Am I Gay or Bisexual? I developed a huge interest in the shemales lately and its starting to make me wonder. I only like the feminine ones that look like women and gay pornography does not turn me on. Let me know.
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Am I Gay or Bisexual? I developed a huge interest in the shemales lately and its starting to make me wonder. I only like the feminine ones that look like women and gay pornography does not turn me on. Let me know.
human sexuality is too diverse to be packaged & labeled in a cut-and-dry way. It's not as simple as black and white, more like 256 shades of grey. The whole world can't be divided perfectly into gay/straight/ or bi.
Yes you are! We all are. It is as simple as black and white, either you engage in same biological sex or you do not. Whether we put degrees of gayness and if that person looks like the opposite sex, is just the human way to deal with a situation that is not normal by societal rules. I too do not find men sexually attractive, but I like a nice hard dick on a feminine looking shemale, I have come to the realization that if I like a dick I am in some way gay. Just my long thought out opinion.
Deep. Good to see some intelligent conversation is still alive on the net.
Playing Devils Advocate here to the last post. :wink:
You're saying that a person's sexuality is determined if they "engage in same biological sex or you do not".
So a male who is attracted to men (or a female who is attracted to females) but never "engages" in said activity would be straight?
And for that matter a "straight" man who engages in sex with a transsexual unknowningly (a la "Madamn Butterfly") is gay, only he doesn't know it?
I'm not saying your wrong, but IMHO to say sexuality is black and white is akin to saying which religion is right.
one of my favorite lines - "It's not that I don't like penises, I just don't like them on men..."
that was me posting the penis line. you should know, I stole it too, from a lesbian comedienne named Lea DeLaria (sp?) years ago. always loved that line...
scott
I understand what the host means,I've never being with another man but shemales just drive me crazy....but categorisation is'nt cool....just go with what makes you happy is what I have learned
Queer? I doubt that. Like most, that tool has to be attached to a fine looking female shape. I have a small collection of videos. The turn-ons are the most feminine of the girls.
From a Judeo/Christian doctrine to act on it is what make it so. Though through this logic thinking about it is also sinful, but the act is more so. I still think that we that like a male body part have some degree of gayness and it is just society and our up bringing that makes the fact that we don't like the dick on a guy wrong. In other words we want our cake and want to eat it too. To have a feminine looking ts with a big dick. I also think that it is the total "otherness" of the ts, not male nor female but a hybrid that is exciting. Oh hell I like tgirls if that makes me queer then so be it. Like another said, enjoy yourself, play safe and don't think to much about it.
Why must we be so attached to labels? This uptight sexophobic society is nothing to gage anything by. As the philosopher Krishnamurti said; "It is no measure of health to be well adjusted to a profoundly sick society." Any form of intimacy between human beings is a good thing in this day and age. I've been sexually involved with women, transsexuals, and a few men--to me it's mostly about the person, the chemistry. All things being equal I prefer pre-op/non-op TS's and feel that it is good to give as well as receive--probably too many variations there to call me trisexual. So, let's see, would that make me omnisexual? Whatever. But, hey, if some people choose to label themselves gay or republican or baptist or even normal, who am I to tell 'em otherwise? Live and let live.
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most people don't choose to label themselves. they take the label other people give to them.
God,I mean I feel like most of the others:
Shemales drive me crazy.Men don't do a thing
for me.It seems people like to attach labels
to every preference.It matters what you think
of yourself and what gives you pleasure and enjoyment-not what others want to label you.
When I first started seeing shemales I was
pretty confused myself.Now that about 4 years have gone by I'm pretty fucking content with my choices.Enjoy yourself and don't worry about the label nonsense.
I have often read that gay men are not attracted to transexual women. Gay men are attracted to masculinity. I don't think that men who are attracted to transgendered women are gay, because it is the feminity they are attracted to. I don't think, however, that you should be too concerned about labels. According to sexual psychologist, few people are 100% gay or straight. The most of us fall somewhere in between these extremes.
Its said - You have have to ask the price - you cannot afford the item. If you think about that euphemism - you may now know the answer to your question.
lol
I agree. You like what you like and makes your earth move. Fuck the labelling..as long as youre happy about it, then thats all that matters. Society as a whole has had its biases since the begining of time. Dont get caught with the norms and stereotypes! Do what pleases you. :wink:Quote:
Originally Posted by NYCe
Remember: If Transexual women were just gay people..It would have been alot easier if we remained a boy/man and just drag on out when we feel like it. But thats hardly not so the case. Why would one go thru all the hard work to transition closely to a genetic woman? If it makes sense?!
~Kisses.
HTG
For fuck's sake, not another one of these "Am I Gay?" posts.
Am I the only one who is sick of this?
"Am I gay... am I only gay if I get topped, blah blah blah"
I don't really care one way or the other - anyone who does is just insecure. Why would you have to "identify" yourself like that anyway?
Absolutely, right. You are a horny male! There is not one male on the planet, who seeing a picture of a beautiful T-Girl when they are alone, will not be aroused. However, they follow one of two tracks. Track 1: "Holy shit! They are fantanstic! I gotta find one of theses girls" Their subconscious says "No... Noo.. you'll be labeled gay!!!" They reply fuck you...call me what you will, this is fucking great!!!.Quote:
Originally Posted by mds
Track 2: "Oh my I'm getting erect!" Their subconscious says "No... Noo.. you'll be labeled gay!!!" They run to the corner and proceed to punch their genitle saying "No, No, Stop it! Stop it!! Bad, Bad, Mommy and Daddy say it's Badddd! Evil t-girls!!!!"
I took track 1 and have loved it. I want all you beautiful t-girls, and you can call me Gay, you can call me Ray, but don't call me Sonny!
ezed
I use to wonder if I was gay or bisexual,because I like transexuals. Then one day I said I just don't care. I like who I like.
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Originally Posted by ezed
is it just me or do both end up w/ the guy beating his genitals :jerkoff
This post is pretty old, it just got upped again. I think it might have been the original "Am I gay" post on HungAngels.Quote:
Originally Posted by scipio
Don't worry pardner, I may not have a gay bone in my body (I don't know), but all it takes, is a person who thinks she's a woman, and acts like she's a woman, and then puts some lipstick on........I'm there. If it makes you feel better, just say you have a fetish for transsgendered women. Fetishes are cool these days.
Oh You're Gay!
Know how I knew you were gay? You like Coldplay.
You know how else I know you're gay? You have a rainbow bumpersticker on your car that says "I love it when *balls* are in my face".
Plus You like the movie "Maid in Manhattan".
We should start a running meter showing the number of times some shlub asks this fuckin' question. I know it averages once a week or so. Every T discussion board should have at least a couple of dozen of these threads. Haul out the dead horse and let's beat the fucker now.