Ada Black shot ! ! :-o

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Seen on Jamie's Twitter page.
She's alive but, holy shit!
Control your emotions, people!
Anyone know any more about her condition?
I hope you recover ok, Babe.
That's gotta be so much to deal with.
Thanks Jamie for posting this.

Holy Crap!

WOW, so sorry for Ada.

As from Jamie.
She was shot by an on/off boyfriend. "She took it in the liver, nicked a kidney and destroyed her gall bladder, (which surgeons have since removed.) Her kidney was fixed up just fine, but she's going in for additional liver surgery in a couple of hours... the first surgery didn't take the way the doctors would have preferred, so they're going in with a stint and some extra patch up work."

The shooter is in police custody.

We wish her all the best in a speedy recovery - and I trust this thread will maintain that positive vibe.

:( .............

That's messed up.

Best wishes to her in a speedy recovery.

Omg!!!!

There's crazy-assed shit goin' on everywhere!! Gotta watch your six!!

Crazy bastard, I hope he goes to jail for decades

when I read this headline this horrible news was the last thing I expected. I was expecting a hot new "shoot". My prayers go out to Ada and those who love her. Domestic violence is a plague on our society, and it kills more TG's here and worldwide, than other communities. Violence is not the answer in interpersonal disputes. Everyone in this world should pledge to respect our differences and to resolve our issues peacefully and with love, not force. We have enough enemies outside without attacking one another!

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There's crazy-assed shit goin' on everywhere!! Gotta watch your six!!

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Yes!

Ladies please please please stop dating these fucking beta boy gangsters!
I know the term "nice guy" makes your nipples pull back in but shit..........if you see a well dressed guy who has his life together and a career.....go talk to him and avoid the fucktard with the neck tattoo and leased luxury car that he can only put 5 k miles a year on.

Nobody wants us nice guys.:)

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Ladies please please please stop dating these fucking beta boy gangsters!
I know the term "nice guy" makes your nipples pull back in but shit..........if you see a well dressed guy who has his life together and a career.....go talk to him and avoid the fucktard with the neck tattoo and leased luxury car that he can only put 5 k miles a year on.

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The nice guys are considered beta, not the bad boys with neck tattoos

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The shooter is in police custody.

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This is good!

I was hanging out with this boy for a few months. He was a Tumblr fan. Not saying anything wrong with dating a fan but I do think it's why he got so obsessed with me. We decided to live together to pay rent and make life cheaper. We were together about 6 months. And we kept arguing very badly it would end with me bruised, busted lip, black eye, you name it. I have a history of dating guys like this idk how I always end up like that. Anyways the night of the final fight I told him I was done being hit and I was seeing other people. (I sleep with a gun BC I was abused in bed as I slept in the past.) He rushed to my room kicked the door down, grabbed my gun, and then ran and blocked the front door. There was hitting and then somehow it ended up in the middle room I stepped into the door way saying something to the affect of "give me my fucking gun" and then I heard it. The shot. My ears were mostly ringing. And with my next breath I knew immediately that I was hit. It was squirting blood. He tried to stop me and even fake called the paramedics, I knew to get away from him. He would have probably let me die quietly while figuring out what to do. So I rushed down stairs and started screaming for help. I tried knocking politely but people were sleeping or scared shitless so I decided I would punch peoples windows until I brought attention to the fact that I was bleeding to death (my phone was dead). The dectivce said I put my arms thru 3 windows. My arms are horriblly bruised and gash wounds. But it worked. A lady came outside and called 911 while trying her damnedest to put pressure on my wound. I can still feel the memory like its happening. The cold cement. The deep bullet impact. I was scared to die. I prayed and made amends to god. but at the same time I really didn't deeply believe in the after life. I still dont. and I had no regrets I just wished Jamie and my mother to be there. you know. I was dying with a stranger. So paramedics finally got me and brought me in. I was unconscious Jane Doe for 2 days. My mother kept calling the exes number. His sister answered and told my family what happened. My mother contacted the older guy I'm seen with, Jamie, and an old family friend. They called every hospital in the area trying to find me. God bless them. It's been 10 days now I think. I'm relearning how to walk. I can't even wipe my own ass. Its such a horrible punishment i wouldn't even want to shoot a would be attacker now. I still haven't eaten. They are also sending another camera down this morning to see if I can have another surgery. Pysch team has confirmed PTSD. I've had my gall bladder removed. Kidney and liver nicked. I'm on NG tubes to drain bile. And obvs many medicines. I'll be making a video with Jamie when I feel better to fully explain everything. She has lived in the hospital with me since they discovered I was here. she's a good person. thanks for the support didn't really expect it after leaving the industry behind. It was a .380 hollowpoint which is why so much damaged was caused. It spilt apart sent sharpnel. I will live life with some in me now. The boy is in prison facing assault with deadly weapon charges he's looking at 10 - 20 years. Ask any questions you would like, I'm bored as shit glued to a bed waiting for another pain dose.

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I was hanging out with this boy for a few months. He was a Tumblr fan. Not saying anything wrong with dating a fan but I do think it's why he got so obsessed with me. We decided to live together to pay rent and make life cheaper. We were together about 6 months. And we kept arguing very badly it would end with me bruised, busted lip, black eye, you name it. I have a history of dating guys like this idk how I always end up like that. Anyways the night of the final fight I told him I was done being hit and I was seeing other people. (I sleep with a gun BC I was abused in bed as I slept in the past.) He rushed to my room kicked the door down, grabbed my gun, and then ran and blocked the front door. There was hitting and then somehow it ended up in the middle room I stepped into the door way saying something to the affect of "give me my fucking gun" and then I heard it. The shot. My ears were mostly ringing. And with my next breath I knew immediately that I was hit. It was squirting blood. He tried to stop me and even fake called the paramedics, I knew to get away from him. He would have probably let me die quietly while figuring out what to do. So I rushed down stairs and started screaming for help. I tried knocking politely but people were sleeping or scared shitless so I decided I would punch peoples windows until I brought attention to the fact that I was bleeding to death (my phone was dead). The dectivce said I put my arms thru 3 windows. My arms are horriblly bruised and gash wounds. But it worked. A lady came outside and called 911 while trying her damnedest to put pressure on my wound. I can still feel the memory like its happening. The cold cement. The deep bullet impact. I was scared to die. I prayed and made amends to god. but at the same time I really didn't deeply believe in the after life. I still dont. and I had no regrets I just wished Jamie and my mother to be there. you know. I was dying with a stranger. So paramedics finally got me and brought me in. I was unconscious Jane Doe for 2 days. My mother kept calling the exes number. His sister answered and told my family what happened. My mother contacted the older guy I'm seen with, Jamie, and an old family friend. They called every hospital in the area trying to find me. God bless them. It's been 10 days now I think. I'm relearning how to walk. I can't even wipe my own ass. Its such a horrible punishment i wouldn't even want to shoot a would be attacker now. I still haven't eaten. They are also sending another camera down this morning to see if I can have another surgery. Pysch team has confirmed PTSD. I've had my gall bladder removed. Kidney and liver nicked. I'm on NG tubes to drain bile. And obvs many medicines. I'll be making a video with Jamie when I feel better to fully explain everything. She has lived in the hospital with me since they discovered I was here. she's a good person. thanks for the support didn't really expect it after leaving the industry behind. It was a .380 hollowpoint which is why so much damaged was caused. It spilt apart sent sharpnel. I will live life with some in me now. The boy is in prison facing assault with deadly weapon charges he's looking at 10 - 20 years. Ask any questions you would like, I'm bored as shit glued to a bed waiting for another pain dose.

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You are one lucky lady! Getting shot with a hollowpoint,and you survived. God bless, and Ada stay safe!

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Crazy bastard, I hope he goes to jail for decades

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He'll claim that he's mentally ill and be sent to a secure unit for a year or two... ARSEHOLE!
That's what happens in UK, our prisons are full of motorists and people who haven't paid fines!

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Originally Posted by AdaBlackXXX

Ask any questions you would like, I'm bored as shit glued to a bed waiting for another pain dose.

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Wow, terrifying! I don't really have a question--I just didn't want to quote that whole block of text.

Sounds like your quick thinking saved your life. Glad you made it and amazed you're able to post all that. Here's hoping for a quick recovery.

Good that you survived. I hope Jamie doesn't commit homicide because of this..........

I am sorry that this happened to you but glad that you lived to tell the tale, and that you told it with such insight and dignity. There are lessons within it for all of us.

Sounds like your quick thinking saved your life. Glad you made it and amazed you're able to post all that. Here's hoping for a quick recovery.[/QUOTE]

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Good that you survived. I hope Jamie doesn't commit homicide because of this..........

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I am sorry that this happened to you but glad that you lived to tell the tale, and that you told it with such insight and dignity. There are lessons within it for all of us.

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Thanks for checking on me. It is very nice to be able to have people to talk to during this time.

I have learned a few lessons from the incident. I don't think I could hunt an animal again. I could if it had to be done. But it doesnt. And I now know the pain they feel. And it is excruciating and terrifying. What an evil sport. All life really is precious. There is no after life and that tells me that while we think human lives are more important and yes I understand the thought, but in reality all life is equal. It's an amazing thing to exist. I do still support fire arms. They are a tool. Mine should have been locked in a coded or biometric safe tho. It isn't safe to just lay around the house. They are easy button to death. And I think gun owners should go thru a safety course if they want to buy a piece. (which only happens when they want a license.) And in general I'm going to treat my body a lot better and get counseling so I am not attracted to abusive relationships. Life is so so very fragile and can be ripped away from any of us at a moment's notice. We take so much for granted. I cried today when I tasted my first tea. And I cried when Jamie snuck me my first peice of candy. We are lucky indivudals who can sit here on our phones and computers with full bellies.

Jamie won't be harming anyone. But that's also why I didn't go to her sooner I figured she would have beat the shit out of him. I was always concerning her with bruises and cuts. She was very angry. Justice is being served tho. When this boy is released he will be 40 years old and unable to find work as a violent ex con.

My doctors are planning to move me to solid food. Which means no more having to sneak candy. And I can eat whatever I want. Starbucks and subs in my future! My pain is still very high, and my NG tubes are beginning to fill slower and slower which is very good BC my liver and kidney will stop producing bile. The GI doctor will look my guts over Monday to see if I need any last patch jobs. My poor belly is trashed. It really is. They had to obviously patch the bullet wound but they also cut me down the chest and opened me up to patch my liver n kidney and throw my gall bladder out. They stitched it back up with staples! I cried and hollered first time I seen it. Lil Frankenstein tummy. Today is a good day I have moved around some, snuck some skittles. Lol. Maybe tonight I'll walk around the ward. No little punk ass dude is going to end me with a single gun shot gonna need a clip and a higher caliber. My spirits are up! I'm happy and content. Pain management has been difficult today tho. I'll update if anything changes. Thank you for the support. 😝

the most important factor in recovery from injuries is a positive attitude, and yours is great. Wounds heal, scars fade, and the traces the leave are mysterious and even sexy. Your beauty and allure will be enhanced by your emotional and physical healing.

I have no basis for relating to your experience at all, but I imagine it will take a long time to process it all. It's great that you're able to talk through it, though. Counseling sounds like a great idea, for more than just the relationship stuff. You didn't quite dodge a bullet, but you've been given another chance, and it's obvious that you appreciate that. Make something of it.

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Thanks for checking on me. It is very nice to be able to have people to talk to during this time.

I have learned a few lessons from the incident. I don't think I could hunt an animal again. I could if it had to be done. But it doesnt. And I now know the pain they feel. And it is excruciating and terrifying. What an evil sport. All life really is precious. There is no after life and that tells me that while we think human lives are more important and yes I understand the thought, but in reality all life is equal. It's an amazing thing to exist. I do still support fire arms. They are a tool. Mine should have been locked in a coded or biometric safe tho. It isn't safe to just lay around the house. They are easy button to death. And I think gun owners should go thru a safety course if they want to buy a piece. (which only happens when they want a license.) And in general I'm going to treat my body a lot better and get counseling so I am not attracted to abusive relationships. Life is so so very fragile and can be ripped away from any of us at a moment's notice. We take so much for granted. I cried today when I tasted my first tea. And I cried when Jamie snuck me my first peice of candy. We are lucky indivudals who can sit here on our phones and computers with full bellies.

Jamie won't be harming anyone. But that's also why I didn't go to her sooner I figured she would have beat the shit out of him. I was always concerning her with bruises and cuts. She was very angry. Justice is being served tho. When this boy is released he will be 40 years old and unable to find work as a violent ex con.

My doctors are planning to move me to solid food. Which means no more having to sneak candy. And I can eat whatever I want. Starbucks and subs in my future! My pain is still very high, and my NG tubes are beginning to fill slower and slower which is very good BC my liver and kidney will stop producing bile. The GI doctor will look my guts over Monday to see if I need any last patch jobs. My poor belly is trashed. It really is. They had to obviously patch the bullet wound but they also cut me down the chest and opened me up to patch my liver n kidney and throw my gall bladder out. They stitched it back up with staples! I cried and hollered first time I seen it. Lil Frankenstein tummy. Today is a good day I have moved around some, snuck some skittles. Lol. Maybe tonight I'll walk around the ward. No little punk ass dude is going to end me with a single gun shot gonna need a clip and a higher caliber. My spirits are up! I'm happy and content. Pain management has been difficult today tho. I'll update if anything changes. Thank you for the support. 😝

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It's refreshing to hear that this experience has caused you to ook inward and not just focus on the event itself. Often, I think, when we experience some external trauma we fail to spend enough time in self-reflection, or evaluating the things we do and the ways in which we think. You're a survivor - no small feat - yet you're still human and part of an even greater whole perhaps this event will help you transcend to to a happier state of being.

I wish you a full and speedy recovery.

good lord, shot with your own gun...amazingly resourceful considering the circumstances in getting help for yourself. I am glad you are still alive and on the mend. Have a safe and quick recovery Ada.

I have photos on my Instagram here. They are quite brutal. So I'll just post the insta here so you can see it if you want. They fixed the bullet dressing today too. It's freaky. The hole is filled with bandages and they slowly pulled it out of me. Real vomit worthy. And I am nibbling on real food today also which is great. Im still pretty weak I can't walk much. I'll be spending Christmas here. I've almost been in the hospital for a month at this time now. It's crazy. Thanks for the wishes. www.instagram.com/tootsie_luu

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I have photos on my Instagram here. They are quite brutal. So I'll just post the insta here so you can see it if you want. They fixed the bullet dressing today too. It's freaky. The hole is filled with bandages and they slowly pulled it out of me. Real vomit worthy. And I am nibbling on real food today also which is great. Im still pretty weak I can't walk much. I'll be spending Christmas here. I've almost been in the hospital for a month at this time now. It's crazy. Thanks for the wishes. www.instagram.com/tootsie_luu

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They pack it with gauze to let it heal from inside out otherwise the top would close leavening potential infection under the skin. My wife had to do it with a stomach surgery once when it got infected. Definitely can turn your stomach. Glad you are upbeat and looking to take things slow and not rushing.

Get well.
Take care.
God Bless.