A Few Pro-tips for gaining the attention of TS Models

So I keep seeing some of you clueless Casanovas trying to catch the attention of your favorite girl, but I often need to SMH and LOL at the FAIL I see occurring as you try to seduce your valentine vixen. So to help you out here's a few, quick pro-tips to help you avoid the solo stroke.

1) DON'T send the same message to multiple girls publicly over social media. We can easily see that and it makes it clear you're just trying to get whatever piece of cock you can find. Definite turnoff.

2) DON'T say you are the biggest fan of a solo model while not actually ever having purchased her work. Those of us with solo websites know who is subscribing. We know you're just stealing our porn. If you'll lie about that - you'll lie about anything.

3) DO remember that there are less transwomen into men then there are men who want a transwoman. This means you need to stand out in the field. She's in the position of power in choosing who she's gonna fuck, not you. The corollary to this is that a transwoman that would be a 6 among GGs is a 9 in the TS world. Suck it up and treat her like the 9.

4) DON'T be a Ross. When you publish a list online of transsexual women you want to fuck, I guarantee you'll miss the one girl willing to fuck you. This is the modern equivalent of the laminated freebie list. You will get shut down because she will find it.

5) DO spend money on her. I know there's this false belief that if you want to attract a working girl you need to not spend money. That's bullshit. So many guys try this approach it's meaningless. The folks willing to spend money are the ones who attract attention. Once you get her hooked, you can ween her off the gifts. If you're going to date a GG you know you're going to drop money on her... so expect to do the same with a TS.

This is far from a comprehensive list, but there's a few free pointers to get you off in the right direction.

Happy Valentine's Day!

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How did you get black "Ink" to come out the end of your big novelty pen?

What's a Ross?

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Originally Posted by Dudedude12345

What's a Ross?

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This should explain it:

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=1NIBxJgUolw

who ever said you were a pro?

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Originally Posted by christianxxx

who ever said you were a pro?

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This is America dammit! When someone says something, it's automatically true!

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Sound and entertaining advice for those who are interested in developing a personal relationship with a TS model. Thanks for posting that Wendy.

Good stuff Wendy...thank you for keeping it real. You spoil us with your pictures of the day and yet still talk down to earth to us fans. If anyone over steps things it's a shame. But thank you for responding to our posts

Wendy, you're spot-on with all those! :cool:

Things that have never failed for me:
- LISTEN and use reflective listening!
- SHUT-UP about yourself!
- Treat her with RESPECT!

cool tips.

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Originally Posted by Wendy Summers

5) DO spend money on her. I know there's this false belief that if you want to attract a working girl you need to not spend money. That's bullshit. So many guys try this approach it's meaningless. The folks willing to spend money are the ones who attract attention. Once you get her hooked, you can ween her off the gifts. If you're going to date a GG you know you're going to drop money on her... so expect to do the same with a TS.

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If by "working girl" you mean an escort, this is the worst thing a guy can do. But before that, guys should be a aware of how the vast majority of working girls, tg and gg, think about men who patronize them, which is that any guy who wants to date an escort has to have more than one screw loose in his brain.

That's why hardly any gg or tg escorts want to date a guy who sees escorts. And if she does, than she probably has some screws loose.

Yes, if you're willing to spend money you'll attract attention but trust me, it's not the kind of attention you'll want to attract...unless you do have some screws loose in your brain.

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Originally Posted by Wendy Summers

5) DO spend money on her. I know there's this false belief that if you want to attract a working girl you need to not spend money. That's bullshit. So many guys try this approach it's meaningless. The folks willing to spend money are the ones who attract attention. Once you get her hooked, you can ween her off the gifts. If you're going to date a GG you know you're going to drop money on her... so expect to do the same with a TS.

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But I don't have any money (hardly). I think a trans girl should want to go out with me for free. Just because she likes my good looks, and because I will give her a good blow job.

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Originally Posted by Budweiser

But I don't have any money (hardly). I think a trans girl should want to go out with me for free. Just because she likes my good looks, and because I will give her a good blow job.

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Dime a Dozen.

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But I don't have any money (hardly). I think a trans girl should want to go out with me for free. Just because she likes my good looks, and because I will give her a good blow job.

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If you ain't got no money then take your broke ass home

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Originally Posted by Wendy Summers

3) DO remember that there are less transwomen into men then there are men who want a transwoman. This means you need to stand out in the field. She's in the position of power in choosing who she's gonna fuck, not you. The corollary to this is that a transwoman that would be a 6 among GGs is a 9 in the TS world. Suck it up and treat her like the 9.

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This is the exact opposite of how a man should think, if you remember rule 3 of my book The Art of Chasing:
"When you are near, make the tg think you are far away"

What this means is to have control of the narrative. When you aggressively chase you appear desperate and worse, it sends the message that you're having difficulty attracting the attention of other tg's. A red flag goes up in her mind which basically says "other tg's don't want him so why should I"

Yeah, any girl will think she's got the power but trust me...when she can be made to think that other tg's want you, it'll be her who'll be doing the chasing.

Once she's there, that's the time to indeed treat her like a 9. A white flag will go up in her mind that basically says "wow, he has other tg's who want him but he likes me better and chose me!"

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Originally Posted by nysprod

Yeah, any girl will think she's got the power but trust me...when she can be made to think that other tg's want you, it'll be her who'll be doing the chasing.

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Only if she's insecure ;) Which she has no reason to be.

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Originally Posted by Wendy Summers

Only if she's insecure ;) Which she has no reason to be.

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It's not about insecurity, it's about appealing to her competitive nature

So what happens when the being broke part isn't your fault?
There's only so far I can go on disability.
Not that I don't already get judged for my brain being wired differently.
Yeah,for some of us it's a no-win situation no matter what...

Don't kiss her ass, don't be the nice guy, don't be a simp, be attractive.

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Originally Posted by AshlynCreamher

If you ain't got no money then take your broke ass home

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I like your pictures! :cool:

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Originally Posted by Chaos

So what happens when the being broke part isn't your fault?
There's only so far I can go on disability.
Not that I don't already get judged for my brain being wired differently.
Yeah,for some of us it's a no-win situation no matter what...

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You can't change some people. Find someone who gives more of a fuck about other things

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Originally Posted by nysprod

This is the exact opposite of how a man should think, if you remember rule 3 of my book The Art of Chasing:
"When you are near, make the tg think you are far away"

What this means is to have control of the narrative. When you aggressively chase you appear desperate and worse, it sends the message that you're having difficulty attracting the attention of other tg's. A red flag goes up in her mind which basically says "other tg's don't want him so why should I"

Yeah, any girl will think she's got the power but trust me...when she can be made to think that other tg's want you, it'll be her who'll be doing the chasing.

Once she's there, that's the time to indeed treat her like a 9. A white flag will go up in her mind that basically says "wow, he has other tg's who want him but he likes me better and chose me!"

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Lol, I like that rule. I have been to many parties and club's where the have been multiple girls. I usually make sure to strike up a conversation with just about every girl I find attractive. It doesn't always ensure I find a girl to be with, but it usually does. That's not quite the same as your rule #3. But it's similar.

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Originally Posted by SanDiegoPervySage

You can't change some people. Find someone who gives more of a fuck about other things

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I have tried. It almost always comes back to money...Even when people say they don't care about material things,it comes back to how little I have,eventually. I can't tell you how many times I've had someone tell me they don't care about money,only me,only to turn around and watch them walk away when they actually see how little actually makes it into my wallet once I pay my bills...

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I think I started this thread because of one of his lolz

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Originally Posted by AshlynCreamher

If you ain't got no money then take your broke ass home

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No, no, pet.
Don't sugar coat it, tell it how it is! :hide-1:


You are such a cunt, welcome back! :salad

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Originally Posted by AshlynCreamher

If you ain't got no money then take your broke ass home

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This is a truth...
You don't have like it or agree with it....

But it IS a truth....

1. Be what she's into.
2. Don't be what she isn't into.

Way more leeway given for things that she'd ditch someone else without a second thought.

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My friend here does alright...fuck, if I was his age we own it lol

Don't be stingy, a lot of transgender people can't make a living otherwise......share the wealth!

That's a decent list if you're looking for Transgender escorts.

On the other hand if you just want to date Transgender women (not as a client) the list changes substantially.

1. Be a top. Probably the most important. Most TS admirers are bottoms or verse. Obviously a TG girl that goes through the trouble of transitioning probably doesn't want to fuck guys or have one that is obsessed with an appendage she probably doesn't like all that much. Yes, of course there are top girls, but they're a rare minority and there are loads of bottom dudes. Not good odds.

2. Be young, hung, and attractive. In my experience TG girls are more attuned to visual stimuli than regular girls and care a lot about a guys appearance. Just saying.

3. Date regular girls as well and don't become to hung up on Transwomen. This actually makes you more attractive to a TG girl. How many regular girls I've dated and what I liked about them are usually the first questions a TG girl that is interested in me will ask. It makes them feel good if they can maintain an illusion that a straight guy wants to be with them. I'm not trying to fool myself of course. I know ultimately I'm bi-sexual and they're not biologically female, but if the fantasy makes her happy then I'm fine with it.

4. As for the spending money part why would you spend more on a TG girl than you would on a regular girl of equal quality? Well, unless your a bottom of course lol.

5. As for dating escorts, in the long term it's not a good idea. Unfortunately in the TG world a lot of girls will have worked as escorts or been in porn at some point in their lives. That's just the way it is. I've found escorts are good for shorter, less serious relationships though. Some I've transitioned to dating after seeing them as a client a few times. That means I stopped putting money on the desk before I fucked them, started paying them in attention as a boy friend and going out in public with them. You'll always pay in some form. I've also dated TG girls that were relatively normal and have never been escorts. Those relationships were not surprisingly more stable.

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Don't be stingy, a lot of transgender people can't make a living otherwise......share the wealth!

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I respectfully disagree with this - the first half anyways

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Originally Posted by zphyer6

2. Be young, hung, and attractive. In my experience TG girls are more attuned to visual stimuli than regular girls and care a lot about a guys appearance. Just saying.

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Absolute nonesense. For some girls, not only does age have nothing to do with it but they actually prefer older guys. I'm 49 and when i started on grindr i met an 18 y.o. tg and went out with her for about a year. Then in October I met one who's 22 and we been going steady since.

Of course it's easier if you're young and hung but don't let age hold you back...unless the girl specifies an age group or ethnic preference other than what I am, if I like her she'll get a message from me.

So the only rule is that all the rules are incorrect? For every rule, there's someone who can prove it wrong?

Sometimes I think that all rules do is make you more confident, so that you'll keep trying. And if you keep trying, you'll get someone's attention. But that's a rule, so it must be wrong.

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Originally Posted by zphyer6

4. As for the spending money part why would you spend more on a TG girl than you would on a regular girl of equal quality? Well, unless your a bottom of course lol.

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Being over 40 myself,
I've noticed that the available pool of what you call "quality" women (genetic or transgender) increases with the amount of income that one makes. Which is understandable because chances are, if a male hasn't established himself by age 40, then why on earth would a woman want a long term relationship?

The dating games played in the 20s disappear in the 40s....and the truth is that if one has a solid financial foundation, the better their chances.
Another one of those truths that you don't have to like, but it is what it is....

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Originally Posted by DeseosEscandulosos

So the only rule is that all the rules are incorrect? For every rule, there's someone who can prove it wrong?

Sometimes I think that all rules do is make you more confident, so that you'll keep trying. And if you keep trying, you'll get someone's attention. But that's a rule, so it must be wrong.

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Yup. Kinda like that.
But the only real rule is that trans women like their gentic counterparts come in all shapes and sizes, have all different things that attract them to men... or women and prefer different cock sizes and incomes. So the bottom lines is as long as you have a little game, you can find someone to date you. If you can't find someone to date you, you should probably take a good deep look at yourself.

And lastly, Wendy was referring to being with a professional model type girl. I have never been with one, but her tips sound reasonable.

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Originally Posted by MrFanti

The dating games played in the 20s disappear in the 40s....and the truth is that if one has a solid financial foundation, the better their chances.
Another one of those truths that you don't have to like, but it is what it is....

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In other words, they've had their fill of badboyz, sown their wild oats!

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Originally Posted by MrFanti

if a male hasn't established himself by age 40, then why on earth would a woman want a long term relationship?

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For gg's, a man in his 40's who's never been married, even if he's well established, sends a red flag. Being a divorced man in his 40's, with a kid, seems to have worked as a positive.

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Originally Posted by nysprod

For gg's, a man in his 40's who's never been married, even if he's well established, sends a red flag. Being a divorced man in his 40's, with a kid, seems to have worked as a positive.

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I haven't seen any "red flags" - especially from women who don't want any children. Gotta' watch the divorces though....IMHO, anything over one divorce can send up a flag as to "what's wrong with this guy, 2 failed marriages..."

However, your point is taken....