10-08-2005
brickcitybrother

Quote:

Originally Posted by Vicki Richter

You crossed the streams baby. A wise man used to tell me, "there ain't nothing worth your job". You picked up a street walking, on drugs, shemale hooker (who also works with you) and didn't expect anything to happen?

If she is just bugging you for $50, then give her the $ and tell her thanks but you're not interested anymore.

I agree 100% with paragraph one. 0% with paragraph two. Give her the money and you have been PUNKED on the real.

Vicki - Good Advice #1
10-08-2005
brickcitybrother

Quote:

Originally Posted by AllanahStarrNYC

the sotry doesnt make sense

what street walker- who uses drugs is also able to keep a day job???

Advice #2 - Allanah the more I read the more I'm with you.
10-08-2005
brickcitybrother

Ok if its real

Advice #1

Tell her politely that you don't care who knows about your sexual preference and that you don't give money under threat - EVER. Then, if she does not leave you alone at that very minute, go directly to HR and tell them that she has been harassing YOU. Paper file beats words, everyday!

If this is just a story:

Keep with your inept responses. And see how long the thread lasts.

For everyone else - All lessons do not have to be thought through real life.
10-08-2005
innavoice

wow......

LOL@ the rubbernecking going on in here.......

seriously tho.....umm....did u ever consider just how small the trans community can be? Not to mention ur not so subtle details.......

she's prolly reading/having this read to her rt now....

congrats tho....this has to be the most SMH-worthy post i've read in a while.
10-08-2005
JohnnyWalkerBlackLabel

yall sure this thread wasn't just a plot to get a name in the door aka "attentiongetter"???

it does sound farfetched
10-08-2005
JohnnyWalkerBlackLabel

think she's going by the name Kattia this month
that's the one thing I hate about some of these broads
they switch names up every month
10-09-2005
khun_diow

more advice...

"I then saw her on the stroll in jersey I was kinda drunk so I picked her up"

It would be a good start to stop driving drunk, especially when cruising the stroll.

You make yourself an easy mark from all angles. This post has gotta be an attention getter...at least I hope so.

JWB: She's smokin' hot!!!
10-09-2005
Suckerpunch

8) my advice tell her to fuck right off
10-12-2005
chromeheart44m

I wish I was trying to jus get attention. I dont need to make up lies on an anunymous thread I am 30 yo and make a decent living, no need to lie guysbut believe what you will. I can say I was given advice but my mind was made up so I did what I did.I will contact hr w/ no specifics I have a friend there. I however saw said girl this past monday and she just gave me a glance so I may have dodged a bullet.I believe she may jus use sporadically as our job does not test employees who were here before the MERGER.However all new employees are tested, thanx for the advice and the condemnation.
ps there are a couple of strolls in jersey the one I am referring to is in paterson.
10-12-2005
canihavu

Quote:

Originally Posted by chromeheart44m

I wish I was trying to jus get attention. I dont need to make up lies on an anunymous thread I am 30 yo and make a decent living, no need to lie guysbut believe what you will. I can say I was given advice but my mind was made up so I did what I did.I will contact hr w/ no specifics I have a friend there. I however saw said girl this past monday and she just gave me a glance so I may have dodged a bullet.I believe she may jus use sporadically as our job does not test employees who were here before the MERGER.However all new employees are tested, thanx for the advice and the condemnation.
ps there are a couple of strolls in jersey the one I am referring to is in paterson.

SO who;s the girls so all of us in NJ know to avoid her ass....
10-13-2005
chromeheart44m

lol check your email!
10-13-2005
brickcitybrother

Oh you gotta give a brother that e-mail shout out too. We need to know who to avoid.

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