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I feel like the culture itself is a gateway drug into the TS community for admirers, but once you have discovered the real deal "TS" why would you ever want a CD again?
Maybe someone can shed some light on this. I don't understand the Drag Queen/CD stuff or the guys into them. Do CrossDressers date men or women in there regular life? Or is it just a fantasy they like to play out while dressed in Drag?
I see a lot of topics on it here so figured someone could open the can.
CDs/Drag Queens aren't on hormones and are therefore more likely to have a functional dick or even to top.
I'm attracted to femininity. I hooked up with a drag queen well after I hooked up with a trans woman.
I know a guy that fucks older cds (he is 34 and they are usually 50+) but wants nothing to do with an actual transwoman. He says bending a older CD over and fucking a sissy asshole is all about dominating and humiliating that dude for being dressed up and cock hungry.
Different strokes for different folks.
I started with ts girls and then moved to being open to drag queens partly cos they get hard and some are amazingly feminine. I would go to clubs they were at and being reasonably straight found many drag queens aka gay boys happy to have some fun. My preference is TS but honestly I like what I like if its a guy frocked up ooozing feminity and sex appeal then why not. Derrick Barry and Courtney Act are good examples of where I am more than happy to fool around with.
There was a time here, in the UK, when drag was more commonly found because there were not many transexuals, and the ones who did exist would mostly not want to be seen in places that were in any way involved with the gay/drag scene. I did see one or two transexuals at the Porchester Hall balls in the 1970s, and Ron Storme's Tudor Lodge in the 1980s, but they were either focused on their transition, or from somewhere in Asia, but very few. I recall a petite girl from the Philippines in the late 1970s -one of those who I now realise I shoud have pursued- , and one stunning young woman from Thailand or Malaysia around the same time.Quote:
Originally Posted by CaptainPlanet
If I wanted to see transexuals of the kind most common now, in the 1970s I would go to Paris, Milan or Naples. I don't think the Asians began arriving in the UK until the 1990s, with Latin Americas close behind, and if the Latinos concentrated on the Continent (where Asians are rare by comparison) it was because they did not speak English -I did not go to Spain in those days so have no idea what the scene was like, and believe that other than Singapore and Thailand, the US was the best place to go.
Globalization has been the engine of change, so that now there is a greater diversity of choice. I believe drag has strong appeal, and it probably has something to do with the borderline being more obvious. But I fear drag appeals for sex alone, whereas the 'authentic' transexual can be taken out to dinner, the theatre and so on without causing a fuss. And there are some truly sexy drag queens out there, so enjoy!
was there still femininity when the clothes came off?Quote:
Originally Posted by SanDiegoPervySage
I met 2 at a club once while drinking in NYC years back, they took me back to there apartment and once the lights came on and clothes came off I realized what was going on and decided to pass on that situation, it was like a real life CATFISH situation to me.
This sounds like some kind of jail house talk.Quote:
Originally Posted by Cereal Escapist
This is more so what I expected to here, thanks for replyingQuote:
Originally Posted by Stavros
Yes, "she" was slim and smooth which is what I like. 5 foot 6, about 140 pounds. Kinda like Kendra Sinclair(even though she is not a drag queen). She doesn't have any surgeries. Flat chested but still feminine and sexy. Plus, the one I hooked up with didn't have that over the top makeup job like a lot doQuote:
Originally Posted by CaptainPlanet
Bingo. Personally I wouldn’t turn down any opportunity to be with Farrah Moan.Quote:
Originally Posted by SanDiegoPervySage
Most crossdressers are straight married make but drag queens are usually gay males that dress like females as a form of satire and now weigh rupauls dragrace as a way to furtune and game.
Many drag queens now get some surgeries to look more feminine.
ShowGirls go all out with surgeries and hormones ect....
You have the bearded TV's called GenderFucks
Not really...he is probably just a bi-power top.Quote:
Originally Posted by CaptainPlanet
personally, I would say that watching transgender porn is why it is inevitable that I would become somewhat attracted to early transition girls. CDs and drag queens were in no way a gateway since my lust clearly started with feminine women who have cocks.
Most crossdressers are straight married males but drag queens are usually gay males that dress like females as a form of satire and now with rupauls dragrace as a way to furtune and game.
Many drag queens now get some surgeries to look more feminine.
ShowGirls go all out with surgeries and hormones ect....
What if all the makeup is gone, would you still take it?Quote:
Originally Posted by Ben in LA
I would prefer TS, but I've seen some CDs where I think I'd go for it.
I think for many people the boundaries of their sexuality are more fluid than they might think, at least in the right circumstances. On a couple of occasions I have made bookings with TS escorts only to discover that they were almost certainly CDs. I would not have booked them had I known, but as I was there I went ahead and found the experience reasonably enjoyable.
Thinking back I clearly had some underlying curiosity I wanted to satisfy, though I may not otherwise have taken any overt steps to satisfy it. But the illusion of femininity was still critical, as there's no way I would have had sex with them if they presented as men. Also, the experience has not changed my sexuality - I wouldn't rule out ever repeating it, but I still much prefer TS to CDs.
my attraction is to femininity so through the lens of porn and realm of fantasy, my definition of femininity has broadened BUT, though a drag queen or a crossdresser who are DTF may present with a very pleasing visage, I would not be able to follow through when they are en femme because ultimately, the reality that they are men would be inescapable let alone if they were not dolled up.Quote:
Originally Posted by CaptainPlanet
simply put, there are popular models right now that while I find them quite attractive and sexy when dolled up, I can't get it up once their clothes come off since the allure of their look dies once they are naked.
I definitely prefer TS because I am attracted to their femininity but i have been with two CDs and had a lot of fun with both. One was actually shaped like a girl (although you would never know when he was dressed like a guy) and gave the best blow job I ever had. No gag reflex at all and paid a lot of attention to my balls. Even gave me a rim job so good that he could have fucked me if he wanted.
I just did oral with the other CD. I liked sucking his big dick and he gave a decent blow job as well.
A CD/crossdresser is a Transgender
How can you know? Not all 'CD/crossdressers' identify the same way.Quote:
Originally Posted by natina
Thought about this question for awhile before answering. Sure, why not? It’s not like I haven’t seen him that way anyway.Quote:
Originally Posted by CaptainPlanet
WrongQuote:
Originally Posted by natina
I would absolutely hook up with and be with a crossdresser or a drag queen, granted that they are feminine. I am attracted to femininity and I love cock, so these lovely individuals could certainly suit my taste.Quote:
Originally Posted by CaptainPlanet
When I say feminine, I don't just mean in mannerisms. Facial hair and body hair are major turn offs for me. If the said drag queen or crossdresser is smooth and feminine, I am totally down. I'm not a huge fan of breast implants, so generally speaking, femboys are my favorite. Some femboys crossdress and do drag shows, so yes! I like! I love! :dancing: