Who doesn't escort

I know i will get alot of flack for this but guys would you be cool to have a girlfreind that escorts or you have knowledge that she has done so in the past,would you be cool knowing that she has been with 20 or so pretend boyfriends just for money?

Isn't love suppose to be between to individuals as the old saying goes,i could be wrong partial because i've never faced true love but i find it hard that i could sure my beloved one with some generic individual for any reason.


Have you ever fallen in love with someone that has escorted and asked yourself could i truly turn her around or if she loves me she won't lower herself to doing that sort of work again,can someone tell me what really equals love around here money or does just plain loving someone still work?

I would like to reply to this, I screen my clients and only sleep with guys I find attractive or would be okay with. What is the difference between going on a date with this individual and having sex and just flat out getting paid the money the date would cost. I don't go on cheap dates lol so LEGEND thats how I look at it. And I still haven't reached over 10 guys lol Not to mention I see you go goo goo ga ga over girls that have escorted on here and still do. So you don't find that a bit hypocritical? You'd still fuck them, but you wouldn't date them??

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Originally Posted by KellyShore

I would like to reply to this, I screen my clients and only sleep with guys I find attractive or would be okay with. What is the difference between going on a date with this individual and having sex and just flat out getting paid the money the date would cost. I don't go on cheap dates lol so LEGEND thats how I look at it. And I still haven't reached over 10 guys lol Not to mention I see you go goo goo ga ga over girls that have escorted on here and still do. So you don't find that a bit hypocritical? You'd still fuck them, but you wouldn't date them??

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So your telling me you would hold your significant other on the same level as guys who you see while escorting,i'm so glad you responded kelly one question i'd like to ask you what motivates you to escort please be honest?

i've never went "go goo goo ga ga over" any person on here before but let me say i truly respect all girls on here and really never looked at myself as wanting to fuck them i look more as freinds,it's just when you find someone that you think is different but it turns at that she isn't you have to wonder.

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Originally Posted by Legend

would you be cool knowing that she has been with 20 or so pretend boyfriends just for money?

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You wanna add a couple of zero's to thaty figure or a we talking daily :twisted:

(This is somewhat of a lingering topic that has always been prominent between some of the ts -escorts) Being that i am a "escort" and have been in realtiomships , it has been hard because you have to face your work & your love life . sooner or later no matter how much you distance it from the other it will clash. evantually. Unless you conceal that you escort. I have done both and honestlly i perfer to have a guy in my life who knows the diffrance between my work and my love for him. Also for him to know that sex with him and sex with a client its totally diffrent. The feelings you put into a client , & to your boyfriend are totally diffrent the feelings will never be the same. love is love work is work!! Unless you fall in love with all your clients then you really have to sort your feelings out,,.....lol and in referance to your question ( pretend boyfriends just for money? ) Pretend boyfriends,,, Many is the time I been offered to have a " suger dady " or have some one take care of me ,, and have turned it down why?/ beacuse i dont feel right portraying that i am "IN LOVE " just for the sake of money. But then again that is just me...EVERY GIRL IS DIFFRENT THAN THE NEXT.

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Originally Posted by Legend

could i truly turn her around or if she loves me she won't lower herself to doing that sort of work again,

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Hey, it's not LOWERING herself at all, Theres absolutely NOTHING low about being an escort. Sure it's "hustling" as NYCjulie put it in another thread but it's not called 'the oldest profession' for nothing. Basically Men pay for sex whatever happens, you can pay "up-front" with an escort or "In arrears" (ffnar!) as in a marriage. (cough , cough , paul mcartney). That is why the UN-PROFESSIONAL whore (wives and girlfriends) hate on the PROFESSIONAL whore so much......she devalues sex! It's all about market forces you see...........
If you want to talk about LOWERING oneself to do a certain type of work I can think of some example that rank FAR below escorting......Estate agents(DAMN PARASITES, first against the wall), Telesales, Rozzers(not called The filth for nothing)

I haven't been in that situation, but I think I could deal just fine if she did it in the past. I couldn't be with one who does it now, though. It's just something I'm not willing to deal with.

And before anyone asks, no I don't see escorts nor ever plan to.

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Originally Posted by Legend

it's just when you find someone that you think is different but it turns at that she isn't you have to wonder.

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Well I dont wanna keep your hopes up and or be the bearer of "bad news" Legend. But the truth is with the TG community (and I am speaking from experience) dating one who is really "clean" and have no escorting past is tricky. Especially here in North America. Your best bet would be to find a girl in asia or europe. Even there too there is no guarantee. Escorting has been catching up on key european and asean cities. Why? there's a high demand and loads of money to be made. With it a girl could transition alot faster and get the surgeries they need. I'd just call it a switch and bait type of deal. Alot of girls arent as forthcoming of their past as many men like yourself would hope for. So just when you think you're liking or falling for a girl, you find out sooner or later she hid a few facts away from you..You get frustrated!

But again, accept the fact that you like ts women and the dating pool is smaller than most of you guys think. So the way I see it is "take it or leave it". Love her or hate her..it's every guys perogative. And if you really like and or love this girl then why does her past even matter? If she really cared about you and the relationship she would quit escorting IMO. ;)

~Kisses.

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Originally Posted by JANIRA

(This is somewhat of a lingering topic that has always been prominent between some of the ts -escorts) Being that i am a "escort" and have been in realtiomships , it has been hard because you have to face your work & your love life . sooner or later no matter how much you distance it from the other it will clash. evantually. Unless you conceal that you escort. I have done both and honestlly i perfer to have a guy in my life who knows the diffrance between my work and my love for him. Also for him to know that sex with him and sex with a client its totally diffrent. The feelings you put into a client , & to your boyfriend are totally diffrent the feelings will never be the same. love is love work is work!! Unless you fall in love with all your clients then you really have to sort your feelings out,,.....lol and in referance to your question ( pretend boyfriends just for money? ) Pretend boyfriends,,, Many is the time I been offered to have a " suger dady " or have some one take care of me ,, and have turned it down why?/ beacuse i dont feel right portraying that i am "IN LOVE " just for the sake of money. But then again that is just me...EVERY GIRL IS DIFFRENT THAN THE NEXT.

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What if the love your boyfreind had for you was to great and he didn't want to share you with anyone and he asked you to stop,would you oblige?

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Originally Posted by Kriss

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Originally Posted by Legend

could i truly turn her around or if she loves me she won't lower herself to doing that sort of work again,

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Hey, it's not LOWERING herself at all, Theres absolutely NOTHING low about being an escort. Sure it's "hustling" as NYCjulie put it in another thread but it's not called 'the oldest profession' for nothing. Basically Men pay for sex whatever happens, you can pay "up-front" with an escort or "In arrears" (ffnar!) as in a marriage. (cough , cough , paul mcartney). That is why the UN-PROFESSIONAL whore (wives and girlfriends) hate on the PROFESSIONAL whore so much......she devalues the pussy! It's all about market forces you see...........
If you want to talk about LOWERING oneself to do a certain type of work I can think of some example that rank FAR below escorting......Estate agents(DAMN PARASITES, first against the wall), Telesales, Rozzers(not called The filth for nothing)

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I didn't quite mean to offend anyone so if i did i apologize.

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Originally Posted by Hara_Juku Tgirl

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Originally Posted by Legend

it's just when you find someone that you think is different but it turns at that she isn't you have to wonder.

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Well I dont wanna keep your hopes up and or be the bearer of "bad news" Legend. But the truth is with the TG community (and I am speaking from experience) dating one who is really "clean" and have no escorting past is tricky. Especially here in North America. Your best bet would be to find a girl in asia or europe. Even there too there is no guarantee. Escorting has been catching up on key european and asean cities. Why? there's a high demand and loads of money to be made. With it a girl could transition alot faster and get the surgeries they need. I'd just call it a switch and bait type of deal. Alot of girls arent as forthcoming of their past as many men like yourself would hope for. So just when you think you're liking or falling for a girl, you find out sooner or later she hid a few facts away from you..You get frustrated!

But again, accept the fact that you like ts women and the dating pool is smaller than most of you guys think. So the way I see it is "take it or leave it". Love her or hate her..it's every guys perogative. And if you really like and or love this girl then why does her past even matter? If she really cared about you and the relationship she would quit escorting IMO. ;)

~Kisses.

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There is so much about this community that i am unaware of but i really don't think i'd go anywhere just to find someone you know i typically just fall for someone i have been around and come a custom too.But the way you have describe this to me that if a find true love in the tg that it is rather rare?

Based on what you have told me hara i think when i do find someone i'm gonna cherish her with all my heart,your last sentence really gave me some hope.

HONESTLLY,, NO. CAUSE IF HE UNDERSTANDS THAT HE AINT SHARING ME, WHAT I GIVE TO MY WORK AINT THE SAME THAT I GIVE HIM. THERE IS NO LOVE INVOVLED IN MY WORK. I ENTERTAIN MEN WHO HAVE A FANTASY ,I FULFILL THEIR FETISH AND THEY LEAVE . LOVE & ESCORTING DONT TRANSEND INTO THE SAME EMOTIONS. YES IT MAY BE PHYSICAL, BUT THAT IS ALL IT IS. MANY GUYS DONT KNOW THE DIFFRANCE AND SOME DONT CARE TO HEAR IT, AND I HAVE HAD MY BOYFRIENDS TELL ME ( STOP DOING WHAT YOU DO ILL TALKE CAR EOF YOU).... BUT I CANT ITS NOT THAT I CANT STOP ESCORTING, IF I WANTED I COULD,, EVEN IF IT CAN BE ADDICTING,, NOT THE WORK ....THE MONEY . I JUST COULDNT BE DEPENDANT ON SOMEONE,, I HAVE ALWAYS BEEN A VERY INDEPENDANT GIRL AND I COULDNT RELY ON A BOYFRIEND PAYING FOR ME OR GIVING ME MONEY ITS JUST NOT MY THING IF WANT SOMETHING ILL GET IT..APPOSE TO LET ME GET IT FOR YOU. ITS NOT THE FACT THAT I WONT APPRECIATE IT , LORD KNOWS I WILL IM A SWEETHEART , I 'M JUST NOT LET ME HAVE THIS AND THAT KIND OF GAL.... I LOVE THE FACT OF LOVE AND ITS EXTREMELY COMPLEX WHEN IT COMES DOWN TO IT ALL.. ITS NOT EASY.. BUT THEN AGAIN NOBODY SAID IT WAS.

yea...living that lifestyle is way 2 complicated, but i guess in the end everyone settles down when the time is right, you cant be young and goodlooking 4ever right?

EXACTLLY BEAUTY FADES.. BUT THE HEART REMAINS..!

this is very hard..like many have stated above the "dating pool"for ts is very limited and depending on their circumstance,they may or may not have had to get into the escort thang..i have dated and tried to have serious monogamy with girls who had this in their past..it seems to me if the girl ha had all her sil and boobs done,plus a pageant or two,plus a real job or two,plus a couple of old white,fat sugar daddies under their belt and they are over the age of 33(thats about 103 in tg years,which are similar to dog years)after all of this you might get something your are after..the escort thing adds a lot of drama,to a relationship that many people find hard..yeah your girl might say this is work which it really is to an extent but is she willing to put up with you going out and just getting laid while she is working?-"oh baby it was just a one nighter"" or "she just sucke my dick,no biggy"this is such a slippery drama ridden slope that i know many who have really gotten down and serious with a ts have had to deal with...........

In the past - *Shrug*, everyone has to make a living.

In the present - I've never been in that situation, so i'm not certain how i'd handle it.
I doubt i'd be *overjoyed*, but i don't think i'd spit the dummy out over it.

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Originally Posted by qeuqheeg222

this is very hard..like many have stated above the "dating pool"for ts is very limited and depending on their circumstance,they may or may not have had to get into the escort thang..i have dated and tried to have serious monogamy with girls who had this in their past..it seems to me if the girl ha had all her sil and boobs done,plus a pageant or two,plus a real job or two,plus a couple of old white,fat sugar daddies under their belt and they are over the age of 33(thats about 103 in tg years,which are similar to dog years)after all of this you might get something your are after..the escort thing adds a lot of drama,to a relationship that many people find hard..yeah your girl might say this is work which it really is to an extent but is she willing to put up with you going out and just getting laid while she is working?-"oh baby it was just a one nighter"" or "she just sucke my dick,no biggy"this is such a slippery drama ridden slope that i know many who have really gotten down and serious with a ts have had to deal with...........

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QUESTION ??? HOW CAN U COMPARE GOIN OUT AND GETTING YOUR DICK SUCKED OR WHAT HAVE YOU.. TO A GIRL ESCORTING..... WHEN YOU GO OUT AND GET YOUR DICKED SUCKED OR HAVE SEX YOUR DOING IT CAUSE YOU WANT PLEASURE NOT CAUSE YOUR GETTING PAID. ITS A BIG DIFFERANCE! WHEN I WAS WITH MY BOYFRIEND I HAD A SCHEDULE FROM THOSE HOURS I WORKED WHEN I WAS HOME I WOULD SHUT MY PHONE OFF AND THAT WAS THAT !! AND I NEVER WORKED WHILE I WAS SPENDING TIME WITH HIM,, I SEPERATE THE TWO,, JUST LIK E IF A WOMAN WAS SO INTO HER COMPANY SHE HAS TO DEAL WITH HER BOYFRIEND AND HER JOB,,,, THAT IT COULD LEAD TO A BREAK UP BECAUSE HER WORK IS OVER RULING HER REALATIONSHIP,, AND SHE NEVER HAS TIME FOR HIM,, ITS KINDA OF THE SAME THING,, ONLY DIFFRANCE IS THAT I ESCORT. LIKE I SAI D BEFORE ITS A VERY TOUCHY SUBJECT,,, NOT EVERYONE IS GONNA AGREE OR HAVE THE SAME VIEWS,, WHICH I RESPECT BECAUSE EVERYONE IS ENTITLED TO THE OWN OPINION

janira...... you are SMOKIN!!!!!!!!

where do you live???

I LIVE IN MIAMI SWEETY ,,, SIGHS: AND I HATE IT,,

The constant flow of gorgeous t-girls showing up one after another, I could hardly sleeep. And if I did not get one out soon enough and the other one saw another coming in........FIREWORKS!!!! Thier jealous nature was not good for thier health.

And I felt bad taking the $$ they just earned themselves as soon as they earned it for the thrill of a ride on the Wombat Pole.

Now I just do it for free to keep my skills in tact.

What's got you down about Miami, Janira?

The way I see it, sex can be for pleasure, for love, for money, or for emotional blackmail/revenge. Setting that last (and other) variants aside, the first three are quite distinct. As Janira says, she and many (if not all) escorts practice "work sex" for money, and "love sex" for love, and the distinction is quite clear. This is reflected by many escorts who will do anything with a client, but will not kiss, as they consider that the one intimate act that they reserve for their lover. (Others of course don't make the kissing distinction; that's just an example.)

Some (many? most?) people make no distinction, and to them, all sex is the same: thus, for them, there can be no separation between one or the other type. That limits who they will abide as partners, and (as Kelly points out) will make them hypocritical if they pursue sex for pleasure while forbidding their partners to pursue sex with someone else (for money or pleasure).

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Originally Posted by KellyShore

I would like to reply to this, I screen my clients and only sleep with guys I find attractive or would be okay with. What is the difference between going on a date with this individual and having sex and just flat out getting paid the money the date would cost. I don't go on cheap dates lol so LEGEND thats how I look at it. And I still haven't reached over 10 guys lol Not to mention I see you go goo goo ga ga over girls that have escorted on here and still do. So you don't find that a bit hypocritical? You'd still fuck them, but you wouldn't date them??

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So your telling me you would hold your significant other on the same level as guys who you see while escorting,i'm so glad you responded kelly one question i'd like to ask you what motivates you to escort please be honest?

i've never went "go goo goo ga ga over" any person on here before but let me say i truly respect all girls on here and really never looked at myself as wanting to fuck them i look more as freinds,it's just when you find someone that you think is different but it turns at that she isn't you have to wonder.

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I am holding my clients as guys I would date, but I know just want a first time or sex. If they just want their first time or sex they are going to pay me to use me as their science project. And I can name a few girls that you go goo goo ga ga over but I don't want to start any drama if you would like to discuss that in private I will be more than willing to.

What motivates me is what I just said, if a guy I choose to be with that has the intentions of just wanting to use me , he doesn't need to give me the BS lines or work on me he just needs to pay me the price and he will get what he wants. Its that simple. And thats how I am looking at escorting, not to see how much money I can make, not to see how many clients I can get, not to make a fortune. I leave that to the girls that are willing to do that, and thats fine for them. But for me personally I don't see myself doing so.

This whole thing is complex to me from what i understand from everyone who commented basically you girls do it for the pleasure of fulfilling other strangers fantasies or in kelly's words some form of science project not just money and if your were dating a girl who escorts little things like kissing dictates love between the bf and john why is it that you won't kiss a total stranger but you would have sex with them odd.

I'm really not trying to disrespect any of you girls who escort, im just so curious as to why you do it because if you liked someone and thought they were straight edge but found out they escort you would want to know why.

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BUT I CANT ITS NOT THAT I CANT STOP ESCORTING, IF I WANTED I COULD,, EVEN IF IT CAN BE ADDICTING,, NOT THE WORK ....THE MONEY

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Ive heard this line before, and every time ive proven it wrong...Sorry, I dont personally believe you because your already an addict. Just like someone doing Horse, cant believe a word they say when its comes to quitting.

Your pretty, and intelligent... but your cutting yourself off from a whole section of men. I seriously have to question the validity of any *man* thats okay with letting there girl take another man's(men?) cock....Thats right, I said it.

Every girl has her own motivations and her own way of approaching the business. Personally I find myself at odds with most escorts because I don't really distinguish the play that I do for pay and the play that I do for fun. I tend to like most people, and I enjoy making people feel good. End of story.

I've got more than enough love in my life and I make that clear to men that start fixating. So I don't really have this dichotomy in my brain that creates an emotional hierarchy.

Let's get real guys; in the off chance that a beautiful and intelligent lady who escorts decides to date you for free, you are going to turn around and insult her and refuse the connection? That's crazy. If you guys like T girls then you should support us, and stop being so judgmental about the paths we choose to finance our transition.

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Originally Posted by Legend

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Originally Posted by Hara_Juku Tgirl

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Originally Posted by Legend

it's just when you find someone that you think is different but it turns at that she isn't you have to wonder.

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Well I dont wanna keep your hopes up and or be the bearer of "bad news" Legend. But the truth is with the TG community (and I am speaking from experience) dating one who is really "clean" and have no escorting past is tricky. Especially here in North America. Your best bet would be to find a girl in asia or europe. Even there too there is no guarantee. Escorting has been catching up on key european and asean cities. Why? there's a high demand and loads of money to be made. With it a girl could transition alot faster and get the surgeries they need. I'd just call it a switch and bait type of deal. Alot of girls arent as forthcoming of their past as many men like yourself would hope for. So just when you think you're liking or falling for a girl, you find out sooner or later she hid a few facts away from you..You get frustrated!

But again, accept the fact that you like ts women and the dating pool is smaller than most of you guys think. So the way I see it is "take it or leave it". Love her or hate her..it's every guys perogative. And if you really like and or love this girl then why does her past even matter? If she really cared about you and the relationship she would quit escorting IMO. ;)

~Kisses.

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There is so much about this community that i am unaware of but i really don't think i'd go anywhere just to find someone you know i typically just fall for someone i have been around and come a custom too.But the way you have describe this to me that if a find true love in the tg that it is rather rare?

Based on what you have told me hara i think when i do find someone i'm gonna cherish her with all my heart,your last sentence really gave me some hope.

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Well that's true tho Legend. If a girls likes you enough..maybe even love you that much and really cared for you, her and your relationship she will quit without you even asking her. That's exactly what I think I would do. ;)

As Kriss mentioned on 1st page (which I found very funny), I myself might ask for some "Arears" tho as a collateral! LOL J/k :lol:

~Kisses.

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LEGEND I wouldn't escort if I was in a relationship thats retarded

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Originally Posted by KellyShore

LEGEND I wouldn't escort if I was in a relationship thats retarded

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Can you elaborate that?

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Originally Posted by KellyShore

LEGEND I wouldn't escort if I was in a relationship thats retarded

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The only reason I'm choosing to escort now is because I am single and not tied to anyone. Nor am I trying to look for anything substantial at this moment. I have been in three long term relationships, since I was 14. I find it okay for me to do this at the moment, but once I get back into the dating or serious mind again. I will quit doing escorting. I don't rely on it in life personally, especially since I've only done it for the past two months. I never claimed to be a season professional, never claimed to be the best, and this is how I am comfortable with doing it. So while others may disagree with me, especially girls that are seasoned veterans in the field. I look at it differently, and this is how I choose to do it.

But relationships to me are based on being comfortable and honest with one another. You may see it as wrong for yourself personally, while another guy may just be okay with his girl doing escorting or having sex with other guys in general. To each their own, and I hope you find what you are lookin for.

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BUT I CANT ITS NOT THAT I CANT STOP ESCORTING, IF I WANTED I COULD,, EVEN IF IT CAN BE ADDICTING,, NOT THE WORK ....THE MONEY

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Ive heard this line before, and every time ive proven it wrong...Sorry, I dont personally believe you because your already an addict. Just like someone doing Horse, cant believe a word they say when its comes to quitting.

Your pretty, and intelligent... but your cutting yourself off from a whole section of men. I seriously have to question the validity of any *man* thats okay with letting there girl take another man's(men?) cock....Thats right, I said it.

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an addict is someone who cannot stop no matter what. who needs it , and is self lost in their addiction. I myself am not . Its a job,, weather its one ppl accept or not ! If i was a addict i would of been totaly thrown head 1st in my job not care about anything else but "work" i have my family i have friends and honestly there are days when my phone is ringing off the hook , and i cant be bothered i shut it off and go spend that day or days, with friends or family , (im not governed by my work ) if i want to work i work if i dont want to i dont have to, does that sound like a addict? Ofcouse i have to work because i have bills like everyone else, rent, etc, its just like any other job, expept its not accpeted by many and many other issues. I stated in my previous post i dont do well , nor feel comfortable with with guys wanting to take care of me, meaning i just couldnt handle being with a guy who is my boyfreind giveing me money , buy me what i want , pay bills etc,, i just dont feel right .im not keen on that. For example my best friend has this guy who she s been seeing for months and she escorts as well, and she sneeks behind his back and does her work, I am real with everything, i couldnt lie and say "oh no sweety im not escorting ",, I perfer to have all my cards on the table from the geq! if he accepts me fine ,( not that i expect him to), i completely agree with the fact that this is a very hard subjet to tackle ., there wil lbe a diffranceses of opinon and honestly, if i had the choice of entering another realtionship, i wouldnt, for now,, why? because there is so much to deal with in reagaurds to escorting, it will cause a clash in my realtionship sooner or later, i have never said that it wouldnt , i would be lieing if i did. I am just discribing (my) past expireances on this issue.

Sorry to bump this kinda old thread but it has some stuff I was looking for. I am seeing someone now who is escorting (yes she is transsexual). We have only been going out 5 weeks and she is awesome, but I can't say we are yet in a relationship. Getting there, though. It does not bother me that she does this for work. Nor does she have to reassure me that it's just a job, etc. It's her actions when she is with me that are important. The phone is off and there is a deep level of affection and intimicy between us. When we set a date she keeps it, etc. I guess it can get to me when I think of what a cool person she is and show beautiful she looks, and how she has to do things she's not in to for clients. If things continue to go this well and we continue to grow closer, I think it will be a strain on both of us. She does not want to do this forever.

how did you meet this tg?and how would she feel if you started to strip and fuck(for income only.um.))at the local gay bar or chippenshits or whatever...........or even if you had a friend with benefits...

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Originally Posted by Legend

it's just when you find someone that you think is different but it turns at that she isn't you have to wonder.

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Well I dont wanna keep your hopes up and or be the bearer of "bad news" Legend. But the truth is with the TG community (and I am speaking from experience) dating one who is really "clean" and have no escorting past is tricky. Especially here in North America. Your best bet would be to find a girl in asia or europe. Even there too there is no guarantee. Escorting has been catching up on key european and asean cities. Why? there's a high demand and loads of money to be made. With it a girl could transition alot faster and get the surgeries they need. I'd just call it a switch and bait type of deal. Alot of girls arent as forthcoming of their past as many men like yourself would hope for. So just when you think you're liking or falling for a girl, you find out sooner or later she hid a few facts away from you..You get frustrated!

But again, accept the fact that you like ts women and the dating pool is smaller than most of you guys think. So the way I see it is "take it or leave it". Love her or hate her..it's every guys perogative. And if you really like and or love this girl then why does her past even matter? If she really cared about you and the relationship she would quit escorting IMO. ;)

~Kisses.

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Agreed, the past doesn't matter. But what Fox said was true. Her past would have nothing to do with it, it's what happens in the present and future. If she says she's not escorting while in a relationship but does it secretly anyway, that's not cool. Just like how it wouldn't be cool for a guy to get mad at her for escorting later in the relationship if she was up front about it.

Me.
You'd have to show me a copy of a recent std test to even get me to think about doing it.

If some of you people want to date a prostitute then go ahead. Know this; there are plenty of ways to meet non-hooker t-girls. In fact the non-hooker t-girls have tremendous disdain for those who work in the “world’s oldest profession.” If you date a “working girl” who is still working, just how does it feel to know the person you love is getting all hot and sweaty with some person who is most likely a dirt bag? Most people who work as prostitutes and strippers have many issues and live a hard life. I have seen these people at work in bars and clubs and there is one word for them… hustlers

I don't escort anymore, I have found a guy to be with again.

I dated a GG for some time in the late seventies that was in the biz. She was a mess, for a multitude of reasons (Not just the hooking) and things just ran their course. It's tough, but not impossible. If you are strong of heart and can deal with the inherent bullshit, then all the best to you.

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In fact the non-hooker t-girls have tremendous disdain for those who work in the “world’s oldest profession.”

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I don't think that's universally true. Heck, most of my closest friends are TS porn stars and/or escorts.

I respect them for the difficulties of their jobs (I know it's not the paradise a lot of guys think it is.) and they respect me for the difficulties of mine. Both worlds have plus's and minus's about them.


Although, they sure do make a lot more money than I do... lol :smh


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I wish I could find an non-working girl in my area...