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ok is it me or has something seriously gone wrong?
Last two TS ladies i dated were gorgeous long legs nice smiles well dressed smelled great and oh yeah flat bellies!
The last tow GG women i dated, one mid 20's and one mid 30's both had guts that hung over past their pants......
WTF is going on?
Something in the food :shrug
i'm not kidding you......the girl was 26....i'm 41 and i'm looking at her on the date and i'm thinking....wow her gut is hanging over her belly...what the mother fucking shit!
when i was 25 the women were not this fat! and it's GUT fat! it's disgusting!
Or maybe it's just me.....who notices this shit?
You choose out of shape chicks, simple. Flat stomachs are an endangered species, period. There are plenty of fat/out of shape TS out there with stomach pouches and cottage cheese legs.
HAhahaha.....I Wonder How Some Of These Topiks Komme About =D =D =D ...they Are SUPER Funny!
LÖL @ Kottage Cheese Legs :)
gmo foods, steroid antibiotic growth stimulating hormones in animal products, pharmaceutical laced drinking water. the usa is fucked up and people are taking a hit physicaly. Even people that work out have to do extra plus eat & drink twice as better to stay in shape.
Montsanto and other companies like that are putting crap in our food.
People's hormone levels are wacked now.
Look at rock concerts back in the 60's and 70's look at the fans. Almost nobody is fat and most people look reasonably fit.
Stop trying to blame everything other than them. It's called eating too fucking much.
So your thing is finding as many ways as possible to insult genetic girls as way to show how much you love transsexuals?Quote:
Originally Posted by SXFX
Well skinny doesn't mean fit. Some of those people just looked malnourishedQuote:
Originally Posted by BostonBad
Why, then, did you invite her on a date? Was it her personality that charmed you?Quote:
Originally Posted by SXFX
No because i'm a dummy and i fell for the stupid online dating photo....you know the "Myspace" photo...where the girl looks up.
Fuck it's true i guess...if a girls collar bones aren't showing in her head shot....odds are the girl will look 6 months preggers.
but jesus on a stick...a 25you woman should not be so out of shape that she looks like she's got a food baby.....wtf!
and i hear you about looking at the old concert photos...wtf is going on?
Yeah if she doesn't show her body, she's fat/in bad shape. If a girl has good looks, she will flaunt that shit.
Hate to say it...but you sir are 1000% right!
they know they are an endangered species and know their value....compared to the lumpy frumpy fat fucks!
Sounds like you dated a couple of muffin tops.
I get to the US every three years or so. It used to be I'd be thinking how chubby everyone was. Now its how obese everybody is.
There are a fair portion of properly proportioned people out there, but not like 10-15 years ago.
I was in Taiwan in 1995-97 and again in 2004-05. The increase in fat kids was astounding. The reason (I thought) was the invasion of American fast food restaurants. Almost none in '95, everywhere in '04.
If you're main thing is some girls night be a bit less in shape than they could be all I can think is that you're quite shallow.
Why bother wasting peoples' time if you have such 'standards' let them know before the date they have to be perfect or you'll moan about them. When none of them want to go out with you because of your views it'll be interesting.
Everyone is shallow to an extent. No problem with having standards. Letting them know before hand or just choosing not to go out with them in the first place can save the trouble. That "you're fine just the way you are" line doesn't actually apply to most(well, many) attractive people and even unattractive people. Some people are ok with it while others just settle.Quote:
Originally Posted by Lester316
Also, he said he met the girls through online dating. The girls on there use angles in their pics so they don't look fat so he didn't know what he was walking into. She wasted his time if anything. It's mostly about pics online.
Look there is nothing wrong with the word shallow...we are all shallow...hell even those disgusting chubby chasers are in their own way "shallow"
though maybe in need of help because they have some major mommy issues....but i digress!
the thing is this, a woman can hide a lot of gut in the evening....so by the time you meet her for the second date and you take her home and her shirt comes off and you are thinking......WTF and where the fuck did this come from....you are screwed!
now funny thing i noticed....i travel for work and hit about 3 different gyms a week, woo hoo la fitness, anyhow i noticed something really fucked up....in the burbs where i live...on average.....there are only 10 or so ladies at the gym at any given time! sure there are the dozen or so who take that useless zoomba classes but for the most part the ladies have stopped going to the gym! and have really really started packing on the pounds!
it's disgusting!
for me....and this is just me.....a woman with a gut is probably how a woman views guys with very thick back hair...it's just fucking nasty!
If you're looking for that, and you see 10 or 12 of 'em a week, why aren't you dating the gym chicks?
I mean, 26 year old, meeting up with a 41 yer old bloke off of the internet (yah, talking about setting the bar high)! :shrug
You do realize you're generalizing a whole group of based on your own personal experiences with members of that said group?Quote:
Originally Posted by SXFX
I might have said this to you before, but I'll say it again 'you're the problem'. You're the one with the hangup so either find a way to change your outlook or just keep it moving. Maybe if you stay in your lane long enough the ensuing loneliness will be a catalyst for a change in your attractions. Face it, your dating pool will widen considerably if you get past the muffin top.Quote:
Originally Posted by SXFX
Hey man you can lower your standards all you want and eat all the slop you want.......and well there is a lot of slop out there recently.....
and i'm not going to judge you.....some guys are just bottom feeders who don't expect much and so anything is find with them.....
me....shit.....i busted my ass to be a self made man and i still have time to hit the gym 3 days a week and still think i need to loose 10lbs.....and make an extra $40k more a year....so when it comes to dating i sort of expect the same level of self respect when it comes to a woman not having a beer belly hanging over her gut thinking she deserves the best in the world......
so i'm just venting....and i'm not sure if it was someone who said it here or a friends conversation....look up concert pictures from the 70's and 80's....women were thinner back then....then shit went south and they started drinking 2k calories every morning from DD
Well, forget the gym and the extra $40K a year. You just need a time machine to go back to the '70s and you'll be fine. I hope you like bush.
Instead of LA Fitness, maybe you need to look into a Crossfit gym. You'll find more of what you're looking for, but it comes with its own set of issues.
Nothing wrong with that.Quote:
Originally Posted by SXFX
EVERYONE has the right to set their own expectations - regardless of the size of his or her gut. Keep busting' your ass to make more money and lose more weight and look to fulfill your own expectations of perfection but let's be frank: you're around 40 and you're not a billionaire so by your standards you're clearly a financial failure, likewise if you still need to lose 10lbs you're clearly not a physical specimen on par with CT Fletcher or Kali Muscle, and finally you're STILL looking for a woman, yet another fail. So lets sum it up: you're clearly failing to attain your own 'high' standards in just about all the things that are important to you so what exactly ARE you doing in this life? By age 70 you'll be dead or close to it and all these ridiculous standards would have meant absolutely nothing.Quote:
Originally Posted by SXFX
Life is here and now......free your mind from your standards and you might actually find what you want.
There is nothing wrong with having standards and no one should ever have to settle.
The problem is when a person uses those standards as a way to generalize another group of people and make asinine statements about them as a whole. Especially when those statements aren't really based in fact and are just a matter of opinion. Or are based on a person's past experiences with a few members of that said group.
While it is true that times have changed when it comes to what society considers what is physically fit, I still see plenty of genetic girls with flat bellies walking around. I also see genetic girls who are thick in the right places and that sometimes means that they are going to have a bit of belly. But as long as they don't have my gut, I really don't see what the problem is.
Which brings me to another point. It is indeed true that many girls use angle tricks when it comes to their online photos. If you meet them in person and you still can't tell that they may not up to your physical standards. But decided to go out with them again after the first date, that's on you. Furthermore, once their clothes do come off, you have two options:
1. Make up an excuse, like you just remembered you have an early meeting, and say you have to go. Or ask her to leave if you guys are at your place.
2. Solider on. If you're still not satisfied with her after that, a couple of days later tell you don't want to see her anymore.
But as you can see both of those options make you look like a self centered and shallow jackass.
Finally, we all have our reasons has to why we are attracted to transsexuals. There is no need to defend or justify those reasons. Especially when those reasons come off as being close minded.
This guy is in his 60s....Show's what a bit of determination and discipline can get you....Quote:
Originally Posted by runningdownthatdream
depends....it can be deceptive anyhow. lot of women (and men too) look thin with clothes but don't without.
http://hitchfit.com/wp-content/uploa...-1024x1015.jpg
she hasn't got a flat stomach, not before anyhow, people wouldn't fuck her?
So don't mean to kick a dead horse but i was at my Dr. for may annual check up to make sure i'm ok.....
He's an older guy i would say in his late 60's and we were talking about ways i could help improve my diet.....turns out i'm a fucktard and the reason i'm not loosing weight it because i'm not eating enough throughout the day .....so i asked him....what does the medical community think is going on with respect to very young women packing on the pounds because i hardly ever see more than 5 or so ladies at the various gyms other than the ones who work there....
He tells me when he first started practicing in the early 80's someone in their 20's with diabetes was a rare thing...but today his bread and butter for his business . young women in their mid 20's who are diabetic. MY JAW HIT THE FLOOR!
I was just floored....I asked what gives?
His answer?
DD bladder buster coffee in the mornings are causing the body to go nuts! He's not sure what the sugar content is since it's X number of scoops per your request but he was telling me that his average customer is a 5 scoop plus lady....and per his experience it doesn't matter if you use sugar or sugar substitute your body still goes nuts!
that and the drinking.....now there he had me confused....
again per his experience of the women here in NJ about 30miles due West of NYC......his average patient puts away a bottle of wine every other day. And a good number put away a bottle a day!
I asked how many women locally still made dinner at home....he said under 30 very few, under 40 some....
he calls it the perfect storm......sugar intake at extreme levels plus drinking plus not having a decent dinner.....he predicts a vast majority will have life long problems with their bodied giving up on them in their early 50's! SCARY!
So i asked what's a single guy to do?
His response
"Well the wife and i watch this show called 90 day fiance...." he had me in stitches =)
So yeah guess it's more than them just noticing and venting...it's a real issue...
Her stomach is fairly flat, she's just not toned. I'm pretty sure he means girls with actual guts. And is his personal preference so whether other people would fuck this woman or not is irrelevant.Quote:
Originally Posted by holzz
yeah the above is perfect! left or right...and yeah i'm talking GUTS....think beer belly on a 25 yo chick..hanging over their pants like it's something to be proud of....barf!
Yeah but what does that have to do with anything? Do you believe that because he looks that way he can't fall over and die? Or perhaps, he's now immune from sickness. Good for him if he feels joy spending countless hours in a gym and restricting what foods he eats so that he can look like that. I tend to see being alive as far more than how I look or how others look. That's a level of shallowness that I can't be bothered with anymore.Quote:
Originally Posted by MrFanti
Fat chicks are gross. And fat chicks that are proud of being fat and in terrible shape, or "curvy" as they say, are the absolute worst
If that man is happy, why does it matter? If he's happy to have discipline and not put just any kind of shit in his body, why does it matter? You assume that since he takes fitness seriously, he has no other passion, sees life as just the gym or is shallow. And why mention immunity as if this stuff would only matter of our provided complete immunity? He may want to set a healthy example for people he cares about, especially those that live unhealthy lifestyles and then complain when it takes a toll on them.Quote:
Originally Posted by runningdownthatdream
Indeed......as I said if he gets joy from it then good for him! For ME, it's irrelevant. In the greater scheme of things the pre-occupation with 'looking good' is meaningless (again for me). Sure we should be presentable but to be obsessed with anything ESPECIALLY looks seems .......triteQuote:
Originally Posted by SanDiegoPervySage
It is fact that the current generation has "let themselves go". All this hippy, tree-hugging "you're beautiful just the way you are" stuff has people (women) re-thinking beauty. Now girls boldly wear their bellies hanging out. I told someone a few days ago that "hot" is out of vogue and it's true. Breast augs are way down (yea!). Victoria's Secret even feels the pain as girls opt for simple boring comfortable bralettes. So the OP is not crazy nor wrong in his generalizations.
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Originally Posted by runningdownthatdream
It would be interesting to see your perspective on women with such chiseled bodies as Nina Lawless....
Wait, you're saying "hot" is out of vogue. But are cheering about breast augmentations being down. Which I think has to do more with an appreciation for natural breasts, big or small, and women's butts than an indicator that "hotness" has gone out of style.Quote:
Originally Posted by sucka4chix
Also I have seen that bralette in a Victoria Secret window. I would hardly call that thing when worn on the right woman boring.
I love it!Quote:
Originally Posted by MrFanti