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My husband cheated on me with TS/TV
I'm so upset to see my husband has commented on this post:
http://www.hungangels.com/vboard/sho...nd-ts-Amandada
and admitted he's cheated on me with ts. I have nothing against people doing these things and getting paid for it after all it's their bodies to do with what they like but when a man who claims he loves his wife and has regular sex (so can't say it's a lack of sex in the relationship) goes and pays for sex it ruins lives. It would be hard enough to deal with just knowing it's other females he's been cheating with but to find out he's been with other men (tv's are still men as they still have a dick!!!) And really enjoyed it!! I dont know how to deal with this :-( I can not compete with another man
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Upsetwife
And really enjoyed it!! I dont know how to deal with this :-( I can not compete with another man
perhaps invest in a strap on and roger him senseless?
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Originally Posted by
slave2u
perhaps invest in a strap on and roger him senseless?
If he wanted to be rogered as you put it he should married a guy
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If this is all genuine that was pretty insensitive slave2u
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Originally Posted by
slave2u
perhaps invest in a strap on and roger him senseless?
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hugeadmirer
If this is all genuine that was pretty insensitive slave2u
I can assure you this is genuine, this unfortunately is my life I'm dealing with and I know that no one on here really wants me here ranting but it's my only outlet for how I'm feeling as I can't talk to anyone about it
My heart is completely broken
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Re: Ana888 and ts Amandada
I need someone to please explain to me why a seemingly heterosexual guy who is married and loves his wife, which I do believe he does, would sleep with a ts? What is the attraction? I don't want to offend anyone so please accept my apology if I have but if anyone is in the same situation is happily married but sleeping with ts escort please tell me why, maybe then I will understand better why he's done it and will probably do it again. I know he has slept with female escorts too and although I hate it and font understand what he gets from them that's he's not getting from me I can't understand why ts' as when he talks about them he says they are nothing but freaks (his words not mine) and they should decide if they want to be male or female and it's wrong that they choose to be both.
Please explain to me someone x
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Originally Posted by
Upsetwife
I need someone to please explain to me why a seemingly heterosexual guy who is married and loves his wife, which I do believe he does, would sleep with a ts? What is the attraction? I don't want to offend anyone so please accept my apology if I have but if anyone is in the same situation is happily married but sleeping with ts escort please tell me why, maybe then I will understand better why he's done it and will probably do it again. I know he has slept with female escorts too and although I hate it and font understand what he gets from them that's he's not getting from me I can't understand why ts' as when he talks about them he says they are nothing but freaks (his words not mine) and they should decide if they want to be male or female and it's wrong that they choose to be both.
Please explain to me someone x
Dozens of threads attempting to explain this. Here's just a handful.
http://www.hungangels.com/vboard/sho...-with-Trannies
http://www.hungangels.com/vboard/sho...ed-to-preop-TS
http://www.hungangels.com/vboard/sho...traight-bi-gay
http://www.hungangels.com/vboard/sho...ed-to-Shemales
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Originally Posted by
Laphroaig
Thank you but was hoping to get someone's personal experience of it to try and help me undetstand
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Originally Posted by
Upsetwife
Thank you but was hoping to get someone's personal experience of it to try and help me undetstand
Well, to begin with, can I suggest that you start your own thread on the subject, ideally in the General Forum and stop sabotaging a number of different threads in this Review section - I think you might find that approach both more respectful of those who use these boards and also more productive in terms of what you are trying to discover and understand.
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Upsetwife
Thank you but was hoping to get someone's personal experience of it to try and help me undetstand
There's only one person you're going to get that answer from. Think you already know this, but don't want to, or aren't ready to face him yet.
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Originally Posted by
Upsetwife
I need someone to please explain to me why a seemingly heterosexual guy who is married and loves his wife, which I do believe he does, would sleep with a ts? What is the attraction? I don't want to offend anyone so please accept my apology if I have but if anyone is in the same situation is happily married but sleeping with ts escort please tell me why, maybe then I will understand better why he's done it and will probably do it again. I know he has slept with female escorts too and although I hate it and font understand what he gets from them that's he's not getting from me I can't understand why ts' as when he talks about them he says they are nothing but freaks (his words not mine) and they should decide if they want to be male or female and it's wrong that they choose to be both.
Please explain to me someone x
I read your original post on here the other day I actually felt sorry for you, as one of the escorts myself I know just how many married men we see each week and if its any consolation it really isn’t just your husband with this desire/hunger/fetish for a chick with a dick, there are thousands of them that pay us for this no strings attached taboo fun.
However much sympathy I feel for u I have to say unless you’re going to confront him then what on earth is the fucking point in coming here - AN ESCORT REVIEW site badmouthing transexuals because you cannot bring yourself to just asking your husband why hes been cheating on you? Virtually pointless I don’t even beleive you’re real now tbh I think your a wind up as I don’t know any woman in my life who would instead of confronting said husband would instead set up a profile on the same site hes used to rant about it? I smell bullshit. If you are real I suggest you GO AND TALK to your husband as theres fuck all you’re going to get from here, especially when questioning the guys intentions of paying to fuck girls like me. As you stated yourself if he wanted to fuck a “guy” be that a rentboy or ts escort (as Im sure u would include in being a guy) then he shouldn’t have married you. But that’s something only he can answer you not us!
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Originally Posted by
Upsetwife
I need someone to please explain to me why a seemingly heterosexual guy who is married and loves his wife, which I do believe he does, would sleep with a ts? What is the attraction? I don't want to offend anyone so please accept my apology if I have but if anyone is in the same situation is happily married but sleeping with ts escort please tell me why, maybe then I will understand better why he's done it and will probably do it again. I know he has slept with female escorts too and although I hate it and font understand what he gets from them that's he's not getting from me I can't understand why ts' as when he talks about them he says they are nothing but freaks (his words not mine) and they should decide if they want to be male or female and it's wrong that they choose to be both.
Please explain to me someone x
It must be a shocking way to find out that you dont fulfill his sexual needs, however if you want to continue the relationship you are going to need to talk to your husband and find out if there is a possible compromise. I am guessing he is an older guy and this is not a unique situation, for as we get to a certain age the urge to experiment sexually is common. Some men take to swinging or dogging to watch their wives have sex for example. It certainly doesnt mean he is gay or that he doesnt love you as his wife, he's simply experimenting sexually. As another posted here some couples find alternatives and use strapons, or some couples (as in my relationship) experiment with transgenders together. In fact we often talk about our 3some with a beautiful ladyboy in Thailand. So my advice would be dont take it personally, have a few drinks and both discuss your sexual needs...Together!
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Originally Posted by
DollyJEscort
I read your original post on here the other day I actually felt sorry for you, as one of the escorts myself I know just how many married men we see each week and if its any consolation it really isn’t just your husband with this desire/hunger/fetish for a chick with a dick, there are thousands of them that pay us for this no strings attached taboo fun.
However much sympathy I feel for u I have to say unless you’re going to confront him then what on earth is the fucking point in coming here - AN ESCORT REVIEW site badmouthing transexuals because you cannot bring yourself to just asking your husband why hes been cheating on you? Virtually pointless I don’t even beleive you’re real now tbh I think your a wind up as I don’t know any woman in my life who would instead of confronting said husband would instead set up a profile on the same site hes used to rant about it? I smell bullshit. If you are real I suggest you GO AND TALK to your husband as theres fuck all you’re going to get from here, especially when questioning the guys intentions of paying to fuck girls like me. As you stated yourself if he wanted to fuck a “guy” be that a rentboy or ts escort (as Im sure u would include in being a guy) then he shouldn’t have married you. But that’s something only he can answer you not us!
Wow. What a great post Dolly. Good on you girl. One smart chick.
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Re: Ana888 and ts Amandada
Wise words. Finding out the truth might actually bring you much closer together
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Originally Posted by
essex1
It must be a shocking way to find out that you dont fulfill his sexual needs, however if you want to continue the relationship you are going to need to talk to your husband and find out if there is a possible compromise. I am guessing he is an older guy and this is not a unique situation, for as we get to a certain age the urge to experiment sexually is common. Some men take to swinging or dogging to watch their wives have sex for example. It certainly doesnt mean he is gay or that he doesnt love you as his wife, he's simply experimenting sexually. As another posted here some couples find alternatives and use strapons, or some couples (as in my relationship) experiment with transgenders together. In fact we often talk about our 3some with a beautiful ladyboy in Thailand. So my advice would be dont take it personally, have a few drinks and both discuss your sexual needs...Together!
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Originally Posted by
DollyJEscort
I read your original post on here the other day I actually felt sorry for you, as one of the escorts myself I know just how many married men we see each week and if its any consolation it really isn’t just your husband with this desire/hunger/fetish for a chick with a dick, there are thousands of them that pay us for this no strings attached taboo fun.
However much sympathy I feel for u I have to say unless you’re going to confront him then what on earth is the fucking point in coming here - AN ESCORT REVIEW site badmouthing transexuals because you cannot bring yourself to just asking your husband why hes been cheating on you? Virtually pointless I don’t even beleive you’re real now tbh I think your a wind up as I don’t know any woman in my life who would instead of confronting said husband would instead set up a profile on the same site hes used to rant about it? I smell bullshit. If you are real I suggest you GO AND TALK to your husband as theres fuck all you’re going to get from here, especially when questioning the guys intentions of paying to fuck girls like me. As you stated yourself if he wanted to fuck a “guy” be that a rentboy or ts escort (as Im sure u would include in being a guy) then he shouldn’t have married you. But that’s something only he can answer you not us!
To start with I'm not looking for yours or anyone else's sympathy, I'm 100% real and this is my life I'm dealing with and have never had yo deal with anything like this before so have no idea what or why I'm doing this, life doesn't come with a handbook explaining what to do in devastating situations, if it did I wouldn't be here.
Secondly I have not bad mouthed anyone!!! I have nothing against anyone doing what they want to, my son has come out as gay and I'm happy if he is. Just because I don't understand something doesn't make it wrong.
The only reason I think I actually commented on here in the first place as deep down I think I was hoping my husband may see this and confess everything to me and apologise and maybe we could get through this as I took my marriage vows seriously and deeply love him.
Just because you don't know any woman that would do this doesn't mean it's BULLSHIT.
I have actually had loads of response in messages from people actually trying to explain and help me and it has helped me greatly as I've had people to talk to about thus as I can't speak to friends and family about this, he's kept it from everyone so it's not my place to tell anyone what he's been doing as he must be embarrassed about it to hide it.
So again thank you for your comment but it's not needed
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Originally Posted by
essex1
It must be a shocking way to find out that you dont fulfill his sexual needs, however if you want to continue the relationship you are going to need to talk to your husband and find out if there is a possible compromise. I am guessing he is an older guy and this is not a unique situation, for as we get to a certain age the urge to experiment sexually is common. Some men take to swinging or dogging to watch their wives have sex for example. It certainly doesnt mean he is gay or that he doesnt love you as his wife, he's simply experimenting sexually. As another posted here some couples find alternatives and use strapons, or some couples (as in my relationship) experiment with transgenders together. In fact we often talk about our 3some with a beautiful ladyboy in Thailand. So my advice would be dont take it personally, have a few drinks and both discuss your sexual needs...Together!
Thank you for your comment
He is in fact younger than me and I do believe he still loves me as shows it all the time
I have asked him plenty of times if I'm enough for him and if there is anything he wants to try as I'm very open minded about sex between a husband and wife and if anything I'm more experimental and adventurous in the bedroom than he is and certainly have a higher sex drive so I can't see how I am not fulfilling his needs sexually
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I love my wife and she gives me much pleasure in life and in bed but I have desires to fulfill and this 'hobby' of mine seeing TS girls or GG escorts just gives me what I need and then I go home to her every night. We are only here once and life is too short to not try everything at least once. I do not want or seek a relationship with another girl or TS girl outside of my marriage. The only other option would be to leave my wife and search for a new partner TS or otherwise and I am sure she does not want that. If she found out I would discuss it with her and give her the choice of splitting up or tolerating this hobby for as long as my desires are there. I don't see it lasting much longer as it is starting to get less thrilling as time goes on. Just a phase in my case (that's lasted 19 years lol)
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Originally Posted by
harry24844722
I love my wife and she gives me much pleasure in life and in bed but I have desires to fulfill and this 'hobby' of mine seeing TS girls or GG escorts just gives me what I need and then I go home to her every night. We are only here once and life is too short to not try everything at least once. I do not want or seek a relationship with another girl or TS girl outside of my marriage. The only other option would be to leave my wife and search for a new partner TS or otherwise and I am sure she does not want that. If she found out I would discuss it with her and give her the choice of splitting up or tolerating this hobby for as long as my desires are there. I don't see it lasting much longer as it is starting to get less thrilling as time goes on. Just a phase in my case (that's lasted 19 years lol)
Would you feel the same if you found out your wife was seeing escorts behind your back and what woukd be your response if she gave you the option to either split up or tolerate her HOBBY? This is question all you married men should ask yourself if you truly do love your wife.
I am deeply in love with my husband and couldn't even bring myself to look at another person in a sexual way
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I have had a long term relationship in the past where we shared our bed with an escort and I think it lengthened the relationship and enhanced it. I'm not promoting any lifestyle and am not a hypocrite so if I discovered my wife seeing others I would look no further than myself that something was not quite right in the relationship and if I wanted to seek to fix it. That's just my view and definately not yours. Just to say if both partners were 100% happy would they stray? You can attempt to fill the gaps or move on. Paying an escort removes any risk of emotional attachments and is the least harmful way of fixing these longings. Again I'm not preaching just saying how I feel.
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Originally Posted by
harry24844722
I have had a long term relationship in the past where we shared our bed with an escort and I think it lengthened the relationship and enhanced it. I'm not promoting any lifestyle and am not a hypocrite so if I discovered my wife seeing others I would look no further than myself that something was not quite right in the relationship and if I wanted to seek to fix it. That's just my view and definately not yours. Just to say if both partners were 100% happy would they stray? You can attempt to fill the gaps or move on. Paying an escort removes any risk of emotional attachments and is the least harmful way of fixing these longings. Again I'm not preaching just saying how I feel.
I appreciate your honesty and I guess my husband can not be 100 % happy then, I just wish he would tell me he's not as I've asked him so many times
I've offered to buy a strap on and try that but he is dead against it saying he could not put anything in his arse bigger than my finger which is really frustrating now I know he's actually had a cock in his arse
I can't offer him any more than I have as I don't have the equipment for that and if he's really that in need of a cock ( which it doesn't seem like he's that gagging for it as in 3 years he's only done it 3 times) that he would just leave me even tho I would be heart broken it would mean he can do what he wants without hurting me more and I can get over him in time
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Originally Posted by
harry24844722
I have had a long term relationship in the past where we shared our bed with an escort and I think it lengthened the relationship and enhanced it. I'm not promoting any lifestyle and am not a hypocrite so if I discovered my wife seeing others I would look no further than myself that something was not quite right in the relationship and if I wanted to seek to fix it. That's just my view and definately not yours. Just to say if both partners were 100% happy would they stray? You can attempt to fill the gaps or move on. Paying an escort removes any risk of emotional attachments and is the least harmful way of fixing these longings. Again I'm not preaching just saying how I feel.
And as for being a hypocrite I'm not 1 either and I have never cheated in any of my relationships. I was married previously for 17 years and we parted good friends, neither of us cheated once
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This is getting a bit tiresome now. This is nothing to do with the original topic. Please create a new thread if you want to discuss the matter further and refrain from going off topic in all the threads you're replying to.
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john1990
This is getting a bit tiresome now. This is nothing to do with the original topic. Please create a new thread if you want to discuss the matter further and refrain from going off topic in all the threads you're replying to.
:iagree:
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john1990
This is getting a bit tiresome now. This is nothing to do with the original topic. Please create a new thread if you want to discuss the matter further and refrain from going off topic in all the threads you're replying to.
Sorry you feel like this but I could say to you if you don't like reading it go to another thread but I won't cause I'm mot rude like that
My husband happened to of commented on this thread and I commented as I see it, it's just carried on so please if you don't like anything I've written don't read it
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Originally Posted by
Upsetwife
Sorry you feel like this but I could say to you if you don't like reading it go to another thread but I won't cause I'm mot rude like that
My husband happened to of commented on this thread and I commented as I see it, it's just carried on so please if you don't like anything I've written don't read it
Yes but your husband was on the topic of the thread so that's fine. That's how forums work, you have a subject or a topic matter and you keep roughly to that. Having several "mothers meetings" in multiple threads irrelevant to the original topic is not the idea of a forum.
Look I've strayed off the topic matter. But that's only because I'm trying to help you understand that if want any more meaningful responses then you need to create your own thread and not hijack others.
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Originally Posted by
Upsetwife
Would you feel the same if you found out your wife was seeing escorts behind your back and what woukd be your response if she gave you the option to either split up or tolerate her HOBBY? This is question all you married men should ask yourself if you truly do love your wife.
I am deeply in love with my husband and couldn't even bring myself to look at another person in a sexual way
4 points:
1. Love, lust and sex can be separated.
2. There were only 9 people (8 if you remove me. I'm pretty certain it's not nobby, so down to 7.) who have contributed to this thread before you commented. If one of those 7 really is your husband and he hasn't realised he's being talked about yet, then he's either thick as 2 short planks or you've got it wrong. How do you actually know it's him?
3. Just tell him your suspicions, discuss it like adults, and either work it out or get a divorce.
4. Being on here isn't going to give you the answers.
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Originally Posted by
Laphroaig
4 points:
1. Love, lust and sex can be separated.
2. There were only 9 people (8 if you remove me. I'm pretty certain it's not nobby, so down to 7.) who have contributed to this thread before you commented. If one of those 7 really is your husband and he hasn't realised he's being talked about yet, then he's either thick as 2 short planks or you've got it wrong. How do you actually know it's him?
3. Just tell him your suspicions, discuss it like adults, and either work it out or get a divorce.
4. Being on here isn't going to give you the answers.
Point 1
You may be able to desperate love list and sex but I got married and took my view seriously
Point 2
He is on here and the only reason he hasn't commented as he hasn't been on here since he commented
Point 3
If I could do that I wouldn't be here in the first place
Point 4
I have had dozens of messages from people actually offering me help in understand why he did this and it has helped me a lot
You may not like what I have done but frankly it's my life that I'm dealing with and I'm doing it as best I can in the circumstances. I may not be dealing with it the way you or others would and you may not understand why I'm doing this, I don't really understand it myself but hey I don't tell anyone else what they do is wrong so please have a bit more compassion for women like me (of which I'm sure there are hundreds if not thousands) who don't understand this fetish but are trying to and wanting to save their marriage
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Originally Posted by
john1990
Yes but your husband was on the topic of the thread so that's fine. That's how forums work, you have a subject or a topic matter and you keep roughly to that. Having several "mothers meetings" in multiple threads irrelevant to the original topic is not the idea of a forum.
Look I've strayed off the topic matter. But that's only because I'm trying to help you understand that if want any more meaningful responses then you need to create your own thread and not hijack others.
If I did that then if my husband does come back on here he won't see them plus I have no idea how to start a new thread
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Originally Posted by
Laphroaig
4 points:
1. Love, lust and sex can be separated.
2. There were only 9 people (8 if you remove me. I'm pretty certain it's not nobby, so down to 7.) who have contributed to this thread before you commented. If one of those 7 really is your husband and he hasn't realised he's being talked about yet, then he's either thick as 2 short planks or you've got it wrong. How do you actually know it's him?
3. Just tell him your suspicions, discuss it like adults, and either work it out or get a divorce.
4. Being on here isn't going to give you the answers.
I also know it's him cause I logged on with his username and the password he has stored in his notes on his phone and hey Presto!!! That's how I first read all the comments he wrote. I then made my own account up once I had got past the screaming hysterically and sobbing my heart out
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Originally Posted by
Upsetwife
Point 1
You may be able to desperate love list and sex but I got married and took my view seriously
Point 2
He is on here and the only reason he hasn't commented as he hasn't been on here since he commented
Point 3
If I could do that I wouldn't be here in the first place
Point 4
I have had dozens of messages from people actually offering me help in understand why he did this and it has helped me a lot
You may not like what I have done but frankly it's my life that I'm dealing with and I'm doing it as best I can in the circumstances. I may not be dealing with it the way you or others would and you may not understand why I'm doing this, I don't really understand it myself but hey I don't tell anyone else what they do is wrong so please have a bit more compassion for women like me (of which I'm sure there are hundreds if not thousands) who don't understand this fetish but are trying to and wanting to save their marriage
You've just lost any sympathy I had for you. Assuming this whole thing isn't just bullshit trolling, which is looking more and more likely, then grow up and talk to him about it. Seems like it's communication that's the problem in your marriage...
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Originally Posted by
Laphroaig
4 points:
2. There were only 9 people (8 if you remove me. I'm pretty certain it's not nobby, so down to 7.) who have contributed to this thread before you commented. If one of those 7 really is your husband and he hasn't realised he's being talked about yet, then he's either thick as 2 short planks or you've got it wrong. How do you actually know it's him?
If you cross-reference it with the other thread where she says ' another one my husband commented on ...' then examine the post histories of the contenders then it will give you the result.
He has been directed towards this thread so he should know if he ever returns.
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Originally Posted by
Upsetwife
I'm so upset to see my husband has commented on this post:
http://www.hungangels.com/vboard/sho...nd-ts-Amandada
and admitted he's cheated on me with ts. I have nothing against people doing these things and getting paid for it after all it's their bodies to do with what they like but when a man who claims he loves his wife and has regular sex (so can't say it's a lack of sex in the relationship) goes and pays for sex it ruins lives. It would be hard enough to deal with just knowing it's other females he's been cheating with but to find out he's been with other men (tv's are still men as they still have a dick!!!) And really enjoyed it!! I dont know how to deal with this :-( I can not compete with another man
Do you do anal? Maybe you should start taking it in the back door
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Originally Posted by
Laphroaig
You've just lost any sympathy I had for you. Assuming this whole thing isn't just bullshit trolling, which is looking more and more likely, then grow up and talk to him about it. Seems like it's communication that's the problem in your marriage...
I wasn't looking for anyone's sympathy!!
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Originally Posted by
Torris
Do you do anal? Maybe you should start taking it in the back door
I was the one who introduced him yo anal
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Upsetwife
I was the one who introduced him yo anal
What's "yo anal"?
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gaiseric
A typo
Ah that's a shame. I was hoping it would be a new perversion I could explore.
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LOL.
Troll alert.
Someone jacking off while pretending to be his wife.
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Originally Posted by
GroobySteven
LOL.
Troll alert.
Someone jacking off while pretending to be his wife.
Excuse me but this is his WIFE!!!! And no I'm no troll
If you don't like what I've written it's simple
FUCK OFF and go bother someone else like some dirty perverted wanker as they are 1000's on here including my husband
And yes yo was meant to be to
